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What should I do with my stubborn gf?


Posted Tuesday January 29 2019, 3:30 am

I'm male, 23, going 24 soon, I'm in the military. I met my gf online and we've been dating online for a year. I'm finally separating from the military and my gf and I want to get together and start a life together. We are both inexperienced as members of society, that's why we planned to move in with a friend and his wife who are more than willing to share a place with us. But my gf is so stubborn. She keeps changing her mind and going back on our agreements, now she wants to stay where she is. We could get a place there but it would be inconvenient for our friends who will have to pack up and move across the country. What should I do?

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Do I really like her?


Posted Sunday January 27 2019, 6:07 pm

I'm a freshman in high school, a girl. I've been friends with this girl for a little under a year now, and we're good buds. We've hung outside of school a couple of times, it's always been fun. Recently, I've been feeling very fond of her, and want to be around her more often for some reason. I've never had a bf/gf before, let alone a big crush. Do I like her romantically or do I just want to be closer friends with her?? I have no idea. Any advice from your experience?

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Killing myself


Posted Saturday January 26 2019, 5:47 pm

I need help. I've tried to kill myself 3 times in the past week and it's not working. I tried to hang myself the first two times and i can't find anything strong enough to bare my weight. I tried to overdose even though I knew it almost never works. Now I'm getting sick and I feel horrible and definitely not dead. I've told all my friends what I was going to try to do. Said my goodbyes. I can't deal with telling them that I failed in even that. I've cut myself for a really long time. I've never been diagnosed with anything but I also haven't told anything to my parents. I just am confused on what I even do now.

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I need to make a decision


Posted Friday January 25 2019, 10:52 pm

Should I save up for expensive shoes, or just buy cheaper ones now.

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Should I bother with the job interview?


Posted Friday January 25 2019, 2:36 pm

Hi so, I'm gonna make this as short as possible. I'm a freshman and just got called for an on-campus job. Potential problem is, I'm taking 18 credit hours/5 classes (ungodly amount, I know). I'm just finishing up my first year core stuff (Bio 2, Chem 1, Pre Calc, all with labs and American lit and music appreciation online). I took most of them in high school. This is the first and the last time I'll be doing this, as a result my remaining semesters will be lighter. I just wanna get some experience in the workplace for my resume (1st job) & extra cash. So should I go ahead and nail the interview or pass it up? Thanks.

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Yes or No opinion


Posted Thursday January 24 2019, 11:36 pm

My friend started dating a girl who he has likes for over a year. They started dating and broke up recently. He thinks there is a chance they can get back together, and doesn't know the real reason they broke up. While he thinks there is a chance to get back together, the girl says she lost interest in him. Should I tell him that the girl is not interested in him anymore?

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First Time With a Guy


Posted Thursday January 24 2019, 8:54 pm

Hello. I'm 24 years old, a bisexual male, and I've never had sex with a guy before. Have had two previous sexual partners, both women, and both long-term relationships. I've been curious about being with a guy for quite some time.

My issue is this: I've been going about finding a one-time hookup or maybe FWB situation on Tinder because I can do so easily and anonymously, and there are plenty of people there that are not necessarily looking for something long-term or serious. I've tried this a few times and every time I've met people, but as soon as I start discussing with them and it becomes real and actually happening, I get scared and nervous and I back off, only to try again some months later, and rinse and repeat.
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I lied to my parents and they found out!


Posted Thursday January 24 2019, 1:54 pm

I didn’t feel good at all today and i wanted my dad to come pick me up. He told me to go to the nurse and get my temperature checked first and i lied to him and told Him that I did, which i didn’t. When I walked to the office he asked me so you’re telling me that you went to the nurse and your temp was 100 degrees” i tried to cover up my lie but then the office assistant called the nurse and she said that she saw nobody that day. I knew immediately that i was busted and burst into tears. I felt so guilty and scared for the consequences. He told me in the car to never lie to him again which i immediately agreed with considering how scared i was. He dropped me off at home and headed back to work. I’m extremely anxious for my...

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HELP! MY BEST FRIENDS ARE FRENEMIES!!!


Posted Wednesday January 23 2019, 9:50 pm

Dear Reader,
Hello. Right now, in middle school, I have 3 friends. We used to hang out a lot together, but one of my friends don't want to hang out with my other two friends. My friend is sensitive and kind, so I know how this feels for her. My other two friends are crazy fun and they cuss. A lot. I really want to hang out with my friend, but every time I say hi to her or stop by, my other two friends follow me. I just really want to hang out with my friend alone. I'm not sure if my friend dislikes me, because every time I ask her if she's mad at me, she says no. I love all my friends dearly and I do not want to break our friendship. Should I be her friend, or should I not be her friend and be my other friends' friend?

