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Was I too selfish when I said this to him?
Posted Friday March 4 2016, 5:23 pm
21/f
I have a gay best friend who has recently smothered me from the details of his new relationship. I hear about it EVERY SINGLE DAY. Literally. I am currently down and in a rut when it comes to my love life. And he knows this. He has,I'm not kidding,informed me if EVERY date,kiss,bite and sex they've had. And I just couldn't stand it anymore. I am by no means jealous. I just don't want to hear about relationships until I get my life together. So I sent him a message with this content:
"I have a favour to ask. And I know it's going to sound selfish,but I have to make this request. You know that I really don't have my shit together when it comes to my love life. And frankly it makes me uncomfortable hearing about you and...
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I want more friends
Posted Sunday February 28 2016, 1:00 am
I don't know how to make new friends. One of my friends are sitting with other groups but I don't know how, everyone seems so cool and I don't know if they want to be friends with me... I can't really make new friends in class cos I have other friends in that class and they are kinda attached idk what to do all these people are going to parties and I don't have many friends.
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I'm in love with my best friend, how do I tell her?
Posted Friday February 26 2016, 6:35 am
there's a friend of mine, we've been friends for a long time,since elementary school and now we're in high school. almost 7 years. so recently I felt like I really love her, I'm not lesbian and I don't like girls I just feel this way toward her, and I like guys actually. she had a relationship with a girl before and they kissed and cuddled (when we were in primary school) but after that she dated guys and she once told me she never wanna date girls anymore. but I really like her and I want to kiss her, hug her,cuddle with her all the time.I even dreamt of having sex with her once. I kissed her once actually and she laughed, I guess she likes it. we hold hands too. but I just want to kiss her more and more and I'm not sure if she likes it? a...
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My friend/roommate is mad at me?
Posted Wednesday February 24 2016, 11:08 am
Yesterday instead of going to my friend's induction to honor society at college, I stayed at the library studying for an anatomy and physiology test that I have. She knows that I have to get a good grade in this class, and that I am not a good test taker.n I can understand why she would be upset, but she is ignoring me and pissed at me. What am I supposed to do? I apologized for missing her induction, but she didn't say anything to me.
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How can i help both my friends who are into each other
Posted Monday February 22 2016, 6:44 am
I have this guy friend, (that i really like but i'll save that for another day) who likes to talk with me about a lot of things. Recently he was talking about my good friend Kristina and how he thought she was moving too fast. Kristina has been hugging him a lot and holding him arm (almost clingy if you get what i mean) and laying her head on his shoulder in church. For my church that's really awkward and jaedon (the guy friend) finds it all too awkward and fast. he also said that he thinks they haven't been talking long enough. So i thought about telling Kristina, but i have never told anyone anything jaedon has said to me privately. They are both my friends and whenever me and him talked before it would always be someone i had no relation...
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I need friends!
Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 6:11 pm
Hi I'm in highschool and I have some pretty good friends. The thing is none of them are really close friends. I never go over their house because I'm not a very interesting person. And if I invite people over my house there isn't much to do. If I had friends I would like to do fun tumblr kind if things but my friends aren't really that type and even if I made more friends around school there aren't many people at my school that seem like they would like to do stuff like that. What do you reccomend I do?
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Should I always be this bored and irritated?
Posted Sunday February 21 2016, 6:00 pm
I don't know if this is teenage hormones or if I'm generally just someone who gets bored super fast but being bored is getting annoying. At home id rather hangout with "friends" but as soon as I hang out with them I get bored and wish I was home then the cycle continues. Nothing really exciting happens in my life and I never get to travel so I'm always stuck in my small little town. I also feel like I never really fit in with people I wouldn't consider myself antisocial but I get annoyed with the people I know really fast. Nobody really texts me unless they want something and when I text them some of them don't even reply, so I just stopped texting people in general but then I get annoyed and bored because no one texts me and then...
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Should I be upset about this?
Posted Saturday February 20 2016, 10:39 pm
So I have this friend let's call her Rebecca whom I was always there for, but she's the type of person to abandon all her friends for her boyfriend. Everytime she and her bf would break up she would call me crying and I would listen. Anyways I have another friend let's call her Carrie, Rebecca and Carroe were really close friends but since Rebecca is glued to her boyfriends hip she told me she hates "Carrie" because she feels like Carrie flirts with her boyfriend. (In Carries defense she's very friendly and anything she does could pass off as flirting) Long story short Carrie and Rebecca stopped talking and Rebecca went on vacation to Colombia. Rebecca recently came back from Colombia now she ignores my texts and Carrie told me R...
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Jealousy
Posted Saturday February 20 2016, 9:28 pm
13-14, females
So there is this girl in my friend group. I can tell pretty much everyone in our friend group is jealous of her, including me.
She's pretty and even my separate friends, they'd see a selfie with me and her and be like "she's so pretty what's her name?"
She's smart and she doesn't do extra for it (that we're aware of)
She's super nice
She's skinny
She's sporty and girly
She's mature
Basically I, and a bunch of our friends can't find a flaw in her.
I am not kidding I even had a thought to myself that she was like 30 and went back in time, and has all this knowledge. She always knows what to say with advice, and she has so ...
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Friends keep ranting to me about out friends!
