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annoying girl follows me


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 8:58 pm

I'm a 12 year old female.

I am in 7th grade, and I'm friends with this group of girls, we text, invite each other to stuff, eat lunch together, do all the squad stuff. I'll call them by the first letter of their names (A, T, M, M2, H, E, L) and their are people I hang out with and consider friends, but they're the main group. Anyway, there are these two girls I hung out with in elementary school, I never really fit in during elementary, but in my middle school I've found my own group. I'll call them E2 and C. E2 left and found some other girls. I was ok with that, I was getting bored of her immaturity, and I went to sit with the squad I mentioned earlier. I started to hang out with them regularly and stopped hanging out with ...

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How do u treat a boy


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 8:54 pm

I need help why is a boy shy to be around with a girl

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i need totally help plz


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 7:10 pm

so I have a problem with a girl so lets call her Bella So it all started the day I told her we cant be friends with her anymore because of this incident where her mom is saying all badwords to my brother for no reason so I wrote something that looked like if I was threatning her so this is what I said " I don't want to hurt you in a way I could". I know I was so stupid to say that and what I ment to say was I don't want to hurt your feelings and I got all the blame so I'm restricted to talk to Bella and really she is taking my friends and making a new squad and she is stealing my memebers and I want to punch her and so now she is all boasting about her new squad members so I need advice on what should I do and don't say talk to h...

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My BFF wants to be me?


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 5:34 pm

Me & my bestfriend have been friends since Middle school (shes always been insecure/threatened type inside and out), & i guess you can say she's ALWAYS been jealous of me for example, she'd always get mad and annoyed that if a guy she liked thought i was hot so she'd always tell them something like "but she said you were ugly" or something worse. she'd also always try to find a way to bring me down physically and/or mentally. I guess i can say she has gotten over that from what i can see for myself (idk what she says behind closed doors) so NOW lol, she would say i dress to fancy or nice to go to a basic place & i would tell her that iam not a basic bitch i have to look good wherever i go and that she doesn't care abou...

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ear gaging after having pierced ears for a while


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 4:36 pm

I've had my ears pierced since I was a baby but most recently (I'm 23) ,
I've wanted to started gaging.
I got tapers and did my research and now I'm at a 12G: but I'm having a couple concerns or rather I just wanted to ask some questions and get advice from experienced people .

That being said, please only answer this question if you are either a professional or someone with personal experience. Thank you!

I already have small ears and small ear lobes to begin with, but someone said it may be a good idea to take these out, let them close up, and get my ear pierced higher to avoid ripping. I only want to go up to a 2G, but honestly, I'm wondering what the best thing to do is.

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Loving two people


Posted Monday February 1 2016, 4:25 pm

I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend, who I love, for five years. He's honest, hard working, loyal. He has all the characteristics that any woman would hope for in a man. We have a really healthy relationship, we hardly fight and are good about communicating with each other. But there's this guy... We met through mutual friends a couple years ago when I was with my boyfriend already.Time went on and with no effort at all we became really good friends. We are so connected in a way that I have never been connected to somebody before. And it is known between me and this person that we have feelings for each other. I have tried for years to shake these feelings for him because I feel guilty about thinking about somebody els...

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Do you ever feel this way?


Posted Sunday January 31 2016, 7:33 pm

Do you ever feel like life is just so totally meaningless and you're overwhelmed by the futility of it all? Your thoughts race but you're not even thinking about anything really, and you're just so full of the sense of inherent worthlessness, so you just lay in bed for a few hours, and then you come back to earth. And it's an odd feeling while you have it, it's just nervous energy and a drive to do something but you don't know what, but it's even worse to be grounded again in the concrete world, to be content with the mundane mediocrity of life.

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Should I sneak a cat into my apartment?


Posted Sunday January 31 2016, 5:25 pm

So I live in a duplex, it's a house with two stories. I live in the basement apartment with my roommate, and two other girls live in the apartment above us. Me and my roommate both want cats extremely bad. I volunteer at the humane society, and there is a cat there I've been wanting for a long time. In the lease we both agreed to no pets on the premises. The girls in the apartment above us signed the same lease, and over winter break they had a dog in their apartment for about a month and they never got caught. I talked to my landlord about it and also offered to pay a deposit, but she said no and that past tenants used to be able to have pets but they ruined the apartment. I don’t know whether or not to just sneak the cat into the apart...

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Should I invest my money with Citizens Bank?


Posted Sunday January 31 2016, 2:07 pm

I am 23 years old and I have $120,000 sitting in my bank account just building interest at around $1-$2 a month. I have no idea how or where to invest, currently I m just working a part time job at Best Buy while looking for something Full Time, but in the mean time I want this money to grow.
I have been visiting with my local Citizens Bank because I feel like I should be investing this money and so far one of their experts that they got gave me this proposal called a Vanguard S&P 60% Equity/ 40% Fixed Income Portfolio to think about. They suggested that I put $75,000 into a Managed Money account and that they will help do most of the work and help make my investment grow. The Asset Allocation in the proposal says:
28.7% ...

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Hi. You helped me a couple of years ago.


Posted Sunday January 31 2016, 12:56 pm

Hi. A couple of years ago you answered a question I posted about being worried about my babies dad not being the father. Turns out it was never an issue, thank heavens!! I'm not sure if you remember. Your answer was very helpful, reassuring and kind and I am deeply appreciative. Life has been wonderful since then but I had to delete the question because for some stupid reason I included my full name in the question. I really don't know how I managed to do that. But anyway, let me try to get to the point lol.

When you Google my name, the question now shows up and anyone can discover my little secret... Which happened recently and I'm mortified since I thought the problem was behind me. I can't imagine if the wrong person were...

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What should I do?


