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My mom sells methedone and oxycodone and i wana turn it in
Posted Tuesday September 2 2014, 7:06 pm
I'm 16 my mom sells prescription painkillers, ill leave it simple as that. I need to know that if I turn it in since me and my dad know about it and have for sometime what will happen to us? If my dad is arrested with my mom will I get to choose to live with family, and will I be charged for withholding information for this long or will I be let off Scott free. Also I put my hands on one of the bottles to take a picture of it in better lighting so could my mom blame the drugs on me? Basically what all could come out of this whole ordeal
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Mom sells Drugs and i want to go live with my brother
Posted Monday September 1 2014, 3:12 pm
I am 16 I have known my mom has been selling prescription pain killers for sometime now. She says she is doing it for me but she seems to be doing it more for herself when she just bought herself a new car. I'm between a rock and a hard place reporting it though because my mom currently has cancer and found out I was planning on reporting her for it, she said go for it but its her word against mine and she says I have no evidence against her. Well she showed me where she hides them, I know where she goes to get them every month and the first name of the person she sells them too. So I need to know how should I word it to report it. If I should tell the DEA or crimestoppers or who. And what will happen to me and my dad since we have known ab...
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Family member expect us to do his work for him
Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 12:28 am
My brother in law had a heart attack, we have been doing his share of the work in our business for nearly a year. He isnt well enough to probably ever work, but he wants his income to continue so he wants us to keep doing his work. He has been careless in every aspect of his life, has substantial debt, and lives a lifestyle that will eventually kill him. How do we shake him loose? My husband is exhausted from all the extra work, I am frustrated and want to leave, my son feels like a slave. All we do is fight over this, we need him to stop being a burden to us.
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my sister never takes no for an answer
Posted Friday August 22 2014, 8:15 pm
My sister never takes no for an answer and sometimes it gives her a feeling that she is allowed everything and everyone must do whatever she asks. Like she never handed me a shoe to kill a spider even if she was next to one and she expected me to kill a spider and another she never let's me in her room and whenever she wants to borrow my clothes and I say no becaude you never return any favors she gets mad and slams my doorand pulls huge sissy fits. What can I do? I hate fighting but the sense of authority she has is mind-blowing and it makes me feel like she never gives me any respect.
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Competitive Sisters
Posted Friday August 22 2014, 1:17 pm
I have two teenage daughters who have been blessed with musical talent and beautiful singing voices.There is a talent show at our county fair every year and they want to participate. I am almost certain one of them would win or place as a runner up. Therein lies the problem! They have a close loving relationship but they are extremely competitive with each other when it comes to music. So far I have never allowed them to compete against each other because I am afraid this could create a permanent rift between them. I have tried to encourage them to sing together as a duet but they refuse. Should I allow them to compete individually and possibly damage their relationship for life?
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Who has better karma me or my father?
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 11:48 pm
Hello Advicenators,
My father told me to start translating a book, so I started translating it about 3 days ago. Its a self help book, anyways, today he tells me that he plans to publish my translation and sell it as a book. I was thinking more along the lines of uploading the translated self help book online on scribd and torrent websites so that people could download it for free. Who has better karma in this case? me who wants to give away the translated self help book for free or my father Who in this case came up with the idea to translate the selfhelp book however he would like to sell it at a price?
I would appreciate some advice.
thanks
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My mom thinks i'm lying to her!
Posted Wednesday August 20 2014, 7:04 pm
So recently me and my mom were talking, and the subject of me not being honest to her came up. now my mom is very big about lying and hates it and i know that so i dont lie to her very often. she think that im lying to her about something but i have no idea what. i kept asking her what i did wrong and she kept telling me to go to bed ( since it was like 11 o'clock) and talk to her once i tell her the truth but i have no idea what i did wrong. i also feel like shes just trying to get me to confess about a lie. whats a tip so that i can get out of this mess?
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Moving
Posted Tuesday August 19 2014, 4:23 pm
Hi everyone I am a 22 year old female and live at home with my parents. I recently got engaged a few months back to a guy my family loves. I am an only child and have always been very close to my family, especially my mom. My fiancé lives 2 hours away and works offshore so we do not see each other often. After long thought and talking with my fiancé I have decided that I am ready to move in with him now. When I told my mom this she completely freaked out saying "you will not move". Every conversation we have had about it since then only leads to us fighting and her being totally against me moving. What do I do?! I love my mom but also want to be happy with my fiancé. How do I not hurt her?
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how to have sex with sister
Posted Thursday August 14 2014, 5:40 pm
how to have sex with my 13years age sister
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College + mom= headache!
Posted Tuesday August 12 2014, 2:52 pm
My mom has always been a character- she's very organized, detailed and stubborn. She's been a housewife for the past 15 years because she raised me and my brother. After my parents divorced she's been unemployed and depressed. I try to encourage her to meet new people but she's scared of meeting new people.
When I decided to go to college, my mom was sad. For the first semester she visited me once a week and called or texted everyday. I yelled at her not to bring me food, but she still brought me food every week because I have a diet problem and she said I needed it so we argued a lot. Then she told me her financial situation is so bad, she needed to move in with me (I'm paying for my own housing). This is true so I let her m...
