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Miss him but we are toxic


Posted Saturday October 29 2016, 1:09 am

Hi everyone, so I am 20 years old and my ex is 35. We dated for a year and a half and lived together. We have been broken up for about 6-7 weeks now. I miss him. I love this man. We had plans to move away together and now he's leaving and moving away within the next few months. My heart is shattered. We were very toxic together, constantly arguing, I have awful communication skills which was a big issue in our relationship on my end but on his, I was always anxious. I felt like no matter what I did I would get lectured, or made fun of, or get in trouble like a child. I was so unhappy in the relationship and prayed God would give me an out because I was so unhappy, and so anxious. Now I miss him, and I just want him, I want things to be w...

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INTIMACY IN RELASHIONSHIP


Posted Friday October 28 2016, 4:08 am

Is it good to avoid sex in relashionship?

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Moving Out or Not Moving Out


Posted Thursday October 27 2016, 6:19 pm

Hello, I'll try to make this quick so here is the deal...I'm 22 and female and my boyfriend, whom I have been with for 1.5 years is 24. We have been looking at apartments because we believe that we are ready to do that and test the waters out in the real world.

Now, I've always grown up being the good girl, listening to my mom and dad and following all of the advice they give me so please do not give me advice to not listen to my mother and just pack my things and go because that is not the kind of person I am.

I am a preschool teacher, making 26,000 a year and my boyfriend is an assistant manager at a walmart, making 53,000 dollars a year. I don't want that to come off as showy, it is to simply give you an est...

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Get into Figth


Posted Monday October 17 2016, 9:10 pm

Me and My husband always get into fight nowadays. he always make small things into big deal. Every time we fight I'm always controlling myself not fight back. Although its not my fault. I think I can no longer hold my temper.

Iam from Philippines

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i am lost, what should i do with my life?


Posted Monday October 17 2016, 2:32 am

im 22yrs will turn 23 next june. i am an average guy to the core.. like really average that goes or my looks to spirit. still living with my parents because no balls to move out. i attempted college but couldn't even finish the first year. i want to do IT or Cyber security i do find that interesting. but im not that smart or rather i know im very lazy just not willing to care enough to try my best. though i took 4 attempts at college and the last term i attend i couldn't handle it so i just stopped showing up. so i failed and my gpa went from 3.0 to 1.4. i dont think i can get financial aid anymore because of it... my parents cant help but want to help as much they can. i cant do that to them my father works 75-80hrs a week and my mother wo...

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Posted Saturday October 15 2016, 9:44 pm

Well I like a boy but he does not really know me and he is super cute and he makes me feel weird inside. How can I get him to like me. We kinda go to the same school. I go to his school to do band and science and he is in my science class. But I think has a girl already. So how can I at least make hi me a freind.

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He won't get out of my head?


Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 9:26 pm

I have a crush on this boy, I've asked a question similar to this in the past about the same one, and trust me when I say its been a roller coaster since then. I had this crush and I confessed my feelings, he said he wanted to get to know me better a few days later. It seems normal, but I recently learned he had a crush on my best friend. I just learned this tidbit of info, and my best friend has never lied to be about something like this before, so I guess it's true. He asked her to my school's homecoming dance right after I told him about how I liked him. My best friend flipped out on him, and I thought that was the end. But he won't get out of my head! He ticks me off so much, yet he's so nice and cute. I want to punch him, yet hold his ...

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I don't know how to talk to boys?


Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 2:02 pm

I'm a socially awkward/ socially anxious person but I can talk to other girls no problem (unless they look snobby or give bad vibes) but I can't talk to guys at all I don't have any guy friends, I have guy acquaintances through my friends that are girls, but I don't really have any guy friends at all, in elementary school (elementary for me ended in grade 8) I didn't have this problem heck one of my best friends was a guy, but as soon as high school started everything changed. The guys at my school were complete douchebags they judged people based on appearances and would make fun of you without even knowing you. These guys gave me the impression that guys were idiots so I started only hanging out with girls, I can talk to certain guys but ...

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artificial virgin pill


Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 1:52 pm

Can you place the virgin pill into your virgina whilst standing?




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im 15 never had a boyfriend


Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 8:57 am

hey im a 15 year old girl from greece.Im kind of worried that i will never find a boyfriend..i mean yes im just 15 too young but when u see your friends having boys and stuff u worrying.I liked some boys..2 of them ver very much but nothing..and i dont thing that im likeable for boys..and im a girl who does not want to be in a relationship just to say it or something so its more difficult because i want to like a lot the boy im going to be in a relationship and never boys im in love or at least i like , likes me back..

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REJECTION OR RESPECT??


Posted Sunday October 9 2016, 8:50 am

So im a girl 15 years old from greece.I liked a boy at a party and he liked me too back then..after 3 years a girl told him that i liked him and still like him now! He is 4 years older than me..He said that he also likes me and stuff but just because im 4 years younger he does not want to do something because he wants more than just kisses and things like that..Firstly i know that what he did is very mature and right (something that makes me like him more :P)Anyway this girl says to me that he respects me but i also thing that its rejection..what do u think? and do you think that maybe sometime in the future something can happen? please advise me as more as you can..He is a crush of mine 4 years now...

