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I like my friend's girlfriend...
Posted Saturday September 24 2016, 7:52 am
I'm a bisexual freshman in highschool, and I like my friends gf... we both have boyfriends. Help, please.
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Is he in love with me?!
Posted Friday September 23 2016, 11:52 pm
Hi, we used to worked together but he left. He's single and I'm not. He's aware of that however apart from that I always knew he had a thing for me and fancied me. We always used to joke and whine each other in a flirty manner, but nothing more. Recently, me and my boyfriend have moved in together and he found out through my mate as he was asking me, how's she? Is she still with the same lad? But when my mate said, yeah they live together now, suddenly he seemed really sad and said,'well, maybe in another life, eh'?? As my mate could sense, he was really sad. OK guys, what did he actually mean by that??? Is he in love with me or something. We're in our late 20's. Guys point of view, please!!
Thank u all so much!
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Crush problems
Posted Thursday September 22 2016, 10:22 pm
I have this crush, even though it feels more than a crush, and I just told him how I feel. He said he wants to get to know me better, but he's not making any moves to try to learn anything about me at all. I try talking to him during band when we sit next to each other, but it's more like me saying something, him saying his opinion, then awkward silence for the next 20 minutes. Recently though my best friend told me one if her friends told her that my crush has a crush on her. It makes sense. He does really seem to talk to and hang around her a lot. My best friend has made it very clear that she doesn't share his feelings. Does this mean he lied to me about getting to know me better? I'm kinda hurt. Plus, to make it all worse, I can't get h...
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I'm Really Worried About My Boyfriend
Posted Thursday September 22 2016, 12:14 am
My boyfriend lives somewhere other than me (Canada) and I'm in the U.S. We don't get to talk as much due to both of us being busy and me technically not supposed to date (Im 18 but cant move out cause I'm in school with a horribly strict family) I had a conversation with him that lasted about five minutes. he said he was doing something dangerous. And I thought he was joking. He said he was taking his friend to a pot deal in a really nice part of town (He doesnt do drugs himself) and was joking "As long as I dont get shot I'll be fine" I'm really worried about him but should I be? I dont want to tell him that because I dont want him to get upset (I have anxiety so that doesn't help much) What do you think I should do? (Please don'...
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I lied to about my age to a guy I met online. I'm 13.
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 1:16 am
I met a guy on deviant art who was 20 (I'm 13 but I turn 14 on January 7th) and we started talking. I never had my age or name up on my profile. Or how I looked like. So he didn't know how old I was or any of that. He saw my art, though and thought I was so great. He had a fan fiction series he was writing and I suggested he made a Wattpad account for it. So he did. And we chatted on there more. One day I suggested he added a cover to his fan fiction and he said he wasn't too good at making covers so I offered to draw one for him. I finished it within a week (I think). He loved it and even told me I did so well, he kinda wanted to give me virtual kisses because of it. I was kinda shocked and didn't know how to respond at first. Then I repli...
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Too shy to tell him.
Posted Monday September 19 2016, 2:00 am
So, I'm in seventh grade and I have had this crush on a boy ever since sixth grade started. He used to be one of my close friend's friend in fifth grade before my friend moved away, so I know a bit about him. It gets really hard for me to focus in any classes I have with him, I'm not overly obsessed or anything but I just really like him but as I'm pretty shy I don't know how to tell him because we've maintained a friendly-acquaintance relationship over a year now, and I haven't even had the nerve to open up to a friend as him, let alone tell him I like him... I'm just way too shy and afraid he just won't look at who I am as just a friend again, or that word will get around the school and people will bug me about it. Can anyone help me to l...
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What's going on in his head?
Posted Sunday September 18 2016, 7:36 pm
This guy and I just started seeing each other like a week ago and last Saturday night he spent the night with me. We were at a mutual friends house and we slept on the couch together. It was great, I love feeling close to him after all the pain I've been put through in the past and I feel like I could trust him. But cuddling and kissing on the couch escalated quickly. With every touch it was like he waa asking permission. He knows what I've been through and I believe he is trying to make me comfortable with him? But it was all really fast at the same time. One minute I'm Laying beside him cuddling and the next I'm on top of him and he is kissing my neck and I know he wasn't trying to but he scared me. I made him stop and asked him if we cou...
