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Friendship
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my gym class ..


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 6:01 pm

im in 8th grade (13 / female) and well in my gym class this year i have like no one to talk to.. there's the popular girls that somehow have the same class together .. the unpopulars, the geeks, the preps, and some of the jocks, and then there's me .. i dont really fit in to any of those categories (i guess i`m just average) .. well heres the real problem i actually do have a friend in my class, lets call her Monica but she doesnt even look at me, I guess shes embarassed to be seen with me or something cuz the whole class long she hangs out with this girl lets call her Jessica. And well when they hang out together their like all BFF and they really kinda arent .. anyways should i tell Monica or not ( like she knows i want to switch classe...

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phone or in person??


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 5:49 pm

Okay, I there's this guy that likes me and i told him i would go to a dance with him but now i dont wanna go (and for a good reason dont worry) so would it be rude to tell him over the phone? Or should i do it in person? I would really rather do it over the phone so i wont be as nervous but im afraid it might be rude. Plz help me!! And i need to know like ASAP!! Thx

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best friend help


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 5:45 pm

hey my best friend is acting weird and i think she ie jelous that i am hangin out with one of my old friends b/c he old group of friends are bein mean to he and ignore her now and i try to talk to both but my b/f is never their when something happens so wen me and my other friend are talk about it i think she feals left out b/c she dosn't no wuts goin on wut should i do???


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lost my friend ..


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 5:33 pm

heyy! im 13 yr. old girl.. ok so i had this friend and she was my best friend since kindergarden.. we were friends from kindergarden to 5th grade .. then came middle school .. she became somewhat popular somehow .. but she was trying wayy to hard .. anways im in 8th grade now and its only the begining of the 2nd marking period .. she has been mean and stuck up and a bitch to me .. i get upset sometimes (i dont cry but her being me to me hurts bcuz we were friends for so long) and like should i be upset or am i jealous? plz helpp !

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when can you trust them ..


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 4:14 pm

my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?

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one or the other..


Posted Friday November 19 2004, 11:55 am

I have a friend,Megan which I have been practically sisters with my whole life. I've known her for 6 years and we basically grew up together. I also have this other friend,Kelsy, which I have known for about 4 or 5 years, and is also extremely close with me. Megan and Kelsy have also been close for years,too. Kelsy is starting not to like Megan anymore, due to a drunk night when Megan got with the guy that Kelsy liked. I know it was wrong, but I've known Megan for half my life and I can't just drop her like that. Kelsy might get mad if she knows that I still want to be friends with Megan, because everytime she says something about Megan, I always agree by saying I'm not talking to her anymore either. What are your opinions on this?

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Posted Friday November 19 2004, 7:33 am

Ok, theres this one girl, lets call her 123. Theres 2 other boys involved too, 456 and 789. When I'm hanging around 456 and 789 flirting and all, 123 will come to our group and start flipping out on me for no reason. 456 and 789 say she's just jealous of me and I shouldn't worry about it. Later when 456 and 789 are gone, 123 will come up to me and apologize. 123 does this everytime we get into a fight! What can I do, this just happens repeatedly and I want it to stop! What can I say to 123 to make her stop or whatever to leave me alone if she's just going to keep doing this? Thanks for the help!:)

P.S. I'm 13 and in grade 8 if that helps.

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confusing phone "issue"


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 8:43 pm

okay... I'm a fourteen year-old female in my freshman year of high school. I'm also an advicenator, but I suck at giving good rational advice to myself. Now here's the problem: I have trouble talking on the phone, even with friends, but especially with guys I like. I have lots of self confidence and I'm really talkative online and in person... but the phone? I will admit that since I've moved I've become more shy, but I've always had this phone issue. I know that often in conversations I use things around me and improvise... so it's harder on the phone. What should I talk about? Why am I *nervous*? Any advice at all would be much appreciated because I have no clue how to not to be like this and I know this guy is going to call my sometime... I'll rate or comment if you want... thanks!

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Friends


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 7:27 pm

ok i have this friend lets call her cassy..shes like my bestfriend now..but when i met her i hated her cuz she always trien to steal my bestfriend at the time..and now that i hanged with her alot i think shes pretty cool..and we do alot together..well the other girl my old bestfriend (Hannah) always seems like to compete against me to get to her..and when ever me n cassy hang out she gets like jelous..i really just dont kno wut to do ne more..i mean i feel bad for cassy..wut do u guys and girls think i should do? thanks so much!

