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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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Does he like me? will it make my friend jealous?


Posted Monday January 19 2009, 2:32 pm

Well i went to my friends birthday party, it was her big FIFTEEN...Her ex started being really friendly with me and her at the same time except he kept on touching me around her and sometimes not around her...he once dated her and she kept getting close to him..he wanted to keep touching me..she thinks he likes me and she says she won't care if i date him..is that true?\
She still acts like she likes him..also, idk if he is trying to make her jealous or something because he did a lot right in front of her...PLEASE HELP!??

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I like my best friend's brother


Posted Sunday January 18 2009, 8:57 pm

I likemy bff's brother and have for a while now. I just told her a week ago, it was nice to let it out. She obviously said, omgggg, and all that. She doesn't really care, we're still bffs, we never really talk about it and if we do we just laugh. I know he at least likes me as a friend, he says hi in the hallways and jokes with me. We relate about a lot of stuff and my bff always says, you get along better with him than me! Well, one time on the bus home, before she knew i liked him, we were talking. She was telling me about how they bonded last night (they hate each other most of the time though) and they told eachother who they liked. She said a long time ago they promised to never tell anyone who they said they liked, and they never brok...

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Who is right


Posted Sunday January 18 2009, 4:30 pm

For starters, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. I was just wondering who you guys would agree with. We were at his friend's place one day and were well..wanting each other. He wanted to ask his friend if we could use his bedroom. But I didn't want him to know so I said we should just go to the bathroom and not tell his friend. His friend was playing video games so he wouldn't have noticed if we were gone for a little. So which do you guys think is better? Tell him and use his bedroom or not tell him and just do it in the bathroom?

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Best friend trouble


Posted Sunday January 18 2009, 2:48 pm

14/f
I'm sorry this is going to be sort of long.
Sometimes a really...well, sometimes I HATE my best friend. I know that's a really bad thing to say, but that's really how I feel sometimes. She never wants to do the same things I do-like when I say, do you want to come over? She says, flat out, no, which is not only rude, but it's really hurtful, or if I want to go on a walk, I always have to talk her into it, otherwise she says she's "too tired". I can never have fun with her-like if I say, I love you! She starts freaking out on me and calls me a lesbo, so I can never say that to her. And the most annoying thing she does is she ALWAYS cancels on me! Here's what normally happens:
I invite her over for a sleepo...

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my guyfriend


Posted Sunday January 18 2009, 12:55 am

16f

i have a guyfriend and we're really close and all (like really close) except whenever i tell him something just randomly, he says i am overreacting / overanalyzing the situation.

it really pisses me off. it's just my personality. i don't want to tell him to stop because then he'll never tell me when i am actually overanalyzing something and he'll just be thinking it. i'd rather he be honest, but it's just annoying.

what should i do? should i just not tell him stuff... ? it just hurts cause like. it's just how i am. i'm a girl. girls overanalyze everything.

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How to be more outgoing?!


Posted Friday January 16 2009, 11:25 pm

i'm a pretty outgoing person with my friends,but when it comes to strangers i totally bottle up! i have no clue why,but im always so quiet or have no clue what to say! i REALLY want to get to know some new people and make new friends,but i'm not so sure how? i feel kind of weird for asking how to makes friends,but its really hard for me. i love my friends so much, but meeting new people would be awesome too :D. i'm entertaining,once you get to know me,but i feel like people will never see that if im just a quiet weirdo infrount them ! lately i've felt so dazed-no im not tired,hungry,or anything like that.i always feel out of it.help? :]

also,i have a quick question but theres a lot of explaining involed. when drama is going o...

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My friend had an affair with a married man.


Posted Friday January 16 2009, 9:56 pm

My friend is having an affair with a married man. I found out he is also having an affair with another woman at the same time. Should I tell my friend? She keeps suggesting this man loves her and will leave his wife for her; however, I know he is giving the other woman the same line. He bought my friend a clock radio for Christmas, he bought the other woman a brand new Mustang. What should I do???

