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Posted Thursday November 2 2017, 9:53 pm
hi I am kind of new been on here for about 3-4 days now and just wondering is it a bad idea if I ask/ right a note to my cruse asking if she is mad at more because before she would talk normal and let me get things for her but know that my cruse found out I like her things have been going bad. She has been saying that she will do it herself and using a more angry tone of voice at me and I know that she likes one of my friends. what should I do?
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I love bruises and so does my boyfriend but he is struggling to give them.
Posted Thursday November 2 2017, 9:42 pm
For, what i think are, obvious reasons him and I both love bruises all over my body but he's been struggling to bruise me. Yes he can give me hickeys but that's not all I like, I really enjoy fingerprints on my inner thigh and hips. How can I help him do this, like what are some tips for him and I to try so he can master the fingertip bruises?
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Start a conversation so he knows I’m interested
Posted Thursday October 26 2017, 12:46 pm
So there’s this guy who works at the pizza place I frequent. I had a conversation with him a few months ago. He told me he sees me walking everyday and was trying to gauge my age range. We had a nice conversation a few laughs and another customer said he was trying to flirt ,and what surprised me was he didn’t deny it. I still see him everyday but we haven’t had a conversation again since then. How do I start up another conversation and let him know I’m interested?
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Friend being cheated on...should I tell him?
Posted Sunday October 22 2017, 1:55 pm
Ok, so I'm friends with this girl and this boy who have been dating for a few years now. Let's call the boy V and the girl J. J is bipolar, but somewhat high functioning, from an abusive family, and is recovering from a drug addiction. V, even before they started dating, has helped her with everything. He paid for her to get into rehab, for her mental health, helped her press charges against her abusive parents, and has overall been extremely emotionally supportive. I know V really well and he loves her to death.
For some reason J decided to cheat on him. I noticed her hanging with some other guy. At first I brushed it off, thinking that perhaps they were working on something for school or something. But then I figured out sh...
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My boyfriend has a temper ive never seen before?
Posted Wednesday October 11 2017, 10:46 pm
So since I've moved to the next state over for college my boyfriend has been having a temper problem. So he works and he goes to school. He works from 6-10pm sometimes getting off at midnight because of overtime. He has school during the day. On mondays he leaves school to go to work then goes back to school after his shift. But some days he doesnt have school and just has work. Everyday he started only texting me at midnight (and expected me to face time him) or right before he went to work when he knew he couldnt respond back. I decided to come to him and talk to him about how i felt. You know..communicate....like youre suppose to do in relationships. I told him that i felt like this wasnt a real relationship by only getting a text at mid...
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Marriage?!?
Posted Sunday October 8 2017, 3:50 pm
So I got engaged yesterday. It was super sweet. He asked me in front of everyone. But honestly I felt obligated to say yes. I am scared. I love him so much but I have been married and divorced and I couldn't imagine going through it again. I am terrified. I am having doubts but I don't want to break his heart.... or my own. I know if I lost him I would be devastated but I know how bad marriage can be. What do I do? Should I see a therapist? I feel so confused and lost right now. On top of that my dad died I cant imagine him not being there. gosh Life is hard. Help please
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How do I approach him?
Posted Tuesday October 3 2017, 8:58 am
So there's this really cute guy in my program and he was in 3 of my classes last year and from observing him in lecture he was always alone and very quiet. From time to time I caught him glancing at me and my friends (I feel like it's cause of my friend). He was also in one of my tutorial classes (the classes are up to 15 people) and whenever the teacher would ask him a question he would answer, it would be a very smart answer. So now I know he's quiet and smart. I want to get to know him but I'm scared to go up to him, he's caught my friend talking about him a few times but he doesn't say anything. I don't really know what to say to him cause I'm awkward and if you've seen my previous posts you'd know I lack a lot of confidence. Before I...
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My husbands girlfriend
Posted Tuesday September 26 2017, 1:55 am
So I have been married for 13 years now and my husband and I separated (still living together) I want to work it out we have kids but he announced he has a girlfriend. Obviously I'm crushed. What do I do? My heart is shattered
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Am I ready for a relationship?
Posted Monday September 18 2017, 6:45 am
I recently got into a relationship with someone I've been talking to for a couple of months. Lately I've been feeling very unsure of it and I don't know why. I hadn't been in a relationship in over 3 years so maybe I'm just not use to it and this is just too new for me. My dad is also not as open/happy about it which I think is also having a big effect on me. I think I might just miss not having to worry about anything involving a relationship, I was just more at peace being single. I do care about him and like him a lot but I find myself pointing out the flaws/cons about him to myself and I don't know why. Maybe I'm not ready for a relationship or maybe my dad's opinion is getting to me. What should I do, am I over thinking this? Thank you..
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I only want to live and sleep alone, is it possible I'm OCD (long)?
Posted Sunday September 17 2017, 11:50 pm
I've lived with a multitude of different people in my life and now I never want to do it again. I've lived with an ex-fiance where we shared an apartment, with a serious boyfriend in his apartment, with both of my parents in their respective apartments. I've lived with a multitude of different roommates through college and I currently live with one roommate. At one time I had my own apartment for three months during summer vacation on campus and it was the best time of my life. I loved it. I also like my current situation because my roommate goes to bed early and we have our own bedrooms and bathrooms and she's fairly clean, but I would still prefer to live alone.