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help!


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 6:34 pm

I'm at a new school where i dont know many people... i made this one friend, lets just call her anna. So anna and i have been hanging out on the weekends and stuff for the past 3 weeks and im starting to realize that she is really conceited. I don't want to have a friend like this, but i don't really have any other options because i don't want to be friendless. I don't know if you can help very much, just give me your thoughts on this, or maybe if you can relate we can talk about your experience. thanks.

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guy help


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 6:08 pm

ok...so theres this guy i met and weve become good friends...we hang out on the weekends and stuff and hes really fun to be around and talk to...only i think i like him too much and i kno he likes me too much...i didnt want this to happens on account hes a lott older than me ... what should i do?

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just a friend!!!!!!


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 5:40 pm

ok,i have a friend named ian,and another named jason,,their only my guy friends until i found out ian liked me,,,!!!then he started to flert with me alot & jason knew that i didn't feel comfortable with ian,,,so {not to make ian jealous}jason gave me a necklace that said ''friends'' he had one that said''best''
ian got jealous...alot..what do i do?????


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Friends


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 4:48 pm

Our nice little group of friends is going through a bunch of crap. And, yes, I did in fact mean CRAP. The deal is simple. A lot of us have realized how extremely bad the school year has been going. We seem to be growing apart, and getting more and more agrivated with one another. The things is, we really really want to stay friends, but all of us want different things. Some of us wish that everything at school wasn't treated like one big joke, and need someone to talk to. Others wish things were like last year when we all were carefree and didn't have a worry in the world (meaning never did have serious conversations at school).

The biggest thing is that no one feels that they can talk to anyone. Everyone feels very ...

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Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 3:50 pm

There's this friend I have and her name is Kellen. She's really sweet, quiet, a good friend, and she's 15. And she has this boyfriend who is 18 and his name is Nick. He's fun, loud, and likes to mess around with everybody while Kellen is usually the girl in the back (I mean the girl who doesn't say anything unless she definetley has to answer). And last Sunday, Kellen, Nick, and I were hanging out at the mall. Kellen went to get ice cream for all of us and I stayed with Nick at the table. And Nick said "Well, you're getting more and more beautiful day by day. One of these days you'll be mine." I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed (and because I'm only 14). And Kellen came back and I pretended nothing happened because I ...

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moved away


Posted Thursday November 18 2004, 3:31 pm

Hi, i went to skewl at a catholic skewl, but we lived with my grandmom so we moved away, far away. I like my neew house and all but now i live really far away from my best friends. I miss them a lot and i call them a lot. But i keep getting scared thinking that in like 1 month we wont be friends anymore. Its a scary thought and we probably wont be friends 4ever. But i'm 13 yrs old and it would be great if we could be friends till we get our licenses (driving). Does any1 kno how we can be friends that long?

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Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 10:38 pm

(13 yr old girl)ok so me and my friend (lets call her Ashley) were best friends. But they i started middle school and we had this big fight over nothing! And a new friend i met in middle school, lets call her Mary, would tell me what Ashley said about me and Mary would tell Ashley what i said about her... and this caused us to fight even more!! She just got in the middle constantly and like now we dont talk anymore.. question : should i be friends with Mary even though she split me and my BFF apart ..

p.s- Mary is friends with ashley .. and mary is friends with me now .. (but idk if thats a big mistake)

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uh


Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 10:06 pm

Well, i'm having some problems. I talked about a sorta-friend behind thier back and they heard about it and got really upset, and now im in the middle of a big mess. Help?

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not being able to see my friend..


Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 9:35 pm

okay i have this friend who ive only known for like a year and weve only been good friends for like a couple months but anyways he is going out with my bestfriend ..and i mean i hate when people my age (14) say i love you if you can tell they dont mean it but i KNOW they do and i hangout with them like everyday and i have so much fun with them they are the two people i can honestly say i trust i love them both to death they are my bestfriends... but this kid got charged for raping these two girls..but he didnt do anything like that he would never do that...they are just stupid and try to start shit and thats not something to joke around with and so he was locked up for 2 months until he went to court...and his gf's (my bff) mom found out sh...

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didnt know what category to put this under...


Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 8:20 pm

my friend (kelley) has been cutting herself lately and doing some pretty dangerous stuff. i told her to stop and she said she has but i dont know if i should believe her. what should i do? *signed clueless as what to do*

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Posted Wednesday November 17 2004, 5:44 pm


i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you.

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