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What should I do?


Posted Sunday January 18 2015, 9:15 pm

Ok i am a 12 1/2 year old girl and I love a boy and he loves me too. Should I date him? Am I to young? Simone please help me.

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I'd love some advice! Thanks.


Posted Sunday January 18 2015, 9:08 pm

So I've been dating a guy for about six months now. And everything has been going pretty good until recently, i mean this is what I need your opinion on. So I found him calling a girl pretty on Instagram. I asked him about it and it made me pretty upset! He apologized a lot and I don't think he was cheating on me or anything. So I accepted his apology! Then when he came over to my house that a girl he was talking to on his phone had a bunch of heart emojis and stuff by it! I know that they are "best friends" I guess I'm asking should I be more concerned about this? I just don't know if I'm being insecure, and overreacting.

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Posted Sunday January 18 2015, 6:16 am

Hello,I would like to ask if masturbation is a sin or not because my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till marriage for us to have sex. I'm only 16 years old (girl) and get horny every now and then. Is there a way I can control my hormones without sinning?

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Do you think my LDR boyfriend is lying to me?


Posted Sunday January 18 2015, 12:30 am

Hi, so I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend since we were 15 and we are both 17 right now. We have met before and we try to video chat every weekend and a couple of other days of the week depending on how busy we are. Anyway, I really do love him so much but I do get kind of an off feeling but I am also a little more paranoid than I guess people in a normal relationship would be because we are so far away. First off, texting is the main way we communicate. Sometimes when we are texting he will disappear for a while and text back like nothing happened or say an excuse which I believe sometimes. One time it was like 3 hours and then he text back "sorry I kept dropping my phone" so ever since then I have been...

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I HAVE A POUTY LIPS


Posted Friday January 16 2015, 8:55 pm

Back to grade 7, (I'm now grade 8) My classmates tease or bully me because my lips are big and pout.Now i'm grade 8, they don't care about my pout lips. Is my lips nice being pouty or do i should make exercise to make my big lips smaller?

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what do you do when a boy askes you out


Posted Friday January 16 2015, 7:07 pm

what do you do when a boy askes you out?
I am a female the age of 14

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He was actively searching, two months into dating me


Posted Friday January 16 2015, 2:56 pm

21/f, 28/m

I have been dating this guy for about 8 months. We were in a grey area for a long while, and he was using a dating app/site while we were together for the first four months into dating. I told him to get off of them in the fourth month because it was bothering me and I found it disrespectful. During this time, he wasn't seeing anybody else other than me, but he was chatting/talking to a few people (from what he has told me).

Today, he has been telling me that ever since he got off those dating sites, etc. He has been wanting to build trust with me, he's committed, and he's serious about me. For some reason, that is hard for me to believe since he was just actively searching even though we were dating...

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Help with a girl that i might like?


Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 11:32 pm

Okay so i'm 14/f and this girl in my 1st period i feel like she might like me. I know i shouldn't get my hopes up too much in case she doesn't, she might not even be gay/bi, i had just been picking up on some subtle signals recently. I don't actually think she knows that i'm a lesbian, though i am open about it, but i started talking to her and now i'm starting to feel like i'm getting mixed signals. I asked her for her number and she said she doesn't know it (surprisingly common among the people i talk to believe it or not) and i gave her mine and told her to text me, but she never did. That happened about a week ago. On the other hand, if i don't approach her first in the mornings (which i've been trying to avoid doing so i can see what s...

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one year anniversary or friend's wedding


Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 6:24 pm

My husband and I's one year anniversary is coming up in a few months, and so is a very close friend's wedding, her wedding date: our one year anniversary. I'm at a loss of what to do. My husband wouldn't be able to come with me to her wedding, and my friend would be extremely hurt if I didn't go. What makes the situation awkward is I knew when picking my wedding date that my friend would be getting married that same day. I had no choice however (my husband is military). I reassured and promised her since she got engaged that I would be there at her wedding. In fact, as soon as I got the wedding invite, I texted her and let her know I would be there and how excited I was. My husband always knew I'd be going, but I guess it just clicked for h...

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How to break up with him


Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 11:00 am

Hey there all. I need some help. I have been in a bad relationship for quite some time now... about 3 years. My family started to hate this guy and the hatred was so strong and they basically had no real reason. They just said that they hated him. So, I started to discredit that hatred because I just thought that they were trying to make my life miserable. I basically lied starting back in August and told them that I had broken up with him. I felt bad about it, but you have to understand that it was day in and day out talking about him and how much they hated him. I just felt like it was the only way to get them to stop.

I recently moved and now, without their influence, I have been able to see for myself how bad he really is...

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How to break up with someone and you're his first girlfriend


Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 10:36 am

I've been dating this guy from my class for 1-2 months and he really really loves me, and i think it's because I'm his first girlfriend plus he's really closed up person.
We have been really close these few months, he had his first kiss with me, but as time passes i see that I'm loosing my feelings for him, plus he looks like the guy who's threatening me and he doesn't communicate a lot and I talk a lot, i can talk with days without shutting up, and it bothers me that he doesn't talk a lot and i told him to talk more, but nothing changed.
I feel guilt, and it's killing me a lot, but somehow i know that if i break up with him he'll do something bad to himself and he will get hurt a lot, because i know how much it hurts to someo...

