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Spoiled brat sister
Posted Sunday April 22 2012, 1:35 pm
Ever since I could remember my younger sister has been spoiled. She gets whatever se wants when she wants. If we g to a restaurant and I sit I the chair she wanted, she have a hissy fit until I moved. She flips out over the dumbest things like I went to her religion class and said she loved to watch spongebob just like any other kid and she flipped out. Thn I told the class she was getting braces and loads of kids n the class had them so she flipped out. She hits, bites, and kicks me in front of everyone. How do I deal with her. I want to move out into the guest room cuz of her since I'm almost 14 too I need my privacy too. She's always on my bed and way to clingy. I need space from her
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my dad is cheating on my mum,what should i do?
Posted Saturday April 21 2012, 11:47 am
hello im a 13year old girl and i live with my mum and dad;i dont have any siblings.a couple of years ago my parents seperated for about a year because my mum found out that my dad was cheating on her...theyve been back together now for the past 6 years but i fear my dad is still cheating on her.
a few days ago i went on my dad's phone to text my mum and i saw in the contacts list somebody called 'sexymama'.seeing the name i was curious who this was so i looked at the conversation with her and my dad.the conversation was quiet disturbing!also i did a bit of digging on my dad's computer and found a photo of a naked woman and a semi-naked woman.i went on the history list on his computer and found loads of websites which are porn...
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parents getting divorce because of me! need answer!!!
Posted Wednesday April 18 2012, 7:16 pm
so im 11 and my mom and stepdad are gettin a divorece becuase of me my stepdad says hes giving up on me cuz i dont like him. I have not really liked him the whole 7 years theve been married. And i got in trouble with cops becuase i feel so angry becuase my mom wont listin when i try to talk to her about it. I have cut too and cuz of my stepdad threatining to puch me and hurt me in ways my mom is too in love with him too see it what should i do???
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should I give up on this
Posted Tuesday April 17 2012, 5:23 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year and a half. and his dad doesn't seem to like me. because he has told me that his dad said "she just wants to take you for a ride" and last weekend he sorta said that i should go to our lady of peace (a psychiatric hospital). i've asked him why he doesn't stand up for me and he says he just wants to keep the peace. my opinion there's a difference between keeping the peace and not standing up or defending your girlfriend while someone who talks badly about them. should i just give up?
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Mother Hijacking Vacation
Posted Tuesday April 17 2012, 3:37 pm
My husband and I have had a trip planned with our friends to go to Cancun in May for months. My mother informed me yesterday that she has airfare miles she wants to use and is planning a vacation to Cancun as well because it is such a good deal. The only problem is she is planning to go the same exact time as me. I am really upset about her lack of consideration. Am I crazy, or is this completely rude of her?
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Coming out the closet
Posted Monday April 16 2012, 7:51 pm
I am 14. boy. and I told my mother that I was gay. She did not agree with it. She punished me for it......so she did not take it well. As punishment she took a tampon and stuck it up my butt then said "THIS IS WHAT IT FEELS LiKE TO BE A GIRL!!" I tried to take out the tampon but she pushed it in really deep and I am very scared and in alot of pain. What should I do?
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i don't know what to do anymore
Posted Saturday April 14 2012, 9:59 pm
I feel alone in my house, like I’m invisible. Last week I got accepted into this college I REALLY wanted to get into and it was like it didn’t matter, and wasn’t important. I tried to ignore, I thought it would just go away, but it hasn’t. It has been getter worse. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I just want to talk about it or it I want to try to do something, I don’t know. Please help, I don’t know what to do and lately I’ve been feeling really depressed, I REALLY REALLY don’t want to do anything stupid.
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i should die or not
Posted Tuesday April 10 2012, 6:33 am
Am 20 years girl, i loved one guy and he 2 loves me but more than me he loved his
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my mom sometimes calls me fat.. but jokingly?
Posted Monday April 9 2012, 11:17 pm
my mom will sometimes 'jokingly' say to me "ok chubs" or something like that. do you think she is kidding, or trying to hint that i need to lose some weight?
i've checked my bmi & i'm completely normal.. & my stomach or legs or anything aren't big either? i'm relatively the same size as my friends..?
i'm just not sure if she really thinks i'm fat or not, & i've always been really insecure about the way i look (mainly because of her i guess) & so these comments don't really help..
she always does, it's like she knows i'm all of a sudden getting confident & happy, & then makes these little remarks. but if she sees i'm upset, then she'll say oh i'm kidding. but who kids about that sort of thing?
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I need my own room, but my mom won't let me.
Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 10:23 pm
I live in a three bedroom house with four people. I know its not that bad and I know there are people who deal with worse, but you don't know my family. I have ABSOLUTELY NO PRIVACY! I'm fourteen and I share a tiny room with my nine year old sister. Just our beds take up about 85% of the room so yeah its mega small. I really want my own room 'cause I've shared all my life. My mom and my brother (who isn't home like 90% of the time) have the other two rooms. Now, I feel that with my being fourteen and the changer going on in and around me, I should have my own room. I have no real privacy. If I'm in the bathroom and my mom wants something out of there she will PICK THE LOCK! I mean really, she says that the only place we deserve privacy is t...
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My Mom Loves My Brother More...Help?
