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im gay but how do i tell mom
Posted Tuesday August 28 2012, 1:37 am
Im gay but I don't know how to tell her.
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my mom called me a bitch
Posted Tuesday August 28 2012, 1:01 am
Since the begging me and my mother's relationship has been special. She is like my bestfriend, my other half. I love her so much. We sometimes argue, like most mother and daughters. Today was different, she called me a bitch. Twice. I was shocked, surprised, hurt. It has been replaying in my mind over and over. I never thought she would ever say that to me. The argument was bad, we were both yelling, but I never once called her a name. I am hurt and upset. I have not talked to her and I don't plan on it. I'm just hurt and it has affected me a lot. What do I do? I don't feel like talking to her. She said hurtful things. I just wanna leave the house and never return.
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My dad has cancer what do i do? I dont know if I can live without him.
Posted Thursday August 23 2012, 7:44 pm
Hi i'm 19 years old and my dad has cancer in his liver. i dont knno what to do and i feel hopeless as if he is going to die any minute. I dont live with him, he lives in his house all alone and im scared to death if he suddenly passes out and i could never live with myself knowing that I couldve done something about it to save him. What am I supposed to do? He is for some reason happy and at peace with himself and i dont wanna ruin it by talking to him about my concerns. I feel like there is something I can do to help him but I just dont know what it is. please help me out. I dont know if I can live without him.
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My ENTIRE family cancels plans EVERY time we make them...
Posted Thursday August 23 2012, 5:59 pm
My Dad, sister and Mother get along very well. They have family dinners that my mother lies and tells me were impromptu but I know better cause my sister usually drops the ball and tells me they planned ahead. I invite them for dinner, drinks, coffee, movies, I've tried everything. They cancel last minute when I've already been cooking all day or they keep telling me they will get back to me and never do. Last week I called my mom a week in advance to try and get them to come over for dinner and she said she would have to get back to me, I called everyday leading up to the dinner and she kept saying she would get back to me. On the day of the dinner I didn't call and neither did she. The next day my Dad calls for a favor and adds in Mom's s...
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It's too overwhelming
Posted Thursday August 23 2012, 1:38 pm
I certainly feel as if I have run out of options. I don’t know the people I live with anymore. I am frustrated day by day in my own home. Yesterday, my mother tells me that I’ve been so apathetic lately, that it seems like I don’t care. She says, “You’re not happy.” Maybe, because of a lot of things that has happened lately, I can’t say I’m 100% happy. But, I’m not sad either. I just feel like I’ve lost control and I don’t know how to feel. If I get happy about something, somebody always finds a way to do or say something that tries to take away my happiness. If I’m sad, they just tell me I’m ungrateful and whining for no reason. I can’t ever do anything right.
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How to get rid of negative thoughts?
Posted Tuesday August 21 2012, 8:26 pm
I'd like to know how to get rid of negative thoughts.I'm thinking all the time about dying,I'm young and healthy,but I'm not happy,I don't know what to do.Any help?I've tried therapy but it didn't work.
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Is it ok for a woman to hit a man if she feels she needs to defend herself
Posted Monday August 20 2012, 2:00 pm
Ok so is it ok to hit a man when he lounges at a pregnant woman, who I might add is going thru his personal property during a disagreement. She feels like since he went thru her stuff n has been constantly accused of his own insecurities n she never did anything wrong, that when he gets physical by snatching things out of her hands n he wont listen to her when shes says stop, while she's pregnant. She takes a swing at him only bc she wants him to back off n quit lounging at her while she's pregnant n spoken words don't help stop. During her swing she barely touches him n he cries n plays victim that he's being attacked n punches her square in the face leaving her with a swollen face n spitting blood. While pregnant! His excuse is she hit me...
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Should I Let My Feelings Out?
Posted Monday August 20 2012, 11:32 am
Long story short, I have this uncle who has done everybody in his life wrong big time at one time or another, but I'm here because he did something to me eight years ago that hurt more than he knows. It devastated me and was the most unfair thing that's ever happened to me. I've never told him how terrible it made me feel, but now I'm having new problems in my life now because of it and the anger's coming back. I think I might tell him how I feel soon just so I can get my feelings out. The thing is, he thinks everything's fine between us and he's probably forgotten all about it. I don't want to damage our relationship, but I also don't want to have all of these feelings bottled up inside of me for the rest of my life. What should I do?
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dating your step-brother
Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 3:52 pm
How does it feel to date ur step-brother coz i have feelings for mine top and hoping he has the same for me
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do i seem jealous
Posted Wednesday August 15 2012, 10:30 pm
i hav a cousin and she just had a baby and my mom is always googoo over her and i guess im use to being the center of attention and i get frustrated. And like today i was done stairs tlking to my mom about my friend and how she took my idea from our blog and used it on hers and then my cousin the baby and a few other people walk in and then i got frustrated bcuz i didnt want to tlk to my mom wen she was holdin the baby and i dint want to tlk wen there was so much noise. it mite just b anger issues. please tell me what you think and thing tell me how i can deal with it
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Wife and I argue all the time
Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 11:11 pm
My wife and I have been married for over 14 years and have three sons. For about the past 2-3 years our relationship has been strained at best. We go through a cycle of fighting with each other, make up and then the next week start all over again! I travel for my job, so I am gone quite a bitof the time.
