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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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in between three completletly differnt groups of friends


Posted Saturday July 7 2007, 11:59 am

well this will be long sorry ut i really need help not mentally but with my friends!!! i have one group of friends lets name them A B C D diched me last summer sense their camp counserlurs and im not so i had one friend from tht group that wasnt either so we became bffs! but i made older and newer friends from my school that are abs. amazing but their going into highscool and im going tino 8th and like there is lets call her k she is my bff from last summer. and she wants to hang with me and i will then theres the popular ppl i guess! the boys ang with them a lot and girls from my school hang with this major slut and i told them that she is a whore and they want me to pisck a group and im bffs with the boys but the boys dont want me to th...

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slut?


Posted Saturday July 7 2007, 7:24 am

I asked my best friend who I trust everything with if she thinks I'm a slut. In the past she's said no but I asked her to please be honest with me yesterday and answer me the truth. So she said yes, she also said it was very very hard for her to say. I told another friend what was said and he said that if she was a real freiend she would understand and not think i was a slut. He also said if not, there is one good thing to come out of it; I found out that she wasnt a true friend.
So what do I believe? That she did the right thing telling me truthfully that she thinks I am a slut? Or she did the wrong thing in thinking that of her best friend?
She's always been there for me but now I'm confused.
I feel like I can't tell...

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Plans


Posted Saturday July 7 2007, 1:05 am

ok i got this girl i kinda like but im afraid to commit to a relationship caus she not the most good looking girl but i stil llike her anyway we always hang out and we have play around sexually but last night i planned for us to hang out and she text me the morning i go to pick her up to go fool around and says i got a b/f and now she being a bitch and acting like the perfect girl and i think it gets to me not cause i cant do anything with her but i think i like her and i dont want to see her with another guy please help me out


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death...


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 10:20 pm

my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him?

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a falling friendship


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 8:59 pm

I dont know if i should keep the friends i have right now. All they do is complain about their lives and critize other people and when i complain about my life they are all like im sorry i cant do anything about that. And they are rude like it doesnt even matter to them! One of them never even calls me and shes my BEST FRIEND. she never trys at all, like she always tells me that she never ever askes people to hang out. but i told her she needs to ask me because im her best friend. so i just wanted to see what she would do. and now my other best friend is all like calling her all the time and now they are best friends and they always leave me out. we always have history of alot of drama so this time i really want to make our friendship work....

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I can't let go of my best friend.


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 3:21 pm

I have a really good friend that I've been friends with for a good 4/5 years. I feel like I always want to be around her because she's just so amazing and i love her with all my heart. I'm not a lesbian or anything, she's just always there for me and I love her so much, she's amazing to me. The bad thing about this is when I look at our photos from the past and everything we use to do we did it together, like we were always together and everyone was like "nobody could break them up". Now we're still really good friends and we see each other a lot during the summer cause we're on the same soccer team. But when soccer's over were not going to see each other for like the whole school year because we don't have any classes together .....

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las vegas.. or not??


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 2:28 pm

my friends 16th birthday is coming up and my family is going to las vegas my brother and dad are going for the SEMA car show.. aand my mom and I arent going to that show so we thought that i should bring my best friend as her sweet 16 present from me and stuff.. do you think thats a good idea??

if so how can i find out if she would want to go without her being suspiscious of it being her present.. ???

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Bff's bf?


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 2:04 pm

My friend's boyfriend is terrible. He smokes, drinks, does drugs. Basically, all the things she'd never do. And now we barely talk anymore and I don't know what to do. They've been together for a while now, but we've been friends 5 times longer. I try talking to her, but she pushes me away. How can I tell her that she can do so much better? What should I say?

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cant keep secrets


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 1:51 pm

my best friend max told me a huge secret about himself a long time ago and i swore not to tell anyone. i messed up big time by telling steven because steven has a big mouth sometimes. a few days ago i was talking to max and i told him that i really dont like steven because hes annoying me a lot. then max told steven that i think hes "gross". he was just kidding of course but what if steven gets mad and decides to tell max the secret i told him a long time ago as like payback or something. that would guarantee max hating me forever. what do i do? help!!

