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Are these RED FLAGS? My new BF is making me question everything
Posted Friday April 26 2019, 4:30 pm
I'm a late-30s woman with an unsuccessful dating history. I've been seeing a man for two months that I was initially THRILLED about - he's age-appropriate (early 40s), fun, sweet, silly and handsome. But only 8 weeks into things, he has begun canceling plans often - four or five times in just the last few weeks. It's really bothering me.
He always has a legitimate excuse for cancelling - a bad cold that came on suddenly, an old friend popping into town, forgetting about tax day, etc. When we're together it feels wonderful and authentic - I don't doubt his affection! But his flakiness means we only see each other once a week, at the most. I'm almost 40 and lonely - I'm looking for something serious, not someone I see every 10...
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Parents won’t let me save money?
Posted Thursday April 25 2019, 11:43 pm
Any tips on what to do about parents that don’t let me save money? Basically when I first got a job my bank account was joint with my mom, it was joint because she told me it’ll be easier for her to send money to my school. Little did I know it was a tactic, whenever I got paid from my job I didn’t know how much I was making because my mom had my debit card she said she wanted us to save money, so I thought. So basically as I was making the money my mom was taking out the money to pay the bills ultimately I finally caught her when we went to the bank together and the bank teller gave me the receipt and my balance was less than 100 dollars when I’ve been working for 30 hours a week. Anyways long story short I got my debit card from h...
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WHYD IT TAKE SO LONG 2 RECEIVED MY MONEY??
Posted Monday April 22 2019, 6:36 pm
I was discharged from work 3.5 weeks ago and I get paid weekly...for some reason I hadn't received my final paycheck as law states, I should've received it the following week after my discharge....welp, I called my office three times and left vms concerning this issue.. and no one called me back....so today I called corporate and filed a lost check/never received form and informed the office that the site I worked at is very unprofessional as to not returning my phone calls concerning my paycheck/money that I earned....lo and behold after nearly a month goes by my check is in the mail today...was I wrong for informing corporate of the issue or should I have waited even longer??
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IRS mail drama help me plese. thanks
Posted Monday April 22 2019, 2:22 pm
My sister uses my address for irs mailings without my permission, how can i get that changed as I do not have ss numbers and signatures for the 8822 IRS change of address form?
she doesn't live at my house nor should she be using my address for her personal documents and she doesn't live at my house nor did she ask me permission...I don't want to have anything to do with the IRS when it has nothing to do with me.....ive confronted her and she wont fill out the proper form .....I would need her and her spouses ss numbers and signatures...and they wont sign anything nor provide the ss numbers....
she came and picked up the letters but I still don't want the continuous mail coming to my home and she nor ...
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i don't know what's wrong with me
Posted Sunday April 21 2019, 8:43 pm
20/F here. I've been struggling with my mental health for the past three years or so, but I can't give a name to it.
At first, it was a lot of depressive feelings. I saw my doctor after about a year, he told me I had dysthymia and basically told me to get exercise, take vitamin D, and see a counselor. I already had a counselor but wasn't getting a lot out of it. It felt good to talk to her for the time I was there, but as soon as I walked out of her office, everything went back the way it was.
I had some pretty bad insomnia, and had messed up eating habits (sometimes eating way too much, sometimes hardly eating, but never purposely starving myself).
I had a couple panic attacks which terrified me...
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I need help being confident and not unhappy all the time.
Posted Saturday April 20 2019, 7:56 pm
I recently came out to my parents as a lesbian and they didn't like it. Ever since then, they alienate me by telling me I should get a boyfriend and whenever I mention friends that are boys, they immediately make it about a relationship. Also, I do not feel comfortable in my own body. I hate how I look. I want my hair to be extremely short but I'm not allowed to cut it like that or else my parents are scared that I'll be seen as a "boy". Which I really don't mind. I hate my hair. I also can't be around friends without feeling sad or feeling like they hate me and stuff. It's weird. I want to get over that so badly, but no matter how hard I try, nothing works.
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How do I get my mom to leave me alone?
Posted Tuesday April 16 2019, 7:35 pm
So I'm gonna make this quick. My mom keeps trying to force me to go to church. For reference, I'm 19 years old, in college, and live at home. I've been away from church from the past month mainly because I like just being home on the weekends, and catching up on homework, studying, sleep, or TV. My mom is trying to force me to go again. The only sold reason she can give me is that, people at church keep asking about me, and she can't keep lying for me. I never told her to. Me resting at home is the truth. I couldn't give two shits about people at church, they don't pay my tuition bill and neither does my mom. So as far as I'm concerned, I should be the one calling the shots. How do I get my mom to just leave me be? Thanks.
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Imvu next wont let me purchase items
Posted Monday April 15 2019, 3:34 pm
Every time i'm trying to buy something, it says
"We are unable to process your purchase, try again later" I waited a week and still says the same thing, please help me figure it out.
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paid account
Posted Monday April 15 2019, 1:37 am
Hello I made a payment for my account and still I didn't get a gold star in order to change my name. I re-registered so that I could give advise.
please help.
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I dont know If I like him!
Posted Saturday April 13 2019, 10:16 pm
I have this one guy friend I hang out with a ton. I have a lot of guy friends, more than girls which is typically weird bc I'm a girl. He's super nice to me, and a ton of people in class tease us bc were r that close! Whenever some1 in class askes "Are you two dating yet?" He never denies it or agrees! I get super jealous when he has a girlfriend, but I don't know if I have a crush! Please help!
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How to stop stressing about an exam?