I get frustrated with her because I want to have sex when I come home, and most nights she says she is too tired. She doesn't like me touching her because she says my hands are too hot. Cuddling together is also nonexistant. Her always rejecting me is making me feel very unimportant and unloved by her. I have tried to add dirty talk, and even suggested some role play to spice up things, both of which she doesn't like. We...
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Sharing with family
Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 3:22 am
Hello all,
I have a question about how I feel about sharing certain things and how my parents approach it.
I was recently on a ten day vacation with my parents and my brother. We were all sharing one big hotel room, which is fine. However, my problem is that there are certain things I prefer not to share; such as my roll-on deodorant, my razor and also any of my lip products.
During this vacation, as we had a shared bathroom - my parents helped themselves to my razor; which I just hate and it really grosses me out. Without asking. When I mentioned it to them they just say "Don't be so fussy, we're family" and so on, but I really, really can't stand something like this. Nevertheless, they continued to u...
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My Mother is Slowly Killing Me! Please Read.
Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 2:23 am
I love my mother to death. She is one of the only two people who has loved me unconditionally my entire life, and the other one is not my dad. The problem is that the past few years, she's been so paranoid that I will do things I would never, ever do. When my unmarried cousin got pregnant while she was in college, I couldn't even mention my boyfriend without my mom telling me not to have sex or get pregnant. What was the real son of a b*#"! was that I started getting urinary tract infections a short time later, which my doctor said was because of this and that, but my mom was convinced it was because of sex. Now she's done something that I'm afraid will make things permanently awkward between us. I'm engaged to a wonderful man who my ...
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Cousins kissing
Posted Tuesday August 14 2012, 2:09 am
Well i liked my cousin and i got in contact with him we started talking and we got into that conversation that he liked me.the next time we talked he said would i be brave enough to kiss him and i said depends if you want to and he said he would . What can i do?
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my fav cousin
Posted Sunday August 12 2012, 4:27 pm
Im a preteen so I understand this might b a little weird for my age.Well I hav this cousin and shes like in her 20's . Well any ways shes my favorite cousin and we used to spend a lot of time together. But now that shes starting a family I cant spend any time with her and plus she lives in a different city than I do now. She haves a new born and i dont want to tell her that i feel like we dont spend any time together anymore. I just dont know what to do. And I hav no cousins my age to tlk to or to b my favorite cousin. I need some help plz and thank u
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How to get my mom to be nicer
Posted Saturday August 11 2012, 12:19 pm
My question is like this. Well, ok my mom is really strict about a lot of things and it's just so unfair and she can be mean sometimes. I want to know how to get her to be more relaxed and let me do more things. I've tried everything. I'm out of options. Please help.
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My dad is cheating on my mom, and my aunt told me not to tell anyone! What do I do?
Posted Friday August 10 2012, 11:47 pm
ok so i am 13 and my brother is 3. a year ago i found out on my dads phone that hes going on to dating websites and talking with other women. and before that i found condoms in his car droor. and i just think he goes to other womens house and you know, does it with them. i dont know what to do. i told my aunt but she told me not to tell anyone. i think when my brother grows up to be my age one day, i will tell him and discuss what to do about it together, but now what do you people think?
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Why does my dad treat me like this :(
Posted Friday August 10 2012, 9:18 am
I'm 14 to start off .
Okay , so My dad has been acting stranger towards me , ever since he found out I had a boyfriend which was like 1 year ago .(I don't have a boyfriend anymore cause I realize I need to focuse in life more) But anyways That changed him ? /: I don't know how . But it did ... I don't understand . He started treating me differently ... If I asked for something he tells me "your old enough , get it yourself" and me and him rarely even speak now. He comes back from work at night and he doesn't really talk to me . He gets mad at me for every single LITTLE thing ! When I wanna tell him something good ' he ignores me .. :( or he just says "that's great , but when are you going to clean this house or help yo...
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Parents dont feed me much and I am sick because of it
Posted Thursday August 9 2012, 4:56 pm
I always feel unwell because my parents barely feed me
im shaki g rightnow so its hard to type on this scresn
they havent seemed to care forb3 years and im salways in pain because of it, dizzy, sick, faint
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How to tell your mom about a guy you like
Posted Sunday August 5 2012, 7:31 pm
Okay, so i just recently broke up with my boyfriend of one month because I like this other guy. I met him through people on facebook and we have been talking ever since. We haven't met in person before but I realllllllly like him. We talk on the phone all the time and FaceTime. He wants to hangout with me and go to the movies, but I don't know how to tell my mom about it, and ask her. I really want to go with him and hangout just us to. I just need a convincing way to ask my mom so she'll say yes. I REALLY NEED HELP!
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