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boyfriend and ex


Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 6:07 am

I know I might come off as sounding like a crazy insecure girlfriend but I just need some reassurance here. My boyfriend and I, we've been together for a little over a year. It hasn't been easy but we've always worked through it. He was with his ex for 5, but she ended up cheating on him and they broke up for good. He tells me that they're still friends and at the point where they can be cool with each other now, not have any tension. So I know they will still text each other every once in a while. She doesn't live here anymore because she's a flight attendant so she's all over the place. Anyway, my question comes down to social media, instagram. Is it wrong for him to go back through her recent old selfies and like them in a row. He usuall...

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Should I go for it or not?


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 9:12 pm

Okay, so I've liked this guy in my friend group for a while now. We talk pretty often and we never fun out of this to talk about, it's awesome. Then yesterday I found out his older sister is trying to convince him to go out with this girl at our school. She's his cousins good friend. Like today his cousin asked him to go to lunch with her and her friend, he went obviously. Then about a week ago he was saying how he really liked talking to me, that I was someone he could talk too, that I was a pretty cool girl. The today he said that he would have to talk to this girl for a while before he could decide if he liked her. He said she was pretty cool. I don't know what to do. I mean I really like him but I don't want to get in the way of this po...

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help...yeah. Help.


Posted Wednesday January 14 2015, 6:23 pm

I have been conflicted about my feelings for two girls for the longest time and I've officially admitted to myself that I like and care for them both a lot. I don't want to be with either one because I don't want a relationship but I care about them both and just want them to be happy. But I don't know how to tell them I care. I'm not the best with showing my emotions.

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How do I handle two of my guy friends both liking me?


Posted Monday January 12 2015, 7:53 pm

Okay, so I'm a 15, almost 16 year old girl. I moved schools this year and I made multiple friends. There are both girls and guys in my group. So, in the beginning of december, two of my close guy friends started talking to me a lot more, lets call them Joe and Harry. So they would text me and we'd all skype pretty often and it was pretty good. I liked the fact that I had some close guy friends that I could turn to if need be. So after a bit I started liking one of them, Harry. I never told anyone about it, still to this day.

So, about a week ago, my friend told me to come over to her house because she need to talk to me. When I went over, she told me that our group is in a fight, and it was about me. So apparently Joe had lik...

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its about being to young but i really love the guy and i want him back.


Posted Monday January 12 2015, 7:15 pm

The love of my life says I'm to young for him. How do I prove to him that I'm not to young? I'm really mature for my age and I don't see why he thinks I'm to young. I'm 15 and I am a female.

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I told a guy I like him


Posted Sunday January 11 2015, 10:17 pm

Me and this guy have been talking and hanging out for 2 months. Yesterday I hung out with the guy and we went to the movies and held my hand. After the movie, I went home and received a text from him saying he had a fun time.I replied by saying me to. After that we started just having a regular conversation. I just had to get off my chest and I told him that I liked him. He said that he liked me to. Today i haven't received and any text from him which I find surprising cause we text-ed everyday sooo someone please explain to me what has happen.Did i make a mistake? By the way I think he is inexperienced with girls.

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I screwed up with him,what do I do now?


Posted Sunday January 11 2015, 12:41 am

Hi there,boy Im in hot water.
This guy I like likes looking at other women.We followed each other on Instagram.And every time I log in,it shows me what people I follow liked pictures,and how many. Well,about 90% of his posts are all sexy and suggestive photos,I was sick of seeing crap! Especially when he has me to stare at.I have brought this up many times.So I told him I wasnt sending him anymore photos to his phone.
I said ''you get sexy photos for free,and see them all the time why should I bother? Just the last straw''
And he responded ''Oh my god...you're right.This is the last straw''
And then I said''Dont be upset'' And sent some other messages
And he said ''I'm not talking to you right now. Stop ...

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Is he really that into me?


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 1:40 pm

So I'm confused about my relationship. I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and I go back and forth on if he's truly that into me, or not. To begin with, he's older than me. I'm 18, he's 22, so there's automatically a lot of judgement that comes along with that, which might have to do with some of my concerns. Basically, he says he likes me, drives about a half hour both ways in order to see me, pays for everything when we go out, texts me almost daily, finds excuses to touch me, seems interested in learning about me, and came on a trip to Vermont with my family. However, he never asks to Skype or call anymore, hasn't told his parents about me, doesn't want to hang out at my house if my parents are there, I'm the one who asks t...

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Not eneough freedom in my relationship? Or is it me, help??


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 12:43 am

I have been with my fiance since high school. We are both 22 yrs old now and have a beautiful 1yr old daughter. My problem with my relationship is I feel smothered. Not smothered by attention or affection, there actually isn't much of that because of me. He works hard for our family and our future while I staynat home. I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him...yet at times I want to escape. He is a very sensitive broody kind of guy. He was both physically and mentally abused by his parents most of his life and he has passive aggressive issues BIGTIME. I on the other hand keep all my stress and insecurity locked up and don't show are act like anything is wrong. His behavior sometimes makes me want to just run and disappea...

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