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Posted Thursday November 2 2006, 8:24 pm
14/f..I have to go to my dads everyother week end.. and I swear to by god that he trys his best to make me miserable he won't let me go any where with my friends unless i'm down on my knees crying and begging to go..he's sooo stubborn and it kills me.. I can't wait til I'm 18 so I won't have to go down there..What could I do to get him to let me go with my friends without begging? How could I get him not to let me go down there period!
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I'm really messed up (and my fammily to)
Posted Wednesday November 1 2006, 9:16 pm
I'm addmiting it i am really messed up, my family has some seriouse issues and i don't know what to!I won't ake the time to tell you all the bad things that go on in my house just trust me there really bad.I think i might be going crazy but i don't know how to stop.I'ev cut myself alot and cry all the time, I make myself sick and through up all the time but i am not fisicly sick i think i am mently sick.I have terrible night mears and wake up screaming and sobing.I habe thought of killing myself, i think if things don't get better i could end up hurting myself vary badly or mabey even killing myself.What should i do?To make this easyer to answer i will give you some more deatails, I really want to lose weight i am 13 and 5ft and 120 pounds,...
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Please help...read and help please
Posted Wednesday November 1 2006, 3:05 pm
My aunt is the biggest sister of 3 siblings. I went by her for a month and now we're deciding to go by her to live. Not by her house, but get our owwn house in time.
She said she'd help but recently we've only been talking on the internet and she barely calls.....if she calls at all!!!
I really miss her calls and I wonder if she still wants us there. She completely never (ok maybe sometimes) talks about us moving there and I wish she would because how else would I know if she wants us or not.
What do you think? Do you think she wants us. (it's my, my baby bro, mum, grandma and maybe my uncle)...do you think she still wants us?
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Fighting with Sister
Posted Wednesday November 1 2006, 10:30 am
The following message is from my younger brother and not from me (ty1993). He doesn't have an account.
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Hi. Thank you for reading this! My sister is named Lauren. I constantly have fights with her, and it is always me who gets in to trouble with my parents. I really want to stop fighting with my sister so that I can grow up and have a good relationship with her. Are there any ways to stop fighting with her quickly and easily? Please help me with my problem. I hate fighting with my parents also. About 99% of my fights with my parents are related to me fighting with my sister. I really need to stop this. Thank you very much for your help.
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I am not who my mom thinks I am!!
Posted Tuesday October 31 2006, 6:11 pm
Okay, well, my mom always thinks I'm angry and depressed about things and she is always wondering why, but she doesn't know that it's HER fault that I'm always like that! She's just so annoying and she nags me over everything, even over stuff I don't have to do!
But, I'm not even all that depressed and angry, it's only sometimes when my sister or my mom is being so annoying! I'm always happy, but she doesnt think so. Why does my mom nag me so much?
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Do you see where i'm coming from?
Posted Tuesday October 31 2006, 3:40 pm
I just got in touch with my dad and his family one year now. i haven't seen them since so we mostly talk on the phone they live down south and i live up north. my youngest aunt who's 24 (1'm 18) wanted me to open up at first and i did i mean i told her things i tell my bestfriend only to make her feel included in my life. well i started relalizing that all the time i was being open with her she was never sharing anything with me. when i first got in touch she told me things that happened but it was stuff from the past. just lately i realized that when she told me some things and i brought it back up to her she would say something different which makes it a lie obviously. every time i tell her something all she does is tell her sister who is...
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How do you get thru the madness
Posted Tuesday October 31 2006, 12:57 am
I moved to Chicago and left my job to help take care of my mother because she was alone and ill. So far since we have moved here there has been nothing but bad luck. When we first moved here all of our things were flooded out. I have been searching for a new job and have not had any luck. My wife came across a temp job and she is going so far. I on the other hand am becoming more and more impatient. This is putting a strain on our marriage and our religion. I have become more and more irritated and starting to snap at my wife. I am tried of hearing people say good things happen to good people. I am trying to keep my mother happy but it is killing me inside and my faith. I could sure use some advice on how to keep my head up. The last thing ...
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Baby Names
Posted Monday October 30 2006, 6:02 pm
So im having a baby in a couple weeks, its a boy. I want to name him Aiden but im having trouble with a middle name. Any ideas?! thanks!
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Struggling, in an abusive marriage
Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 12:49 pm
I have been married 9 years. In the beginning my wife and I got along great and I would say I considered her my best friend. Over the years though she has become difficult to live with. We do have two kids (girl age 7, and a boy, almost 2). She is currently a stay at home mom. She has really changed, as have I, but with her, she is always yelling and belittling, particularly to my daughter and to me as well. We don't fight every day, but several times a week is probably the norm. The other day as my daughter was getting ready for school, she was yelling at her to get ready (I was taking her to school), As she was leaving for school my wife yells out the door to my daughter, I was hoping to be in a good mood today, its your fault that I'm n...
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Communication difficulties.
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 9:53 pm
I have a hard time talking to my parents about anything. Whenever I'm around them alone it's an akward silence. I feel bad about asking them to do anything for me (when I rarely ask). Every day after school, I just go up to my room and get on the computer and sleep. I self-relient. I cook, clean, and shop for myself; I also drive myself to anywhere I may need to go. I asked my mom to go to the mall with me a few weeks ago and it was almost like pulling teeth to get her to agree (I had just started driving and I was nervous driving around the mall area since it's so congested. I wanted her to drive ONLY around that area). My mom can't really use the "I'm too busy to [insert activity here]" excuse since she doesn't work and I'm the ...
