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too soon? or do things speed up as you get older
Posted Tuesday April 28 2015, 2:52 pm
I am f/25, he is 30.
We met in November. This guy was super super sweet but I had no idea whether he was interested in romance or friendship so I stuck around hoping it would develop into more. Well, it had been over a month and it still didn't progress past friendship, but since I could really start liking him, I said something. Turns out he did like me romantically (hurray!) he just likes to take things super slow. Fair enough.
We became exclusive in February. Whether it was done on purpose or not, he made a point to passively mention every time we hang out things like "wants to keep his independence and have different interests", "moving in no sooner than a few years after meeting", &quo...
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Signs of rejection?
Posted Tuesday April 28 2015, 1:57 am
17/M
Hey guys. My friend is in a little situation right now.
A month ago,my friend confessed to his crush that he has a crush on her through text. My friend showed me their conversation and the she dont believe it at first. She said that my friend was crazy and blind. But I think that she only said that because of the shock of what my friend told her or she wants to make sure that my friend wasnt bluffing. A week past,and they gotten closer. But right now the girl acts like the confession never happened. And she doesnt consider my friends feelings anymore.
Is that a sign of rejection??
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Is it normal to stay in a relationship "just for the time being"?
Posted Monday April 27 2015, 9:19 pm
I've been with my fiance for two years. We met when I was 17, I'm 20 now and he's 23. I love him a lot and he's my bestfriend as well but I don't really see us being together forever. In fact I don't even see us getting married...ever.
I feel like right now we both belong together because we're both still young. I'm in college and working part time. I will graduate in 2-3 years and in my field it will be very easy to find a good-high paying job. He's at the start of what might be an okay career path as an assistant manager of a store ( and he's been told he'll be a manager in a year or so) but that doesn't really impress me.
He's fine with a middle class to upper middle class life but I'm really not. I'm okay w...
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Am I going to marry him if ever he will say yes?
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 10:34 pm
Hello. Uhm, im in a long distance relationship for like 2 and a half months and i can say that its really hard. We never see each other. by the way im 16 turning to 17 (oct) and my boyfriend is 18 turning to 19 this coming June. our first month, everything is perfect, no misunderstanding, we're just happy all the time. we talk everyday using fb or Skype. we always spend 3-5 hours talking and talking. In our 2nd month, i feel like our relationship is starting to fall, we dont talk that much and sometimes, we have a misunderstanding. Thats because of our time and distance, he started to work and i feel like he dont have time for me. Yeah i love him and i can't deny it. The day of our second monthsary, we talked and since that day, we fixed an...
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I dont know what to believe.
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 9:27 pm
I am 17 years and i am in a relationship with a 25 year old. We have been in and out of the relationship since i was 15.We were both virgins and after dating for sonetime we had sex. I was 15 that time.He has been a good boyfriend but i sometimes dont trust him. He is too kind to everyone...including his exs..when i am finished talking to him at nights he would still be up texting...i would see his last seen is 3 in the morning. I never told him about it because i am afraid he would be mad. He told me though that he thinks it is unfair to be with more than one person. I want to believe him but during our break up he was sexting other girls and he indirectly mentioned it to me.so i am thinking that this or these girls and him still talk.
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How do you tell a guy you like him?
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 6:12 pm
Okay so, I've liked this guy for about a year and a half now but I don't know how to say it. I'm an awkward person to begin with and we do talk to each other now and again but I really do like him. I'm 90% sure he doesn't like me back and if he does I'll be surprised. Can someone tell me how to tell him without looking weird and stuttering and freezing?
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hey :)
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 11:50 am
Should I call her?? Or text her??
If I call her she might be asleep at midnight so she might not answer her phone or if she answer it she might get annoyed at me for calling late at night . This is the first time I'll do this to a girl I have a crush on...so bear with me
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I NEED AN ANSWER BY 3PM... PLEASE
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 11:15 am
Good morning all,
I am a 24 year old female and I live with my mother, who has narcissistic personality disorder. Due to this disorder, she is obsessed with me in a way that is not healthy. She believes that I am her doll. I have endured psychological and emotional abuse beyond what I can explain in 2000 characters. If you are not familiar with the disorder, feel free to look it up. Also, look up narcissistic victim syndrome. This is what I am suffering from. I don't have enough money to move to a place of my own. My mom has also stolen my identity and completely ruined my credit, so I cannot afford to lease an apartment or anything like that. I am currently trying to find a roommate, at church or something, who may offer me a place ...
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How to recover my writing skills.
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 8:40 am
Why do I have writers block. Its difficult for me to communicate on line with family and friends. I'm having trouble writing paragraphs, sentences, my vocabulary has disappeared. I've worked on this paragraph for 45-minutes.I'm embarrassed to admit I'm a college graduate.
I've don't have any medical issues that I know of. Why is this happening.
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how to tell a guy you like him
Posted Sunday April 26 2015, 3:42 am
How do i tell a guy i like him without it being so weird
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Should I.......?