I hate sharing, it makes me angry to see another persons items...
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guys i need your help once i fingered my self but not hard that was all but
Posted Sunday September 10 2017, 8:29 am
guys i need your help once i fingered my self but not hard that was all but if i tuchd my fathers pants or something like that an i be pregnat ? but i dont even put my fingeri in so hard so i dont even know if i tuched anything but thats my quesstion
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Kissed finally!
Posted Saturday September 9 2017, 9:04 am
We're friends. Like each other. We kissed for the first time yesterday after our dinner, while kissing he touched my boobs and sucked on my nipples. I couldn't help it. It was just natural. He complimented my boobies by saying they're beautiful. We just couldn't stop kissing and looking at each other, "I asked him, are you falling for me, he replies, you're making me" also, he wants to make love to me, he says and when I asked him back, you're only after sex, aren't you, he replies, everything." He also said, you've come to my life all of a sudden and this is all weird, but good weird he said. Now, what are his replies mean? What is he saying? Unluckily, he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and he knows I'm not happy wi...
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Doubting myself after a breakup
Posted Thursday September 7 2017, 6:48 pm
I am 22 years old and Pete is 23, we both are 4 months out of college. We met my junior year and have been dating ever since. We broke up a little over a week ago. Things had been going downhill for a year though. Our first year together he was everything you could ever want. I knew he had a history of treating girls poorly (womanizer) but he was immediately committed to me. His friends said they have never seen him like that since they've known him. We had an amazing connection. He talked to me about everything, his dreams, his secrets, his feelings, his fears… He was in ROTC so talking about the military and his feelings about deployment were common.
One night, about a year ago, we got into a fight and he told me he was...
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Posted Wednesday September 6 2017, 7:53 pm
Hi, recently we went out for a friendly dinner two nights in a row, just the two of us. Don't know if it's a date or a two friends having dinner. He knows I like him and I know he likes me too but we rarely talk about this matter as we're good friends. We have hugged after the dinner and he kissed my neck while I was sat on the chair he hugged from behind, very tight hug and kissed on my neck and ear area. We're talking and he tells me you're falling in love with me, I asked him, are you not feeling anything or don't you have a feelings for me then AND that moment he says I would be lying, 'if i didn't having feelings or if I didn't like you'. Now, what is the meaning of this line? Why would he say he would be lying....? Thank you all
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Breakup?
Posted Monday September 4 2017, 7:35 am
So i have been with my boyfriend that i truly love very much for about 11 months right now. I guess you could say ex boyfriend since we broke up a few days ago..But im a bit confused about how the scenerio went and i wanted to know what you all thought. I am 22 and he is 24. We love and respect one another, in our relationship we've had a lot of issues because of different mindsets. We come from the same culture but i was brought up in America so i have more of an open mind than he does. He is extremely strict when it comes to his culture and believes everything goes back to him being "manly" I had two issues with him. My first issue is that i realized half way during the relationship that we are not compatible ( yes i stayed with...
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Him asking if i like oral sex?
Posted Saturday September 2 2017, 5:56 pm
OK, apologies for a long story!
He's asking if I like oral sex, if I'm hairy down below, if I like soft or hard sex, but all in a good mannered way not in a dirty or gross way. likes touching my hands, says you have a soft hands, is rest of the body soft too, he asks, I say get your hands off please and he responds by saying you love it, I say yes I do because I like him so I don't mind if he touches my hands but all these conversation happens in a different occasion when we see at college canteen.
weeks ago, we went out few times for a drink with college friends. nothing has happened apart from just a goodbye kiss with friendly hug don't know if that counts for anything. He asked me yesterday if I want to go for drink...
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Dont really know what to do
Posted Friday September 1 2017, 12:17 am
So I had unprotected sex with this guy and he of course came inside of me but I took a plan B pill but we had sex again and he came inside me (didn't tell me). Is the pill still affective or sound I take another?
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I don't have time for a relationship and it makes me really sad?
Posted Thursday August 31 2017, 2:19 pm
All of my college friends are getting engaged or married and I don't even have time to date.
I work full time, and take four classes. I'm always either working, doing homework, or studying. When it's not one of those then there's some kind of other life or family obligation. I can't take less classes because then I would fall under full time status.
Every time I try to date somebody I realize within a week I have 0 time to see them. If I try to make time I get extremely stressed because I have other things I need to be doing.
I feel like I'm going to be one of those people who will be single forever because I have to put work before anything else. I have to pay my own bills and the job I want wi...
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Does fingering causes late period or pregnancy
Posted Thursday August 31 2017, 2:04 pm
My boyfriend has fingered me but m late on my periods ...does this a sign of pregnancy?? Pls help me with the correct solutions
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Friend has started to have sex talk!
Posted Tuesday August 29 2017, 10:40 pm
Lately, we have been talking dirty a lot, a lot actually. Mostly sexual stuff. He told me the other day he will make me scream when we were out with our friends but when he told me that we both were alone together having ciggies.
Now, after introduced through my friends he and I've become really close in only a few months time and sharing and talking when we see each other at college, he always has to buy me lunch, insists to pay always, even though I want to pay for my own meal but wouldn't let me. He's such a decent boy. After the joking, talking, he's started to ask me questions like if you're wild, your nipple should be hard, I think you're quite shy in the bedroom, this kind of sex talk makes your knickers go wet, are ...
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