Posted Thursday February 18 2016, 10:46 pm
So my friends are ranting about my other friends to me (who are their friends as well). I love that my friends don't create drama, but they're being two faced. They're so nice to someone's face and then they go and rant about them to me, or maybe someone else. Who knows what they've said behind my back! I mean, if they have a problem with someone, tell them nicely, otherwise they'll probably keep doing it without knowing it's affecting them. Instead, they rant about it to me.
The thing is, I would tell them to talk to the other person about it, but then they might take it the wrong way, and not come to me if they have an issue and I can help, like they'll feel like they can't talk to me about their problems.
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Friends Fighting over a Project to be with me
Posted Wednesday February 17 2016, 12:35 pm
We had a huge group of friends which broke down due to fights on trivial issues. It so happened that the group got divided into 2 parts and i was a person who talked to both parties very well. One group is really studious and other is somewhat fun loving but they do study well & get decent grades. I am in my last year of Engineering and we have been assigned a project of 4 people.i have a friend already with me leaving a place for 2 people.Now onestudious friends have somewhat threatened to not talk to me if i do not take them. I have already made a choice of taking 2 people from fun loving group because they are really hardworking. Plus taking someone from the nerds will nt let me lead the project which i want to. I happen to be the gu...
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Posted Tuesday February 16 2016, 8:53 am
how can i have a good relationship
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Ending friendship advice
Posted Tuesday February 9 2016, 3:30 pm
Well I have a friend that I meet online, I’m from Europe and he’s from Asia but currently studying in LA. We started talking one and a half year ago and developed a very beautiful friendship even though it was a virtual one. We talked for hours through messages and Skype about anything from things that happen in our daily life to politics and economics. And since he doesn’t know English that good I offered to help him whenever he needed at his homeworks. In time i started to help him with music, math and other things. I considered him a special friend and it didn’t matter if he was waking me up at 3 am to talk or just a...
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should i or should i not say something
Posted Sunday February 7 2016, 6:42 pm
i frequent my bank, and there is a new teller there and ive notice she is always eager to help me and if I don't go to her window she gets upset and wont speak to me, or if I don't speak to her she gets upset....today I called the bank and boy was she extra happy...I can feel her just smiling in the background....wth...should I ask her what's up or just leave it alone? my bro thinks she is prolly bi and has a crush on me and told me to give her my number....she is younger than me I do know that much.....and she comes off as freaky.....what do u all think is she just being friendly or does she like me like? thanks
SO should I give her my number or wait to see if she's gonna ask me for mine....im not an outdoorsy person but I wouldn't mind chillin with her
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I'm delevoping a crush on a friend
Posted Saturday February 6 2016, 4:23 pm
I met this girl in 2014, we didn't really talk to each other until 2015, we still talk occasionally now in 2016 but I've just began developing a crush on her in 2016, and she's became best friends with my enemy, what should I do because I don't want my enemy to tease me about liking her? I'm already friends with the girl (not my enemy, the other one) so I think that will make her tease me even more?
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Is MY BFF Trying To Out Do Me?
Posted Friday February 5 2016, 12:22 pm
I have this bestfriend that i have been friends since forever, we're both 19 years old and i feel like she tries to out do me in everything.. ill give you a couple of examples.
1- i would always say im poppin', im that bit*h, i like to look good everywhere (she'd never say any of those things) and now shell try to find ANY WAY to say that shes poppin, shes that bit*h, and that she has to look good everywhere (before she didnt care about her appearance all the time).
2- id say something is cute and she'll buy it when i cant.
3- i'd wear an outfit and in a matter of weeks, she'll wear a similar outfit than what i had (but ofcourse it wouldnt look as good, not to sound cocky).
4- she told me wants us to be those fri...
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I don't get along with someone all my other friends like
Posted Thursday February 4 2016, 4:10 pm
I always hang around with the same group of people. But there's this girl who began hanging around with us recently and we don't get along. I get along great with most of the group except her and she gets along great with most of the group except me. She always insults me but never insults the rest of the group. I don't want to lose friends. How do I tell my friends that I find her annoying?
I am a 12 year old male ( the group of friends consists of both genders)
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I'm madly in love with my best friend
Posted Thursday February 4 2016, 3:11 pm
I am madly in love with my best friend, we've known each other for almost 5 years now and I've lately been growing stronger feelings for her, but the thing is, she only sees me as a brother, and her boyfriend has been nothing but good to me. He's been helping me get out of my depression as well as helping me find a job (since I've been jobless for almost three years now). She and I live together which makes everything even harder for me. What should I do?
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Don't get along with a friend of a friend
Posted Thursday February 4 2016, 1:06 pm
I've been hanging out with this group of people for a while and they're fun to be with but one girl fell out with her previous group of friends, and joined this group of friends but we don't really get along? But the rest of the group are fine with her and she's fine with them, it's just me she doesn't get along with? I used to think she was nice before she began hanging out with this group of friends?
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annoying girl follows me
Posted Monday February 1 2016, 8:58 pm
I'm a 12 year old female.
I am in 7th grade, and I'm friends with this group of girls, we text, invite each other to stuff, eat lunch together, do all the squad stuff. I'll call them by the first letter of their names (A, T, M, M2, H, E, L) and their are people I hang out with and consider friends, but they're the main group. Anyway, there are these two girls I hung out with in elementary school, I never really fit in during elementary, but in my middle school I've found my own group. I'll call them E2 and C. E2 left and found some other girls. I was ok with that, I was getting bored of her immaturity, and I went to sit with the squad I mentioned earlier. I started to hang out with them regularly and stopped hanging out with ...
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