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Trouble With Meeting People


Posted Thursday September 24 2020, 8:58 am

I'm 20/f. I have social anxiety, so whenever I meet new people my voice shakes and I feel so nervous. This is embarrassing because I want to appear like a strong, confident person but instead I feel like I'm timid or weak. I always worry about what people's first impressions of me are. How can I be more relaxed when meeting new people?

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I put toothpaste on my clit


Posted Tuesday September 22 2020, 8:59 pm

So I decided to put toothpaste on my clit because it's all someone do it on p****** is it safe and I already done it I'm about to rinse it off what should I do

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Parents disagree w/ my decision, but I need their support


Posted Tuesday September 22 2020, 11:58 am

I'm a twenty year old former college student. As a freshman, I became friends with a couple girls in my dorm who were dealing Adderall and Ritalin to people using them as study aids. I allowed myself to get talked into helping them deal. Long story short, we eventually got caught, expelled, and are now facing criminal charges.

The prosecution is offering a plea deal. In exchange for a guilty plea, I'll only have to do a year in jail. I plan to accept the deal. It's definitely a lighter sentence than what I'll be facing if I try and fight the charges and lose.

My parents don't want me to plead out. They want me to fight the charges, despite knowing I'm guilty. But as I said, I don't want to risk being in jail f...

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My grandma blamed me for ruining her relationship with my mom


Posted Monday September 21 2020, 8:28 pm

In our country, families are very close knit and live in the same house. I wasn’t expecting to get scolded by my grandma for telling my mom that she let my cousin(who has stolen a lot of money and stuff from us and ran away multiple times) sleep in our living room while she was guarding me for the night while my mom was away from town. I just agreed with her, because I don’t have much of a choice either and my cousin might have been swarmed by mosquitoes in his bedroom. But I went to my mom’s bedroom because I really didn’t feel safe with him. She specifically told me that because of what i told my mom.things have changed for my grandma and my mom. I think you guys can tell that I dislike this cousin of mine. In between of the pand...

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Strained Relationship with In-Laws


Posted Sunday September 20 2020, 1:59 pm

My in-laws and I don't have a very good relationship. When I first got married, I was working full-time and my husband's parents were very kind and appreciative of me. However, a few months later I got pregnant with our first child. My husband and I discussed it and we agreed that I would be a stay-at-home mom. I stopped working, but then just two months after having my baby my mom-in-law started asking when am I going back to work? I was surprised that she was asking me this so soon, but I just blew it off. But then my husband's father started asking the same question, and then his sister got involved. They even said they wanted to have a talk with me and all three of them ganged up on me at the same time. Of course I pushed back because I...

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elderly mother babys adult son


Posted Friday September 18 2020, 8:15 pm

I will try to make this short...
My brother (52) still lives at home with my mother. (79) Obviously he has mental issues, but, yes has been able to hold down a job, (for over 30 years until the company closed down) drive, (he has a CDL) as well as many other things. He cant, however, do laundry, change a lightbulb, or even pick his mother up from the hospital when she was discharged...the reason? "He's too nervous" my mother says. He obviously has mental issues that were never formally diagnosed. She covers for him all the time and babys him to a ridiculous extent...Anyway, bottom line is that when she dies, he will have no where to live. I have tried MANY times to discuss this with her, to have a plan, but she blows m...

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I'm think I disconnected with my family with friends ex-significant others


Posted Friday September 18 2020, 2:00 pm

The most basic issue that I can put the bring it to is all I wanted to do today was not talk to anybody I copped to every day I shut my phone off I held out for almost 13 Hours and then I turned it back on I haven't talked to anybody yet but I keep wanting to I need to space myself out from everybody I think because my everything in my life is messed up and getting worse by the day and I don't know where to start anymore. I was driving home last night and my car pulls toward left & it veried to shoulder a bit and I felt the rumble strips underneath and then I just pictured my car driving straight off into the into the field and I had to feeling my stomach like I just went on a rollercoaster I think it might have been relieved. I know ...

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Still Depressed


Posted Thursday September 17 2020, 11:26 am

I tend to get depressed, but I don't really know why. My therapist said it has to do with the fact that my dad was an alcoholic growing up. My childhood felt very unstable and there was a lot of arguing in my house. My dad finally got help a few years ago and he stopped drinking, so we have a better relationship now. I also moved out, so I thought having my own place would give me peace and calmness. However, I still feel this sadness hanging over me, especially when I'm in my apartment alone. I always longed for that happy family life where we did things together and had fun. However, my family and I are not very close and I never feel like I have their support, which makes me very sad. I also live in the same neighborhood where I grew up ...

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confused about my feelings to crush (?)


Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 6:39 pm

Here is the backstory.
I moved to another city because of university and met a girl (who is in the same group as me). We became friends (?) really fast, which is weird because I'm shy and it usually takes me months to find a connection with others. And even faster I realize what I may have feelings for her (I was missing her when she was not around, I always tried to be as close to her as I could, and ALWAYS was distracted by her presence). It all was affecting my education, so I decided to tell her the truth (after 2 weeks of meeting her btw). And at the next day my things changed ( I stopped thinking of her 24/7, become less anxious, etc. )
I don't understand why. The only thing that was different in this 2 days is that I m...

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Relationship Jealousy/ communication


Posted Wednesday September 16 2020, 10:53 am

Hi all, I am a 24 year old female and dating my boyfriend for a little over a year, and we live together. Lately I have been having serious jealousy issues. I know we love together but we don’t actually do much together, always just cooped up in the house. Honestly, there’s hardly a reason for me to be jealous of anything. He talks to his friends CONSTANTLY which is annoying but liveable. I think the main reason for my out of control jealousy is that he’s not making me feel loved or appreciated or included and no affection/attention. And I’m such an affectionate attentive girlfriend. I’ll hug, kiss, cuddle, play whatever. I’ve explained this before to him that I need more from him. Last night I told him twice that he can’t jus...