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Are they too "busy" for me?


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 12:11 pm

Okay so I always seem to be the ONLY person making plans out of all of my friends. But the thing is, everytime I make a plan, no one even bothers to remember it or are ALWAYS too busy to hang out with me or sometimes don't even bother to show up. EVeryone just acts so flaky all the time. Idk what I'm doing wrong; when I do get a chance to hang out with these people, we have a great time. So why should I be the only one ever taking action and making plans, and being disappointed when they all can't time out of their "busy" lives to just hang out for one day during the summer?

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Posted Friday July 6 2007, 10:43 am

what does a guy look for in a friendship with a girl?

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best friend?


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 4:28 am

so, my best friend, can treat me like DIRT.
i mean horrible. she's just sooo rude! what do i do? i mean i love her so much, and shes amazing. but when shes rude i dont know what to do! i just take it. beucase i NEVER want to loose her. i NEED HELP!
15fem.

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my bad luck with parties-my friend and i just got back toget


Posted Friday July 6 2007, 12:48 am

ok my best friend and i hated eachother because of something happened since we loved eachother started about 2-3 months ago idk seemed like forever. today we talked for hours tomarrow theres a party he said hope to see you there before he left and also befor i asked if he was going he said HELL YEA will you. and us kinda hateing eachother started because of a party and tomarrow is the first party were both going to since. their like totally different kinds different everything. like the last party was a airsoft-running through the woods together...then goes inside and a certain game messed it all up. now its a swimming party at a friends grandmas house. soooo will it be different? what could i do if it happenes again which its a 50/50 chanc...

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LIKE A FRIEND ?


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 11:42 pm

I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Well now I'm on summer vacation and we dont talk. We used to talk in school all the time. After school and now all I do is think about Bob. I have no physical attraction toward Bob though. Bob just has a great personality. Bob could always make me laugh, and I was confused on wether I liked Bob for a bit, but I thought well I dont because I dont think he's physically attractive. And I base everything on looks. Bob gave me his number,but I dont call bob, bob dont call me. But what the heck, I CANT stop thinking about Bob. I dont want to like Bob though. I least I dont think I do. What should I do ? and do I like like him ?

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Is my best friend a w h o r e ?


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 10:47 pm

My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be lik...

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I didn't know what catigory to put this in.... But i need he


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 10:47 pm

Okay well im a 14/f and i have a friend- ex friend now- but she texted me and was like i tolled everyone your secret! - and my secret is that im a lezbian- and she is the only one i tolled and i thought she was just kidding but she wasn't she tolled like veryone i know and so now everyone is like Oh god you are a lez sick your perverted , do you have a girlfriend , you should die lezbians and gay people shouldn't be aloud on earth ext.... but its starting to get to me and i dont know what to do can you help me??
love,
Stressed out!

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anyone can answer but would appreciate a guys answer :)


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 9:58 pm

how do you stay bestfriends with a guy: i know this guy who is only bestfriends sometime: we flirt alot but we both know that were only friends& it doesnt mean anything:: like what could i say to flirt with him but for him to know its only a friendship?

URGENT!

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kissing.


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 9:44 pm

recently my best friend had her first kiss,
and told me it was kinda awkward because she didn't really know what to do.
I've never been kissed yet, and I started thinking about it, ahhh what are you supposed to do?
I'm sorry if this sounds incredibley stupid..
is it a natural thing? Something you just learn to do with practice?

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Guy friends. (need advice from guys)


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 8:53 pm

I was wondering, What do guys look for in a friend thats a girl ? Do they like someone who is more boyish?


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bestfriend and unprotected sex =/


Posted Thursday July 5 2007, 4:32 pm

okay ive known my best friend since i was born. We will be friends forever i know it. But the problem here is...she has lost her virginity to a boy she has been dating for 11 months [shes 16] She says that she knows hes the "one" she thinks there going to get married and live a happily ever after life with him...well she told me that they had unprotected sex but it wasnt long enough to get her pregnant. i told her never to take a chance like that again! im scared her whole life is gonna go down the drain with a child. I really think it could happen...What should i tell my bestfriend without getting her affended?

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