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stressed about a presentation


Posted Wednesday September 20 2017, 8:51 pm

I have a presentation coming up for a class (university). I have always had a decent amount of anxiety surrounding presentation, though not an anxiety disorder or anything. I also have a slight stutter, which gets worse when talking in groups of people. I can deal with it, but it exists.

It's a group presentation, and one of the girls in my group is someone I know, I guess you'd say we're friends. We had the following conversation:

Her: You're not a nervous speaker when you're presenting, are you?

Me: Um, yeah, kinda

Her: *dramatic sigh* You're going to make us all lose marks

I don't really know how to deal with this. She was being completely serious. She doesn't see...

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Explain how things that plants or animals do are done by the work of cells?


Posted Tuesday September 19 2017, 6:24 pm

Explain how things that plants or animals do are done by the work of cells?

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I like this guy at work !


Posted Tuesday September 19 2017, 4:25 pm

I am a 28 year old female and I like this guy at thrift store that I volunteer at. He's 48 years old. I know that is a huge age difference. I just don't know if I should ask him out. I have always dated younger men that have treated me like crap and expected me to pay for everything. They never had jobs. This guy is a lot different he has 2 jobs and has his own place. He makes laugh whenever I am around him. I enjoy talking to him, but I guess I am scared he doesn't feel the same way about me. What should i do?

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suicide


Posted Monday September 18 2017, 11:50 am

I'm 12 my mum and dad broke up 8 years a go don't try to stop me committing i want to end it i just want a painless way to do it

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Bad body odor


Posted Monday September 18 2017, 9:35 am

28 female

I have a bad body odor and its been an extreme problem for me ever since high school . I would take a bath at night and I would also take a bath the next morning when I got up for school . I would also put on deodorant and then bring it with me and add more on through out the day and keep it in my purse . I still do this now that I am 28 years old ,but the problem is that I still stink and every deodorant that I have tried doesn't help any. What should I do?

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Am I ready for a relationship?


Posted Monday September 18 2017, 6:45 am

I recently got into a relationship with someone I've been talking to for a couple of months. Lately I've been feeling very unsure of it and I don't know why. I hadn't been in a relationship in over 3 years so maybe I'm just not use to it and this is just too new for me. My dad is also not as open/happy about it which I think is also having a big effect on me. I think I might just miss not having to worry about anything involving a relationship, I was just more at peace being single. I do care about him and like him a lot but I find myself pointing out the flaws/cons about him to myself and I don't know why. Maybe I'm not ready for a relationship or maybe my dad's opinion is getting to me. What should I do, am I over thinking this? Thank you..

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I only want to live and sleep alone, is it possible I'm OCD (long)?


Posted Sunday September 17 2017, 11:50 pm

I've lived with a multitude of different people in my life and now I never want to do it again. I've lived with an ex-fiance where we shared an apartment, with a serious boyfriend in his apartment, with both of my parents in their respective apartments. I've lived with a multitude of different roommates through college and I currently live with one roommate. At one time I had my own apartment for three months during summer vacation on campus and it was the best time of my life. I loved it. I also like my current situation because my roommate goes to bed early and we have our own bedrooms and bathrooms and she's fairly clean, but I would still prefer to live alone.

I hate sharing, it makes me angry to see another persons items...

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Are these coincidences?


Posted Sunday September 17 2017, 8:26 pm

I don't know but it's like whenever I feel like something is going to happen it happens. The whole summer I had this gut feeling anytime somebody that we don't know would ring the doorbell that they were probably a robber. Just last month (last month of summer) a strange man came to my house and tried to break in. I had that strong feeling he was a robber and of course I was right. So anyways my grandfather had a heart attack on Wednesday and I had the strongest feeling he was going to die. Of course he sadly died today, my dad is devastated cause that's his dad and I don't want to tell him I knew he was going to die cause my parents actually believe in whatever you say will come true. Do you think these are coincidences?

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Does it seem at all realistic to be able to go to Japan for a semester?


Posted Saturday September 16 2017, 1:39 am

I'm 21 and I really want to go to Japan for a semester before I graduate. I've been learning about China and Japan through Youtube videos for around 4 years now off and on and know a little bit of Japanese, but honestly not enough to have a conversation. However, I'd like to think if I immerse myself in their culture that I could learn more. I'm a Junior now at a University and found out recently they have a program with a college in Japan where you can go there to learn for a semester and use the credits from the college there back at my home university.

I really would absolutely love to do this, but I'm worried it may not be realistic. While they do guarantee housing and tuition, it looks like they probably don't supply a m...

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Hurricane cancelled classes, now im so far behind I'm panicking?


Posted Thursday September 14 2017, 9:47 pm

My family was in the direct path of Hurricane Irma and our power was out from last Friday until today. Before that we spent days and days preparing for the storm. My college administrators said they understand what students are going through, but the teachers obviously don't as they're still assigning all the work we missed instead of cancelling some assignments. For example I now have one teacher who assigned 6 assignments all due in one day. Others are assigning two weeks of work due within five days.

Now I'm so far behind with my homework I can't possibly get it all done and all of it was homework that had to be done online with digital textbooks so without power I couldn't do it. I already have mild anxiety, but at this p...

