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I have feelings for my step brother. How do I tell him?
Posted Tuesday September 27 2011, 1:00 pm
i am a 17 year old girl who has feelings for my 21 year old step-brother and is it normal. i really need your help i dont know how i am going to tell him
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he suddenly misses being single...
Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 11:49 pm
My husband and I have been married for almost two years. We have a one year old baby boy and another baby on the way. Last night I confronted him because he seemed distant to me... he admitted that he missed being single... he said he felt guilty for feeling that way and that he wanted to be with me because he loves his family and his son... but not in so many words did he say he loved me...
I am completely at a loss. I know there are things I could do better as a mother/ wife... but I don't know what to do to rekindle what he must've lost for me.
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I'm sad and I need help.
Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 7:54 pm
Too day my birthday.I like everything so far(there is still the cake)and I'm so happy about everything
the gifts the time my family is spending with me.I just love everything! Every one is calling.But the people that I wanted to call or email me did not.They are the people that I writed about an "Did I make this happen". They are my 2 Aunts and my Uncle.
Not even mu Gard ma and Gard pa.
They are mad at my Mom but not at me( that I know of any way.What did I do to them?)
But because they are mad at my Mom should I not be mad at them for not calling or emailing me?(If this is what you are thinking my email IS working.And if it wasn't they have my sister cell, my Mom cell and the home phone.They have the...
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Moving to new country with new family? Feeling insecure...
Posted Thursday September 22 2011, 11:59 pm
In 2 months I will be moving to Central America with my father. I'm going to be 19 in 4 months and I do love my country, how ever I just finally came out to all my friends and family here which was hard to do. And now I have to move with my dad to a place where queers and bisexuals and cross-dressers are not only frowned upon but killed. Every time I visit I feel out of place, I have quite a few body modifications; tattoos/piercings. My family such as cousins, aunts and uncles don't really mind I guess they got used to it by now. But everyone else stares at me like I'm some sort of freak. I'm very self conscious of how I look and I feel awkward trying to make new friends. Especially with the same sex since I'd like to have a same sex partne...
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Family Tree
Posted Thursday September 22 2011, 6:34 pm
Hello,
Ive decided that I want to research my family tree, and know what to do and where to look. The only confusion is when compiling the family tree itself. Now for example, do I put my mothers name down? Or my fathers name down? Do i need to create two family trees: One for my mothers side, and one for my fathers? And then how do I put information about my grandparents? Like marriage etc? so for example:
My Mum bore me and my sister. When going beyond that, does one put the information of my father and his parents, or my mother and her parents?
Sorry if Ive made this sound too complex to understand, Im just very confused.
Thanks for the help folks.
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How to deal with my mother
Posted Wednesday September 21 2011, 9:34 pm
Im new to this so imma just say how i feel. My mom smokes weed drinkings and is major whore. She had sex plenty of times while i was in the same bed. Has books about sex. I cant stand her im 14 and i have done stuff too . I had sex, ONLY because i wanted to know how it felt why? because my mother was doing it my friends were and i thought i was in love with the boy. I have lied before i snuck people in my house after school when im not suppose to . Im not a girl you would call a whore. my mom found out i had sex she also saw that i sent a boyfriend a picture of my boobs but it wasnt serious it was in the bra and she made a big deal out of it. What ever. i dont tell her anything because we dont have that kind relationship. But come on if you...
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Did I make this happen?
Posted Tuesday September 20 2011, 6:33 pm
Hi I'm 14 and my sister said I more like 11.
But that's not what I need advice.Ok I'm not going to tell all info so I will just say this:Her Mom got had her then got re mairred(yes she was mirred the frist time) and had Two kids.
And the guy she was mairred to never nice to Mom.
Mom had us(me and my older sister) and we are close to Mom's Mom and her hasdand(and there two not so kids anymore kids.)I'm on crutches(I don't wan this thang to be longer then it has to be so I'm not going to say how I got on crutches)and My Aunt wanted to know what pain RX I was on so I ask my Mom(Me and my sister wanted to go down to there house for thankgiving 5 hours away) and when my Mom said it had a long name and when I got my ...
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How can I get myself to stop fighting with my brother every single day?
Posted Monday September 19 2011, 12:23 am
We fight every single day! It's so annoying and I'm getting tired of it! He's 8 years old and I'm 12 years old. My mom is always mad at us and I just want a happy family again.
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Am I Being Unreasonable?
Posted Sunday September 18 2011, 3:30 pm
I am a 56 year old woman. My husband, who is from another country, is 60 and unemployed. A little over 2 years ago one of his adult sons came over to stay. I filed the son's initial immigration paperwork. We are overdue to file the remainder. I have been after my husband to get the supporting documents together since I work during the week. The son suffers from depression. Due to my meager salary and the rising cost of living, I cannot afford his medication and feel my husband should at least seek part time employment. If not for anything else, but to pay for his son's medication. I should mention my house, humble as it is, is paid for. I pay all the bills and find it hard to keep going. Not to mention that I have some health issu...
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Why do I feel this way ?
Posted Saturday September 17 2011, 10:34 pm
Last night me my older cousin and his wife went out for her birthday. First we went dancing and I watched them dance and hug and kiss and I felt sad and lonely. When we got to the skating rink I started feeling worse so I had my cousin bring me home his wife stayed there. His friend drove us home and me and my cousin were sitting in the back and I started crying my eyes out and he held me and comfort me. I didn't feel good so I went to bed as soon as we got home. What's wrong with me ? I've never felt this way before. I'm 18.