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he has found someone better..?
Posted Friday September 16 2016, 4:09 pm
hello my names madison my ex broke up with me about 3 weeks ago we have been dating for 1 year and 1 month he said he needed space and now he's with some other girl he claims they're "just friends" but i could see there is more i never did anything to hurt him if anything he hurt me and i just want to move on but i keep crying at nights knowing he docent even care and that he is holding someone else hurts so bad! someone please help Thank you!
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Self-doubt in a relationship?
Posted Thursday September 15 2016, 7:56 pm
Hi, I'm seventeen and my boyfriend is eighteen. We've only been dating for four months but obviously we've developed mutual feelings over time. I'm a christian and I've been raised from more of a conservative family and same for him. We both kinda have the same background. My mama raised me to ya know have manners, dress modestly, and love our Lord Savior Jesus Christ. My boyfriends mother has raised him the same as well. Yada, yada, yada.. I see girls who dress pretty skimpy nowadays and I hear that guys are really visual and they like to see that kinda stuff. That makes me uneasy. When my boyfriend is around attractive girls(or when I'm there with him), I start doubting myself and our relationship. That makes him upset and I feel awful.. ...
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Is he embarrassed by me?
Posted Wednesday September 14 2016, 9:05 pm
......I met this guy a couple weeks ago and we really hit it of. Last weekend he came to hang out with me and a friend while my friend was babysitting. We had been talking nonstop all week. So when he came over it was great. An he ended up spending the night. He slept on the couch with me and we were cuddling and everything was so perfect. But then he kissed me and we were kissing but I madw him stop. He seemed vaguely disappointed but didn't argue with me at all. He is such a good guy but I think he got an erection more than once that night so I tried to put a little space etween us. Physically. All in all it was a great night. Until morning came and his friend showed up to get him. He couldn't get away from me fast enough. I'm used to bei...
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I Like a Guy Totally Different From Me
Posted Wednesday September 7 2016, 4:36 pm
19/F
So I live on campus and the floor of my dorm is mixed/co-ed. There's a boys dorm room down the hall, a triple (meaning it has three occupants)and I have a crush on one of the guys living there. For the sake of this question I'll call him Q. So Q and I have the same group of friends for the most part because our floor is all really friendly freshman and we make a point to get together for meals and games and things so we all spend a lot of time together. I first noticed I might like him when I mentioned to my friend that I like the way he speaks (Weird, I know). I feel weird about liking Q though because we're really different. He prefers horror and he's really well versed in history and science whereas I really like com...
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Guy Friends Keep Crushing on Me
Posted Wednesday September 7 2016, 4:15 pm
19/F
When I was younger I mostly got along with an even mixture of boys and girls as friends but for some reason whenever I have a guy friend that is really close to me they always develop feelings for me eventually which makes me extremely uncomfortable. I've had four really close guy friends my whole life. I'm talking about guys I had known for years at a time and each of them eventually told me that they had feelings for me (not all at once or anything like that, they didn't know each other) and I always feel bad and uncomfortable because I have to turn them all down. Now they all still wanted to be my friend but it just became really awkward for me because after the fact I started to notice more things that they would do ...
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Super Confused - Start New or Renew Old
Posted Wednesday September 7 2016, 1:15 pm
Hello,
I have been in a relationship for 4 years and things aren't going so good and they haven't for quite sometime now. After repeating myself for the past 2 years that things need to change or I'm leaving I started giving him a bit of a cold shoulder. One night I went out with a couple of my girl friends that he knew and he knew where I was and he got really upset and after telling me that he hopes all of them "backstab" me he texted "do you bro" I took that as things are over. Couple weeks after I saw someone has been always in my life and 5 years ago we almost dated but we were still young and made a couple mistakes. well the feelings were still very present for the both of us and we kinda started ta...
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365 days Note Jar
Posted Wednesday September 7 2016, 12:44 am
I have been seeing some cute pictures of people making a 365-days note jar to their loved ones and I am in dire need of some really cute suggestions I can use or take note of while trying to make one for my girlfriend whom I also intend to marry. She currently lives miles away from me and since we don't get to see each other as often as we used to, I'd love to make/write her short notes to read with different colours for different purposes/occasion. I need some cool suggestions that would make her love and miss me daily as much as I love and miss her too.