Posted Saturday April 13 2019, 11:15 am
So I know I passed the exam but definitely not with a high mark, I hate talking about exams with my friends after we’re done because we put different answers. However I’ve checked the answers I’ve put on the exams through the professors lectures and my answers were wrong. Now I’m stressing out because I know my mark will drop but I don’t want it to drop more than 10% the professor said she would never bell curve. The exam had so many short answers worth 5 marks and 10 marks I know I got two 5 mark questions wrong, because one of them I only gave one answer when I should’ve at least put 3, but I couldn’t figure it out. the 10 marked ones I answered it the best I can but I feel like I should’ve put more. There was even some m...
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2 year hookup
Posted Saturday April 13 2019, 11:00 am
Hi! So I would just like some feedback on my current situation. Im 26 he’s 26. About two years ago I matched with this guy on bumble we really hit it off. The first time we hung out I went over his house we didn’t hook up we just enjoyed our time together. Months go by and we will Snapchat here and there but that’s it. It’s mostly sexting. We ended up hooking up one New Years and it was literally the best sex I ever had. When we are together it is this amazing bond and it’s great but once I leave his house it’s like I don’t exist again. I told one of my friends obviously on how much I like this guy and she went and followed him on instagram and now they like each other’s pics constantly. I tried expressing my concerns to her...
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Going On A Trip
Posted Friday April 12 2019, 12:43 am
Hello. My name is Brian Hardy. I am twenty-six years old and I live in Danville, California. I am autistic and I suffer from anxiety. My anxiety is so high that I often annoy my parents. I would like to please discuss my anxiety and my worries in this letter. My parents are going to Wichita and Las Vegas in late April/early May to attend my cousin’s wedding. I cannot attend the wedding because I have class and I am in the process of graduating from community college. However, I am feeling anxious because I am going to be home alone for five days. Despite thIs, I am still looking forward to a weekend without my parents. Because I am autistic and suffer from anxiety issues, I easily become overwhelmed with anxiety. Now every moment of my li...
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**I'M DESPERATE**Middle School Report Card
Posted Thursday April 11 2019, 11:11 pm
Dear Reader,
Hi. I'm in middle school, and I'm the kind of student that usually gets good grades. We are about to get our 3rd-trimester process report card. I know what you might be thinking, "It's not even a real report card!". But my parents are really strict about my grades and education, so they might flip when they find out. I know my grades already, from PowerSchool (an online thing to check your current grades). I got an A, 2 B's, and 1 D. The D is my main problem!
Today, I had asked my mom something about my grades. Guess what she said? "If it's not an A, it's bad." But she doesn't seem to understand that a C is average, a B is above average, and an A is excellent. I'm not excellent in every way! T...
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Secret Drug use
Posted Thursday April 11 2019, 2:38 pm
I have been in a 15 year old relationship. My 54 year old husband has been caught doing many things that I have let go but eat away at me still. He went on a 7 day trip to Vegas Yesterday. The night before, he said suddenly at an odd time, I'm going to go the gym to get in one last workout. He was gone 2 hours.
Turns out he lied. He went to a relatives house and bought drugs (adderall). This is actually a shock because I didn't know he was doing this. (He swears this is the first time) I said why? He said he feels tired all the time and doesn't want to let his friends down as they are in a tournament after winning first place locally. I FREAKED. I am losing all feelings for him now. I resent him and his lies. He is a good man most of...
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Do hospitals pay for their employees to go back to school to pursue nursing
Posted Wednesday April 10 2019, 9:40 pm
If the employee is a PCT can their employer help them advance? How could I find that kind of program?
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Is being born female is punishment? Does it get better?
Posted Wednesday April 10 2019, 3:06 am
This is... definitely going to sound dramatic, but I’d really like to get different point of views and advice on this.
I am a girl, almost 19. I feel like the older I get the more I despise being female. I’ve struggled with dysphoria since I hit puberty, but I’m not transgender. It’s weird. The older I get and the more I mesh into adult society, the more I feel like my existence is a complete burden and I wish I could’ve been born a man. I hate sobbing over nothing, bleeding, getting creeped on and grabbed, and being weaker.
I tried having a conversation about this with my dad, and he doesn’t really get it. He’s never wished to be the opposite gender, and asked me if being female really felt like...
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I hate a girl In my friend group that I am living with next year
Posted Tuesday April 9 2019, 10:03 pm
Hi,
I need some advice on my current situation. Next school year I am living with a girl (this upcoming june the lease starts) I am going to be living with my friend group and this girl I hate, lets call her sara. Sara is very egotistical and constant bragging about herself. She is an extreme control freak and thinks she is always right. She is also very manipulative and I recently found at she has been saying really mean things about my appearance and intelligence (she is not herself in anyway perfect either). After finding this out I couldn’t imagine having to speak to her ever again, she is abroad with my best friend so I haven’t confronted her about it in order to protect my friend.Myself and my friend both do not lik...
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Exfriend dating my crush...how do i get over him and not hate this girl.
Posted Monday April 8 2019, 8:48 pm
So my crush has a girlfriend, whom I was friends with through middle school who would isolate one person out of the friend group to herself and needed attention a lot. Anyways I know this girl for about 5 years( now were sophomores) throughout high school we separated and were not friends anymore, and I felt relieved that she wasn't my friend anymore (I know sounds horrible) but this year we started talking a bit since my sister would force me to go to these outings with a group with her.
Now she is dating my crush, that I liked, she doesn't know this. They literally just meet on a group chat. even the girl admitted about two weeks ago to another friend of mine that she didn't like him like that, but he asked her out..... I'm just sh...
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Recommendation for holistic medicines.
Posted Sunday April 7 2019, 5:52 pm
I'd like to stop using OTC medicines. I'd like a recommendation for a book that has great reviews and since I'm new to this any advice is greatly appreciated.
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