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They Never Listen
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:43 am
I can't stand my parents! I'm 15 and have only 3 years left of high school but I don't think I can wait that long. My parents continuously call me nicknames I've explained to them I don't like being called, and they never listen to me. They always say I do things that I don't and I'm always the first one blamed for everything, regardless of the situation. They do not support any of the things I want to do- particularly with music and sports- but I love doing what I do and I'm actually good at it. My twin sister is never treated like I am- they act like she's the Perfect Child. Plus, my dad has a serious anger problem and my mom is an in-denial alcoholic, so they always over react to the littlest things lots of the time. I feel like I may en...
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My Mom's Unpredictable Mood
Posted Friday August 18 2006, 11:41 am
My mom's mood is very unpredictable. She can sometimes be very delusional, abusive, and irrational. I know that she was abused when she was younger but she refuses to talk about it with anyone, she hasn't even told me. I also know that schizophrenia runs in my family. I think that she has some kind of mental illness and I want her to get help. If not she will just keep driving me and her boyfriend away from her with her mistreatment. I just don't know how to convince her to get help and admit she has a problem. If she doesn't get help soon I'll be forced to leave her. I can't stand the way she treats me. Please help me.
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My step-dad beat the hell out of me.
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 8:19 pm
Last night my step-dad beat me. He's done it before, but last night was the worst it has ever been. I called the police and they came to examine me, but they didn't find any marks. But TODAY my face is REALLY swollen and bruised up. What should I do to make him get in the trouble that he deserves? I can't call CPS because I've already had three cases with all of them with the same problem, but they have all been dropped. I'm tired of being hit and I want him in jail.
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what should i do about this girl?
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 5:17 am
well this girl isn't exactly my friend but like she is so mean to me because supposbly i'm 'full of myself' I don't say anything too bad just once in awile i'll be like wow i llok good today or i'll say something nice about myself. But she freaked out about it and is so rude. for an example we both have pages on this site and on her page she posted this about me.
lets play guess who.
whore.
turns into a bigger slut when they get druunk.
talks about themself NON-stop.
paper thin hair.
huge greasy nose.
gorilla face.
little white short shorts.
black and blonde hair.
totally fake, all make-up.
does shit with every guy.
walking std.
icky...
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me and my sisters
Posted Thursday August 17 2006, 12:56 am
well i kno my sisters are kinda pissed off at me becuz i be takin they things w/o askin sometimes. and i dont blame them but they got the kicks that i want and i dont be wantin to make them mad but im broke cuz this my senior year in high school and i cant work. i gotta study and graduate. whats another way to make some money? and apologize to my sisters w/o tellin them EVERYTHING i took?
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how do i convince them?
Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 10:48 pm
I recently asked my parents for a cell phone, but they aren't giving in. 15/m by the way...i get good grades like all almost all A's. My parents said that money isn't the important thing, so I need some advice in convincing them to get me a phone? what could I say or do?
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Big sister is moving out :(
Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 10:03 pm
Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with a sibling moving out and going off to college? My sister and I are a year and half apart and she's moving out in a little over a week. We're really close and I just can't imagine her not being here.
We also have an older brother that moved out 4 years ago but I guess I didn't notice as much since I still had my sister.
Now, I'm going to be all alone (well...with my parents) and have the whole upstairs of our house to myself basically and I know it sounds kind of dumb, but it's scary. Has anyone else felt this way and had to deal with it?
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Should I tell my parents?
Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 5:13 pm
f/15
I want to date this guy who I have been quite close friends with for years. We have always liked eachother as more than friends (although it was sort of on and off since we went periods without hanging out) and that is what kept our friendship alive. We have always acted like we were dating (to some extent) and I'm quite sure it would be long lasting between us. I think he is going to ask me out within the next two weeks since we recently told eachother for the first time how we really feel.
Now the thing is that I have had two boyfriends in the past but never told my parents so they think I have never dated a guy. They know I hang out with this guy a lot and he calls my house sometimes asking if I wanna c...
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problems!!!!
Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 3:21 am
okay so i have a huge problem well i dunno but i got into a little fight with a friend over the internet and she is moving and i really want her to for give me but... i don't know if she will cause i was being a real big biotch so can any one help what should i do or say???
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Asking your mom about a bra
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 4:42 pm
For a big portion, it's easy to ask your mom for a bra. I only wear a 34A and she thinks I don't need to buy a bra that much. I only have two, and I want more...but how do I drum up a conversation to ask her? I'm almost 14 (I know, I should be already familar with this) but I'm nervous. What's a great way to ask?
*Stupid Question, I know*
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my cousin spous
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 3:24 pm
Me and my cousin has this "friendship" going on ..she told me that she was full in love with a guy that I happen to know because he was my neighbour back in the days..I DON'T LIKE THE GUY!!!!! he is a player for far as I know him ...I tried to tell her but she is blind ,she even slept with him many times ...Yesterday my sister told me he was trying to hit on another cousin of us
How do I tell my cousin this ?