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How can I get over my past?
Posted Saturday September 17 2011, 1:12 am
I'm a 21 year old Indian female. For a few days now my past has been haunting me which includes the following: 1. I had a boyfriend for 2 years and he was a great guy and we were as intimate as is possible (which even resulted in something terrible which i think you can guess)so anyway we broke up a year back and now i feel very regretful about everything that happened between us...i mean at that time it felt right. The reason for my guilt is also the fact that in my culture and family such intimacy is not allowed, so every time i speak to my folks i feel like a criminal; 2.Since i was so sure of being with my boyfriend forever and i was the one who initiated the break up i have started hating myself as i could not keep the promise of commi...
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Do you have kids? How many?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 8:28 pm
Do you have kids? How many?
Would you be okay with them being on an advice website like this? My dad doesnt like it.
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Reason's why I dont like my living environment
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 12:55 pm
I'm 17/f with a child on the way. don't be biased with your advice because I am young and still live with my parents & pregnant bc I know how yall are.
Things have been this way. I never noticed until now how annoying it is and how I don't want to bring my child into this. We live in a 3 bedroom house & we have 2 full bathrooms. One is in the master bed room my moms room, I have to take showers in there.. I can't stand it anymore. I have no privacy I feel like the other bathroom should be myyy bathroom & my parents should share the bathroom in what's supposed to be theirrrr room. But my father sleeps out in the game room & uses the other bathroom. I think this is very selfish . I know I pay no bills and have no say so...
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In-Laws - SIL & Drugs/DUI etc
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 2:43 am
It's a complicated situation. I have been married to a disabled man for 9 years (relationship is on the rocks). We live with his parents, sister and nephew. Sister-in-law is addicted to narcotics. She regularily drives under the influence with her son and the son's friends in the car. I have made it clear that I will report her if I know she is DUI with children in the car. The in-laws are enablers and mother-in-law threatens to kick me out of the house if I phone the police. Says I should mind my own business and/or go report all the other DUI'ers out there..... (blah blah). I have made a few reports but nothing has ever been done. Should I continue to report (knowing that I could be kicked out with no place to go)? Should I phon...
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Stumped....
Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 12:29 am
So a few months ago I found my biological sister, We spoke online for about a month and decided too meet up in person. We meet up at a restaurant for lunch talked about things we laughed and everything seemed to be going pretty good. This was on August 3rd...
After lunch we said our goodbyes and said we'd see one another again, I was excited and shocked all sorts of mixed feelings.....However, I decided I would give her a little space to let her process it so I messaged her via facebook maybe once every 3 days to see how she was doing. Anyway, One time I messaged her about 2 weeks later after not really hearing anything asking if things were okay between us and she told me she didn't have a problem wit...
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My wife is having a relationship with another man
Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 7:27 am
My wife is having an affairs with another man.and she is not she called this man in my house every day on phone.she even said. She want to be with this man.advise me should I devoice her for him?
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a year 5 girl and her parents hate me
Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 5:57 am
i am in year 7/middle school at a private school. ok i was being annoying on the bus and prank calling a year five girl. her mom got angry with me over the phone and i was so scared of her i couldn't eat for a whole day and barely slept. i tryed saying sorry and stuff she said otherwise in the phone call. my dad was called by her dad because apparently she was too angry to talk to my dad. she emailed the head of junior school. i am way to scared of her parents who hate me. i am now not annoying to the year five girl or prank calling. she now has total power over me threating to tell her parents i was mean to her if i dont do as she says. now i have no choice because if i do somthing to her again and my parents find out i will have no point...
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Stay with my dad or move back ?:$
Posted Tuesday September 13 2011, 5:20 am
So , here's my story . Im using made up places cause i dont want to say where i really live .
I lived in lolliepop land with my mum . I had a big fight with my friends . So , i moved to unicorn forest . Annd , its been about 7 or so months since i moved and me and my friends have made up . My dad said i could move back and live with my mum at the end of this year . And i was talking to my mum , and shes said i have to go to a school i really dont want to go to .
So , i either stay here with my dad (I hate his wife and her kidss)
Or go back to my mum ( And go to a school i hate )
Which one do you think is a good choice :$$$$ ?
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Feeling Hopeless After Divorce
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 7:53 pm
I am a 37 year old women who was married for 10 years. I have three children 12, 8, and 9. I divorced in 2009. The relationship was emothonally stressful. I am told that I was a victim of control and emotional abuse. It is funny because that kind of abuse is very difficult to see until you are out of the situation. Anyway, my ex husband has spoke to the kids about me in very bad ways. He is upset because I took him to child support court and he has to pay 32@ of is income.
He harrassed me for months before the child support went through. Now that it has been finalized he still uses the Kids to hurt me. He wants joint custody which my attorney says is a way to further control me. (There is alot that I'm skipping over) to get ...
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Why is my mom putting me through this?
Posted Monday September 12 2011, 9:49 am
For a very long time, my mom has been trying to live through me. But, now that I'm an adult, almost graduating from college, it's just getting out of control. She has gotten better, I cannot discredit that. But, I'm really worried. About a year ago, I got hair extensions (long story). But basically, I lost hair because I wasn't eating very well and I also bleached it which was really bad. It was fine for a while... but it's been almost two years now (about a year and a half or longer) that I've had these extensions. They are expensive and limit me from being able to wash my own hair or dry it. I can't ever leave it wet. They are very annoying. It's fine that I had them for a while. But, I think they've overextended their stay. I told my mom...
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