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Mental health
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not really sure


Posted Wednesday April 22 2009, 8:17 pm

Is this wierd:
About a month ago when I was menstruating, I was about to go into the shower one morning, and i just stood in my bathroom naked in front of the mirror, took some blood from "down there" with my finger, and painted myself with it. I made four dots on each of my breasts, a small heart on my upper chest, a circle around my bellybutton, and a line going down the back of my spine (bottom part.) I dont know why I did it, I just did. What is your opinion?

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bingingandpurging/bulimia?


Posted Saturday April 18 2009, 1:30 am

so ive binged.. and "purged" three times before. the third time tonight. i ate a lot of bad food and ive been workig out so much i felt like i have failed myself i dont want to get fat so i after i ate i panicked and threw it up. the first two times i did it i said id neverrrr again do that to myself. but i did, again tonight. im saying again to myself i wont do that again! i know its horrible. but now that ive done it a third time could this be a serious problem? what can happen if i keep this up? is doing it 3 times harmful or only if i continue? how do i stop?

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Losing grip.


Posted Wednesday April 15 2009, 4:21 pm

I feeling mentally unstable and im only 15. My mom was very mentally unstable and I dont want to bring the family more grief now that shes well. For example, I'm getting paranoid like her, about irrelevant things. Second, I think im a mild sleep walker and im definetly a sleep talker. I dwell on negative things that dont matter too much and I talk to myself when i think of something stressful, in like an outburst. Its really weird and I didnt used to do this until stress came into my life. I dont have as many friends as I used to, im a little boring, and I used to have it all, kind of. I come off as confident and fun and most like me but inside dont feel the same, all the time at least. I know im really pretty but I use it to feel better ab...

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How do I fix my life?


Posted Tuesday April 14 2009, 2:27 pm

Hello,

I'm a 26-year-old male. I'm 5'5" and weigh 300 pounds. I live at home with my parents and I have no job. My daily activities consist primarily of eating, sleeping and smoking cigars. My hygiene is terrible. I shower maybe twice a week, brush my teeth once a month, don't shave and my wardrobe consists of a t-shirt with food stains, a pair of mesh shorts and sneakers with holes in them.

I wasn't always this way. While I was never Mr. confident, I was able to participate in a variety of activities growing up. As a kid, I took swimming lessons, trumpet lessons and played several hours of basketball a day. In high school, I acted in eighteen theater productions and was a member of the football ...

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16 year old depresssed...how can i stop being depressed


Posted Monday April 13 2009, 4:23 pm

how can i stop being depressed.
All i want to do is sit home
and listen to music..and imagine if i was thinner and prettier..
i havent had a boyfriend in 3 years and my mom told me today that she thinks im wasting away the best years of my life
i dont want to do anything..i think my weight is holding me back im 5'3 and i weight 176 pounds..
i have been gaining weight left and right because i dont want to do anything..yeah sometime i go out with friends and with my family..but right now they went to see the miley cyrus movie..and i didnt want to go..my mom said that i need help and i need to snap out of it..but i dont know what to do..HELP what can i do..i dont think i can afford mental help..!

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Rape?


Posted Thursday April 9 2009, 2:53 pm

I talked to this guy for a while let him know that i just wanted to be friends because i had got out of a bad relationship. we would hang out after i for off work. drive around and talk. when i would drop him off he would ask for a kiss and i would say no. he did this 3 or 4 times. i asked him to stop. well he sounded like something was wrong one day and wanted me to see him and go some place he needed to talk. so we drove to this place on top of a hill. well he goes i want to kiss you and i said no he said it again i said no. and he put his hands on my face and kissed me and i was against the door so i couldnt move away from him. he keep touching me and i would tell him no. he got my shirt off and stuff and told me to get into the other se...

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AM I CRAZY?!?!?!?!


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 7:15 pm

i have never cut myself before and i dont think i have a mental problem or anything like that, but i have burned myself with a curling iron or punched myself or bit my lip really hard. i dont know why i do this. its not because i like seeing blood or it feels like some kind of release. i do it for attention, like when i had a big burn mark on my arm, i liked how everyone felt bad for me. and i scratched my face and told everyone i had fallen on the street. i have alot of friends and im the class clown so everyone knows me and always give me attention. im always cracking jokes or being obnoxious and everyone always laughs and gives me a ton of attention. but i still keep hurting myself. maybe i like them to feel bad for me or somethig? i don...

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stuck with mental mother


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 7:01 pm

im 17 and live with just my mother.
my father left my mother almost 2 years ago because she was so 'mental' he finally couldnt deal with it. now that its just me and my mother she has gotten worse.

she has no friends, no family that wants to talk to her (or be around), and dosent have a job. she stays home 24/7. im an only child and she dosent have anyone else to talk to except for myself.

every day its getting worse. we argue, and fight (physically), every day i feel like im loosing my mind a little more.

is there anyway i can move out, either by myself, or with a friend. my friend would be 21 if that helps any.

i just feel like im about to loose my mind ive turned to an...

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Will anyone else ever see it?


