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My sister said she wants to kill me?
Posted Monday May 20 2013, 2:49 am
(I'm 13 and my sister is 15)
This morning, me and my sister were in our living room and we were arguing over some random thing and she threw a pillow at me. I said "Yeah, because a pillow hurts me" and she said "You were lucky it was a pillow and not something else. I could've slapped you." Then she said she wanted to kill me.
Will she try to kill me? She's done things to me in my sleep in the past before (That water cup prank, putting stuff on my face, etc.) so now I'm terrified that she'll try something. What should I do?
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so do you actually think
Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 11:44 pm
there is way I can convince my sister to report to jail or to calm her?
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Engagement Question
Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 9:29 pm
I asked a question earlier about how I didn't know if I should get engaged before my sister got married. By the way, I should have made it clear that I don't want to get engaged for the attention. I was saying that I ideally would like to wait so that she can have her own attention and so can I, but I don't know if that can work out. I came up with an idea a short while ago that I hope will help the situation. My sister just got engaged and is getting married in June of 2014, so what if I waited until February or so until I got engaged. Actually I don't know when my boyfriend will propose to me, but I guess I could talk to him about this and see how he feels. If we did that, then my sister could be in the spotlight by herself for almost a y...
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What would you think if I got engaged before my sister got married?
Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 1:27 am
There's not much more to my question than what's in the title. My sister is getting married in June of 2014 and I'm thinking I might get married around that time as well. Like in August maybe. There's a reason why it may be important that I get married by that time, but I'm worried that people will think I just did it to steal my sister's thunder. Also, it's my dream to get married married in this church at the Grand Canyon, which I'm afraid people will think of as a real thunder stealing attempt. Also, I'd kind of like my own thunder. I don't get much at all. I got a tooth infection in February that was so bad I had to go to the emergency room and I liked it because it got me some attention. It's not a good enough reason to not get married...
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My sister is saying she will run away to avoid going to jail what to do?
Posted Friday May 17 2013, 2:11 pm
my 21 year old sister has to go to jail for a year for a hit and run while driving under influence. She has to go next week. She told me she is going to run away so she doesn't have to go. This seems silly to me because I don't know where she will go but it looks like she might be serious. What can I say to talk her out of it, also should I tell someone? I am close to her and don't want to betray her you know. If I tell them what could they do?
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I need some opinions on my friends family!
Posted Monday May 13 2013, 2:40 pm
I need some opinions!
Okay so I have this friend, Chloe.
She has a little sister and an older brother. She's 15. Her brother is 16 and her sister is 11
Then she has 2 half brothers and one step brother.
I'm actually confused of her family tree
People think it's really crazy and not normal cause her dad got married twice apparently.
And now her mum and her dad are living together while her dads ex wife is living with her boyfriend that she has..
She's really upset cause people bully her cause of this!
What do you guys say?
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Dad always insulting me
Posted Monday May 13 2013, 12:09 am
I know both my parents want the best of me but they're always so insulting and they're always comparing me to other children. I'm 20 years old and a college senior and for all I can remember, I've never heard my parents tell me they're proud of me. All my dad tells me is that I'm a disappointment. If not to my face, my parents still talk. My dad tell me I have a lazy mind with no motivation. Yet my dad says that I don't talk to him nor tell him what problems I'm facing. If they get mad at me over a specific situation, they never let it go. Every time I get another insulting lecture from my dad, the same situation is brought up. I got the courage once to tell him that he's so negative all the time to me but he turned it around to use it agai...
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my boyfriend lives 4212 miles away, i need to tell my mom...
Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 6:03 pm
F/high school age
my boyfriend lives in another country (4212 miles away). we've been together almost 3 months, we Skype everyday, and obviously we are an online relationship. i KNOW hes my soul mate.
..my mother is a strict christian lady and she has told me multiple times "no talking to strangers online" (as if i was 13!!) she always talks to me about molesters and men whom rape and hurt young woman and they draw them in through the internet,she asumes any guy on the internet is there to hurt girls (or something)
i know that if she met him she would love him,... but what do i say? how? shes a very loving person and she trusts me... but no guys on the internet... i know im in over my head, but if i didn't w...
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Harassment
Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 2:36 pm
This is long, I apologize
I have veen with my husband for 5 years abd when we first met things were good until I met his mother... she from the start had a problem with me and portrayed me as being the women who was coming between her and her son. She has tried to break us up countless times, called us 25+ times a day, left nasty voicemails...we both changed our numbers and moved because it became unbearable. We move...then 2 years later we decide to try again a d forgive her so we wrote her a letter. She wrote back again indicating her son atopped talking to her bwacause of me etc. No, Her son stopped talking to her because well several reasons... she was on drugs, in and out of rehab and lost several apartm...