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How to tell my parents I don't want to drive
Posted Tuesday August 12 2014, 5:55 am
17f
I got my driver's license when I turned 16, like most kids do. While I enjoyed the freedom of being able to go wherever I wanted, I was always really anxious while I was driving. Then I got into a minor car accident several months ago. Everyone said I should try driving again, so I did. I kept driving for a few more months, but I was even more anxious than before and it really stressed me out.
Eventually I just started asking my parents and friends for drives, or I would walk or bike. It's been months since I've driven a car. I'm involved in a lot of activities, and I know I'm a burden to my parents. My dad keeps asking me when I'm going to start driving again, and I just keep saying that I don't want to d...
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is xasten caplets good for beastfeeding mother's?
Posted Monday August 11 2014, 11:33 am
is xasten caplets good for breastfeeding mother's?
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I saw a video of my mom
Posted Sunday August 10 2014, 7:36 pm
So, I am on vacation for my brother's birthday... My mom brought her computer for us to use, and I had just installed some software and drivers for a project two days ago. Then, earlier today, she restored her computer back a few days. I was going to attempt re-installing it from the recycle bin, which wasn't successful... But, upon this process I overcame a video entitled "Private Show" and, out of curiosity, I played it. And I thought the unexpected 2 hour drive to a monument was the worst part of this vacation... at least until I saw this video. I really don't know what to do... but I probably won't be able to sleep tonight. Please, I need some advice!
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toxic relationships with family
Posted Thursday August 7 2014, 8:33 am
hi i m rachel from china. when i and my twin sister was 7 months old my parents divorced and my mom left soon for europe. I stayed with my maternal grandparents but my mothers brothers never liked it, and took my grandmother away when i was 16, and my grandfather died when i was 13. I had a tough childhood and then i and my sister were thrown out of the house at the age of 16. We lived in a rented apartment. My mothers asks for money from her brothers and she pays the fees, she is very rude and always gets her way. She never listens to me and my sister and always says that she wont send any money for university . I always try to have a bond but she is too strict . She is emotionally and physically abusive. I have just stayed with her for a ...
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Life screwed up,what do I do and where do I go from here?
Posted Sunday July 27 2014, 11:06 am
My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
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FIghting with my grandma because I'm skinny?
Posted Friday July 25 2014, 12:01 pm
Okay, so I'm male, 5'7, 105-110 lbs, 14 years old, and my grandma just will not stop talking about it. This morning I was getting food and she started making more food and saying I had to eat it all, and I said I wasn't that hungry. She got mad and said I had to eat it because she knew I never ate anything and she threatened to call some fake organization she made up and tell them I'm not eating.
I finally did snap and get really mad. I pounded my fist on the table and yelled, "I DO eat!" She sat there and watched me eat, and when I left she accused me of going to throw it up. WTF? I'm not bulimic.
Now she's ignoring me and saying that she's just the warden. I said "I love you." to her and she just laughed. What do I do? :(
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Family dosnt give a good reason for why I have to go.
Posted Thursday July 24 2014, 6:28 pm
M/15
If the fallowing offends you I dont care.
About a year ago I came out to my parents that I was an Atheist. Well they are young earth creationists(which means they take everything in the bible literaly.) so they did not take to kindly to it. They made fun of me for not beliveing in there god and the fact that they are so positive that I'll regret it when I find out I'll be wrong. Well I shook it off I'm very strong with my belifs and at another time after I let things cool down I asked them if it was necisary that I go to church. The gave me no other reasoning other than yes because thats what our family dose. So ive put up with it for along time and I don't think I can any more. All I do at their church i...
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Mom
Posted Thursday July 24 2014, 1:17 pm
My mom is weird. She yells for the stupidest stuff and gets angry quickly. Today we rented a movie and my brother played it off the ps3 . She started yelling and screaming why youbeat the system use the cd playr in front of my cousin even tho the movie plays either way. She gets mad when the house isn't clean to perfection and in stores she'll yell at the manager if things aren't flawless.if I don't want to do something she'll give me this speech" I gave up my life for you . I sacrificed everything" if we don't do things her way she screams. She's always taking pics and posting them on fb and if the pics aren't perfect she'll yell. I stress out and am getting acne bc of it. I tryed talking to her but then she's like" oh your...
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Posted Tuesday July 22 2014, 9:28 pm
hey, am just a girl and am confused,
i hate my family for some reasons,
which is in my family they are so
protective, am from a big family
like i live with my dad, my mom
passed away 6 years ago but really i
can say i live in two house one
where my dad is there, and the
next one is where my grandma,
aunt live. and i have a sister which
is in college who everybody loves,
don't get me wrong i love her
too ,but the problem is when she
come everyone acts like i don't
exist anymore especially my aunt
she always makes me feel bad
about my self when she comes she
forgets me. am uncomfertable
around her, she ignores me even<...
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why do adults blame everything on the media?
Posted Tuesday July 22 2014, 1:31 pm
My entire life everything was the media's fault. TV is “dumbing down" our children, horror/slasher movies and video games cause violent behaviors, slutty celebrities influence children. This isn't true. That's your own fault for not making them get off it, and I watch TV, but my grades are perfectly fine. Also, what annoys me is They got rid of cookie monster, because parents blame child obesity on it. Here's a fucking idea, stop buying your kids so much crap, and they won't be fat. I play violent killing games and despite what my mom thinks will happen, I don't go and trash offices, torture people, and stick knifes through peoples back. I listen to Miley Cyrus, but I don't take sex videos, or ride naked on wrecking balls. Songs don...
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