Posted Sunday April 8 2012, 12:34 pm
Well I used to be the prize in the family. You know straight A's, popular, a good kid, and everything you could ask for in a kid. When I got to 6th grade it was harder because my school is for all gifted students so I got A's B's and a C. My parents weren't happy but I still was the prize. Then my brother decided to try going into the Army. All of a sudden everything changed. I'm the one that does all chores except one and if I don't do them I get in trouble but my bro doesn't get in trouble in he doesn't do his ONE chore. If one speck is left on the counter, I get yelled at and when my mom is in a bad mood because of me she goes to my brother and says "SOMEONE made me mad, it's ok honey, it's not your fault." She gets upset with ...
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i feel jelous sometimes: How do I stop comparing myself to others?
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 5:36 pm
I'm 16/f and I have a younger sister who is 14 but she is really mature and is a spitting image of my mum.. I know this will sound horrid but sometimes I can't help feeling jelous of them both:( my sister gets so much attention off boys and my mum was a model- it just makes me feel really ugly. My mum and sister are tall and blonde and I'm just average height and have brown hair that always goes frizzy, I never tan and my skin looks horrible next to my sisters. My mum is so so so so skinny and makes me look fat.. really, I need advice to stop comparing myself with them?
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They are so messy and hard to put up with!
Posted Friday April 6 2012, 12:19 pm
I have this big issue with my dear family,they're a mess,they are really untidy and messy,they definitely don't like to clean the house up nor do they like to put things away or cook dinner,I have to do everything,my parents are separated and my mum spends half-day working so we are supposed to help her with the household chores,but I'm the only one who actually does something,I have a 22year old sister,she just doesn't care about it,and makes fun of me bc I like the house to be cleaned or dinner to be served so my mum can eat when she's home,I also have this other brother,18,what can I say about him?I'm wordless,please,any help?thanks:)(I love them,but they drive me crazy)
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My mom thinks I'm a lesbian but I'm not!!!
Posted Wednesday April 4 2012, 8:46 pm
14/f
Okay, so my mom thinks I am a lesbian but I am completely straight. I've had three boyfriends and my mom knows that. But she is under the impression that I like girls because I don't talk about liking guys with her. When I got my first boyfriend, My mom asked me if I liked him and I was like "well you know, we're pretty much friends but people just like the title." Of course, I did really like him and was dating him for more than the title but I didn't want to tell my mom that because things would be so awkward. Trust me. If I talked about guy I like with her, it would be SO awkward and she would keep asking me questions about it. So I know that she thinks I'm a lesbian because today she was like "who do you like...
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How can I help him?
Posted Monday April 2 2012, 10:51 am
I have an 18year old bro,I'm a little older than he,so basically my biggest cocern is that he has no clue about what he's going to do with his life,he's not sure whether to carry on studying or getting a job,he's just so lost,I don't know how to help him because to make matters even worse,he's always in a bad mood,so it's really hard to everynoe of us,I mean my family and I to talk to him,thanks!ps( it'd be great to read 18 or 17year old people,thanks in advance!)
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what would you do if you found out something awful?
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 11:50 pm
what would you do if you found out something awful? like something they did. & they were someone you really looked up to. i don't know how to react, because i don't think i can ever look at the person the same again.
to make matters worse, i cannot not even type out to you, you random strangers whom i'll never meet & who don't know me at all. isn't that awful?
i'm just so sad, and don't know how to even behave..
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Homophobic Parents
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 8:31 pm
So I am a 15 yeard old female, and I am bisexual. I am sure this is not some "phase". I have always had an attraction to girls, and this year I've felt that attraction even more.
Let's cut to it. I've told abou 10 of my friends that I am bi, and all of them have accepted it so far.
Basically, I have no problem coming out to the world as a bisexual, but it's my parents. They are very homophobic. And when I say very I mean extreamly. My dad hates andything related to LGBTQ, and my mom does too, but she has a bi friend.
What I'm basically asking is if you have any tips on how to come out to homophobic parents, or what I should do etc.
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Help! So confused what I should say to him?
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 11:30 am
please read all and carefully, thankyou. my parents got divorced 2 years ago. im 14/f i have 4 other siblings. the problem is that when they got divorced my older sis took sides with my mom and my older bro took sides with my dad. My sister and brother were best friends, until this. Now my other older brother, me, and my younger brother are just hanging in the middle not taking sides. I go to therapy and it has been helping, but i have not been on any anti-depressants or anything not that i want to. My sister never really had a relationship with my dad to begin with so i don't mind her not talking to him. As for my older brother he won't talk to my mom (this is the brother who took sides with my dad) and they were very close also, and as i...
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Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 9:43 am
I want to die tidaty pls sujjest me the painless way
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PARENTS: how late do you allow your 19+ year old child stay out?
Posted Sunday April 1 2012, 1:56 am
I was just wondering how late 19+ kids get to stay out.
Because my mom is trying to enforce a curfew on me. I'm 19 years old, and I really don't go out too much, i don't drink or do drugs, but i like to go to parties and hang out. is that so bad?
is it wrong that i don't think i should have a curfew? its not like i'm staying out till 4 in the morning. its like 230 tops.. & my mom freaks out and won't talk to me.
maybe i'm being ridiculous, but it's pretty embarrassing when you have to leave a party at 1.. when people are just getting there.
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