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 11:13 am

I was having a really hard time two months ago and my mom took me to see a psychiatrist. He diagnosed me with a mood disorder NOS (not otherwise specified). My mom took me to have some blood drawn to check if maybe the way I was feeling was because my hormones were out of balance. We got the results back and the doctor said it was all entirely hormonal (mainly thyroid). So I really don't want what the psychiatrist wrote down on my report or record or whatever it's called to stay there for the rest of my life. Should I call him and tell him what was really wrong so I can get that off my record or will it just go away if I stop seeing him? Will anyone else ever be able to see what he wrote down(like whenever I go to apply for a job or something)?

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Friendless, alone, depressed


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 3:37 am

Hey everyone. So I have been reallyyy depressed. It's senior yr of high school for me and I have no friends. I moved to a new town, and I feel 100% invisible. I am not kidding when I say that no one knows me. Instead of eating in the cafeterias I go to the bathroom in a stall until lunch is over. The school is so big. Sometimes I go to the library. Everyone at my school thinks I got kicked out (not true), n to make a long story short, I left with 0 friends from there. And I'm not antsocial or weird or anything, I'm normal but idk I feel boring and like I am just "passing time" when I talk to most people. College is starting in august, but I don't know what to do until then. I feel so alone. And to make things worse, my...

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Scared of the dark?


Posted Monday April 6 2009, 6:31 pm

I am sixteen, and since I was small, I've always been scared of the dark. I don't mind when it's dark but there's streetlights, but if it's dark, outside or inside, I'm scared shitless.
I was mildly scared in my old house, but in my current house I am absolutely terrified, especially as this house gives off such a negative feeling (but that's another thing)
I just wish I could overcome this but I can't. I mean I can sleep with my lights off but if I have to go to the toilet at night, I have to turn on the biggest light in my room, then the light in the corridor and then the bathroom.
Any advice, please? And no stupid comments, that's no use to anyone.

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Depressed and I don't know what to do


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 11:47 pm

I'm completely depressed. I'm a 21 year old female college student at an out of state college though at the end of the current semester I will be moving back home to finish school at a university near my home. I have a great boyfriend but for some reason I just feel like I'm a walking zombie. I miss him and I miss home even though my family at home is basically in an all out war started by my younger brother's dabbling in pot. I haven't seen a psychiatrist or any other doctor because I don't have the time being in school constantly and working and living somewhere where I basically know zero people and zero about the city. I wake up wishing I could just sleep forever. I don't know how to communicate how I feel to my boyfriend and now ...

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Stress


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 10:32 pm

Can practicing a sport for school 6 days a week cause stress? I feel like I want to cry all the time, I get really bad headaches, I'm always tired, I always feel sick, and my body's always sore, and I'm starting to think it's because I have lacrosse practice for my highschool six days a week.

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selfconfidence


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 10:10 pm

I need help, I need confidence and secerety, so help me what should I do!

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help


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 10:05 pm

i need to open up and i need confidence

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About relationships


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 1:06 pm

Well my problem revolves around relationships and sex. I am 19 F and have never had a relationship in my life.I have been asked out a lot and at the moment have a couple of friends who really like me, but I don't want to go out with anybody and don't want to have a relationship. I have never kissed anybody on the lips, don't feel sexual needs and haven't been attracted to anybody. I'm no blind, I can tell that someone is hot and cute, but i'm not attracted to them. Once I thought about going with someone who is really close to me and likes me, but then I had a headache and just couldn't bring myself to do it. It's as though I have this STOP switch in my head and can't overcome it. My problem is that I think I like someone but my STOP switc...

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urges to cut


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 1:01 am

15/f
i used to cut but recently i've been having urges to do it and i find it hard to ignore them. have any suggestions on how to make the urges stop? i've tried scraping my arm with a pen so it doesnt leave any marks but that doesn't seem to satisfy the urges.
thanks

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Is this normal?


Posted Friday April 3 2009, 6:21 pm

My leg hair grows back really fast.
And I used the new Embrace razor from Venus and it didn't work very good on me.
But everyone else says it works wonders!
I think it sucked.

Am I normal? Cause if it has 5 blades it should get a close shave, but it didn't for me!
Please help! I'm very curious! :)

Thanks!<3333

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Lucid Dreams and Nightmares


Posted Wednesday April 1 2009, 1:00 am

I read an article recently suggesting that lucid dreaming can help someone suffering from nightmares cope. Is there anything you can do to encourage lucid dreaming in yourself? I had a nightmare about a week ago in which I realized what was happening couldn't be happening, and then the dream took a sudden turn for the better. Does that sound like a lucid dream?

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Transgender


Posted Monday March 30 2009, 5:48 pm

I'm a 16 year old female.
I came out as bi sexual to my friends back in december. I started dating a girl at that time named Kristina. She is a very "butch" girl, i hate the term but i can't think of another way to explain it. She cut all of her long curly hair off into a boys hair cut and dresses in men's clothing [previous to us dating] None of the concerned me. I really do love kristina for herself, not for her apperance.
Me and Kristina ended up breaking up a few weeks after that.
We stayed good friends and acctually became best friends. We truly got to know eachother and starting falling for eachother again.
About a month ago we got back together, I cannot even begin to express how happy i am ...

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