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Should I tell him?Or suffer the consequences?
Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 12:03 pm
Very difficult situation here.
I have a boyfriend of two years. I love him so much, he is the world to me.
About two months ago I cheated on him, while very drunk. I kissed a boy I'm in college with. Not for long but it was still unacceptable. Then later on that night, I ran into a male friend of mine (who is 100% gay) and kissed him for about two seconds, in jest. Naturally I felt awful.
I told him about the first kiss straight away, because I thought it was important to. He was mad and we had a rough time but he said it was ok because I told him about it.
At the time, I did not think the kiss with the gay friend was important. it has since started to eat me alive. And I don't know if I should say anyth...
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should i say yes to my ex
Posted Sunday December 14 2014, 9:39 am
14/f
i used to go out with this guy who kept switching between me and my used to be best friend and i broke up with him about 5months ago (ex # 1)then he went out with my ex friend and they broke up i was in a relationship with my exs bff (ex # 2and we broke up now ex # 1 told 1 of my friends he wants to date me again but hes going to wait a while to make a move what should i do when he does make a move sorry if this sounds confusing
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He's being distant
Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 10:46 am
22/F my LD boyfriend has been acting different lately. We had a great thanksgiving together. But a week after he left he decided to go to his friends house (the friend that encouraged him to cheat on me the first time) and he knows I didn't want him to but he did it anyway. Ever since we argued things have just been getting worse. He doesn't seem like he cares to try anymore and says it's my fault. Last night got really bad he was calling me names and telling me to screw myself. He said that he just wanted to feel wanted (which is his way of saying I need to send him nude pics) I told him I'm not going to send him pics to try to fix us cause that's pathetic. Now he's just being rude. He doesn't call anymore and when he text he's short. He c...
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Should I dump him?
Posted Saturday December 13 2014, 12:20 am
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs. we live together and we love each other. But a lot has changed and we don't do anything anymore. He asks for money every time I get paid. And all I wanna do is hang out with him. But I'm just confused about everything. What should I do?
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Will it ever work? (PLEASE HELP)
Posted Friday December 12 2014, 2:19 pm
My girlfriend recently broke up with me. She said the way we communicate, and the way we think is different.
She is a lot more emotional than I am, and suffers from depression. Because of this she tries her very best to be optimistic about everything. She's a dreamer, I am not. I am a realist. I'm in my head a lot. This can sometimes upset her when we have long talks because she wants to remain positive even knowing there is so much negative going on.
I told her that often times these two types of people end up with/need each other. The realist to keep the dreamer grounded and the the dreamer to get the realist off the ground sometimes.
Then there is the communication aspect. She claims I'm di...
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15 yr old and 23 yr old relationship
Posted Friday December 12 2014, 1:28 pm
Hi i am 15 and i met this guy online.
I was bored do i signed up on a social site . When i met him he said he thought i was nice and stuff. Btw he was 22 and i was 14 then. He said that it was sad that our age diff. Was so bad and that although we clearly liked each other he was afraid if he do sonething i dont like i would report him. But then he began trusting me and we dated for 2mths then he broke up with me saying that i am too young for this relationship and that i should get someone my age.i really dont know what happened to my feelings that day but i cried the entire day. After about 8mths we began talking again and dating. Only thing now is my parents know about him. I told him that they knew and he said if our relationship ...
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Fun things to do with boyfriend?
Posted Friday December 12 2014, 1:18 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. I am almost 18 and he is 19 years old. We are hanging out this weekend but we are short on money and getting really bored of the usual "just hanging out" cuddling\eating and cooking\talking etc. Does anyone have any ideas of something fun we could do at home? Any ideas would be great, we are up for anything! besides movies though lol
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Am I being a selfish bitch in my relationship?
Posted Thursday December 11 2014, 4:32 am
Hi,
I'm a 25 year old Female, who is having difficulties with my boyfriend. We haven't had an easy start to our relationship, and it's not good now as well. I met my boyfriend, who's 27, at my work. We flirted for about a year (I moved away and came back during that time period) and after a year I wanted something more serious. I told him I wanted to be with him and date, he said he just wanted to take it slow and see where it went. Meanwhile I overheard he was flirting with other girls at work as well. So, I didn't put much investment into him seeing that he wasn't ready. I met someone who did try to court me, and made me feel like he genuinely wanted to be with me. When my now boyfriend saw that, he then decided that he wanted to...
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how do xse sex with my girlfriend
Posted Monday December 8 2014, 7:39 am
convens my girlfriend sex with me
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Boyfriend and I are starting to seem like different people
Posted Monday December 8 2014, 2:18 am
20/F
My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship together for about three months now. I live in the US and he's in Europe, but surprisingly it isn't the distance that has been making me question things.
I do love him, and we generally get along great. He came over to visit me and we clicked as well in person as we did over Skype, so that was absolutely amazing. Even though he's five years older than I am, there's never really much of a disconnect. I'm in my second year of college and he's in his first year pursuing a second degree, so we have pretty much the same daily concerns of university and work.
The problem is, lately we've been disagreeing on things that are pretty hurtful...
