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my mother
Posted Sunday April 30 2006, 2:50 pm
A little background information. My mother is on the pill(not for birthcontrol tho, other reasons), antidrpessent, leukemia medcine & alot of others.
Lately she yells literally EVERY day. Usually before i'm out of bed, shes yelling. I serioulsy can't take it. She FLIPS out over the smallest things. Like right now shes cleaning & she misplaced the MR. Clean & she was flipping out. IT only adds stress & tension to the house. I seriously can't take it. I've had a headache for over 3 months now. I beleive she is one of the main problems. I'm asking, what should i do to make her calmer & less stressful to others. & i CAN'T confront her.
ps another big problem is $12,000 in debt.
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Posted Friday April 28 2006, 7:05 pm
well i need major help
-i don't know what to do because my parents dont except me and i dont kn ow how to make them
-i have been grounded for 3 weeks because i didnt go to tutoring and they did it purposely to ruin my social life
-they even told me that they were taking my social life away.
-my friends are starting to know
-i feel like someone could shoot me and no one would care
-i used to hate school and love to come home, but now i would rather be anywhere than at home
-my mom makes me tell her about my feelings and then she goes and tells all of her friends
-i cant trust anyone now, not even my parents
-how can i make my life just a little better?
i will rat...
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how do i
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 9:51 pm
i cant stand my mom no more she has to no everything. she is ruining my life.i hate her so much. it has got so bad to were i live wit my gram. so how do i get her out of my life?
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Periods
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 7:44 pm
i HATE PADS BUT mY MOM WHERES THEM AND i WANT TAMPONS BUT SHE'LL PROBABLY SAY NO WHAT DO i DO? i REALLY HATE PADS
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my parents?
Posted Thursday April 27 2006, 1:54 am
uGh im gonna go insane.... 2months and im out of here... ok well ive been really stressed about almost everything.... my parents are sending me away for a year and i honestly dont want to go and like they know but ther buying me like everything i want before i leave but i keep on getting in fights with them beause they get mad when i tell them i dont want to go... i kinda feel bribed but then again i know there sending me for a good reason but ugh im so irratated with everything...today i got in a fight with my mom cause it had something to do with me signing up for summer school so i dont have to repeat the grade and its like ugh i dont mean to fight with her I JUST DONT WANT TO GO ANYWHERE and she started getting mad cause i told one of m...
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secret trip.
Posted Tuesday April 25 2006, 11:29 pm
My Dad was asked to take a job in a city 16 hours from where I live now. He wanted our family to see the place and houses before he took the job so over my spring break, we looked for houses with a realtor everyday and flew/stayed there courtosy of the new company. Anyway, when my friends ask me what I did over the break, I'm not allowed to say anything about the new job or about the house shopping... I have to say I visited people and went shopping even though it's only half true because my dad could lose his current job and there's always a chance he won't take the job. Anyway, It's getting really hard to keep it a secret from everyone. I might be moving there over the summer and when people ask to go places over summer, I don't know what...
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help me
Posted Tuesday April 25 2006, 9:29 pm
ok im 14 and im a girl my problems is well to understand my whole problem i will have to go bac lil while ok so my mom and dad were never married but when i was 4 they broke up and i lived with my grandma with my dad and MY MOM dated this guY his name was dawayne AND when i was like 5 my mom took me away from my dad and i missed him alot and i neVer saw him again till i was 11 and then i started seeing him and he lived with his new wife and her kids i felt really bad i felt like he didnt care about me anymore or sumthin but then he talked to me about it and i was fine then when i was 13 one of my friends moved to her cuzins house((WHO WAS ALSO ONE OF MY FRIENDS)) b-ciz she got abused and my dad got a divore with his wife and then my m...
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my mother is a jerk.
Posted Tuesday April 25 2006, 7:29 pm
hi....im 15/f...
i live with my dad and my step mom. i go to see my mother once a month...if im even lucky, somtimes once every 3 months...but lately ive bean feeling like my mom doesnt love me and more.
last time i saw her i got 2 stay for 2 days only, when i was supposed to stay for 4 days. she took me and my brother home early because she wanted to have sex with her boyfriend that just got out of jail that morning. ive already talked to her about it but she didnt want to listen to me...she just yelled at me instead. saying thay if i loved her i would let her have sex every day.....what should i do? shes never bean there for me at all in my life...when ever i need something for school or when i need clothes she tells me to c...
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ii'm going to ask my mom this question.
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 8:55 pm
Hey Mom, i'll try to make this sweet and simple.
I kinda want my underwear back.
I'm not exactly sure why you took them, but i have an idea. Maybe you thought i was trying to 'impress' somebody? Maybe for punishment? Maybe you thought i was growing up too fast?
i'm not exactly sure but i think its one of those.
I just wannna let you know i'm not trying to impress anybody.
Its kind of a personal preference, its more comfortable & stuff.
i don't like, show people or anything, like some people i know.(aka sluts!)