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I think my boyfriend is boring...should I break up with him?


Posted Friday October 7 2016, 2:26 pm

I'm 21 and he's 26 and we've been dating 5 months, I think the age range might have a lot to do with how I feel. I just don't think things are working out. He's a nice guy, but there's a lot of things I don't like.

I'm in college and he graduated a few years ago so his whole life focuses around work. I understand why this is, but here's the thing. I work too, but still I find time for other things. His job isn't even that great, he could do better for his degree, but he got sucked into a job where they lie to him about how much they'll do for him and then every time he gets promoted it's really just a lateral move, but he doesn't see this, which drives me crazy, but I haven't said anything about it because I don't want to hur...

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WHAT SHOULD I DO? how to make him understand that im in love with him?


Posted Tuesday October 4 2016, 11:21 am

Hello.Im from Greece,Im 15 and a girl and the boy im in love with is 13.5..I have told my parents but my dad has a problem because he is younger than me and he thinks that in that age we can not make a relantioship..he likes him and stuff but its just that he is younger,what should i do?how to make him realize that he is so a good boy and mature for his age how to make him understand that im in love with him?

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WTF IS THE POINT OF LYING???


Posted Monday October 3 2016, 9:54 am

if a man is not engaged or married but is dating a woman exclusively.....would you consider him as single.....I asked a few men this question and they have g/f's n fiancée's and they told me, they are single because that person they are with isn't their wife ....what do you think about this... personally I think it is wrong 2 lie and say you are single just because she isn't your wife.....that 2 me says you want 2 cheat and have cheated or will cheat soon if the right fukktard comes along...da hell??? why cant men just be honest for once in their lives??? that shyt deters me from dating....cuz like ive said before if dude aint tryna cheat, he wanna come out the closet or murder you, there aren't many options left...smdh times a million....

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What should i do if she says im not ready for a relationship yet?


Posted Sunday October 2 2016, 11:37 pm

I am a male and i recently just got the text of "i think we should just stay friends" and "im not ready for a relationship right now" but i feel a strong passionate liking for her but im not sure what to do, so can anyone help me?

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a guy say you playing with him


Posted Sunday October 2 2016, 6:07 pm

What does it mean when a guy say you playing with me



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Is it a bad idea to message my ex-fiance from years ago just as a friend?


Posted Sunday October 2 2016, 2:50 pm

Hello, I know this sounds weird, but lately I've been wondering how my ex-fiance is doing. We were engaged when I was 19 and had been together for two and a half years. Basically we were young and dumb and didn't know how life worked yet. We were fresh out of high school when we moved out of our parents and tried to get our own place and things just kind of crumbled from there due to events like financial troubles, disputing friends, and not sharing common interests.

Anyways after we broke off the engagement we didn't speak for six months because we had a really bad breakup, but then we decided to just be friends. For about a year and a half that worked out, we would just hang out every once in a while, and we both dated oth...

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What does it all mean to you?


Posted Thursday September 29 2016, 12:34 am

4 days ago I received a call from my ex at almost 4am. We had reconnected 3 weeks prior and talked on the phone and talked about being back together. I could tell he still had feelings for me. We were both in complicated situations at the time. He has a crazy girlfriend and was laid off and I was in a loveless relationship that ended. He said he wanted us to be together when his life was in order because he didn't want to drag me in to the craziness because I told him I didn't want any drama in my life. We hadn't talked since then. But a few days ago he called me almost at 4am which in all the years ive known him he's never done. I was asleep at the time so I couldn't pick up. The next day I texted him and the message wouldn't deliver as iM...

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22 yrs. New mom.. baby's father unfaithful


Posted Monday September 26 2016, 1:38 pm

My son just turned two months and I recently found out that when I was five months pregnant my boyfriend was on social media asking other girls for their numbers. He obviously deleted any texts so I'm not sure what exactly they were talking about. I know he didn't physically cheat because he was home straight from work. I somewhat confronted him about it. (I couldn't say everything I wanted to because my son was present & I don't like arguing in front of him.) The conversation was pretty much "I know you did it" showed him screenshots. He admitted but didn't say anything that was said. He kept apologizing over and over again & was saying how he doesn't want to lose his family over it. He'll never do it again blah blah blah...

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Manager boyfriend.


Posted Monday September 26 2016, 12:20 am

My boyfriend of almost two years is a manager at a Walmart. I love him dearly, but lately his job us been creating major bumps in the road. I consistently feel disappointed in the time we spend together. He'll have a shift starting at 7 in the morning and choose to go in at 4 in the morning because it's "easier to do things when people aren't there" and then as soon as he comes home, he sleeps so we have no time together. Speaking of home, he brought up about four months ago the idea of moving in together (we both still currently live with our parents).. I said that I think it's time so i got a few apps and started looking around for apartments while he said well wait to see what my first paycheck at my new job will look like. i g...

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