Is there a gentle way to tell her ..or should I never ever tell her and let her findout herself ...doesn't that make me a bad friend/cousin?
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how can you help me??
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 5:32 pm
i need advice on moving back with my mom.. i cant take this anymore.. i need answers from people with ideas of excaping my parents ..im not trying to say anything bad.. but i am really depressed unless im with my mom again!!!!! i know this sounds kind of bad because i want to get rid of these people in my life.. but let me explain:
they made me get adopted to them 3 years ago when i was 12..ive been on hold with my life ever since..so i need help..major help!! i dont want any answr about trying to get along with my adopted female and male guardian....i just want to know if there is any way to excape...without being in trouble...if there is no way you can help.. my life is totally ruined...i rather be dead than to liv...
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Dad was in an accident
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 4:11 pm
My dad was in a bad car accident a few days ago and he's still in the hospital. The doctors say he's stable but he's in a...coma. Which I don't even understand because how can he be stable if he's in a coma?
Well I'm supposed to be moving out in like, 10 days because I'm starting college and I'm moving 4 hours away. The thing is though, I don't want to leave my mom and my sister if my dad isn't conscious by then. I don't know what to do because I'm so scared about my dad and I don't want to leave.
Classes don't start until the 30th but move in day is in 10 days. I don't have to move in by moving day but I know I have to be there by the first day of classes. I don't even know if I'm going to be a...
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Babysitting cousins
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 2:26 pm
I babysit my cousins who all love attention. Theres three of them and it's hard to give them all attention. What can I do to keep them busy while paying attention to all of them?
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my sister is a boyfriend stealer
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 1:09 pm
My sister is a boyfriend stealer. She went out with my boyfriend when i still liked him and she almost had sex with him. Now my sister is trying to steal my best friend's boyfriend away from her. Her boyfriend and my sister say there is nothing to worry about but when they are online talking they say things like she wants to take a shower with him and she wants to have sex with him. We tried talking to her but she always says she only likes him as a friend. What should we do?
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I CAN'T STAND HER
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 8:50 am
OH MY GOSH, SHE IS SUCH A SNOOP. I HATE IT AND I CAN'T STAND HER! SHE SHOULD REALLY GET A LIFE AND LEAVE ME ALONE! SHE'S SUCH A B*TCH. I CAN'T STAND IT ANYMORE! SHE HAS EMBARASSED ME AND I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE. I WANT TO RUN AWAY! I'M JUST SOOOOOO UPSET.she has got to read everything that i do/write. and i told her not to go on there, she logs on. and i can't change my password because she'll have a fit. help? i can't take it anymore
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Posted Sunday August 13 2006, 11:49 pm
My mom, acts like she was a perfect teenager. She always says how she was skinnier then me, or how she was prettier then me. & how she was just ever so popular. Now don't get me wrong, i know i'm up in that crowd, & im pretty & i only weigh like 90 pounds, & im 14. soo.. this isnt where im going with this. what my problem is, is its kinda hurting my feelings. cuz like, i dont like hearing that. like, idno. im just not. & i dno..has anyones parents ever done that to them? like saying there not responsible, like they were when theywere younger &stuff? what did u do about it? or what should i do about it?
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we treat her like a child?!?
Posted Sunday August 13 2006, 9:05 pm
My sister is 13. This entire summer she hasnt gone to any of here friends house or even have them come over our house. But before the summer she had friends over every single weekend. she hasnt gone anywhere with the family either.
She spends every second of her day on the computer Seriously. Myspace to be exact. She has ten different myspaces && they are all of famous people from the disney channel. && she talks to people on there like she knows them in person. She has over 700 friends on each one. && she talks to every single one of them. I made me a fake myspace && made it so i was a famous person from disney && she even talks to me. but she doesnt know its me. And im not telling he...
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My brother's so rude!
Posted Sunday August 13 2006, 8:38 pm
My older brother, 19 years old, is going to school at the naval academy. He is home right now for the summer. He doesn't do much to help out. He just sleeps at our house, and eats our food. He lays on the couch all day and watches cartoons and goes out with his friends (without telling us) so sometimes we find ourselves without a car because he took it. He doesn't go to church with us. He ate 2 gallons of our icecream in just a few days. And at dinner tonight, my mom changed the channel before we sat down, so my brother went upstairs to watch what he had on before instead of eating with us. When my mom told him to come down, he said he wasn't hungry. I just want to yell at him and tell him to get his act together, but I don't think it's my place. What do I do?
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i hate my mom
Posted Sunday August 13 2006, 3:20 pm
I hat my mom.She wants me to get new friends because she thinks that all of my friends are horrible (ugh i HATE her)so I wanted to go somewhere with A friend and she won't let me go b/c there is gonna be drinking but i see it all the time...even my dad drinks she is so stupid she alwayts thinks that she is making the Best disision.So my question here is how can i get her to let me go places????
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