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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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friendsssssssss


Posted Monday August 1 2005, 10:38 pm

ok what do i do.... i dont like my current friends but i want to hang out with these to other girl emma n iris i mean i did hang out with them and we were like best friends and i said lets never fight and lets be best friends forever that didnt work ,,, they are the "popular girls in school" and i want to be friends with them cause i had SO much fun with them and we could like do anything and talk about anything unlike these friends i have now they FREAK OUT if someone is kissing on t.v. emma n iris always hang out with boys and thats something i want is some more guy friends too and if they saw like that someone kissing they would kiss which is so cute lol! so help meeeeeee please i might rate i dunno only if i get good answeres

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i like this guy i dont know


Posted Monday August 1 2005, 4:39 pm

hey guys im 13 and i met this guy over my friends site. she knows him and he has sent me a pic of him and my best friend says it's him. i think hes cool but he just doesnt see, like my type. should i go for it or just stay as friends. btw he is 15

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Posted Monday August 1 2005, 3:30 pm

one of best friends was in a fight with my other best friend and then now that there friends shes all with her now.. thats fucked up.. i wanna stay her friend and i dk how to say anything without getting the other friend mad and then end up wit no friends instead of one and then one fake one.. at least fake at the moment.. help.

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:-(


Posted Monday August 1 2005, 2:35 pm

Hello. Well, when I make presentations at school or read a paper to the class, I always get nervous. I can't help it. I've tried everything: looking at the wall, looking at the people's noses, practicing a million times the night before, etc. My question is, are there any pills that help with that, or help with nervousness? If there are, are they expensive and do they actually really work? Please help soon because school is coming up. Thank you.

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friends far apart


Posted Monday August 1 2005, 3:13 am

My friend Jennifer and I have been good friends since 7th grade but our freshmen year we became really far apart. I got a boyfriend and she felt rejected. Well I tried to reconnect with her hear the last few months and now she has a boyfriend. I invite her places with me and she always comes up with rediculious excuses to not go. I invited her to a concert with me and she didn't go because her boyfriend came to her house. I never blew her off like this. We have our old conservations on the phone and talk at lest 2 hours every other day. I just dont know what to say or do. I want to go to the old ways.

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i have a friend


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 10:05 pm

i have this friend and she got sexually abused... i don't know exactly what happened but im really worried about her. she hasn't talked at all to me and shes acting like every part of her is gone! i dont know what i can do to make her feel ANY better. i have no idea what this man did to her but it messed her up really bad! she doesnt eat, sleep, or talk! im really worried!


What should i do!

signed,
brittany

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Im so confused


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 7:25 pm

I move here about 11 months ago,and i made friends. Everything was good until the ending of the year. My friends became friends with this girl,and she seemed to make them not pay attension to me,not that she didnt like me,she just would push me away. And i got all sad about that.Well i gave up being there friends,i dont know why.I've been longing to move back to my city and my mom said she would.I keep avioding my so called "frineds" here any only playing with the ones from my old city. I find it easyer to have fun. But there's this grudge and i dont know why i have it,im starting to get really depressed and longing to move back everday. How can i fix this?!!? (no matter what i am moving back though...my mom is decideing and if sh...

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2nd Choice?


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 6:45 pm

I have a friend who says I am her "best friend". Well, lately she hasn't been inviting me places. Like, she is always with other people. I have caught on that everytime she invites me out her other friends are busy. Do you think I am her second choice or maybe I am just overreacting? I have talked to her about it but she makes excuses.



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Pregnant Friend


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 11:33 am

Okay here is the scoop. I have a friend "Tory" who is pregnant. She didn't tell me her aunt did because her grandma kicked her out when she found out that "Tory" was pregnant. Her aunt wants me to talk to her but I can't bring it up until she tells me. But then again I don't think she wants to tell me because It is like a competition thing between us in her eyes, she always compares things. But I don't look at our friendship like that. But anyways when she tells me what can I say to make her feel like I will be there for her, which I will but I still don't know what to say Please HELP

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weed and pills..


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 11:07 am

sorry this is going to be long... but i really need help!! me and this guy (we'll call him chris) have been "together" i guess you could say for about 3 months.... well last night i found out my best friend broke a truce we made a while ago... we both said we'd never smoke weed, and she did all bc she got a new bf...well i told chris about it and he ended up talkin to her online... she told him i took 6 sleeping pills earlier... (which i told her, bc i wanted her to know how i felt) (i really only took 1 tho bc i havnt slept in 4 days... im an insomniac) well chris got really upset and yelled at me about how stupid it was... (he asked about the pills and i told him 6 bc i didnt want him to tell her otherwise) so he screamed at me ...

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Rocky Friendship - Pregnant Friend


Posted Sunday July 31 2005, 10:01 am

OK...

My friend has been seeing her boyfriend for just over a month now. For two weeks they didn't even hold hands, they were so shy, but all of a sudden they kissed in the cinema and suddenly they are 'so in love' and on the same day as they kissed, they went to third base.

Last week, they had sex (in the WOODS!) and my friend is pretty sure she is pregnant. However, she is sayign she is 'bored' of her boyfriend and wants to 'move on'. I'm sorry but this is so stupid!! You don't sleep with someone you're 'bored' of and never really liked in the first place!!

