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needy roomate extrovert vs introvert situation
Posted Thursday August 5 2021, 12:37 am
40m, roommate is 56, he is recently divorced. I'm an introvert and he's an extrovert. I pretty much wanna be alone 95% of the time, if not more. He's the kind of guy that will talk to strangers like nothing. When we met, I was high all the time and drinking more often than not. Under those circumstances, I become more social. But when I'm sober, I like to keep to myself. He was under the impression that I was always that high/drunk guy he met. We used to pretty much only hang out at those times. Now that we're roommates, he's expressed his dissatisfaction with me being in my room all the time. I mostly quit drinking and smoking, and he tries to get me to drink so we can hang out more. He'll go as far as to say that I'm avoiding him. If I ke...
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I don't know what to do with this anger?
Posted Tuesday August 3 2021, 11:42 pm
28/f
My sister called me a couple of weeks ago, grieving over our dad. She told me she feels like it was her fault that my dad died and that his health had rapidly declined (he passed away five months ago). I told her that she couldn't blame herself and that she did the best she could with what she knew and how she felt at that moment (she didn't have the greatest relationship with him and held a lot of resentment).
Even though I comforted her, I low-key blame her, too. Of course I didn't say anything because she doesn't deserve to feel worse than she already does and I wanted her to find her peace with him before he passed. But I blame her as well because all of this started two years ago while I was in Italy....
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How do I deal with a spoiled younger brother?
Posted Tuesday August 3 2021, 1:39 pm
My 10 yo kid brother has always been spoiled by my mom. He's the baby of the family, and has had life easy ever since he was born. He has one chore, which is to set the table, and often never even does it, and when I try to remind him to, my parents get mad at me, and tell me to just help out. I'm not unwilling to help out, as setting the table is a pretty simple task, but it's his responsibility and he only actually does his chore like, at most, once a week, the other times, we just give up and do it ourselves. And recently, he seems to be going through this phase. He's super vicious and mean, throws tantrums about EVERYTHING, and doesn't even realize how bad his behavior is. He will not do anything he doesn't want to, unless he is forced ...
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What's the different between a Chatbot and a Web Chatbot?
Posted Monday August 2 2021, 8:11 am
I want to know the difference between chatbot and web chatbot. My client asks to make me a chatbot for his website. But I am getting a little confused, would not be clear is there any similarity or not.
Also want to learn about AI and NLP
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How did you first learn you had mental illness?
Posted Wednesday July 28 2021, 1:46 am
How did you learn you had a mental illness?
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Spending the night at your boyfriends house.
Posted Monday July 26 2021, 5:25 pm
How did you guys talk to your parents about spending the night at your boyfriends house or telling them you are going to and that they can't stop you because you are an adult? Because this week i wanna be straight forward and tell my parents what I'm going to do. Without me having to ask them. Cause im 20 and im an adult. And they treat me like im a child but yet they want me to be an adult. I come from a Hispanic household and i know that be a big no. But i rather be honest with them then lying behind their backs and lying to them that im going to my friends house but really at my boyfriend house. So please give me advice on how i can talk to them about it.
Please don't judge. I just want advice.
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handling a super fast metabolism
Posted Monday July 26 2021, 12:22 pm
I am in my early thirties. I was born with a super fast metabolism. It didn't really bother me when I was a little girl but I do remember people commenting on how much I ate.
In high school I noticed it much more and in college I became self conscious and even a little worried. I ate so much more than everyone else and everyone thought it was weird. I did a lot of athletics in college and I ate around 7000 calories a day. People would ask all kinds of questions and some people thought I had an eating disorder. It was really annoying. I talked to a doctor and a nutritionist about it but no cause was found - the same as with my family doctor growing up.
One thing people used to say is that one day my metabolism w...
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Diabetes: What are some preventive measures to help control diabetes?
Posted Monday July 26 2021, 6:03 am
What are some preventive measures to help control diabetes?
I need to know some preventive measures to help control diabetes if anyone knows
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Diabetes: Why does Chinese food cause my blood sugar to spike?
Posted Monday July 26 2021, 6:02 am
Why does Chinese food cause my blood sugar to spike?
I have Type 2 diabetes and I see when I eat noodles manchoorian and any other chinese food my blood sugar level shoots up. What is the reason and how I can control it?
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My Brother-In-Law Wants to be Included on the Deed for Our Home
Posted Saturday July 24 2021, 5:23 pm
I'm a 30 year-old woman seeking to buy a home with my mother-in-law. Note, I call her my mother-in-law because I’ve been with her son for over 10 years. Her son and I are not married yet. She loves me like a daughter and has stepped to fill the role as my mother ever since my biological mother passed away on November 6th, 2018.
My reasons for purchasing this home with her have nothing to do with me looking for a handout. I’m actually trying to do this with as little help as possible, while having the least impact on anyone else.