Posted Sunday January 31 2016, 11:28 am

This guy and I really like each other and we both reciprocate it quite well. Trouble is we work together. A few days ago he told me that although he did wanna have sex with me he didn't want a relationship. He said he didn't just want it to be sex with me and didn't want me to be hurt. When I asked why he said because he thinks working together is too much and he doesn't want a girlfriend at work. He does still like me and is usually brutally honest about how he feels and etc. he says if I didn't work with him or find a new job he'd really want to try and get into a relationship. In fact he insisted that. What should I do?

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What's wrong with me?


Posted Saturday January 30 2016, 9:02 pm

I pick at my skin. I used to pick at scabs, and that's left me with a lot of embarrassing scars, mostly on my legs because I used to almost always wear pants, and I didn't want the ugly scabbiness to be seen, but now, I'm nearly sixteen and I'd like to be able to wear dresses and skirts sometimes, but I'm embarrassed. I stopped because my parents made me. The process itself was very distressing- they always told me I'd have scarred-up legs and arms and it wouldn't look good- and it just made me very anxious. Now, I pick at my fingers almost constantly. I can't use hand sanitizer and lemon juice is painful, and sometimes it hurts just to get water in them. I can't remember a time not doing it. In fact, I distinctly remember a time in element...

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am i pregnant


Posted Saturday January 30 2016, 12:43 pm

so today me and my guy were naked. his penis was near my vagina. i have never had sex. so i dont allow him to insert his penis in my vagina. today he was just touching my vagina with his penis. not totally near my vaginal opening but near the inner thigh and on my belly and he touched once above the clit. in between i was giving him blowjob and he was fingering me too. he came at the end when we were all done. i am scared about his pre cum. does pre cum contain sperm? my menustral cycle usually is 32-34 days long. and i had my last period on 13th of jan. could i be pregnant? im 19. please help

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Getting too attached?


Posted Saturday January 30 2016, 12:04 am

So I'm a 20 year old, female. Recently I've met a guy who is 22. I've only been on one date with him and we seem to really hit it off. He says he can see us being in a relationship eventually, but I am also afraid he's like the rest of the guys. Most guys throw me to the side, or ignore me. He hasn't done that yet, and he said he wouldn't but I just can't seem to believe him. The thing is though, he lives an hour from me and comes to visit me at college. He works a lot so he never has time to text me... So I feel like sometimes he's losing interest in me because when we text he takes forever to respond or its only one word answers. I'm just trying not to get too attached to him and I feel like I am. Or maybe I'm just over thinking things? I...

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Rebuilding trust


Posted Friday January 29 2016, 8:43 pm

So I have to give a little bit if background. I went on a birth control, shortly after I was feeling really sad and didn't want to be around anyone. Eventually I just found myself crying randomly everyday and just inhappy with everything and I was insecure. Of course this led to problems in my relationship, I was insecure and no longer trusted my boyfriend of 3 years( he did absolutely nothing different from before). Now I am off the birth control and am getting much better but I still have really big problems with trusting him and I would just like to hear some suggestions on how to rebuild that trust and maybe get back to the way we were before. I am a female and i am 20

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Is there a relation between dieting and your period


Posted Friday January 29 2016, 7:58 pm

I recently started this new diet and I have been exercising a lot. Now I am 5 days late on my period. My boyfriend and I decided to wait til I am a week late to get a test. I started this diet 5 days about and lost 5 pounds. I feel really pressured to do this diet. I have actually done well and stuck to it for once. I am an athlete but it is extremely hard for me to lose my belly fat because My family is all diabetic and they think I am too. I also am going through an extremely stressful time with my stepmom. That causes me to stress eat. I am not ready for a baby. Is it possible for my new diet to have delayed my period?

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Gas station cashier- right to refuse service? (USA resident)


Posted Friday January 29 2016, 9:47 am

So I've been a cashier at a certain major chain of gas stations for about 3-4 months now, and at our particular location, there has been non-stop drama, resulting in 3 people quitting and 2 people getting fired. Needless to say, it's been a stressful few months. I had been doing a great job not being involved in all the drama for a while, until I got dragged into this particular scenario.

A couple months after I was hired in, my coworker Sam (or so we'll call him) joined us at our station. He was a hard worker, and we got along great. We joked around with our similarly sarcastic humor. But it started to all go downhill. You see, I started to take notice of his shifting moods. One moment we'd be laughing, and 20 minutes later ...

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I'm making the right decision, Right??


Posted Friday January 29 2016, 5:00 am

My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 15 I am now 23 and we found out I was pregnant 9 months ago, we talked through it and since abortion was off the table we have decided to place our baby boy up for adoption, it is going to be the hardest thing we will ever go through because I have waited for this day my entire life and people look at my age and automatically think I'm being selfish for doing this but no one knows our life better then us and honestly we would be selfish to keep him, granted he would be loved more then anything but sometimes that's just not enough...... I am a Cna and take care of people all day long when in reality I can't even take care of my self, I don't go out clubbing, I don't drink or do drugs and ne...

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after first delivery


Posted Thursday January 28 2016, 11:29 pm

My wife give birth to a baby girl in the last dec 27 ,ie now 35 days appx.now i had sex with her through back side,is it lead to pregnency or infection to the vaginal area..pls an urgent answer is requested...

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I can't tell if my crush likes me or not!


Posted Thursday January 28 2016, 6:28 pm

So this guy in my grade, who I told myself I would not get a crush on because he's gorgeous and popular, is always staring at me and last term we talked all the time but now we don't talk because he's only in one of my classes and we don't sit by each other. We both catch each other staring and quickly turn our heads the opposite way but I'm not sure if he likes me.

Should i leave a note in his locker asking anonymously who he likes???

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