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Posted Saturday August 21 2004, 11:44 am
A little less then two months ago I found out my cousin was raped and i've been having some trouble dealing with it.I'm really close to this cousin , she's liek my best friend.when i first found out i just started crying , i couldnt even look at anyone for a copuple days.That i had to cry myself to sleep.i used to live in a house with her in when i was younger,i lived on the bottom and she lived on the top.Whenever i think about her and her baby i cant help but cry and its so hard for me to look at her without crying.I cant help but think maybe if i hadnt moved away i would have been with her and i could have stopped the jerk who did this to her.I seem to be the only person in my family who thinks she can finish high school and still take c...
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home crisis
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 11:26 pm
so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah
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Posted Friday August 20 2004, 2:00 pm
i know this is not a good question but i wanna go to my friend but her mom always says no im a girl and im 13
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Sister problems!
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 1:29 pm
Ok. Yesterdy my sister turned 18. So she thinks that shes like tha shyt. Well She thinks that now shes 18 she dont have to listen to my parents.Ive been tryin to explain to her that wen ur livin wit sum1 else no matter how old u r u still have to follow there rules as long as ur livin wit them. So she moved in wit her bf. I think hes gonna b controlling and not let her do nething cuz he never let her in tha first place. Ne ideas on how i can Tell her she still has to follow sum1 elses rules wen she lives wit them and how i feel bout her bf w.o makin her mad?? sry its so long! Ill Rate if u answer!
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Screaming Match
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 1:28 pm
Me and my sister (12) just got in a huge screaming match. i love her very much, we havent fought that bad in awhile, but we just got really really mad at each other and just started screaming and hitting and fighting.. what should i do? i want to be friends again but im angry and confused!!!!
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Mom and her boyfriend!!
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 11:30 am
My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another...
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Does my real dad even know about me...?
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 2:01 am
Okay well Im 16 years old and I dont know who my real father is. I know his name is Jim and he lives in west virginia. I dont like asking my mom because everytime I ask she gets this look on her face and trys to change the subject as if she were mad or something. I dont want to make her upset or mad but it feels like theres a wholllle other life that i dont know of! I mean its not one of those things where "she doesnt know who my dad is" she knows but wont talk about him. But there are days where I am completey upset cuz I just start thinking of him even though I dont know who he is."does he even know about me? does he not love me? was i not what he planned on having?" so many questions! Now the TRUE question is when im ...
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My moms b/f is a jerk!
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 1:11 am
Things around the househave been so hard latley <3 yrs> because my mom has this boyfriend named dale who treats her like crap. The only thing keeping them together is there son Mathew who is my half brother. Things just keep getting worse and worse though. its to the point where I cry myself to sleep cuz I know how much pain my mom goes through. I wish I could help but I cant. He even hit her quiet a few times before. She flips out on me when I forget to take my purse, keys, her pay check, or money everywhere I go cuz if i dont then dale would take it. He sneaks around 24/7 he snoops in MY ROOM scrouging for things. Me and my mom couldnt leave the house at the same time cuz he would lock us out if we did. What can I do to get my mind...
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comfused
Posted Friday August 20 2004, 12:00 am
look...i haven't had the best of life and i just want to know how am i supposed to get my life back on track i was but now im starting to fuck off a bit agian and im gonna be going t school pretty soon and i want to at least make it through high skool and ill be happy but as far as i know thats not even going to happen...ive done so much shit it like a habit but i stoppe dbut now i think im gonna or i think i am already starting to do it agian... its like some one else is taking over me... i need help and i cant tell my parents becuz of some reasons... it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all but yet i don't wanna stop but i do.... its just comfusing...ill just go now ... someone please help me...
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shattered dreams..
