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My boyfriend is out of town and is barely responding
Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 1:03 pm
22/f, 29/m
Let me first say: I noticed that my boyfriend has been distant lately. I wouldn't say physically distant until now, but I feel that he's been emotionally distant. I feel as if we're not connecting as much as we were. I told him this before, and he told me that he still loves me, and he doesn't think that he is. That he spent a couple of hours watching my favorite show with me and that he made me dinner... But I still feel disconnected from him.
My boyfriend is out of town for some business. He was only going to be there for about a day and a half and he's barely responding to me. He left around 10 PM and texted me around 12-ish telling me that he has arrived at the hotel and told me "good night....
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I need help please!!
Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:29 pm
My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other on a monthly basis once or twice for a year and 7 months and yes we do have sex i saw hm two weeks ago but we ddnt really have sex but everything was nice he told me its always nice to see me...ihavent heard from him for a week now i texted him twice this week and he ddnt respond i texd him today making up a story and lying just to see if he was gona respond but nothing..am i clingy,is he thnking that..what do i do should i just ignore him and move on cause i really dont knw why he stopped speaking to me and ignoring me all of a sudden and we use to talk almost everyday but now things changed and i dont know why..i dont know what to do anymore all i do is cry...Sometimes he would just show up r...
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I am in love and I think he's the one 25/f
Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:24 pm
He's amazing. He's the guy I've always dreamt of marrying. It's crazy how this happened. I had his business card and I meant to call him for something related to the business. i was given this card by someone else, so I hadn't met him in person yet.
I had no idea what this person looked like and I was imagining someone much older than me, someone like my parent's age or even grandparent's age! But, a thought entered my head that I just laughed off. The thought was very clear. This is the guy that you are going to marry. I thought this was the most ridiculous thing I could ever think. Especially because I imagined him to be old enough to be my father. But... then, by pure chance, I met him in person... having no idea that he...
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I need to break up with him
Posted Saturday December 5 2015, 12:06 pm
hey there. so, i've asked a smilier question a few times... but it was more geared around whether or not I should actually break up with him considering that there were so many factors to the equation and I didn't really know if that was what I wanted to do for sure.
But, now, I'm sure. I need to break up with him. At this point, I'm completely checked out of the relationship. This is going nowhere. And I've fallen in love with someone else. I'm not the type of person who will naturally be attracted to other guys when i'm in a relationship. I'm not a cheater. And I would never leave a relationship because i have feelings for someone else. Because... if I made a commitment to the person I am with, I have to recognize that these are em...
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There's this boy....
Posted Friday December 4 2015, 8:11 pm
Hi! I'm 13 and really like this boy. I have literally liked him since I was 5 years old. We used to be so close, but when I left for a while, we didn't talk when I came back. I really really like him and I know that he used to like me too. We have basically liked each other since we 5. There were some rumours that he liked me a few weeks ago, but I thinks he likes this other girl. She is a friend and likes him. I don't want to hurt anyone, but I really like him. How do I know if he likes me? How can I talk to him without it being awkward?
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Boyfriend shares a pet with his ex
Posted Friday December 4 2015, 11:24 am
I'm 24 and so is my boyfriend. We have been dating officialy for a month now. Things have been great there's just one thing that concerns me. He shares a dog with his ex. Its "their" dog not just one or the other. The dog stays at his ex's because thats where he grew up as a puppy and they didnt want to confuse him. Hes almost 2 now. My boyfriend doesn't get to see him much because he's been busy with school and hockey. His ex will text him though when she needs him to watch him. Or if the dog is at his ex's moms house my boyfriend will go over there and let him out and play with him if nobodys home. I just don't like they still have this connection through the dog. My boyfriend said he wants nothing to do with his ex and only tal...
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songs about not being interested
Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 7:22 pm
what are some songs to tell someone you are not interested?
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Why doesnt he like me?
Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 6:35 pm
23/F the guy i like is 25/M
We met on tinder (oh gosh) i know. I was with someone for 5 years and we broke up in June, i hooked up with a kid on my cruise in August and was like OK i can get through this so i decided to make a tinder. The first person i met i went over his house and he was great. Our first convo we had he said he made tinder to make friends was new to the area and just got out of a relationship because of the move wasnt trying to cross the line or anything. We kind of did the netflix and chill thing and for some reason i started everything and started hooking up with him and then insisted on having sex. I think part of me was because i was only with 1 person and i wanted to see what it was like having sex wit...
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should I or should I not be friends with my ex?
Posted Thursday December 3 2015, 3:06 am
we broke up and he said he still wants to be friends. I broke his trust unintentionally and hurt him, and he's gone from so in love to not in love at all. he told me that he wants to be friends still, I don't know, maybe it's because we're good friends before we dated. he said there's no trust as more than friends, but trust as friends can be restored. but it feels as though everytime we talk about the past, he brings up the fact that I hurt him and inevitably I feel like crap everytime because I've apologized and he said he's forgiven me. he also said he doesn't believe anything I say, yet wants to be friends still. it's messing with my mind and also makes me depressed a lot more than I already am. should I even bother staying friends with him or not? thank you, guys.
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Plan B questions
Posted Tuesday December 1 2015, 12:46 pm
I'm female 21 and my boyfriend is 23 so we are both consenting adults that have been dating for six months now. My boyfriend and I had sex twice last night with about fifteen minutes between both times. The second time we had sex, the condom broke when he was about half way in, pulled out right after he heard and felt it and we stopped, he didn't finish either. However, my concern was that there was still semen from the last time that may have made it's way into the second condom so he went to Walmart and got Plan B. While he went to get it, I read awful horror stories of being super sick on it and I was apprehensive to take it since I'm to get sick on my birth control originally with the burst of hormones that comes from it, so with anothe...