She also wants an abortion.

First of all, I am angry at her for the whole 'oh I'm bored with you let's shag!' thing. I am al...

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just friends , i think???


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 11:58 pm

o.k. i have this friend kieran and well hes really nice and all but i know he likes me!!!hes asked me if i wanted 2 go 2 the movies with him and i said that i had to go to my couzins house(which i didnt) Im mean i dont want him to get the wronge idea HE IS ONLY A FRIEND i dont like him i dont hes only a friend what can i do ??????
i dont want to hurt his feelings or anything i just dont want him to get the wronge idea!!!! should i go out with him and what if he asks me if i like him??? what should i say"hey well we are only friends" its not that easy!!!!! im just so confused my friends tell me to follow my heart and well maybe thats not good enough!!!sigh

****soooo confused*****sigh

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ummmmm


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 11:49 pm

I'm 14/f. I liked this one guy last year and things didnt really work out. But we're still really good friends and all. During last year he started liking this other girl but now he sees her as somebody totally different but he keeps askig me for advice on what to do. I just got done with talking to him on aim. Before he went he said see ya at skool or before. I said hopefully before. And he said how true. And all last year my friends said that we were going to hook up and they acted as if it already happened. Now whenever i talk to him i feel like something might happen but i'm willing to wait for it which is really weird for me. My question is, from what's happened, are we going to hook up eventually or always stay friends??? I'm confuseddd...

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my friends (long question)


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 11:43 pm

okay... i have a bunch of friends but like NONE of them hang out together. i have two reallllllly good friends that kinda hang out w/each other but not as much. and i have 2 friends that me and them were like best friends in 6th grade and this year kinda seperated (in 7th) (i'm going into 8th) but we were still friends. and when i was hanging out w/other people the called me traitor and backstabber. I really want to be better friends w/them but i don't know i can please them b/c i have other friends too. i have another friend who is totally possesive and wont let me like hang w/other people she gets po ed if i don't talk to her ONE day! and thinks i've become racist or something. then i have some other friends and so like all together i hav...

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my friend


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 11:23 pm

one of my friends is kinda higher class then me and she lives in my neighborhood thats how i know her. she goes to a private school and has an ipod, a tv, 2 computers, a palm pilot, has gone through 4 cellphones in the past 3 years, and got a laptop in 3rd grade. she gets Louis Vuitton and Coach and Prada. I gt some stuff like that too but not like her. her parents give her oney when she goes to the mall and my parents don't i kinda feel weird when i have like $20 and she has like $100. is there any simple jobs around the house i can do to get spare money? i do my laundry and feed the cats and change their litter... (sorry so long)

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Eating disorder


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 8:30 pm

I've had an eating disorder for lets say longer than a year. (anorexia) I finally got over it this summer. I'm worried about school though and how my friends will react because i wasn't eating lunch all last year. Will they make a big deal out of it and will i end up starting it ALL OVER AGAIN????? I RATE HIGH

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Best Friends Boy Friend


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 12:29 pm

my friend goes to a different church then i do and she met this guy there named cory, and they see each other alot and i rele want to meet him and my friend likes him alot and even though i dont know cory i still like him i have dreams about him and i cant control them. there not like normal dreams there more like im in some kind of novel and cory is the man of my dreams and we have sex and everythings okay im just rele confused about my feelings. I like Cory alot from the way he`s describes and like what he does but i dont want to hurt my best friends feelings and i promised her that i wouln't steal him from her. (guys tend to like me more than my friend) So can u plz help me and dont say anything like thats retarded or stuff like that i r...

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is it to late


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 3:10 am

i have so many guy friends not boyfirends but just friends and well no one will ask me out and i think its because i have so many boys as friends abd i asked one guy out and he told me that he would not go out with me because of all my friends and that theres a good chance thats i could cheet on him i was so mad 8( and sad because i knoew that i would never do that and he still never went out with me im going in to a higher grade but its time for me to have a boyfriend but with all my guyfriends i dont think they would .should i stop being friends with all the guys and start acting more girlie or the boyfriends aren't worth it

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dont know what to decide


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 1:06 am

ok tomorro im going to a softball game in long island and jinnie finch is going to be there (pro pitcher) My uncle is driving down there..he can only fit 5 people..i want to bring 2 friends but i can only bring one. I guss i shouldnt have done this but i mentioned that *maybe* i could take them..(this is when i thought we would be taking our car which can hold 8) Both sounded excited but one seemed a little more excited than the other. how do i decide who to bring?im leaning toward the one who seemed more excited..of course it will get around to my other friend..i dont want her getting mad..what should i say to her to make sure she knows i really wanted both to go? my friend who seemed more excited missed out on a trip we took to an amuseme...

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Forgotten again


Posted Saturday July 30 2005, 12:02 am

I'm 14/f. Me and my best friend are in a big fight. She blocked me on aim and refuses to talk about me when my other friends bring up me. I messed up a lot of things last year and i understand why she's mad at me. But we were always there for each other. And when i went through this, she told me that i should get some help because she obviously wasn't helping me. She would then sign off (on aim). I've tried everything to atleast get her to forgive me. I'm not that interested in a friendship. I just hate having people mad at me. Any ideas???
I'll rate high for GOOD advice.

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