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Friend advice?!?! Please help. :(
Posted Saturday February 14 2015, 3:38 am
I think my friend "B" is attention seeking.. I hate to say it, knowing and have dealt with same problems.. But her way is different. When I first saw 6 small cuts on the side of "B's" arm I asked her why. She replied, "I wanted to try it to see what would happen. She stopped. Then a year later she said she hurt herself again. I asked her why. She said, "I just felt like it so I did it." She didn't wear anything to cover it.
She says she has depression too, but there's no reason because her family (except for her brother) get along. She gets everything because her dad works at best buy and her mom works at Ross. Discount city.. She thinks depression is just being sad, but being instantly cheered up b...
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my friend for 7 years confuses me.. is it more?
Posted Thursday February 12 2015, 2:31 am
24 year gal, doctor.I became frenz wid a guy in my class,7 years ago.it was good friendship, we usually talked less in class, more on the phone n that too mostly about studies.we both bein studious. years passed, we discussed families, bitched, n talking on phone almost everyday is a custom.he is bit immature n pampered guy,a lot f tym misunderstandings came,we fought in college n sometimes wudnt talk for months,bt somehow we wud sort out evrythng sooner or later.aftr collg we hv to clear a pg entrance, he's a brilliant student, he got thru n i dint. I thought this ws end f our frndshp as i cudnt face him or talk wid my failure.i left my city fr prepration, he joined his course,wich z hell busy.but to my surprise,he made evry effort to kp i...
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I want to sit with a different group but don't want to hurt my current grou
Posted Wednesday February 11 2015, 4:57 am
I want to hang out with a different group for a bit but I don't want to offend or hurt my current group because I've been with them for almost three years.
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I didn't rape anyone
Posted Tuesday February 10 2015, 2:56 pm
Thanks for your comments to my original question. But I haven't raped anyone. It was a lie by the person. They're just using it for attention and presents.
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my best friend in love with me
Posted Monday February 9 2015, 3:23 pm
iam 15yrs of age.i have a friend,my best friend.we went to thesame collage infact we do alot of thing together. But he never mentioned that he love me.yesterday he called me and ask me to meet him in motel which i did when i got there he told me that he loves me and will want me to be his girlfriend. i was speechless for 30 minute and i told him dat i will think about it.what should i tell him?
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My friend is depressed over me ): I need advice please.
Posted Saturday February 7 2015, 4:43 pm
So me and my bestfriend kept having fights. She became closer friends with my enemies (they're in my class) and I became closer to her ex-bff who is her enemy. While trying to find out the reason why they stopped being bff's I told my bff's enemy something I shouldn't have and she got in trouble for it. I apologized to her and said I did not have any intentions of hurting her in any way.
We became friends again. Then someone wrote my name all over the school furniture and I confronted her because I thought she did it because she was ignoring me but she didn't. A week later my science book disappeared and then two boys told me my bff was bad mouthing me. We both had a piece of paper she had my side I had hers. I confronted he...
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My friend is mad for a silly little thing
Posted Friday February 6 2015, 11:38 pm
So during resess, my friend n, not real name, but I won't actually name him, was mad at my other friend,p, again not the real name. So I was joking around and said "Oh punch her in the face," and I started laughing at my joke. P is like "if your a real friend then you wounding have said. So many your not my friend at all." The rest of the day she gives me the silent treatment and I say sorry a million ways and compliment her. She hates my guts! And I'm thinking P be mature cause we play a game we are both out and I'm on one side and she moves to the other. Can u at least pretend and she tells everyone I said to N to hit her. girl get a joke because last year she kicked my head and punched me when I was on the floor.
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Nightmare or Daydream?
Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 10:08 pm
So i've had a hugs crush on this guy for a while, (let's call him c.) Today our families had dinner together. Me and c have been just close friends for a while. C put his hand on my shoulder today at dinner. Tomorrow we have school. I am really excited that he did that but I just don't know how to approach him. I really want to go out with him though.
Any advice?
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Sweet 16 Party
Posted Sunday February 1 2015, 8:06 pm
Hi! i'm a girl and i'm having my Sweet 16 party in several weeks, and i'm starting to send out invitations. most of my friends are girls, but i have a few close guy friends as well. my question is this, should i invite those guy friends even though there will be mostly girls at the party?
i feel like it would be awkward because there would be about 15 girls (maybe) and about 5 or 6 guys. i have more guy friends that i could invite but some of them i don't know all that well. what do you think?
thanks! :)
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bad friend?
Posted Saturday January 31 2015, 9:37 am
My friend brags and lies about everything.she acts like I can't tell it's a lie. She also knows nothing about me our friendship is basically all about her. For examples: she tells that every boy in her classes keep staring at her. That 25 boys have asked her out but she rejected them all. She goes like I'm so pretty. She also makes me tell her she's pretty. I know a lot about Her but she barely knows a thing about me. When she has a problem let's talk but when its me no time. What do I do? I already confronted her once and it was only better for a week before she got worse than before.