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Will I ever be able to still find someone who'll love me?
Posted Tuesday December 1 2015, 9:19 am
The guy I was kinda dating just said he's not in love with me anymore. And I know he really did love me, and I can't help but think maybe I won't find anyone else who can/will love me as much as he did. I'm scared that I let the person who's loved me so much go away. But he said he doesn't have feelings for me anymore, and I feel like I can't stay friends with him even if I want to. He's like my fourth boyfriend and everytime, it just gets worse and worse. :( Am I still going to meet someone who can or will love me as much as/more than he did? :(
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What do I do in this situation?
Posted Tuesday December 1 2015, 1:16 am
Ok, so just a bit of background so you all know what happened.
I met this guy online (let's call him Bruno) and we kinda hit it off, and even though we've never met, he eventually said he's fallen for me. Having a really messed up life, I've always told him that even though I do like him a lot because he's kind, he's smart, he's funny, we have a lot in common and he even looks cute and he makes me laugh, I couldn't promise him anything about being together-together because I still have a lot of mess to take care of in my life like being a drop-out of college and going through depression and basically one hell of a failure of a daughter. I've always told him that he shouldn't wait for me because he might just get hurt in the...
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have serious crush on cousin brother friend,met him once
Posted Monday November 30 2015, 10:05 am
Hey...i am working girl 23 years old.recently my cousin brother got married,where I met his friend..whom I had met when I was too young like in class 3rd or 4rth. My cousin and dat guy are childhood friends.we were together only one day,surrounded by entire family. We two had vry little talks.but I caught him several times looking at me.many a times we had eye contact without any expression. No smile nothing. Now when m back to work,I tried hunting him and came to know we both are in same city. I just know his first name,tried searching him through internet but no result. What should I do to contact him. Coz I really don't want to lose him.pls help to show some bright light. Also m not sure if he has a girlfriend or not. He is like 5,6 year...
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I think I hate boys now
Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 5:35 pm
I'm seriously done with boys at this point in my life , every single boy Ik is a fuck boy
What I mean by this is that boys think it's cool to cheat on girls like they will brag about it to there friends like its somthing to be proud of . I'm annoyed and scared that I will never be able to find a buff, cute , loyal guy that I can be happy with 😔
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NBSB : "No Boyfriend Since Birth"
Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 7:32 am
Why does anyone like me in romantic way?
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I like him but I dont know if he is interested. Mixed signals?
Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 3:57 am
I'm interested in my guy friend (both early 20s). We met over a year ago quite randomly. If I didn't have a boyfriend and he wasn't seeing a girl (who he was really, really into) at that time perhaps there could have been something, maybe? Unless he was just flirting.
Anyway, we caught up the other day with the plan to eat at a food festival that night. To me, it felt like a date (because I like him) -
we fed each other food like a cute couple, he paid that day, drove that day. We had a chat with the couple in front of us when we were lining up for food and they assumed we were a couple too.
There was physical contact that day also; had his arms around me a few times, around my shoulders like a cuddle,...
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Getting over a guy
Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 1:52 am
I've been going through a recent complicated break-up. The thing is I kinda rejected him because I want to get my life back together first before being in a committed relationship. I wasn't able to offer my heart back in return to this guy who loved me so purely because I got scared that the moment I say 'yes' we'd be in a really serious relationship. And the thought of being in a serious relationship scared me. I got scared and I made a stupid mistake by talking to it with another guy friend. And it almost felt like I cheated on him, he felt like I cheated. And now he's not in love with me anymore and that it's impossible for us to be together again. Which hurt so bad.
I know all of that's kinda convoluted, but long story sh...
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3 dates and i can't stop thinking about him
Posted Sunday November 29 2015, 12:15 am
Tl;dr:
Met this guy online. Went on three dates talked to him for a total of 2 months (including dates). And it was PERFECT. Didn't sleep with him. He said he couldn't dedicate time to the relationship so we should call it off but he still really likes hanging with me. Can't stop thinking about him, it's been 2 weeks no communication. Should I text him?
Long version: second date he kissed me. Third date he he'd my hand and we got really coupley really fast. He does work a lot. Goes to work at 8. Gets out around 9. We could only meet up once a week because of his schedule. The last date we went on he said he wanted to hang the following weekend and never contacted me. Then Tuesday he said he was to busy to sta...
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I'm scared for us
Posted Saturday November 28 2015, 3:26 pm
I'm 14 years old and I'm in love. The guy is older but we plan on getting married and having all of six kids together. I want to wait until we get married to have sex but he says he's not gonna wait that long. I know he's the one for me and I know that we will work out because I just know, but, the thought of me being a virgin and him not being one just kills me. He's very honest and he told me that he isn't a virgin but I'm scared of being judged. What if I don't do it right? What if he ends up having sex with someone else because I wont give it to him? I'm terrified and I just cant get hurt again right now. I'm sorry this was so long but thank you for your time.
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Boyfriend currently celebrating birthday abroad without me
Posted Saturday November 28 2015, 2:05 pm
Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. At the moment he's gone to a different country on a lads weekend to celebrate his 21st.
He's not bothering to keep in contact with me but I feel like I need to make the effort with him when he gets back and do something nice.
However I feel very much like a second option that he values his mates more than me and thought he'd have a better time/celebration with them than me.
His birthday is tommorow but he's upset me so should I even organise anything when he gets home in two days or leave it?
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