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Depressed girlfriend
Posted Friday March 13 2015, 5:06 am
Hey, guys! I'm a 17 year old female and I figured since you all are caregivers yourselves, this would be a good place to seek advice for this particular issue...
I've been dating a girl for about 6 months now, and I love her with all my heart. However, she is severely depressed and I've had some struggles coping with it. I try my very best to do all I can for her. I keep her on the phone when she's feeling particularly down, I listen when she needs to rant or express her emotions, I will drop everything to run to her side if she is in a bad place (this resulted in me ditching two classes once), and I even wrote a short story in which I characterized her as a superhero once.
However, I am a person who very easily can b...
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ex husband: I miss him and I would take him back in a heart beat but why?
Posted Friday March 13 2015, 12:35 am
I was married 5 years one child together I h aven't seen my .ex husband in a year and half. He's dated several girls since we split up he left because I confronted him about not paying the rent next I knew he was done walked away took our only vehicle. Etc. I ended up moving north and had to start my life over. During the marriage he stole from my father he's stole from my son he'd lie about taking my son to his baseball practices etc. don't get me wrong we have a ton of good memories with the bad. I miss him and I would take him back in a heart beat but why.. he has said he would do anything to
make things right
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Teen Love
Posted Thursday March 12 2015, 8:31 pm
Where do I begin. This guy, Jake, and I have been good friends for about 4-5 years (7th grade), to now (juniors). And I've always liked him. He knew. Unfortunately, he never did anything about it. Him and I were always talking on and off. And he recently just came back in my life. He honestly always was, we just started talking (texting) more.I need advice on how he might feel. I could love to know, but I'm tired of expressing my feelings, if he just doesn't care. I feel he likes me because he talks to me, hugs me,looks in my eyes, and he just gets serious when he talks to me. Now, I feel he doesn't like me because, he hasn't said anything. I feel like he may not be boyfriend material, or has if he thinks I will control him. You've gotta re...
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I can't seem to move past the cheating... What do I do?
Posted Tuesday March 10 2015, 10:27 pm
I am an 18-year-old female. I've been in a relationship for 6 months. earlier in the relationship my boyfriend was a big flirt with a lot of girls (I later found out about that). he ended up cheating on me and I found out about it. I decided to stay with him but I can't seem to move fully past it. I'm not sure what to do or think through all of this. what should I do?
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Boyfriend Unsure Of Sexuality
Posted Sunday March 8 2015, 1:21 am
I was curious to know if you would be willing to help me with something. The gist of the situation is that I'm dating a bisexual guy that has never been in a relationship with a guy. We've been together a year and he says he wants to be with me for the rest of his life. Although he said that, I felt he wasn't being completely honest. I was right; he's 98% sure and 2% of him is wondering what being with a guy is like. He has explained to me his attraction and he has had that attraction since eight years old. I know this is weird asking you. I don't want to give him up but I don't want 98%. I want him to know. Have you ever had thoughts like his?
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My girflriend broke up with me, now im depressed
Posted Sunday March 8 2015, 12:54 am
Gender- Male
Age-14
I am a very intelligent and shy person. There was a beautiful girl at my school by the name of Kamryn. I had liked her for a very, very long time, even though we didn't know each other very well. After speaking to one of my best friends (who is also one of Kamryn's best friends), I discovered that she liked me as well. On February 12th I finally worked up the courage to ask her out. I had gotten her a heart-shaped box of chocolates and a rose (as cliche as it may seem, it was almost Valentine's Day). She said yes, and it was then that I had my first girlfriend. I tried to do everything right; I sent her goodnight and good morning texts every night and morning, I compliment her everyday (I tried not...
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How??
Posted Saturday March 7 2015, 7:38 pm
How should I say I like you to a boy if I'm a young girl? We've been friends for a while and now I want to be more than friends. I don't want to ask him so it sounds awkward and puts him in a weird position. How should i ask him without making him feel uncomfortable?
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SHOULD I DO IT??? PLEASE HELP
Posted Saturday March 7 2015, 6:53 pm
Hi, so I am 19 and I am a virgin and I have never kissed anyone, I am what you would call a good girl and I like to take things slow.
Most people say I am too mature for my age, so guys my age don't really fancy me.
The other night I met this guy who I have a lot in common, and he said he likes me and he wants to take me on a date... now the catch is that he is frikkin 32!!!
He is really hot, but I am scared to go out with him, because as an older guy he will probably want to take things fast and he probably is really experienced... and the whole thing scares me as I don't feel ready... and older guys usually wait 2 or 3 days to have sex with a girl!! I don't know if I should date him, but I really like him.
HELP!!
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Paranoia to destruction
Posted Saturday March 7 2015, 10:21 am
Okay, so I've been exclusively dating this amazing guy since August and more casually since June. He's about 4 years older, which isn't a big deal besides me still being in school.He's begun his career and is away from his family and basically on his own while I'm in my apartment 2 miles from campus with parents paying bills.
When we met, he was fascinating. I had never been with anyway like him. everything about him excited me. Physically he's not the athletic type I'm used to but I didn't even see that. Even when we worked out together and saw how horrible he was in the gym I just thought it was cute. He's the smartest most thoughtful guy I've ever met and our first date we talked about life and religoin and missed most of our con...
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22 and starting to feel like there is no hope.
Posted Friday March 6 2015, 11:50 pm
If you are wondering why a 22 year old is asking about love and I know I should be patient. Some background info, my last relationship was for just under two years. I work seven days a week and I am a full time student. Long story short she said she was raped on Christmas, I was very suspicious but I did trust her and did my best to support her. Not even 5 months later I went to surprise her(an hour and a half away) with a nice weekend planned. She said she was staying at a friends house. That night she cheated on me again. Now we are not together and I don't talk to her, but I loved the feeling of being wanted, more then a one night stand, more then a "fling". Now any female I'd consider I get flustered and make a fool of myself....