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Is it hopeless or is it fixable?
Posted Friday January 30 2015, 10:32 pm
To make a long story very short, I was in a relationship with this guy and we broke up about a month ago. The breakup was bad, because he broke up with me for another girl that he unintentionally got pregnant. He apologized later and I have since forgiven him. We started to become friends again, and it was good. A week or two goes by and he starts talking to me about liking this other girl. That would be fine in most circumstances, but he also said he still had feelings for me. That confused me for a while, but then I figured out how much of a liar he was in the relationship. The next week I told him that I still loved him and how I felt about his lying behavior. I told him because I couldn't get the thoughts out of my head and it was drivi...
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College and friendship
Posted Thursday January 29 2015, 3:20 pm
My best friend of 14yrs attends the same college as me. Neither of us like it here and we wanted to transfer but decided not to. However, we visited another state with another college that we fell in love with and we both sent in applications and decided that we wanted to go there instead. A very hasty decision but something we really wanted. However, her parents have now decided against her going and mine have not. If I get into this college and leave her behind I fear that It will ruin our friendship , but I really love the new school I applied to and I want to go there very badly. What should I do.
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I raped someone
Posted Wednesday January 28 2015, 12:00 pm
I raped someone I want to turn myself in immediately. Tell me what I need to do. I need to be punished. I will not say how it happen and why. I can't make up any excuses. I was drunk but it doesn't change anything. The person who was hurt doesn't want to do anything and prefers to just forget and move on, but I can't . I need to be punished and I want to turn myself in. The person wouldn't have to worry about trial or publicity. I just need to know what I have to prepare for.
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pain after being fingered
Posted Thursday January 22 2015, 7:12 pm
hey someone please help..i am a virgin who was fingered just the other day..when my boyfriend did that i felt so good..two hours later i started having stomach pains till now like seven hours later. am in so much pain. is it normal to have such pains? my lower stomach really hurts
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How to deal with a friend you no longer want but always have to see?
Posted Wednesday January 21 2015, 2:34 pm
So, I have a "friend." Honestly, she has stressed me out for so long now, and I still don’t know how to resolve this issue. We started out the semester as basically best friends. But then I got to know her personality, and it’s the type of personality that demands that other people be pushovers. I am not a pushover. I have been a pushover when I wanted to get others to like me. But by nature I am far from a pushover. My issue in the beginning was that my group of best friends all seemed to like her and hung around her still, so I tried to ignore my negative feelings toward her. I didn’t want to lose my other friends, so I pretended to be okay with her. Still, I would make subtle efforts to hang out without her. More than onc...
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Attention?
Posted Monday January 19 2015, 1:27 pm
How do I fully grab his attention again? How do I get my cuddle buddy back? How do I get him to like me again... That would make my day..how would I get him to try for me again after the shit he pulled with my "bestfriend"
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My friend
Posted Monday January 19 2015, 12:57 pm
So um my ex that I went out with once...we broke up because of my bestfriend telling me he was talking to another girl..so I flipped out on him and then realized it wasn't true and he stopped talking to me and of course he started talking to my "bestfriend" who by the way is really really easy. A week later they have sex...I confront her about it and she told me the truth of course..I was upset so I went back to hang out with my friends and my 2015 resolution was to cut them out of my life...it worked till our friend died... He started to come around my house and my friends more and lucky for me..my friends hated the bitch so she never came around..recently him and I have become closer,a couple people have told us why don't you gu...
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Friends mom is being controlling
Posted Sunday January 18 2015, 8:43 pm
My best friends mom is super strict, like she is now making my friend pay rent and for food when she can't even get a job yet, and her mom doesn't care. It doesn't even seem like she loves her at all. She just wants her to clean the house all the time. My friend is 16, and when she tells me about all the fights she has with her mom, I never know what to say except that I'm sorry and how unfair it is. Does anyone have any ideas on how i can help her?
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Confrontation?
Posted Saturday January 17 2015, 4:03 pm
I have been thinking for awhile about this topic and it's been prompting me to ask for some help. I met a new friend in the fall semester of college and we've gotten super close. My problem; my best friend. She always tells me to ditch her and claims I spend too much time with my new friend. And I've been meaning to ask her what she thinks of my new friend. But I'm not sure if it's a good idea because I don't want to start any more fights because we already went through one and it got really bad. What should I do!
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How can I tell my teacher how I feel about this ?
Posted Thursday January 15 2015, 4:10 pm
Hi I met this new person at my school and we are cool and we say hi to each other. I had problems with previous friendships that I followed and bugged them to much. my teacher found out that I met this new friend and she asked my friend if he had any problems with me hanging with him. and he said no. now the teacher told him that I need help with personal space and things. then she talks to me and she says he has some problems too ,like me. but she is making us both only allowing us to sit together once before school starts and we cannot sit together at lunch anymore and I can only talk to him in the halls at school. I am a little stress out about this and I am not sure if its unfair or fair. I kind of miss the old ways.
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