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Am I just being paranoid? Needing help ASAP
Posted Monday September 22 2014, 11:12 pm
I'm starting school in a couple days. It's an independent one-on-one program, where I do the work at home and go to school for about one hour a week or so. Well, I'm honestly terrified. I'm scared that the teacher will try something; like rape me or something. She's a female as am I, but she can be like a lesbian or something. I know I'm sounding really paranoid; I have a bad paranoia disorder, and maybe I'm just overreacting. The reason that this came to mind is because I had a classmate who was raped in kindergarten and now I'm terrified because me and the teacher will be alone. I'm sure I'll be more comfortable after being there a few times, but it just scares me so much. I could see if my mother could just sit in the back while I'm with...
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How to make older guys attracted to you
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 8:57 pm
I've always been considered very pretty and I've always had lots of guys after me... just that they're all either my age, a year older or a year younger, whereas I have friends who aren't even that pretty nor interesting and they have guys that are 3 years older than them after them. Does anybody have any advice for me? Idk... I just feel insecure about this... I don't know why... (:
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Is it possible for a junior to like a freshman?
Posted Saturday September 20 2014, 7:59 pm
There is this junior in my drama class and he is so cute, and I'm a freshman. I caught him looking at me a lot once. But I don't think it meant anything at all. My lines in are play are directed to him... and it's a really nasty pickup line (out of the subject). Do you think that there is any possibility that he likes me? I mean I guess that I'm pretty attractive and I talked to him once.
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How to make friends when everyone already has their clique? (this is a litt
Posted Thursday September 11 2014, 3:36 pm
Hello I am a female 14 yr old,
So basically I just started high school from home schooling and I don't really know anyone. There was this girl who I was sitting next to at lunch( she is also in my homeroom) and I was slowly trying to get her to open up but today I saw her with an other girl and I have a feeling she is not coming back. I guess I took it to slow. I am kinda shy when it comes to new people so it was weird I had to make all the moves. (it wasn't just me though she was like that with everybody I saw try to talk to her).Any way Basically every freshmen still has their friends from middle school. There were a few people like me who didn't go to the two main middle schools but they have already made friend and this is only t...
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Meeting girls at college
Posted Tuesday September 9 2014, 9:10 pm
19/m
Hey guys! I just started college 3 weeks ago! I am excited to be here and to learn but I also want to become more social with girls. I am a very shy guy, I have a hard time making new friends even with other guys. I never know what to talk about with people and never know how to get a small conversation going with people unless it is by accident. All of my old friends from high school I made were kind of on accident believe it or not. To me it seems like pure luck I met people I got along with and connected with.
I dated some girls in high school but i kind of met them by luck and didn't really go out of my way to introduce myself to them and make small talk to get their phone numbers or anything special....
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A guy I've never met is spreading rumors about me
Posted Monday September 8 2014, 4:41 pm
I'm a 16 year old girl.
A few days ago, my friend gave my number to a guy who lives a couple towns away from us. He started texting me, saying he was bored and all. We chatted for a couple days and he wanted to know what I looked like (he doesn't have a facebook) so I sent him some of the pictures I have up on facebook. He sent one back. Later, he said the email had been deleted and he asked for more pictures. I sent him a couple more (we had been flirting) and one of them was slightly scandalous. I was in a t-shirt and underwear, but you couldn't see anything terrible and it was basically innocent.
A couple days later, my friend tells me that someone had "nudes" of me. Of course, I was flustered. I didn't s...
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I have been feeling very stressed out lately,help?
Posted Sunday September 7 2014, 9:49 pm
Hi, I'm in 11th grade, I have a lot going on lately. For starters I have two more years and I have no clue what I want to go to college for, or if I even want to go to college. I have a lot of pressure on me from everybody and it's really getting to me. I currently I have a 4.3 GPA which every one says is good, but I feel like it's not enough. All my life I've tried to make my dad proud, but no matter what I do I feel like he's never proud of me. Everything that I've thought of going to school for he said it would be a let down due to my high grades. Everything I've ever done is to make him proud, but I feel like giving up its a lot of pressure on me and for what? Any advice would be great thanks guys. There's a lot more but character limit.
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freshman likes sophomore
Posted Saturday September 6 2014, 11:35 pm
We all sit on the floors in the hallway for lunch and i sit across the hall from this absolutely gorgeous guy and he is a sophomore while I am a freshman. We make eye contact a few times everyday but I honestly have no idea if he is interested or not. I'm fairly sure he doesn't have a girlfriend but any advice anyways? I'm really scared to talk to him... thanks for any help at all.
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how do i initate sonmething serious
Posted Wednesday September 3 2014, 4:34 am
i have been single for almost two years not literally single but i haven't had any serious relationship, its either the guy likes me and i don't or i like him and his not ready, or he has a girlfriend... so i would call it two years of being single since my last relationship i work in a company were i was introduced to a guy. His exactly what i want in a guy. he acts really nice to me, for example when i needed a flash to get movies and i asked his colleague who had offered to give me a flash earlier and didn't latter, he offered his own without my asking, and told me that i could use it for as long as i like, whenever he comes to work he smiles at me and sometimes i catch him staring... i like this guy, but i don't know if he feels the sam...
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I hate my job
Posted Wednesday August 27 2014, 9:04 pm
So, I recently graduated in December with my bachelors in education. I never really wanted to pursue teaching. I wanted to go into either counseling or administration. But, I needed to make ends meet with the degree I had and I had to take on this assistant teaching job. Mind you, I did not sign a contract for the year. I signed a payment contract (that said how much I would get paid for the year) and then I signed a paper about upholding the school's standards. I have worked in schools before. But, this by far is one of the most exhausting jobs I have ever had. I get there at 8am (not too early), but, those of you who are teachers know that unlike other jobs, you don't really ease into your mornings. You have to go right away. Lunch is fro...