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I feel dumb for being in love with him.
Posted Monday December 8 2014, 1:06 am
I'm 22/f and I started this "relationship" with this guy I've known for over a year. It's basically FWB in a nutshell. Now we tried this before but he accused me of catching feelings and he refused to talk to me for months. He came crawling back not even a month ago and we started again. Ok, so at first he had all these rules about how Im not allowed to catch feelings this time and at first I didn't. We did what we did and that was that. Then he started telling me I could stay after we'd have sex and we would stay up all night and talk and laugh. And then when we did go to sleep he'd hold me or pull me up to his back and I'd just go with it because why not? Still he would be adamant on how I was nothing more than a fuck buddy. Now...
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I love him???
Posted Sunday December 7 2014, 9:21 pm
I'm 16/f. I've been dating this guy for a couple months but I've known him since I was 9 or 10. He and I have been best friends and he knows everything about me and all of my flaws and fetishes and still chooses to be with me because that's a part of me he accepts. I can't stop thinking about him and I constantly wanna be talking to him or in his embrace. We were both at a party and we got drunk and he was kissing me and told me that he loves me. I actually believe that I love him too? What? Is this even possible? Don't say young love will never last because my parents have been together since they were in grade eight. Someone explain the feeling of love
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he asked me out, i said no
Posted Sunday December 7 2014, 12:21 am
soooo idk what to do. my closest guy friend asked me out a week ago and i said no...and now it's awkward. we've been really good friends for 3 years and i helped him through 3 relationships, the last one ending around 2/3 months ago. he seemed sooo into that relationship, too, but when he asked me out, he said he had liked me since we meet... idk. i just feel like he doesnt really like me, he might think he does, but he's really just not comfortable being single and he just kinda attached himself to me once he got tired of being single. i've also never been in a relationship so that also makes me nervous. and i dont know if my dad would approve or not. the guy has been texting my best friend all week saying about how much he likes me and ho...
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how can i make things interesting?
Posted Saturday December 6 2014, 9:24 am
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Question Posted Saturday November 29 2014, 10:43 am
here's my situation, when i started the 11th grade. i. met this boy named jean. jean is an honor student and a working man. i have school community service with him.every day . since ive gotten adjusted to seeing him every day we became friends. He very handsome and such a gentleman. i told him a month ir two later that i liked him he said " your pretty too" so i was happy all my friends said we should date so i am like hey what can go wrong. we flirted.for a few days and i felt like.he was taking to long to make the move so i made it. i wrote him a s...
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me and my Girlfriend broke up and now,a year later ,she wants to marry me.
Posted Friday December 5 2014, 2:04 am
Should I get back with a girl that cheated on me and said sorry about it?
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i like 2guys at the same time what do i do
Posted Thursday December 4 2014, 8:32 am
13/f
ok i kinda think my relationship is getting a little boring and i like this kid who has only been at school for 2 weeks but he has a girl friend and hes friends with my enemy and she likes him too and im scared shes goin to tell him bad stuff about me cuz i kinda just made her and her bf break up and i think he likes me too but idk what to do or who to pick please help thank you
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Howv to get over a now recent ex boyfriend
Posted Thursday December 4 2014, 12:46 am
How to get over your recent now ex-boyfriend?
He broke up because I was talking to an ex boyfriend while he was in jail. I understand. I would be upset too.
Everyone says it's good we broke up.
Because he would always put me down, say everything that goes wrong is my fault. We always fought. Made me feel bad more than happy. Also he's been violent with me in the past. But I still love him so much. I can't stand the thought of him with someone else. We've been together 3 years. I miss him & I don't know how to cope with being single.. I don't know how to get over him, I know there's probably a better guy ou...
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How do you make your man only want you and nobody else?
Posted Wednesday December 3 2014, 9:54 pm
Can I get some tips on how to make my man happy with me and wants only me? I am 25 and I am a female I live in jamaica
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Overreacting?
Posted Wednesday December 3 2014, 5:44 pm
22/F boyfriend 23
So I am going to start off saying my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. We don't get into big arguments and if we do its because I am so stubborn. we do not live together because I live at home and he has his own place. I am over thr every weekend and pretty much every day. So on Saturday my boyfriend told me he as going into town with his friends for a reunion party. I tell him ok have fun. I went out with my friends and went to his house at the end of the night. He never came home. I was being a crazy lady asking him where he was and when he would be home never answered me. The next morning I am texting all of his friends who he was with because I was worried. I was also really worried becaus...
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How do you explain to your loved one he is being disrespectful
Posted Wednesday December 3 2014, 5:33 pm
I am a very successful woman in her 30's. I have happened to fall in love with a younger man, who's never been in a long-term relationship (long story). We do have conflicts, and my biggest problem is that he immediately escalates into defensiveness and being abrasive. I've tried all kinds of approaches, but I think I may have finally found the reason - his and mine understanding of respect and kindness are really far apart.
I've tried to explain to him today that telling me to "drop it" is not acceptable in a conversation (in lieu of "are we all good? let's move on" or "if we're done, let's change the subject). He also doesn't think that telling me to "get over it" after something he's d...
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