I explained that I don’t like the idea of getting something for nothing and my mother-in-law who loves me like a daughter said that she would help me pay for the home, using money...
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is this how kissing is supposed to be?
Posted Saturday July 24 2021, 12:18 am
For context, I am a sixteen year old girl in high school. I’ve kissed a boy before, but never more than a peck. Just recently, my boyfriend and I made out for the first time. Now I know people will say that it tends to be awkward and all, but it was more than that. I feel like there was no chemistry there and there was no pleasure. It was a weird sensation because I had built up this idea in my head of a perfect romantic kiss and this was nothing like I had pictured. I feel bad saying it, but I was disappointed. It’s hard to describe because there was no buildup and no feeling attached to it.
My questions are as follows: is it normal to not feel anything at all when kissing someone? does the person you’re with truly ef...
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How do I even respond?
Posted Friday July 23 2021, 11:48 am
28/f
32/m
Has anyone ever expected you to “be fine” after your loss?
I feel like my boyfriend expects me to be that way. For example, I lost my job because of Covid, my dad passed away, then I moved out and was nomading for a bit, lived with my toxic mom sleeping on an air mattress for another month, found out that my dog is 75% blind and is dying of old age, and moved into a new place again just three weeks ago. All of this happened within a six month period.
My boyfriend was there for me for all of these things. As a matter of fact he came into my life three months before I lost my job. So he came into my life at a very strange time. And now that I’m just now starting to get back ...
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Embrassed
Posted Wednesday July 21 2021, 8:45 pm
I drew something that can easily look inappropriate but I had no inappropriate intentions behind it I’m really embarrassed what should I do
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sisters fued
Posted Sunday July 18 2021, 5:52 am
why is your eldest sister feels like shes the alpha in the family?
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Am I being too possesive of my best friend?
Posted Sunday July 18 2021, 5:25 am
hey! my bestfriend is hanging out with new friends and i m happy for her because she s happy but i don t really want her to get in a bad entourage and after it to regret it. we don t really go out very much like we used to do and her bf don t even won t to let her go in some place without him, we still get along and talk everyday and i really trust and care for her but she often make me feel sad and pressured.it is my fault? am i being too possesive?
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Is it a good or bad idea to let a 15 year old visit her mom in jail?
Posted Wednesday July 14 2021, 5:17 pm
The charge is a check fraud charge and it is a seven month sentence. My daughter she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. They have a good relationship. The main problem I have is she will see her mom in a jail jumpsuit and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating. Is that ok for a 15 year old to see? Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? My daughter seems to find the idea of her mom having to wearing a uniform, sharing a room funny. I wonder why she would think it is funny. My wife says bring...
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Horrific, (but benign) sexual problems.
Posted Friday July 9 2021, 11:15 am
I'm 41/m. and for years, I've had this nightmarish condition of bleeding from my junk from getting aroused. I don't even have to ejaculate. NOPE, just some blood in my junk causes bleeding, most of the time. The urologist just plays it off as benign and "you'll be fine." But if I can't even get an erection without bleeding, how the hell am I supposed to ever have sex again?!?!??. And the doctors say "no big deal, go home". Let alone sex..., can't even clean the pipes once in a while! It generally doesn't hurt. But what hurts 10000 times more, is that I can't get my jollies, mostly, ever. And , that fucking kills me Psychologically. At this point, I'd be better off being impotent. I could understand some super old dude ha...
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I'm 22 and I think my mom is controlling me
Posted Thursday July 8 2021, 11:35 pm
I'm 22 and I think my mom is controlling me. I'll give one example.
So recently me and my mother went to the grocery. I was wearing a mask and she wasn't, (since some places are now allowing for masks off). Before we even left the house, I had my mask under my nose. Since it's been a year that people are required to wear it out, I often times forget im even wearing it as I've become used to it. Next thing I know my mom is screaming at me to take it off. Calling me names and all types of things. I just try to tell her its not a big deal and its just a mask but she gets even angrier.
She continues to yell at me in the car until we arrive at the store. At this point im crying my eyes out because she won't stop ye...
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I want to help my sister!
Posted Wednesday July 7 2021, 10:18 am
Hello. I am a younger sister and my elder sister is 3 years older. We are in university. My sister is friends with these two girls (let's call them x and y), they have been close friends since grade 8 and up till now.
2-3 years ago X and Y moved back to their home country (They live in the same country, different cities) and now my sister chats with them online, video calls and texting. My sister has been diagnosed with slight depression and she wants to put on a brave face all the time. Every time she seeks comfort from X and Y, they say things like "well, I have it worse since my mum did not want me" or "at least you did not have to commute going to university. You do not know what it is like."
T...
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Relationship advice
Posted Monday July 5 2021, 7:34 pm
Well, my boyfriend has been acting differently, he won't say "I love you" back to me like he normally does. We argue from time to time and now I just feel sad and drained. I feel like he's cheating on me now at this point. He says he wouldn't do that, but I feel like he is.
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