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He dosnt want me calling him dad anymore
Posted Monday September 21 2015, 12:58 am
I don't really know what I did but it's just really hard to accept because today is 14 years since my b.ilogical dad died
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He doesnt want to be my dàd anymore!
Posted Saturday September 19 2015, 10:25 am
26 female
My dad died when I was 12 but 2 years ago my cousins husband saw how upset I was about it and said I could call him dad if I wanted to. We use to be really close. I could tell him anything and he would be there for me. I could even tell him things I knew he wouldn't like but he would forgive me but things have changed just a few minutes ago he told me not to call him dad any more. I messed up bigtime. I lost my real dad 14my years ago monday and now I lost my new dad and this time it's my fault.
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Sibling Favoritism?
Posted Thursday September 17 2015, 10:15 pm
My mom is really close with my sibling; she's affectionate towards her, they have inside jokes, and they're pretty much mother & daughter goals. My mother isn't that affectionate towards me or even very close with me at all and I don't know why. She's called me so many names and she won't hesitate to hit me or insult me if I'm annoying her or doing something wrong. I get really nervous when she's angry and when her voice sounds the way it does when she's angry. I act pretty stoic, so is that why she's not close with me? Thank you for answering; I could really use the advice!
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What should I do when I know they guy I'm dating will be moving soon?
Posted Thursday September 17 2015, 1:48 am
Long story short, I just started dating somebody two weeks ago. He's 24 (I just turned 21) and he's in his last year of med school. He's applying for residencies all over the country and I know that it's quite possible he'll get a job in another state. I'm also currently in college for a related medical degree, but I just started. Tonight I went over to his house and we watched a movie in his room and I didn't think anything would happen, but we wound up kissing a lot and borderline making out (though not french kissing) several times while laying together. I decided to leave before things got any farther but he seemed disappointed and I know that means he's probably going to want more on later dates and I don't know if I'm comfortable wit...
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don't know what to do!
Posted Tuesday September 15 2015, 5:39 am
Hi there I tried to seek for help from Psychologist but something or the other happend n I never told anyone about it..cause its about my mother n I love her.but in recent days I am being unable to tolerate her. In her past life since her childhood she had gone through mental torture n suppression. Everyone has dominated her as she was very submissive n polite. Literally she was tortured because of her soft heart. Even after her marriage, whichwas an arranged one, she was tortured by her brother n sister in laws...even my Dad is not at all a family oriented guy..he has cheated on my mom n she has forgiven him several times n stayed with him. But suddenly in last few years she has changed a lot. Am not saying that she has become cruel or any...
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Is It Childish to Miss Your Mom?
Posted Sunday September 13 2015, 1:08 am
Is it childish to be in college and to miss your parents, especially your mom? How do you handle that? Especially when you haven't been away from your mom for more than three days in YEARS. Like 16 or 17 years. My mom's not far away and I'm lucky because I'll never go more than a week without seeing her, but this still sucks. I'm excited about the good times I'm gonna have in the future, but still. I miss my dad too, but I'm used to being away from him (he travels a lot). Does anyone have any advice. Am I completely childish for missing my mom and dad at my age?
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my family is mad at me
Posted Saturday September 12 2015, 6:14 am
I don't really know where to begin but i am going to start off by saying i am a 26 year old femaleand awhile back I moved in with my cousin and i think it might have been the biggest mistake I ever made in my life becaus a sonreally who has autisim who is 24black but has the mind of a 2 year old and he is really attached to me ge follows me everywhere. I can't even go to the bathroom without him wanting to know where i am going. I talked to my cousin and explained to jer that I get nervous easily and have panick attacks and just need time to myself amd she wont speak to me .She said that I was mistreating him because I kept avoiding him because I needed a break and I don't want her to be mad at me but I can't even watch a movie in my room w...
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Daughter has become emo?
Posted Thursday September 10 2015, 6:28 am
My daughter who is 12 has recently gotten into the emo music, and it led to her dresssing in black, and being more introverted, and she seems sadder. And now she wears her hair to the side covering an eye and she asked the hair styler to layer her hair and "thin out the ends 3-4 inches" which I found was the emo haircut. Her friends are also starting to pick to pick up on it and dressing in black and acting darker. I looked it up and found out it was a cult and the such....what do I do to stop it?
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How to talk to my mom without making it seem as though I'm attacking her
Posted Monday September 7 2015, 7:37 pm
I love my mom to death. She means the world to me and her and I are very close. When things are good, its great. But like any relationship, there are ups and downs. When things are tough they are bad. Disagreements happen. Every few months we have am argument, they happen, sometimes over silly little things, sometimes over things that have nothing to do with us, just stress about money or other relationships. But every time we argue, she accuses me of pushing her away(which I don't, but she takes things personally sometimes, we all do. I'm just as guilty now and again of that), she stops talking to me for days, weeks, at one point months. She blocks me on Facebook. I get blamed for everything, although I am not innocent. I make mistakes. Sh...
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Feel unloved
Posted Saturday September 5 2015, 3:04 am
I feel so unloved. I am 23 and have never been in a relationship. I do not get along with my family and don't have a single person in my family I feel I can trust or is truly there for me. I am living alone in a new place, and I really do like it, but I don't have friends yet. I've been really disconnected from some of my old friends lately, as we are on our own separate paths. I've never been a relationship person. I've always been the emotional drama queen in my family and that caused a lot of issues in the family dynamic. In the past few weeks I got to know a guy over tinder, who I had really high hopes for. As soon as I implied I wanted to hang out with him and get to know him in a public place for our first meeting (as opposed to as op...
