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My son and his step dad
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 4:55 pm
My husband (married for 16 year) for the past few months have a horrible problem with my son. He ignores him completly, does not talk to him at all, and if my son does not do something he will call him names and put him down or call my son name to me.
I love my husband and he is good to me but since my son has made quite few mistakes in his life I am just between two of them. I must add that my husband is a person with many rules and kind of "black or white". My son has made a few very stupid decisions lately like moving out a day after turning 17, drinking, ignoring us on the street around his friends, lying, failing school and playing us that he wants to stay in school and many other but really felling almost everythi...
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I'm not wanted.
Posted Monday February 11 2008, 3:44 pm
Well, i've been bounced around from family to family ever since 2001. I am 13, and i fell like no one in this world wants me, not my mom, dad, gramma, grampa, brother, sister, or anyone else. I feel like only my friends want me. What should i do??????? Please help me.
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im afraid for my sister and high school
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 8:04 pm
next year my sister is going to high school im just really afraid she wont be ok in it. shes very different from everyother girl she isnt a follower she will do what she thinks. but shes barley makin it in school and she is very umm, emo or goth. NOT sayin it in a bad way. on friday their was a big fight between one of my friends a huge football player and a emo kid. he was so bloody. catholic school. i hate that guy hes a faggot but my sister is JUST like him. but she would fight back. shes a very tough girl. she doesnt make new friends that easy. she hates school shes depressed. im afraid if shell never make friends or get beaten up or fail out. she hates our parents she talks to me. her best friends now, i hate every one of them. she pic...
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Which way should I tell them?
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 6:23 pm
I posted a question a while ago about telling my parents I want to move back to England to finish school when I'm 17 and how I should tell them..
Well, I decided to type everything out just to see how it sounded and so I didn't miss anything out and I had the idea of printing a copy of this one for each of my parents and sitting down with them, explaining the situation to them but then saying ''The details are on the paper I've given you'' and letting them read through the thorough explanation while I'm there..
I thought this way, they couldn't interrupt me or cut me short and there's no way I'll get nervous and forget anything or get too emotional and start crying halfway through my explination.
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I don't know what to do.
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 12:37 pm
My dad is leaving next year. My parents are divorcing. My mom doesn't even have a job so I don't even know what we're going to do. My dad is always yelling. My mom's always blaming me for everything. My dad hates me & I don't even know why. My parents are always talking about how smart my brother is & why can't I be like him. I get grounded if I don't make A's in every subject like my brother. My cousin is in the hospital. My grandfather has cancer & won't be living much longer. I can't talk to anyone but three of my close friends about anything, but I hardly see them anymore. Two of my best friends got separated from me because they changed the school districts. Another one of my best friends just got transferred to another sch...
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I didn't even do anything..
Posted Sunday February 10 2008, 12:24 pm
I was crying about something & I went downstairs to talk to my mom about it. Then she started yelling at me & blaming everything on me. So, I just said, "Okay. Well, I was gonna talk to you about it, but screw that." & for some reason, she thinks that I said, "Screw you." Yeah, and now I'm grounded. I tried to tell her that wasn't what I said, but she just started yelling at me even more. How can I get her to just...calm down? I didn't even do anything.
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pregnant and cant tell parents.
Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 9:43 pm
ok so i just found out im pregnant. and im only 15. DONT JUDGE ME I JUST NEED ADVICE.
i have to tell my parents. but i dunno how. any help on that?
also, the father doesnt know im pregnant, either. how can i tell him and my parents?
and please please please dont tell me to get an abortion cause im so against that.
so yeah just gimme advice on how to tell my parents and the father.
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"I need advice on me and my mom
Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 7:05 pm
look me and my mom fight all the time cuz i back talk her i need help to stop i don't want to drift away from her plez help me asap
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dreams
Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 4:50 pm
so like everyone says that when you have a dream more than once, its eventually going to come true.
is that true? cause i have had the same dream for like a week. just...different people. and different sequences. but the same thing happens.
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game day with joey.
Posted Thursday February 7 2008, 3:56 pm
i'm going to a softball game with my friend amanda and my very good friend jeoe and i'm going to flurt with him but i still don't know if he has a gf b/c the last time that i talked to is sister she said that he was going out with a crazy bitch. i don'y know what to do should go for it or should i just back off, but i really likr him and i've liked him since 7th grade but i don't kno what to do so if any body can help please do?
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Please........read this its very imporant
Posted Wednesday February 6 2008, 5:11 pm
16/f! My aunt Linda and her son john live with us and they both treat me like dirt and i can't stand them. For example they are messy and one time some food spilled on their carpet and they blamed me. Then once they got porn downloaded on their computer and said i looked at it. Then one time me and my mom were fighting and my aunt linda was like "she is way to fat and lazy to run away" because i jumped out my window and i no this be cuz m brother told me and he wont lie. Neither my mom or dad will do anything bout her and ive tried asking her y she's so mean to me and now shes meaner. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!