Posted Thursday August 19 2004, 6:26 pm
ok well this is kinda long but ok..ever since i was little i fell in love with gymnastics, i was about 6 when i saw the olympics and was just amazed by it. i used 2 sit and do cartwheels in my livingroom and stuff. well i beged my parents 2 let me join gymnastics and they never did...about a year and a half ago they finally let me take a summer session but i didnt learn much..now the olympics are on tv and i dont no it bothers me alot that its liek my dream will never come tru and it makes me mad at my parents, i feel like they never encouraged me at all and it may sound stupid but i dont now hat 2 do 2 get rid of this feeling, and i just feel liek im not good at ne thing anymroe, please help
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all we do is fight!
Posted Thursday August 19 2004, 6:10 pm
ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and...
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friends..
Posted Thursday August 19 2004, 4:46 pm
Hey..my good friend's parents are having a divorce..and her dad doesn't even know yet? The court date is on monday?! Whenever I go to her house...their parents seem fine? I know for a fact they don't fight at all! Ahhh and My friend is acting like nothing is wrong?!?! PLEASE HELP
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Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:50 pm
i recently found out my 7 year old cousin, danny what raped by a neighborhood kid. this is really just depressing for me... BUT also for him. so my question is, anyone with experience know what well cheer up or help rape victim cope? hes very young.
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Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:20 pm
my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
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Dealing with Trust....REALLY LONG
Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:24 pm
In December my dad lost his job. But about a month later became self employed. By then my mom had been suspecting that hes cheating on her... now my mom has confroted him about it((about 3 months ago)) and he has admitted to having a "friendship" whith the lady.He tells my mom that hes nothin with her JUST friends. So my mom asked him to please tell her to stop callin and to just loose all contact.Thing is my mom tells me everything and my dad has always been a role model to me... well mom and i went to his work when he wasnt there and set up a caller id well we found out that shes still callin at like 1am and 2am when hes sopposly painting a car. Sometimes dad doesnt come home till 3 or so. I see how this effects my mom who liter...
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AM I WEIRD
Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:17 am
K Here's the deal. I recently went to tx to see my dad's side of the family 4 the first time. When i got there my 17 y\o female cousin gave me a tour of the yard as per my uncles request. A wasp flew down her shirt and a so as not to get stung on her boobs she lifted her shirt briefly exposed herself to me. I turned around out of respect but i still saw. And i liked it :(
my question is, that wrong. i mean shes very attractive and a total stranger to me. I mean i would'nt feel that way about any of my cousins that iv know 4 many years.
please help me AIM: MicroSurjj88 email: loser1588@hotmail.com
THNX, Microsurjj 16 Y\O
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Neice
Posted Tuesday August 17 2004, 4:03 pm
I watch my 2 year old neice a lot for my sister and every time we go anywhere we always listen to veggie tales in my car or she spazzes. Anyone know any current music that wouldnt make me crazy that a little kid might like?
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Posted Monday August 16 2004, 9:44 pm
I hhave this problem. I want to find a swimuit to flatter my flat chest but its SO hard to find one do you have any advice??? BTW your so PRETTY
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my dad doesnt like him
Posted Monday August 16 2004, 7:50 am
i really like this guy, chris, and i have for the whole summer, but the thing is, my dad doesnt like him, he says things about him that really make me mad, i know that my dad just cares and doesnt want me to get hurt or anything, but there really isnt anything wrong with chris, like the things that my dad says are completely ridiculous! just this morning i asked my dad if I could have my phone back because chris might call me from out of town, but as soon as I mentioned his name, my dad said no, its really beginning to annoy me that my dad can't trust my good judgement, I'm a smart girl and I know what I'm doing, someone please help me here! i rate (btw 14f)
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PREGNANCY!!!!!!!!!!
Posted Monday August 16 2004, 12:34 am
i had sex like a few months ago...well ive gotten my period since..and its been on a regular schedual but this month it hasnt come...i havent got it!! im freaking out!! it usually comes at the verrrry end of every month n goes into the begining of the new month but this month is hasnt!! =( could i be pregnant since ive already had my period about 2-3 times since ive had sex?? =\
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