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my niece has an online boyfriend
Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 11:57 pm
my niece let's call her Kat she is only 12 years old she told me that she has an online boyfriend and she isn't even allowed to date until she is 16 I mean she is 12. she doesn't live with her mom she lives with me and my mom . could she be doing this for attention because she doesn't live with her mom. also she has other behaviors I am concerned about she's always talking about how she drinks and is always talking about boys. I have caught her smoking ciggerates already what should I do I am only 16
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If a parent goes to jail should they automatically lose the right to be a p
Posted Friday May 10 2013, 12:59 am
parent to their child?
y wife and mother of my thirteen year old daughter is in jail for a year for forgery charges. I wonder what this means now for the relationship between her and her daughter. I guess most people would take their kid and keep as far away as possible but I am not sure. Obviously she did the wrong thing and should serve her punishment but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions, She also never did anything bad at all before this. Also, her mother is showing regret and no defense at what she did and has admitted to being a bad influence to her daughter so that is why I am still willing to stick by her. She never did anything like this ...
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Is it inappropriate to talk to my daughter's boyfriend?
Posted Thursday May 9 2013, 11:10 am
I am really at a loss her. My adult daughter has two children and is divorced. She has been seeing a nice young man off and on for a couple of years. I contacted him by text one weekend to ask if he knew if her boys had bought something for her for a special occasion. If not, I was going to take them shopping. He answered my question and that was the end of it. Well, now she's told me that it's inappropriate for me to contact her boyfriend without her knowledge. I explained what had taken place but she insisted I was in the wrong and must respect her boundaries. Was that inappropriate?
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do
Posted Wednesday May 8 2013, 3:33 pm
do you have any idea how being in jail for about a year could change or affect a person. It could be hurtful, but looking at the other side it could maybe help make that person stronger or be a learning opportunity
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My dad hates me! How can I get my dad to love me?
Posted Monday May 6 2013, 6:48 pm
Why does my dad hate me, and how can I get him to love me?
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My husband doesn't have many feelings and it hurts.
Posted Monday May 6 2013, 12:43 pm
I don't know how to fix my family. We have a 23 yr old son who has aspergers and my husband refuses to understand anything about him. We were joking around the other day and then we were going to go on a walk when my son sat down to put his shoes on the dog jumped in his lap. My husband went over and took the dog by the scruff and the dog yelped so when he tried to move the dog again my son put his arm up and was going to put the dog down himself but my husband wouldn't let him and kept swatting his arm down. My husband then shoved my son and he hit his head into the wall. My son left the house for the night and I said my husband needed to apologize but he says its my house I can do what I want and he isn't going to stop me. I see it as...
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yes
Posted Monday May 6 2013, 1:48 am
also, someone said to use the "positives" of this experience and mentioned the following
-they said seeing the inside of a real jail would actually be a good experience for my daughter
-said my wife can use it as a learning experience for herself as well. Also, they said her being in jail will give her more credibility when talking about the consequences of bad choices. Well that is an interesting way of seeing it
what do you think of these
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I don't want to lose my dad
Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 11:06 pm
My dad is one of the greatest people I know. We have had our times. I used to call him "the little ball of fire" because he's a small man but when he's angry... He's the scary kind of angry. He doesn't hit anyone but he does know how to raise his voice and people are afraid of him whenever he does. Yeah, he has anger problems but he's also someone very kind.
I remember he used to spoil me and my sister when we were younger. We would wake up every morning and see a bag of Snicker Balls, Hershey's, or some sort of candy on our desk. He did our laundry, he cooked, he would clean whenever our mom was out of the country. He took care of us. If there was something wrong with my car, he would try to fix it himself and watc...
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Horrible Cousin!
Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 6:06 pm
I will go with it straight: I have this little cousin - he's in like third or second grade - that is down right...inappropriate. See his parents aren't exactly the best ones there are, which I feel so very sorry about, really, his dad is my uncle and he's a great guy but throughly irresponsible. His mom is nice too but like I said: they avoid responsibilities. Sorry I went off topic. I just wanted you to know that I do indeed feel sympathy for him, but his actions sometimes really...set me off. My grandparents tend to him like he's their own son - which is not necessarily bad - and therefore always got him whatever he wanted with no exception - which is the bad part. He's idol - unfortunately - is my brother and therefore anything my brothe...
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me and my sister had sex while drunk
Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 3:19 pm
Hi i hard sex with my mom elder brother daughter and since then i haven't been with my normal sense.. please will God ever forgive me for this cos its never going to happen again and i did this out of drunk... please am wating for an answer... thank you all
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My parents constantly doubt me
Posted Sunday May 5 2013, 10:30 am
My parents think i am not worthy of doing anything good.. I am an international law and diplomacy student, when i got into the university i had some boyfriend issues which ruined my first year my grades were really low and my parents complained bitterly, but when i got to the 2nd semester of my 2nd year i did better, my 3rd year came and i did better than ever i had a 4.25gpa my parentd were happy but ddnt get me anything 4 it... I just finished my 2nd semester of my 3rd year and i also did well, but even with all dis results my parents are always shouting dat i dont read that i am always looking at fashion mags and all yes i love fashion and the annoying thing is that they say this things infront of my junior sis and brother... My dad alwa...
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