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I think my dad is cheating on my mom
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 11:43 pm
I am a 17-year old girl about to go to college. I absolutely love my family. However, recently my dad has been acting harshly towards my mom, but not in an abusive way- he doesn't specify where he's going when he's going out, for example, and expects her to take it. They've been married 26 years, but he doesn't show her a lot of affection -and she has complained to me about it. Now I have proof that he is having an affair. The only problem is is that this proof is his text messages - things I shouldn't be looking at. I couldn't help myself, and I know it was wrong. However, now that I know should I do and/or say something? I am absolutely heartbroken and shocked, but more than that is the fact that my mom doesn't deserve this. Is there anything I can do? Please help me.
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it's my life!
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 10:43 pm
My parents are always in my business and my little sister too!! it doesn't help that my door doesn't have a lock. My mom always peers over my shoulder to look what i'm typing on facebook or AIM. It's so annoying. I have to close out all my windows when i hear someone walking in the hallway.
my sister goes in my room and looks in my journal. I read ONE entry in her journal and now she trys to find mine all the time. I try to find places to hide it, but i'm not very good at that sort of thing. Right now she can't find it, it's just i don't want her to be reading into my personal life, but i want to be able to express myself through my journal without having to censor it.
any ideas how to keep my sister away from my journ...
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"How can I deal with my anxiety and major changes at the sam
Posted Tuesday February 5 2008, 6:56 pm
here andDear Advicenators,
I'm 13(im a girl 2) and I live with my mom,dad,and stubborn 7yr old sister. Recently my father who is a mechanic applied for a better job at Honda and while making his application he made my mom an application to as a joke...but today Honda called wanting my mom. All my life i've had a stay at home mom who had certian handy-jobs there but never really permanent jobs...and honda wants her to go to schooling for 6-8weeks! then they want her to work 2weeks 1st shift 2weeks 2nd shift and vice versa...that means id have to get myself and my little sister both ready for school and then make dinner for my dad and my picky eater sister all alone...and my mom is guilt tripping me into it by saying we need the money...
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FAmily Vacation
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 9:37 pm
Me and my parents want to go on a famlily vacation this summer or possilby over spring break. I am 15 but i turn 16 in may. Where are some places in the US that we would enjoy? Also my parents want to either fly some wear and take a train home or take a train somewhere and drive home. But if that cant happen its o.k.
plese help us out
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God is telling me something?
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 9:23 pm
like, i know this is very random and uncalled for but i cant talk to anyone without them totally freaking out and stuff? but i am getting this huge feeling/ vibe or whatever that im going to be a teenage mom. like, i keep having all these dreams and stuff. oh, by the way im 15. and i know this is weird and all but i honestly wouldnt mind having a baby. i might not be able to afford it, but i'll cross that bridge when i come to it. my parents might murder me and try to make me give it up or kill it or something but im sure i could convince them to think otherwise. "Hello? this is your GRANDCHILD!!!!" yeah, lol. told you it was random. but give me your opinions. what do you think about all this?
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Over Attached To My Belated Mom
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 6:51 pm
15/Female.
First and foremost let me start by saying my mom had me when she was just sixteen and in an arranged abusive marriage which had ended in two years. She was never there for me in my young years. I remember when I was in kindergarten looking out on the stage, with high hopes, searching for my mom but no one was there besides my grandparents. It just wasn't the same. I was crushed to see an empty seat. My mom would make up to anything she did to offend me by taking me out shopping or grabbing a bite to eat.
When she was in her early twenty's all she did was go clubbing. I lived with my grandparents so my mom had much freedom for a mother. She would take me out every weekend and we would go out and do something ...
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What can I do to convince my parents to move?
Posted Monday February 4 2008, 5:08 pm
I'll try and keep it short and sweet.
I go to a public school in a town about 30 minutes away from where I live. My mom is a teacher there, which is why I'm allowed to go. Because of this it can be extremely difficult to have a life with friends out there. I no longer have friends in the town I live in, and only a small group of friends in a town over. My parents have been talking about moving for a while, and yet whenever I try to help they yell at me, and tell me they will deal with it.
Why don't they seem to want to move? What can I do to help them without them getting mad? I don't think it's a question of money. It's true the town over is expensive, but I've looked and there are affordable houses. T...
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just will not listen
Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 10:57 pm
Ok, here's the problem. I have a 10 yr. old sis that drives me absolutly insane. Everytime I go to my parents to keep her away from me, they ignore me! Even if I'm having an issue in school, or with myself, they just won't listen to me. Almost everyday, I feel shut out from everyone, and my sis is RLLY pissn me off. I need help pleez!
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sister drama a whole lotta drama
Posted Saturday February 2 2008, 10:57 pm
ok so my sister puts me down a lot and it makes me mad and when we actually start talkin about how we get into fights and stuff she said atleast
99% of the time its my fault and it really makes me mad . also i started talkin to a 19 year old guy and we weren't really datin but my sister got
his number off my phone and started texting him
and they were going to become friends with benifits and that guy told me he loved me but when my sister told me about all of this it really made me mad because she went behind my back to a guy who i told her i loved and wanted to be with him. so my question is is my sister a good sister at all? also me and my sister fight a
lot and shes always callin me fat and sayin that
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