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What should I do if the guy I liked for 6 years changed and ignored me?


Posted Saturday September 12 2020, 11:43 pm

Hi Im a teenager from the Philippines and I've liked a boy since we were in elementary school. We've never really talked that much in real life but we used to talk all the time through social media about random things. We both went to different high schools and still talked after that, but one day he started to just see my messages and not reply to them until an hour later. I then knew that he was interested in a classmate of his in his new class and started to ignore me for the next several days. He probably felt nothing for ignoring me but for me it was the most painful thing that he has ever done to me. Until today I've been deep in sadness and he still doesnt chat me. Should I cut ties with him or tell him what I feel?

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How do I know if he likes me too?


Posted Friday September 11 2020, 7:42 pm

I am a sixteen year old girl in high school and there is a guy I have liked for about two years now. It’s been an on and off thing because we have both dates other people but something always brings me back to my feelings for him. I have never told him that I like him and he has never told me either, but the way we have been acting with each other seems like there’s something going on. But the thing is, I’m not really his usual type so I don’t know. He broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago and he wasn’t upset about it plus he wouldn’t tell me the reason. He has been sending small signals but he is a flirty person in general so I don’t know if I am reading into this too far or if it is really happening. How can I find ou...

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Gettin into a relationship with a guy.


Posted Friday September 11 2020, 12:09 am

I’m a brand new freshman in Hs and corona has stopped us from being in person. So we are on zoom all day. In my art class there’s a Junior. His name is Prince and he’s extremely cute. But I can’t talk to him because I have no idea how to look him up on social media or chat with him while on zoom without everyone seeing my business. Homecoming is coming up and I want to go with him though I don’t know how to ask when we aren’t in person nor have met face to face. I’m really stuck. And I know a little bit about him. The more and more I learn the more I like this guy. Please help me :(. Thanks so much.

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How to link dropdown menu options to pages within website in WIX webbuilder


Posted Sunday September 6 2020, 3:44 pm

Hi. I'm using Wix web builder to make a non-profit website called helpmycity.org where people can go to be connected to organizations and people with ideas, services, projects that will help their city.

Question: I simply wish to link pages with a dropdown menu that contains all 50 States. The idea is that when someone selects a State, that State is linked to its own separate page.
From that individual "State" page, people can look at projects and offerings.
I have already created the States dropdown that lists all 50 States.


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Creating pages that link from a dropdown menu


Posted Wednesday September 2 2020, 6:16 pm

Hi. I'm using Wix web builder to make a non-profit website called helpmycity.org where people can go to be connected to organizations and people with ideas, services, projects that will help their city.

Question: I simply wish to link pages with a dropdown menu that contains all 50 States. The idea is that when someone selects a State, that State is linked to its own separate page.
From that individual "State" page, people can look at projects and offerings.
I have already created the States dropdown that lists all 50 States.

Thanks!!

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Traumatised


Posted Monday August 31 2020, 5:33 pm

Hi my ex absolutely loved bombed me from day 1 he sent me up to 50 texts a day declaring his interest and love and how I'm his whole word wasnt a day he didn't tell me how much he loved me so a few weeks ago he got drunk and lied and brought a woman to the place he stays said noting happend i forgave since then ive discovered he has a drink problem so i tried support him he ended up been kicked out of the house he lived in because of the drinking so had to return to Scotland toll he could find accommodation here....sunday i was with him and seen a womans name keep ringing phone i asked him he said was just a mate i took phone off him to to discover 2 different women he was arranging to meet up with we had words etc. i told him we would nee...

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why won't Music Choice play Bruce Springsteen ?


Posted Sunday August 30 2020, 12:22 pm

recently i started liking Bruce Springsteen again and when i turned on music choice i could not find any of his songs no matter where i looked i know they played him before but they haven't recently been doing that how can i get them to do it ?

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Guys- how do I stop?


Posted Sunday August 30 2020, 12:15 am

How do I stop going after emotionally unavailable men? They're huge babies, have commitment issues, cowards, do not know how to be themselves or hold a conversation.
I have a terrible habit and I keep hurting myself. Also, I attract creeps- why is that? I attract guys who I am never interested in.
Help! hahaha

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Ocular Laser Damage


Posted Saturday August 29 2020, 2:53 am

I went to a large gathering and someone was there shining a laser and some kind of equipment throughout the crowd. The laser hit me and caused me to temporary lose awareness and part of my vision was damaged. It took a while for me to realize that I was experiencing discomfort and whenever I saw flashing Iights it use to trigger a PSTD attack. The permanent part of it was that when light reflects off of surfaces it hits the sensitive spot in my eyes and puts me in a semi-aware state, like a coma and I mostly can’t do anything when that happened. The best solution that I have right now is wearing sunglasses but it’s really annoying and uncomfortable to wear those all the time and everywhere. Most of the work that I have been doing requir...

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Allergy To Covid Mask Material.


Posted Friday August 28 2020, 10:31 pm

I always wear a mask and gloves no matter the situation when it comes to Covid-19. The problem I am having is that my face absolutely burns the second I put it on. I thought it may have been cotton in the ones people have made for me but the issue appears to be there even with the surgical type of mask that you can buy that looks like what they have in emergency rooms but isn't the same grade.

Does anyone know what I can try? Thus far I suck it up and keep the thing on suffering silently. My face incidentally isn't the only issue. It's been this way for the duration of Covid-19 that my eyes water and get sore and burning itch too to the point I have to find a place to sit down and take glasses off at times.

I'...

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