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looking for comfort


Posted Thursday September 14 2017, 7:15 pm

(Note: I would also have liked to pick the category "Spirituality" for this question as it's also quite relevant)

I have somewhat recently been diagnosed with dysthymia. I have days that are better than others, but on my worst days, I find myself needing some kind of comfort and looking for it in all kinds of places.

Sometimes it's listening to music or reading stories about cute or happy things, sometimes it's talking to a friend about how I feel, sometimes it's just being with another person and knowing I'm safe, for lack of a better word. Some days I can't seem to find anything that will make me feel better and I feel like I'm drowning in my own mind.

I'm also a Christian. However, I...

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Not in love with my job


Posted Monday September 11 2017, 3:56 pm

24/f

How do you know when you find a job that is the right fit for you? I originally wanted to be a counselor but because I didn't get into graduate school the first semester (I applied late and didn't get into the top 2 schools in the U.S.), I gave up and decided to go into teaching. Part of me thinks I went the easy route because I wanted a career instead of a "job."

I'm not happy with teaching. My first year I taught special education but I didn't like it, I decided to go into a general education setting. This job is harder but on a different aspect. I was told not to "jump ship" yet and to give it a chance before quitting.

Don't get me wrong, I love my students, but I don'...

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guys i need your help once i fingered my self but not hard that was all but


Posted Sunday September 10 2017, 8:29 am

guys i need your help once i fingered my self but not hard that was all but if i tuchd my fathers pants or something like that an i be pregnat ? but i dont even put my fingeri in so hard so i dont even know if i tuched anything but thats my quesstion


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Kissed finally!


Posted Saturday September 9 2017, 9:04 am

We're friends. Like each other. We kissed for the first time yesterday after our dinner, while kissing he touched my boobs and sucked on my nipples. I couldn't help it. It was just natural. He complimented my boobies by saying they're beautiful. We just couldn't stop kissing and looking at each other, "I asked him, are you falling for me, he replies, you're making me" also, he wants to make love to me, he says and when I asked him back, you're only after sex, aren't you, he replies, everything." He also said, you've come to my life all of a sudden and this is all weird, but good weird he said. Now, what are his replies mean? What is he saying? Unluckily, he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and he knows I'm not happy wi...

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my mom keeps taking money out of my account?what should i do


Posted Thursday September 7 2017, 11:56 pm

I started working at my job in may and to this day i dont know the total amount of what ive earned because my mom has been taking money out of my bank account. When i was 17 i made a bank account and my mom made it joint, of course i had no say cause i was a minor but im 18 now and i think i may remove her because every time i try to save up for something i go into my bank account and the money i dont spend is gone. Ive always asked her to stop taking my money cause whats the point of me working if i dont even get the reward which is the money and she gets mad and starts saying things like "fine ill stop but dont ask me to buy you anything ever again" basically trying to guilt me for even getting mad at her for taking my money wit...

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Doubting myself after a breakup


Posted Thursday September 7 2017, 6:48 pm

I am 22 years old and Pete is 23, we both are 4 months out of college. We met my junior year and have been dating ever since. We broke up a little over a week ago. Things had been going downhill for a year though. Our first year together he was everything you could ever want. I knew he had a history of treating girls poorly (womanizer) but he was immediately committed to me. His friends said they have never seen him like that since they've known him. We had an amazing connection. He talked to me about everything, his dreams, his secrets, his feelings, his fears… He was in ROTC so talking about the military and his feelings about deployment were common.
 
One night, about a year ago, we got into a fight and he told me he was...

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Doubt to be cleared


Posted Thursday September 7 2017, 2:50 pm

Hello..
My question Is...
having sex in night can distrub your result in the pregnancy test that is going to be done in morning..

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Posted Wednesday September 6 2017, 7:53 pm

Hi, recently we went out for a friendly dinner two nights in a row, just the two of us. Don't know if it's a date or a two friends having dinner. He knows I like him and I know he likes me too but we rarely talk about this matter as we're good friends. We have hugged after the dinner and he kissed my neck while I was sat on the chair he hugged from behind, very tight hug and kissed on my neck and ear area. We're talking and he tells me you're falling in love with me, I asked him, are you not feeling anything or don't you have a feelings for me then AND that moment he says I would be lying, 'if i didn't having feelings or if I didn't like you'. Now, what is the meaning of this line? Why would he say he would be lying....? Thank you all

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Paraprofessional Job


Posted Tuesday September 5 2017, 8:12 pm

Hello! I am 23 and a new hire as a paraprofessional in a school district. My assignment for the year was a nine year old boy, so I am in an elementary school, of course.

This nine year old boy has begun acting out at the end of last year, he did not have a paraprofessional at the time so he was always leaving the class to go sit in the office because the teacher could not deal with him and the class.

Anyway, goals for this year are to keep him in class and make sure he gets his work done (he barely completed any work last year, baffling me as to how he even passed onto fourth grade but that is neither here nor there) but when he needs a break, we can go take a walk or do something the calm him down for five min...

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What side job can i do three days a week that won't wear me out?


Posted Monday September 4 2017, 1:58 pm

Basically i need to find a side job i can work three days a week that won't be too hard or overwhelming. I currently live with my boyfriend and he's just too negative and brings me down.i don't feel like myself anymore. I'm a preschool teacher assistant and i only make 10 an hour and im worried about being able to afford living on my own. what job can i get on the side that's not too stressful or demanding that would let me work three days a week?

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