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Narcissistic Boyfriend
Posted Thursday November 20 2014, 5:05 pm
So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years this month. I can honestly say he is the one I want to spend my life with and we've discussed plans to get married within the next couple of years. He's funny, charming, and as cliche as this sounds, he's been my rock through some very hard times. I recently lost my father and he has been supportive in every way.
However, he is slightly narcissistic and it drives me crazy. I rarely voice my feelings when he does something small that upsets me, because I don't want to cause an argument if I can simply get over it. So when I do confront him, it's because I am very upset. But even when I calmly tell him why he has upset me, he tells me that I'm overreacting. He never thinks t...
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I'm ngaged to a man but I think I might be lesbian, how do I find out?
Posted Thursday November 20 2014, 4:29 pm
To start off, I'm 20, female and I've always only been in straight relationships. I really haven't dated that much and I've only had one sexual partner who I've been with for 2 years and we're engaged.
I love my fiance, I do but I don't really see a wedding happening anywhere in the close future mostly because they're very expensive. He's a good man with a good job, he's handsome, sweet and loves me to death. Of course we have typical relationship issues.
Lately, I've been thinking a lot that I might be happier with a woman.
I love a lot of what are considered by America "feminine" topics and activities such as fashion, beauty, shopping, getting my nails done, cooking, baking, going out to ea...
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third party
Posted Tuesday November 18 2014, 9:18 pm
I am a lesbian and my gf I bi. She wanted to have a threesome with a guy I decided to fulfil her fantasy. I seen a guy I approached him got his number we all hung out got comfortable we end up eventually doing the threesome now a few weeks later my gf text me asking for his number she said its nothing I just need to ask him a question and I said what do you possibly have to ask him. I am entitled to know why correct? And she wants him again thats why she is contacting him correct?
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Getting my boyfriend to stop smoking?
Posted Sunday November 16 2014, 2:48 pm
I'm 16/f. I have a guy who I'm just gunna call my boyfriend because we are pretty much dating without the official title. So he smokes weed and I am the least bit judge mental about it but I'm genuinely worried about him. Like I want to try weed with him too one day but I just need to see what the hype is about. He has been doing it for several years. I have my own additions so I understand but he said that he was quitting and that was a long time ago when he said he was having his last smoke before quitting. I understand but he said he's in full control. Like I want to help him and be supportive but he just does more of it. How do I help him quit? It's better than smoking cigars or cigarettes like he used to but I still wanna help.
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Does my ex still care or not? Please read
Posted Saturday November 15 2014, 11:45 pm
I hope some of you will read this.
The thing is, I've been in a long distance relationship with my ex for 3 and a half years, and he broke up with me 2 months ago.
We have been broken up before for the obvious reason, the distance, but have gotten back together again cause we couldn't let go.
but when it happened 2 months ago, we made a promise that we would still be friends and have contact and be there for each other, just not that often. And this week he texted me for the first time since, saying that he had felt really bad lately due to some trouble that is going on in his life and asked me if we could talk one day, only if I wanted to of course.
And even though I still need more tim...
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I cannot make any decision
Posted Friday November 14 2014, 12:38 pm
Hi. I am from India. 22/f. I recently brokeup with my boyfriend.actually i do not talk with him for a week. Because he always questioned and argued with me with my past. I do not told him about my all details about my ex boyfriend,because i was tortured mentally and physically by him. I current boyfriend do not ask me about all minute details,so i donot told him everything.now he heared some false rumour about me from my ex boyfriend's friend and he became mad.he always doubted me,treated me poorly and became verbally abusive.He thought i deceived him and i destroyed his life. What to do? Do i again call him and say sorry again?(i do it for 100times) i love him very much,wants to marry him. I know he love me but i cannot understand why he d...
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Continuation of went to 3rd base, regret, and now she wants to break up
Posted Thursday November 13 2014, 12:54 pm
Hello, thank you very much for your answer. Perhaps I have my bases mixed up, but there was no penetration involved. Rather just dry-humping and fondling of the genitals until orgasm. Maybe this doesn't actually matter, because either way it was wrong to her. She still has her virginity essentially.
I do plan on marrying this girl. She means so much to me. I know you're mother said, "there's plenty of fish out there.." but not this one.
A day later she messaged me saying in her words" I really don't mean to hurt you ...just keep in mind that I am a little insane and nothing makes sense in my world at the moment.." to which i replied that "just know that i care about you, and i'm here whenever you nee...
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She is a ATHEIST ! Should I give up my religion for her?
Posted Thursday November 13 2014, 12:02 pm
Hey , um i really fell in love with this girl , and we really wanna get married and have our own life.But there is one problem though , i discovered that she is a atheist :( , and according to my religion ,Islam , Guys cannot marry non Muslims unless they convert , or at least the kids would be Muslims.Islam is not strict or anything but its just a major law that must be followed.i don't know I'm thinking about giving up my religion for her but i would be in deeeeep shit , ill lose my relationship with my mother , sister and friends:(. I tried to make her convert but she just doesnt believe in the existence of god , should i try harder or what.what can i do , i really love her.should i give up my religion ?:(
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i want to tell
Posted Wednesday November 12 2014, 4:05 pm
ok so i have this guy i like and i want to tell him i like him and i want it to be me to tell him not anyone else and once somone else told him and i said it was just a rumor but i still want to tell him and i have already told the girl who is dating him i like him and she is my best friend so she hasnt told anyone and she isnt mad and i also want help the guy i like is saying i am using blank (his girlfriend) as a decoy untill somone prettyer comes what should i do about all of this!?
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i need advice: when I start talking to my bf I go completely blank!