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Communication difficulties.
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 9:45 pm
I have a hard time talking to my parents about anything. Whenever I'm around them alone it's an akward silence. I feel bad about asking them to do anything for me(when I rarely ask).Every day after school, I just go up to my room and get on the computer and sleep. I self-relient. I cook, clean, and shop for myself; I also drive myself to anywhere I may need to go. I asked my mom to go to the mall with me a few weeks ago and it was almost like pulling teeth to get her to agree (I had just started driving and I nervous driving around the mall area since it's so congested, so I wanted her to drive ONLY around that area). My mom can't really use the "I'm too busy to [insert activity here]" excuse since she doesn't work and I'm the only child that lives in the house.
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i think i am depressed
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 8:28 pm
For as long as I can remember my family has been realy srued up.I think that every think that has happind is makeing me depressed, my sister cuts herself and now I almost think I want to cut myself to.I know nothing is going to get better only wores so there is nothin I con do.How can I deel with my family so that i don't end up cuting myself?
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My mother's reliability
Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 5:44 pm
16/F
Here it goes..kinda long. Thursday (Oct 28) I had a doctor's appointment at 3:15PM. I emailed my mom the weekend before telling her I had an appointment and she'd need to give me a checkout note for school so I could leave early. Thursday morning, I was about to leave for school (I was leaving later than usual) and I asked my mom if she had written a note for me. She replied, "I thought it was on Friday". I huffed and said, "It's a good thing I don't rely on you". I don't ask my mom to do much for me at all(I do: grocery shopping, cooking, and cleaning for myself; I also transport myself where ever I need to go). I told her I don't rely on her because I ask her to do so very little, yet she forgets to do it. ...
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Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 1:46 pm
i'm so incredibly pissed right now its not even funny. i want to teach my mother a lesson! her and her stupid sister too! i want to make them worry about me and make them never speak to me the way they do again. i really hate this. they're always blaming me for my grandmother's heart condition and i don't even do anything. i'm the only person in this family that actually cares about my grandmother because everyone else treats her like shit. in english, we had to write an essay about our hero, and i wrote about her, because she's my hero and i love her more than anyone probably could. so, they should just shut up. what should i do?
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3 pregnant wimen.
Posted Thursday October 26 2006, 4:39 am
I really think I am the only person in this world who is being in this position. I love my woman and I am so willing to spend every second of my life with her. The problem is that she moved away for a month and made it clear to me that it is all over. I love children I would love to make her tons of children, I am always thinking how beautifull she is and how beautifull would our children be. She has the most beautifull eyes in the world.
So anyways, I was very patient, made many sacrifices for her, did not cheat on her, did not even find another girl for a while because I had hopes that we will be back together one day and I did not want to give bad charma to it.
I tried to convince myself to move on but just could not, i ha...
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Meeting the parents
Posted Thursday October 26 2006, 12:30 am
This weekend i am going to stay at my boyfriends moms house. i meet her once before. she didnt seem to like me to much. but i only meet her for a few minutes. i have talked to her online once. She told my boyfriend she wants to meet me so were going there for the weekend. i am about 5 1/2 months pregnant with my boyfriends baby. which makes me more nervous.
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My mom treats me unfairly.
Posted Wednesday October 25 2006, 6:40 pm
So today I had a really unlucky day...everything that could go wrong went wrong. I even didn't feel good today. I still have the migrain i had an hour ago. Anyways At the very end of the schoolday I took my phone out to text my boyfriend when I was done i put my phone in my pocket. When I was on the bus with my boyfriend I was about to call my mom and it figures my phone wasn't in my pocket so it must have fallen out. I called my mom on his house phone and told her and she got really pissed. She was talking so negativly to me about it saying i will never see it again. How does she know? Then she was telling me that i don't care about anything and I don't take care of my stuff... She was basically telling me its all my fault. Is it my fault ...
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Abortion.
Posted Wednesday October 25 2006, 6:10 pm
I was always against abortion. I am 16 years old and pregnant. I have a boyfriend for 5 monghs now and we never had sex. The problem is that on a night out with a friend of mine "girl" I got raped. Somebody must have sleeped me that ruffy cause I do not remember anything and woke up the next day feeling like my head is going to explode. That happen over 45 days ago.
My parents now, we told them its my boyfriends and it is my fault cuase my parents have been through a lot and I really dont want them to know. I consider myself mature enough to battle with my own problems and mistakes. I consider it to be my fault since I was not carefull enough. Plus, them knowing would change a lot.
I definately do not want to keep t...
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how to ask my parents...
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 11:09 pm
every year i get 2 swimsuits, but last year i didn't get any because i forgot about it. anyway, i saw this really cute burberry bikini that's 175$ and i really want it, but i just got back from san francisco with my dad and he bought be 2 pairs of 170$ pants. i feel bad asking for the swim suit now, but i do need a new one, and if i just get one this year do you think my parents would be okay with it? help, i don't want to sound spoiled!
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Family falling apart
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 8:58 pm
my parents having been like a couple foir the best year. My mom told me once that she was thinking of making him leave. but never went through with it. then she told me again and this time she would alywas get mad at my dad. && im thinking she might acualy get a divorce this time. my mom doesnt have a lot of money and i dont think that we could survive on our own w/o my dad. but i dont want to tell her that. And also i was looking through her cell phone once and i looked at her text messages and there was one that said some "nasty" stuff to someone named mark....not my dad....so i have a feeling shes cheating ??? And of course i dont want to tell her that either. && i just wwant my parents to be more of a couple. Is there anything i can do?
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