I don't know, do you want me to earn them back?
well write back.
mmkay
bye
is it good? i don't want to sound like a smart aleck though. ...
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her mom finds a condom
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 8:49 pm
My 1st cousin or basically like my sister.. well her boyfriend gave her a condom.. and her mom found it and now she thinks she had sex and she didn't she wasn't even planning on it.. she told her mom that the condom was our papaws(he's a player/my granny died long back) and me and her was just blowing them up I don't think her mom believed her cause she said why would you have a man/a condom for? I don't know what I should do for her.. How could I help..?.. to make matters worst my cousin was sleeping and her mom slapped her when she was a sleep and she goes F**k!! Please and thank you in advance!
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family
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 8:31 pm
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and lately my mom and I have been fighting alot like on sunday I washed my clothes and I forgot that she said since the washing machine was messed up to get her to help me with my clothes well I washed them anyway and my mom found out and the next thing I knew we were yelling at each other like she cussed me out what is going on since my mom and I use to be so close why are we fighting like this all the time?
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Give and Take?
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 1:49 pm
My boyfriend lives about an hour and a half away so I stay over there a lot. He won't stay at mine. It really annoys me when my boyfriend goes out all day so I'm stuck at his with nothing to do because I can't get home. The other day we were arguing about it when his mam said to me, "I'm not butting in, but it's give and take in a relationship." What does that saying mean? And what does she mean when she says that? Because to me it seems like I do all the giving by going all that way to see him and he does all the taking by ditching me to do something else, but she was supposedly standing up for her son?
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is my son better off without his father in his life??
Posted Monday April 24 2006, 8:28 am
I split up with my sons father about 4 yrs ago and have always let my son go and stay with him on a saturday night. He is not a good role model. He has verbally abused me badly in front of my son, tells my son that i dont love him any more and that its my fault we cant be a proper family. He is unclean and unkempt, doesnt have a job and not really any morals but my son says he loves him. He comes back unclean, tired, argumentative, agitated, naughty, tearful and keeps having little 'accidents' in his pants. I am currently taking my ex to court for harassing me over the last 4 yrs and my son has seen the police come round to discuss it but is always in another room. Twice when i've asked my son (when he's playing up) if he's worried ab...
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i hate my family. help!
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 9:43 pm
ok so heres the deal. my mom and dad divorded when i was 2 years old. he already had kids with his wife before he married my mom and so they never have liked me (my half sisters) since they were older and one has a daughter that is only 5 months younger than me so they never liked my mom either since shes 16 years younger than their dad and my dad... so they of course hate me and my dad sorta likes me well i know he loves me as his child but he never approves of how i do my hair, how i dress or anything. he doesnt like that all my friends are guys. he doesnt like anything about me... my music... or anything. hes always unhappy about something im doing. so yeah. i have TRIED SO HARD to make him like me and to make my relationship better with...
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pretend you were this person, what wud you do? (sry its kind
Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 2:19 am
ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do?
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Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 7:18 pm
I need to make my parents understand that some kids will drink and some kids will smoke once in a while. [[those some kids arent me, but they are my friends]] My parents are trying to keep me away from my best friend because I got caught with alchohal when I was with him.
I cant live without him he is a big part of me and keeps me happy and alive. What can I say to my parents? help me please!
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My Sister
Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 4:37 pm
My sister is such a bitch. Everytime I do the slightest thing wrong she swears at me (eg. f*cking retard, f*cking moron). She searches for stuff I do wrong so she can yell at me. She thinks she's a perfect little angel, when she's not and fucks up just as much as I do, but when she does, she just shrugs it off and says "whatever". I've tried ignoring but it doesn't work. How can I make her stop calling me names ? I really appreciate any help because I can't take this.
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my dad has a new girlfriend
Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 10:56 am
i am a 13 year old female and my parents have divorced but unlick many who live with their moms i live with my dad. but anyway he has gotten a new girlfriend and shes always over at our house and hanging out and stuff its not that i dont like her its just my dad treats my different around her like yelling at my over really stupid stuff and i dont know how to tell him without getting yelled at *i've already tryed and got grounded for two days cause he made me so mad i started yelling* how should i talk to him?
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Parents
Posted Friday April 21 2006, 11:00 pm
Sometimes my parents and I just dont get along..Sometimes i dont feel like listening to them so then i get in trouble..Its like im always grounded and I dont get to do anything fun anymore! I just dont want to do what they tell me to do..Please try to help...thankss
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who should i live with???
Posted Friday April 21 2006, 10:55 pm
okay so here is my story. my parents had me before they got married..but they got separated before that so i guess im technically a love child-but anyways thats not the point.
what my question is, is who should i live with as i go into my first year of high school???
let me give you a bit of an updated backround before you answer this not-easy question...
~dads house~ dad, stepmom, and stepbrother (17)
PROS: no crying babies, more alone time, more time with me/my dad, more attention(more like atleast some attention), good healthy food, spending money, dad usually takes me places on the weekends
CONS: i dont get to see my sisters grow up, i probably break the small contact t...
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