Thanks in anticipation.
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I NEED HELP WITH THE GIRL I LIKE!
Posted Tuesday September 6 2016, 1:26 am
Hi, my name's Nick. I'm 15 years old (male) and I'm in love with my 14 year old friend (female). She likes to mess with me a lot, like one time she jumped on top of me to get me down on the ground to see who has the most strength and she likes to grab my stuff and make me chase her for it; and our personalities are SO SIMILAR! She was recently tipped off by a (not anymore) acquaintance of mine that I liked her and she ACTUALLY believed him! We had a long and award messages chat (I couldn't see her in person as she was on vacation) She said that it was pretty obvious to her that I liked her after which she apologized for not being able to hang out and I was reassuring her, telling her how she shouldn't AT ALL be sorry. But during our chat af...
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How to move on
Posted Friday September 2 2016, 4:28 pm
I am 23 yrs old, I started dating my boyfriend 10 months ago, he asked me to be his girlfriend as though he was proposing to me,he told me that he would never hurt me and he loved me and wanted us to spend the rest of our lives together...i was happy I thought this was going to be my last relationship after all the heart breaks I had been through, though we live an hour apart he was so sweet in the first 3 months of our relationship,he visited me every week, we had our first kiss after during a wedding ceremony,he was the first guy I ever celebrated vals day with though I have dated other people, he treated me well then things started changing, he stopped visiting, rarely called in fact I was doing to calling and texting and sometimes he wo...
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Boyfriend and i have major compatibility issues
Posted Friday September 2 2016, 1:10 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years but it's been very rough. We fought on and off and it has caused quite a few tears in our relationship. I'm not one to believe in Zodiacs but he's a Capricorn and I'm a Gemini. Every website I've been to has told us the road will be difficult. I'm more of a talkative person and I see life quite different than him. Hes very overprotective and quiet. I love to communicate whereas he doesn't mind being quiet on the phone allwhenever we have a chance to speak to one another. The problem is that it's gotten so bad that I think we've both come to the realization that we've both turned into people we're not from the constant fighting we've endured. Part of me doesn't want to give up because I p...
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I'm starting to have feelings for him
Posted Thursday September 1 2016, 12:29 am
Hi, I need some help.
I am 20/f. He is 24/m
So there's this guy who happenes to be a friend of mine for a long time. He had feelings for me but I didn't feel the same. He asked me to be his girlfriend multiple times and I would bring up excuses for not getting into a relationship. The last time he asked me was last Saturday and I said I couldn't be his girlfriend. Our communication has decreased since then but even though I said I didn't want to be his girlfriend then I do now. I'm starting to develop some feelings for him and I don't know how to confront him about that. What can I do
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Stopping drinking before it ruins my relationship
Posted Wednesday August 31 2016, 3:55 pm
Hello,
I am an 18 year old, who does like to drink alochol quite frequently (not proud of it) and have been doing so since I was 17. I drink every 2-3 days depending on my mood. I think my drinking habits are too excessive for my age and every time I have a drink it upsets people. It upsets my boyfriend the most as every time im drunk I say horrible things to him that I dont mean and wouldnt say sober.i do love him to pieces.he tried to support me and tells me to stop drinking but I cannot help myself. I would be gratefull if anyone could give me some tips on how to control my drinking before it's too late thanks
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MEN DO YOU DO THIS??
Posted Wednesday August 31 2016, 3:30 pm
MEN DO YOU FLIRT/PICK ON/MASSAGE SHOULDERS WITH OTHER WOMEN, WHEN YOU HAVE A FIANCEE AND OR A WIFE ?
if so why? do you do this to be silly, potentially wanna cheat with one of those women???? there's a reason behind everything you do....and im just curious as to why some men do this, if they have no feelings for the person that they are picking on/flrting with daily especially if they are just friends and this is what you both agreed to be..... then why get upset/hurt if she doesn't gesture back or if she says/reminds you that the two of you are just friends and this is what you agreed to be and on top of that you have a fiancée?
Would you be/get jealous if she did what you did to other men? I find doing tha...
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