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Super Scared My Sister's Not Gonna Understand
Posted Saturday September 5 2015, 12:36 am
My sister had a premature baby this past summer whose about to get out of the hospital most likely next week. My parents and I went down there when he was born, but went home after we knew that everything was gonna be alright and planned to go back when he got out of the hospital.
Now, here's my problem. I've been sick lately with this strange respiratory thing and my doctor told me not to go near the baby until it goes away, which she said could be a while. I'm not gonna be able to go visit my sister or the baby from September 17th until probably when we go to our family's Christmas. I feel bad because I know she'll be disappointed, maybe even hurt if I'm not there next week, but I can't let the baby catch this virus.
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I love my step daughter and that is threatening to her mom.
Posted Friday August 28 2015, 3:41 pm
I'm going to try and make this as short as possible without skipping important details. But, it is a looooong story.
My boyfriend 25 and me 23 have been together for almost 4 years now. When I met him, his daughter had just turned one. I've been there helping her grow up this whole time, I've worked my ass off constantly to help my boyfriend and his daughter, because I love them. Her mother has always been scornful and dramatic. (Which is something I don't think will change.) When we first started dating, she recently moved about 45 minutes away with her new boyfriend, in his house, had their daughter call him daddy etc. Fast forward to about 2 years ago, my mother was going through cancer treatment and we had the little one a lot. M...
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Where should I live?
Posted Tuesday August 25 2015, 4:29 am
if you could answer privately that'd be great.
So I currently moved to Texas. I have to decide if I want to live here or go back home and whatever I choose I can't change my mind. going back home would be nice because I'd always have weed which keeps me sane, my long term boyfriend and in my shitty yet comfortable school. Basically the only problem is my parents are fucking awful. If I stay in Texas I'll have nicer parents (although it's very hard to deal with my mom as we both suffer from PTSD and violent mood swings.) Also money and everything I need. But it doesn't feel like home and I'll miss my boyfriend terribly. And going to school here would suck since my high school back home barely has any kids it would be a whole new experience. Please help :(
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we fight continuously
Posted Monday August 24 2015, 3:15 pm
How do I get the fighting to stop its always over stupid stuff.....
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Posted Saturday August 22 2015, 11:22 am
I'm sorry.
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How do i convince my very stubborn mom?
Posted Wednesday August 19 2015, 12:45 am
(this will be kind of long, sorry) I'm 15/trans male and this past year i have found a place that makes me so happy, more so than any place that i've been to, where i really feel at home and everyone there feels like family, and that's my acting class. My mom however, is telling me this year that she refuses to sign me back up, for the reason that i "wasn't involved in school last year." (meaning that i didn't audition for the school musical due to nerves and the only club i was interested in didn't have enough people to actually start meeting that year, so therefore i wasn't in any clubs, and don't enjoy going to the football games [gsa]) It's such an important thing for me to be able to continue going to this class, think of it ...
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Me and My Cousin
Posted Monday August 17 2015, 2:01 am
I started to have a crush on my cousin but he's gay. I feel like I can talk to him about anything, that's why I like him. Is it a sin to go out with your cousin? Were not,gonna have sex just dates and stuff. Please help. I'm only 14.
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What do I now that my bff's parents and my other friends parent hate my gut
Posted Friday August 14 2015, 5:01 pm
So I'm a very nice peron and I'm straight forward so this is how the story goes my Bff (Bri) and me were in a fight with A boy named Max and so we went to the keys and we're on vacation together and we were sitting in the Jacuzzi and I brought the subject up because this is what my grandmother had her and told me I told her straightforward "Brianna I have to tell you something "Brianna goes " what's wrong "? "I tell her that Max's dad had told us that her dad Tony wasn't right for her mom Tess and I thought everything was OK nothing was bad but then all of a sudden she's ignoring me for some reason nobody's talking to me NOBODY!! And then I'm put in the group chat with Bri and max and they think I was lying and I...
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I feel degraded and I can't shake the feeling.
Posted Tuesday August 11 2015, 3:14 pm
My brother and I got into a fight and he threw something at me, leaving a bruise on my upper thight right near my bikini line. I talked to my mom about it and she treated like a typical dumb fight between two siblings. I "provoked" him so it was a two-way street, but the problem is that I feel disgusting, like a victim of abuse. I've never been bruised from someone hurting me or hurt in my genital area. I feel degraded and I can't shake the feeling. How do I cope with this feeling?
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Does My Father Love Me?
Posted Monday August 10 2015, 5:31 am
Back before I was born, my mother and father didn't have the best relationship.(She left him after 4 years) He was a cheater, and abusive from what my mother told me. He never took care of her and very rarely helped out with me when I was born. I often brought these stories up to him and he always denied it saying that my mother exagerrated to make him look bad. Once again on our way home, she told me more stories on how horrible he was and I brought it up again and I think that he got upset because I believe he realized I found out the truth about him after all these years that I believed he was a good person. Ever since then he hasn't text or called me or anything. He just denied everything.
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