Posted Wednesday November 12 2014, 9:32 am
I want to talk with my bf a lot but when i start talking with him i go blank....i decide a lot of topics but its not interesting...
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Went to 3rd base, regret, and now she wants to break up
Posted Wednesday November 12 2014, 9:11 am
Started out so well.. We loved each other. We knew each other for about 4 years, but I guess we officially started dating 6 monthes ago. Doesn't seem that long but if felt as if we were dating for years.. Anyways long story short. My girlfriends father passed away 4 months ago, and I did my best to help her and support her in any way that I could have. One day we were making out, but we went to third base. And it was a big deal to her... She's the kind of girl that doesn't want to have sex before marriage which I love about her. I did my best not to pressure her at all while we were doing it.. And she enjoyed it, but afterwards maybe a week later she said it was something soo wrong that we did. That we committed a big sin ,, and basically s...
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broke up the being mean
Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 4:52 pm
so i dumped this guy and now he is calling me stupid telling people i am dating these ugly guys and calling me gay in the bad way but i wish he meant happy i don't even like him anymore so i need you help on what to do any advice would be nice thanks! i love typing lol but also please help!
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He's a private person but I feel like he's keeping me a secret
Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:34 pm
21/f, 28/m
I have been with this guy for 7 months now. I know I must be reading too much into this, but I noticed that he posted on Facebook that a woman older then him, asked him a few questions because he looked so young and was curious as to how he got his job, etc. His friends commented on it saying that he should have asked her out on a date, that she was into him, etc. He liked the comments but said that she was a bit too old and not his type. Which, pretty much made it clear that nobody really knows about me.
I've asked him before if anybody knows that he's seeing me, he said no. He says he's a private person who doesn't talk about himself a lot. A close friend of his knows about me and so does his house...
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Accidental infidelity
Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:35 am
When I was first married, I worked at a group home with other adult staff there, day shifts, night shifts, etc. After the residents would go to bed, the remaining staff would clean up the house and get things ready for the next day. One particularly rough evening, the residents went to bed late and the other staff (female) and I were finishing up with the chores and I said since I was the one staying for night, I was going to lie down and chill for a bit, she could go and I would do the rest later. We talked for a few minutes, and she asked if I wanted a massage...Obviously that should have been the first red flag. I said sure and laid down on my stomach and she rubbed my neck and back...She asked me if I wanted my legs done and I said ...
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i really love him... but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me
Posted Tuesday November 11 2014, 12:01 am
Hi.. 15F
*̩ know this guy about 5 years now and have a huge crush on him.. He asked me out and ofcourse *̩ said yes.. But *̩ live like 45km outside of town and he wants me to come vissit friday and sleepover .. *̩ realy want to but "̮м̣̣̣̥γ̥"̮ mom won't let me plus its far from home.. Help please?
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Pregnant
Posted Monday November 10 2014, 10:18 am
Hello, 20 year old female. Some of you may judge me hard core right now but please spare me the mom-talks, I already know I messed up. Over Halloween weekend, I was at a party at my college with my friends. I was drunk but I have been drunker before so I wasn't worried about anything that I would do as I know I had control. This kid that I hooked up with last year was at this party and after we started to make out at this party, we walked back to his place. When we got back, we were still making out and he started to finger me. As the night progressed, I remember him putting on a condom, but I cannot for the life of me remember anything that happened after that. However, I do remember his roommates coming back to his apartment so we stopped...
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First kiss with a guy I really like ..
Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 3:09 pm
I'm 15/f and let me clarify this is not my first this. I've actually kissed quite a few guys over the course of a few years. This will be my first kiss with this new guy though and we both like each other. We've cuddled at this one party and people said we kissed but we both couldn't remember since we were drunk. We have hung out a couple times and we are going out to lunch tomorrow and i think he might kiss me.. What can I do not to be nervous??
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gave my boyfriend a blowjob and now he's acting distant
Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 11:10 am
so I started a new school and became really close to this guy we later found out we both like each other but I feel like I have to do all the work, organising dates etc... we are now boyfriend and girlfriend and it was going really well but we have only been together for about 3 weeks. the other day we went for dinner and a movie and in the cinema he started touching my leg and gradually stroking up towards my core. we have had a few dirty conversations about what we want to do to each other so I didn't find it weird. I ended up touching his cock and trying to get him off but the movie finished so we decided to go to a park which I found really creepy and it was cold. so I tried to give him a handjob but it was difficult and we were running...
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What to do??
Posted Sunday November 9 2014, 6:55 am
Hi, so this past month I notcied this guy looking at me a lot, and he is 2 years older than me. When I mean a lot, I mean a lot, like he'll stare at me. On Thursday, I was leaving the library and he was there and he looked at me, as if checking me out or something, with his mouth opened. And one of these days, we were in the same class, and he was literally staring at me. When I looked up to catch his eye, he quickly turned away, as always. On Friday, I'd always catch him looking in my direction. We were eating and he was passing and we glanced at each other and that happened repeatedly. Yesterday, however, I got to talk to him more than I usually do. We actually had a conversation and I got to stand really close to him and it was awesome. ...
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Doubting my relationship
Posted Saturday November 8 2014, 6:59 am
Hey everyone. I'm a 17y/o f btw,
So I've been with someone for a little less than two months. He's an amazing guy who speaks both my languages, he loves to read (almost as much as I do), he likes the same type of music, he's just great. He's a perfect gentleman and he agreed to meet my family the second week we were dating.
He's a year older. He's in college and he's working at his college. Still, he takes time off on fridays and has lunch with me. We live about five minutes away from each other, so he can also visit after school.
The problem is that I'm a very independent, cranky girl. I used to get home and go to sleep until the next day. And now I text him when I get home and if I'm g...
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