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Miss him
Posted Tuesday August 26 2014, 12:45 pm
I have a teacher at college that I've become very close with academically. We have spent a lot of time working together. In the past year I've become smitten by him. I don't always know whether I love him as a father figure or a friend or sexually. It changes. Sometimes I feel like no man will ever be able to understand or accept me like he does. It's always made me feel really sad that our relationship doesn't span beyond school things. He has a family and everything and obviously it's unprofessional to hang out with students outside school and it's not what I want because I care deeply about my career and that's what I'm studying with him for after all. It's something that would never happen. But when I'm alone, especially when I'm home f...
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make him to kiss me
Posted Monday August 25 2014, 10:55 pm
Boy boy friend use to like me 6 before our relation but he is shy to kiss how to make him for kiss?
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Posted Monday August 25 2014, 4:16 am
I work in a good company and recently, i found out that my ex boyfriend who I had a bad break up with sent his resume to the company as well, actually someone in the company who is also his friend brought the resume..He came for the interview and he practically got it, until i told the human resource manager that i couldn't work with him, so she spoke with the manager about it and they didn't give him the job. now i feel so bad that i caused it bcos he feels i had something to do with it, and also the friend, but i was trying to protect myself and avoiding any clash or past memories while seeing him... i don't know what to do.....
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Are we more than friends?
Posted Sunday August 24 2014, 3:49 pm
20/f
Junior in college
He is 22
Senior in college
The last week of my sophomore year, I hooked up with this guy. Ever since, we've been texting nonstop. When he's with his friends, when he's on vacation with friends, when he's with his family, in class, at work. He's a cool guy and I like having him around as a friend. We talk about anything, it's just so easy with him. We talk about how hard it was to become friends because or mutual friend didn't want us to be friends because she felt like she was being replaced to anything like him telling me why my battery in my phone doesn't last as long as his.
One day he was acting kinda different and we're friends enough that I can call him out on it and I...
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I've been talking to this guy
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 9:15 am
Hello, I'm nineteen and female, he is 19 as well. We started talking at the end of sophomore year in college and we parted ways for the summer where he went home to Jersey and I to Pennsylvania. However, we've been texting non stop everyday. A few times he's told me that he's changing his mind about commitment and how he wants a girlfriend and how he wants it to be me but I told him I was never in a very committed relationship so I told him I need time to think if that's what I want. He knows I like him and care about him and I know he cares about me so he let me think about it. I went away with my family for a weekend to our cabin in the mountains and didn't have any cell service, when I came back and we were talking again, he was differen...
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I hate being around people.
Posted Thursday August 21 2014, 3:38 am
I just love being alone. It's really hard for me to find people I like. And even if I do like them, I still don't want to be around them for longer than maybe half an hour. And if I could choose, I wouldn't be around them at all. It takes up so much energy to be outside and around people.
But I'm not really unhappy. The only person I feel really comfortable being around is my boyfriend. But I think that has to do with the fact that he too, is a quiet person and he just understands me in every way.
The thing is that I have to be around people every day so how can I relax more and be less annoyed or stressed out by it? I'm not really afraid of them, I just get really stressed. I don't think that I have a "disorder". I...
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how should I act at school to get more friends
Posted Monday August 18 2014, 12:54 pm
How do I act at school to be liked and to get more friends? I am from England Uk
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I want to start a new school year with a new mind set
Posted Sunday August 17 2014, 5:10 pm
How do you revamp yourself? Last year I made a bad decision and I was friends with a mean girl and fell into that group though eventually I left and one person from the group wants to still be friends which is great but al so with her which is okay but me and the mean girl had a major falling out. I'm scared when I go back that I will be alone or that she will turn everyone I try to befriend against me because that's what she did at the end of last year. I'm tired of all this fighting. But I refuse to give in for her to step all over me and give the satisfaction. I want to change my reputation and possibly find a new group of friends. In school I was shy but loud and spastic and funny with the people I knew and always made them laugh. How d...
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I get teased for having cystic acne.
Posted Saturday August 16 2014, 1:42 am
I’ve had cystic acne since I was in the 3rd grade. My acne bumps are painful. I’m constantly teased and people screw their noses up at me when I walk in a room. I get really nervous when I'm around people because I'm afraid they'll make fun of me, some do. Even family members make fun of me. People call me "pimple face" and "zit face". Laugh at me in my face. I’ve tried so many things like Proactiv, neutrogena, every acne product in the store, putting lemon on my face. None of it works & my skin gets oily. I hate when people look at my face for fear that they are thinking terrible things about how ugly I am. Even in school people look at me like Im a freak and I'm alone. I can't afford medicine that costs hundr...
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Miss him
Posted Friday August 15 2014, 8:07 am
I have a teacher at college that I've become very close with academically. We have spent a lot of time working together. In the past year I've become smitten by him. I don't always know whether I love him as a father figure or a friend or sexually. It changes. Sometimes I feel like no man will ever be able to understand or accept me like he does. It's always made me feel really sad that our relationship doesn't span beyond school things. He has a family and everything and obviously it's unprofessional to hang out with students outside school and it's not what I want because I care deeply about my career and that's what I'm studying with him for after all. It's something that would never happen. But when I'm alone, especially when I'm home f...
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