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Not sure what's going on


Posted Wednesday January 23 2019, 1:22 am

I am interested in a guy however I am not too sure about it. We are in the dance community together and over the years I have caught him looking at me lot and still do onto this day. We do not know each other very well but have talked a little ever since I have signed up for his classes. I think we might be around the same age. In the past, I have overheard him say how attractive I am and he thought I was stuck up. With this being said, I immediately cringed when I overheard him say this then realized maybe he wants me to talk to him. At dances he purposely dances by me. In class once I had a little conversation with him and quickly realized he didn't reciprocate. I was immediately turned off then told him I might have to leave early....

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Coming out


Posted Monday January 21 2019, 5:15 pm

I need help with coming out to my Christian family, they are against lgbtq and really homophobic and don't accept any lgbtq and always say that it's wrong, but I completely disagree and need help coming out, so how should I approach it

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2 guys got mad at me for literally no reason whatsoever


Posted Monday January 21 2019, 1:08 pm

Ok, so I’m walking out of school as I do everyday, and these 2 guys (let’s call them K and M) are in front of me. Then K turns around and starts laughing towards M asking him to turn around as well. M turns around and tells me to fuck off because I’m apparently being a weirdo. K asks me why I’m looking at M, and whether it’s because I’m attracted to him or not (I’m a heterosexual Male), I shake my head, but they still accuse me of being weird and ask me to give away even though I’m simply making my way out of school. Cunts.

How do I avoid this from happening again?

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Shyness


Posted Monday January 21 2019, 11:33 am

I’m a seventeen year old whos a senior in high school I suffer from a bad case I’ve social anxiety it’s my last year of high school and it’s almost over and I want to get if my shell and make some friends but I’ve tried everything I try to focus on other people, I try to make eye contact and smile at people but I just ends up being creepy, I try to compliment people’s outfits and ask questions, I even take medicine for anxiety but nothing works. I don’t know what to do I know people aren’t really focusing on me and they are focused on there own lives but I can’t help being anxious. If you could give me some advice I would really appreciate it

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My family can’t accept the way I want to look


Posted Sunday January 20 2019, 10:07 pm

For a year know I have wanted a boys haircut! But my mom will never let me get one. She can’t accept that this is the way I want to look (more like a boy). How can I talk to her so that she will understand where I’m coming from, and let my get my hair cut. My mom isn’t very gentil and I feel she doesn’t care about my happiness. Help!

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Help me ASAP!


Posted Friday January 18 2019, 11:04 pm

Hi! (:
I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. A. Couple months ago I cheated on him because I felt that he wasnt what was best for me and i wanted to try something new. Subconsciously i know i should've broken up with him first but I didnt. When i told him i said he DIDNT have to stay with me if he didnt want to. We both agreed to work things out and now hes started HEAVLY drinking and is verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusive. A couple times hes threatened to hit me. I am very scared and honestly exhausted from everything he has put me through not just since me cheating but even before then. He manipulates me into staying with him! I NEED HELP!!

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How can I get a job as a phlebotomist? Please help.


Posted Friday January 18 2019, 5:41 pm

I contacted the red cross for volunteer opportunities and they said that they only hire phlebotomist. I've applied and applied to numerous places and I keep getting denied. They want people with experience and I only have my classroom experience and my 2 week hospital externship. Its not enough. I'm getting declined by blood banks and everywhere else.

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Popularity of forums - are they dead


Posted Wednesday January 16 2019, 7:51 am

I had to make a pause in playing games as I had my university exams.
After I've returned I fill a bit discomposed.
Most of the forums I used to love a year ago are dead now. I can't communicate with other people there, because no one actually is online!
Is that true and forums are dying? Am I getting old and young men communicate somewhere else on the Internet now?

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MySQL Access Denied for user ‘root’@’localhost’


Posted Wednesday January 16 2019, 2:45 am

I've installed MySQL 5.7 on Ubuntu 18.04 after the installation it shows ERROR 1698 (28000): Access denied for user 'root'@'localhost, how to resolve this please let me know?

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Parents not understanding my happiness - Forcing me to give up my love


Posted Monday January 14 2019, 6:25 pm

Since February last year, I was engaged to a man I got to know through my parents and some mutual friends of them. And my parents were initially happy about this proposal (The proposal came in November 2017). However, after getting to know the guy and his family, and the differences between us, my parents became a bit hostile and negative towards him and his family but they did not do so very openly. It was more behind their back, telling me all the bad things, but they treated them very well on the front and have always given the boy and his family much more than they have given us. However, it all started to harmonize at a point even though there were tons of communication issues especially with setting the wedding date (Me and the boy wa...

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How do I start a friendship with a girl 9 years older than me


Posted Monday January 14 2019, 11:27 am

18/F
So I recently started working at this shop. There are 5 other people that work there (different shifts) and I'm the youngest. I've worked a few times with the one girl (27 years old) and I didn't really like her that much because she was rude to my other friend that works there. Over the past few days of working together she's become better and I've been talking to her but yesterday she had a panic attack at work because she saw this guy and she ended up telling me he raped her when she was younger. I had gone through sexual abuse for 4 years so apart of me felt like we related a lot and now I really want to be friends with her. How do I start a friendship with her since she's 9 years older than me? I know for her she might not ...

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