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He's not smart enough for me?
Posted Thursday March 5 2015, 2:00 pm
Hi! I'm having a love crisis here that I need a little advice on. There's a guy that I like and I'm pretty sure that he likes me. He's pretty cute, hilarious, an amazing artist, and a decent writer. The problem is, he's not smart. He gets straight C's at best and he's just over all not super intellectual. I wouldn't mind him not being naturally academic if he would just TRY. I've worked with him in groups and partners and he doesn't try to hide the fact that he doesn't care about school at all. I've been an above average hard working honors student my whole life so you can see why his lack of effort turns me off. Am I being shallow? I really like him, but I'm not going to even think about asking him out if he doesn't put in a little effort.
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i'm not really ready
Posted Thursday March 5 2015, 3:25 am
i'm 12 and my bf is 13. my bf is more experienced than i am and he wants me to do stuff that i dont think i should cuz of my age and i'm not really ready for. i need help to know how to tell him that i'm not ready for that stuff. pleez and thank u if u can help
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I love my BF, but I can't stop cheating.
Posted Wednesday March 4 2015, 1:38 am
I'm a 27 year old gay male. He's 34, also gay male. We live apart in the same city. We mostly see one another on weekends, even though he works just two blocks from my apartment. Truly, I love him and don't want to hurt him. I know this is bad for me, and for him, even if he never finds out. I don't want to continue these patterns of behavior, but can't manage quitting them, and don't have people in my life I trust to confide in. I have been trying to stop cheating for over a year now, but I end up giving in about every 2-3 months by having a one night stand on a gay dating app or website. I feel awful afterward, delete any profile or email or pictures I used, and vow that this time was the last time and that I won't ever do it again. But e...
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masturbation over sex with me?
Posted Tuesday March 3 2015, 9:39 pm
Okay, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's great. He supports me and my 2 children from my marriage. I'm 25 & he's 4 yrs older then me. He's had over double the sexual partners ice had, which in my opinion he's pretty experienced and I'm not so much. I have always been pretty adventurous sexually. We have a great sex life. He's only enjoyed oral from 1 other girlfriend and I've only enjoyed anal with him,as examples. Also we both watch porn from time to time when the other is at work or out... well I just found out its actually very common for him. Habitual even, which I don't mind, he watches safe and age appropriate porn., but I discovered he does it when I'm home and go to sleep before him. The problem is I've told him I wan...
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Posted Tuesday March 3 2015, 2:50 pm
F\18 hey am highschool senior i
am in love with z same boy 4
three yrs now, i knw he loved
me n asked me to be his gf
about 3 yrs ago but i said no, i
don't knw hw he feels now but i
knw mine.., we r on z same class
but we don't talk like classmates
wen we see eachother we act
like we don' t even knw each
other, but z amazing thing is zat
we talk by Watsapp we even
make fun of eachother. as many
of my friends think zat we will
endup together i also think z
same, u knw zat chemistry ya
we definetly have it, i can't stop
imagining us together, i even go
to school just with a tought zat i
will find him at z gate ...
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pregnancy
Posted Monday March 2 2015, 4:02 am
will i b pregnent if my boyfriend fucked me from back side....my age is 19
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I still feel lost.
Posted Sunday March 1 2015, 3:20 pm
I'm a 22 year old male college student in California, (won't specify where) and for the longest time, I've been feeling very trapped in this college environment. I go to a school where they focus on casual sex, partying, etc. a lot, and as an introvert, I've always felt left out and actually a bit angry about the people around me. Especially since I haven't even kissed a girl for over four years.
However, just recently last week, I hooked up with a random girl from a club. Even though she was pretty, and I seemingly got what I wanted after all this time, I STILL feel unfulfilled, unhappy, and empty. I still feel the same way about the town I live in. I just want to move out of the state someone a little colder, more personal, and mor...
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I have a date Friday night
Posted Sunday March 1 2015, 3:01 pm
25 female
I have a date Friday night with this guy I met that goes to my school . He is 21 and one of his friends is going wiih us because neither one of us can drive so he will be doing the driving . The date will be at Burger King . I Know not very fancy for a first date but its fine with me but I dont know what to wear to wear. I am also a little concerned becauase I dont know his friend anf i wanted to know if it would be rude to turn down the rife offer and have my cousin to drop me off?
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My Boyfriend Lacks Drive
Posted Sunday March 1 2015, 12:22 pm
In a month and a few days I will be 24 years old. I have a boyfriend of four years, who I think is the perfect fit for me in so many ways. He stimulates me sexually, and I just love who he is as a person.
My ideal is for the two of us to be engaged and living together within a year or two, but there is something that is holding us back and it also hurts me because my favorite human in the world thinks that he is a horrible person for it. He has no drive, he suffers from incredible laziness.
This is affecting him with the 50 more pounds that he needs to lose, and with holding a job. Currently he's living with his mother, which is fine, he still has this semester and next semester before he gets to graduate....
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Get over crush on friend who knows I like him
Posted Saturday February 28 2015, 3:16 pm
My crush who is also my friend found out I like him. Apparently he doesn't have the same feelings for me and although it is not awkward anymore and we agreed to still be friends I feel like he is still bitter towards me sometimes. I want to get over him now but I don't know how. It's hard especially since he sometimes Facebook messages me and sits right in front of me in class. I don't want to totally ignore him because I still want to be friends with him, just get over him as a crush. I'm a 11th grade girl if that helps.
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