Posted Saturday April 25 2015, 1:40 pm
17/M
Hey Guys. So I was wondering should I call her or text her at exactly 12 midnight on her birthday?? Or should I do it in the morning? Oh and this is the same girl in my previous question..
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Should I tell her that her boyfriend cheated?
Posted Friday April 24 2015, 9:53 pm
21/f
I met this guy a couple of weeks ago. We flirted, hung out a couple of times, and hit it off. We texted every day since we met and he confessed that he liked me and wanted to see how things progressed with us. We ended up making out and talked about possibly doing more in the future.
All this time, he denied having a girlfriend. I know how guys can be, so I asked him (more than once) if he was single. He assured me he was.
Turns out he lied. I got a tip from someone on Facebook that he'd been lying to me and had a girlfriend, and even showed me a snapshot of the girl's profile, where her default pic is one of the two of them, posted just a few days ago. The message was anonymous; the profile looked very obviously ...
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When a guy says he doesn't want anything serious?
Posted Friday April 24 2015, 4:53 pm
when a guy pursues you and tells you he doesn't want anything serious at the moment, how would you take that? I've known this amazing guy since 2007. He tells me that he really cares about me, holds my hands. spends time with me and shows affection. He acts like we're in a serious relationship? He's been there for me when I've went through things in my life. But he tells me he doesn't want anything serious. I can't imagine my life without him.
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missing periods
Posted Friday April 24 2015, 2:02 pm
Hii. Am from India
I had un protected sex on 19 n had taken unwanted 72 within 38hrs but I didn't had my periods till now..as my period date was on 20 can you please help me
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Possible pregnancy..
Posted Friday April 24 2015, 10:10 am
I am 25 and I Broke up with my boyfriend(27) 2 months ago but haven't completely severed the bedroom fun..the relationship ended because he is an alcoholic but Last night I wanted him to release inside of me, he normally pulls out. He did and then did it again 3 more times after that.. He is older than me and we have talked bout having kids. I know having a baby to save a relTionships is a piss poor way to start a family but I don't know if that's what he is thinking. What do i do?
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I need advice about this guy
Posted Thursday April 23 2015, 1:53 am
So I met they guy through work we started takling and when we hang out we make out but where not in a relationship I want more but he doesn't but sometimes the things he says seems like he want more to, but if i get him in the shops he never gives me a hug its just a plain "hello, how are you" please help me
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Is she interested or she's about to break up with the boyfriend
Posted Wednesday April 22 2015, 7:57 pm
I work with this lady in the restaurant all indication that she's single the positive sign that she's attracted is there whenever I talk to her a.k.a boyfriend never comes up but it seems something is holding me back I hear she's gotta boyfriend if you do that is the last thing that I would ever wanna get in the middle I've been in the restaurant for almost 5 years not ones or ever that I have ever dated or hangout so she knows I am real I've learn ."patient .challege. Self control" is a must question is should i ask her out or just let it be I know I am gonna ask her out but the fear of I have a boyfriend just seems to get in the way
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Recent 2 year relationship over
Posted Wednesday April 22 2015, 1:36 am
I want to know three things:
1. Is she missing me or thinking about me?
2. Is there a chance I can get her back?
3. Why is she acting so mean to me
My girlfriend left me after two years and 3 months out of nowhere and her reason was "she didn't have feelings anymore" Later on her mom told me that she still loved me, she just needed to be free for right now. Yet she is already interested in another guy and is treating me like a complete stranger. She also threw a bunch of my stuff that I ever gave her away and blocked me from communication (text). Now that I realize the only problem in our relationship was that we were never separated, basically around each other for everyday without givi...
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understanding teenage love
Posted Tuesday April 21 2015, 11:00 pm
M/16
So I've noticed that my freinds and the kids around me make their love interest their world. I don't understand why they do this. I have a girl freind and I do love her but I realize I can love her without building my world around her. I'm a sophmore in high school! 2 of my really close freinds are dateing and after a week they became convinced they are soul mates, that their getting married and they couldn't live with out eachother(they've been dateing for 3 months now and are my same age). I just dong understand. Is my idea off that we are teenagers and that relationships really are not as serious as people my age think their realationships are. Or am I just completely in the wrong way of thinking here? Please give me your honest oppinons.
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Never believed in "love at first sight" now i'm second guessing it.
Posted Tuesday April 21 2015, 1:07 am
Female; 19.
I have loved two people in my life and have thought I loved people before then. I've never even really had crushes on people based on appearance. My last relationship was amazing and I truly believed that he was the one, he was 22 and everything i had ever wanted in my "dream guy". He told me he wanted to marry me one day and it all seemed so sure. Unfortunately it was bad timing his band just got signed, he hated his job and he was loosing his remaining parent to cancer. We broke up and we still love each other and are hoping things could one day down the road be fixed. It's been devastating and left me feeling empty and too emotionally drained to even show emotion.
But recently I keep running into this ...
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