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Lying boy


Posted Friday January 16 2009, 9:25 pm

There's this guy that I really like that I dated last year. I broke up with him but I regret it. He asked me out this year but I wasn't ready for another relationship but now he has a girlfriend. She's pretty and all but I love him and can't forget him he told me he still loved me but couldn't break up with her but idk why. If he loves me soo much y can't he just do it he claims to love me more than her but at school he doesn't talk to me and gives her a lot of attention. What should I do??

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muslim friend


Posted Friday January 16 2009, 5:29 pm

so i have this really reallly cool friend! i just met her and she is the most helpful person i've ever known! she is so nice and sometimes it makes me feel that i am not doing right by her as a friend... she is a veiled muslim girl and she is quite religious. he fiance is pretty strict too but he likes me so he doesn't mine me being her friend... the other day i was in soooo much life or death trouble and she called him and they both helped me out of it! i mean really out of it so i don't know what to do to repay them! i want to get her something really really thoughtful.. but i don't know what... i don't mind spending cash on it so i don't care if it is a big thing... the problem is i don't know what! i was thinking maybe a nice dinner at ...

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ugh friend-guy problem.


Posted Friday January 16 2009, 4:39 pm

okay so my friend goes out with this guy and well he has a friend who's cute.I hung out with them like 3 times but its been like a year. She's been going out with him since sophomore year,and well she's been pressuring me to hang out this kid and her boyfriend. I never hang out with them because honestly,i dont really like her boyfriend he's very sarcastic and i just dont liek what he and his friends do their just not my type of crowd you could say. So my friend begged this kid to text me and well we texted like 4 times since december. When she always asks me to hang out with him i say no because well a couople reasons. One is that well id have to hang out with her boyfriend and their group of friends which i dont wnt to do. And well i feel...

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Helping A Friend


Posted Thursday January 15 2009, 9:18 pm

How do you tell your friend that her boyfriend is just using her? And how can you tell her, when her boyfriend is your brother?

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I like one of my best friends


Posted Monday January 12 2009, 11:37 pm

Hi i'm 15male and a freshman in HS
i like one of my bestfriends. We talk a lot in gym and walking to classes and all, and a few months ago she found out i liked her and was totally cool with it, but i didn't know how she felt. she knows i think she's really pretty, and she calls me "man pretty" if that means anything? I kind of want to start something with her, but i dont want to ruin our friendship because she's one of the nicest and most caring girls i have ever met. That and i don't know exactly how to ask her, i don't want to screw up and have anything be awkward between us. Any adivce?
Thanks =)


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How can I figure out who I am?


Posted Monday January 12 2009, 7:45 pm

I'm in 9th Grade, and I'm unsure of who I am. There's the very smart side of me, the kind, helpful, selfless side of me, the sarcastic witty side of me, and the social side of me. I never know which to be, and my parents are always telling me how "I act weird around my friends" and "this isn't the girl I know." I just want to be me! Help!

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Betrayal??


Posted Monday January 12 2009, 7:21 pm

Well lets see there this boy that i liked last year and well i still like him. But lets go to the past for a minute well i liked this boy and one of my friends she has a class with him and she ask me if she can talk to him for me. And i said yea. So she be talking to him for me and trying to get me hooked up with him and stuff. So then this is were it comes to the present well i just found out from another of one of my friends that the boy i like wanna her to hook them up together and i ask who was it and she wouldnt tell me. So then thats when i found out that the person who wanna hook up with him was the friend that tried to hook me up with him last year. And so both of my friends were going behind my back with this. And they thought i di...

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Why am I so unpopular?


Posted Monday January 12 2009, 6:20 pm

14/f

So I don't obsess over being popular and everything, but I've begun to realize that I don't really have a social life.... Like I have sleepovers and go to the mall, but really only with my best friend. I do have a lot of friends, but we never hang out. I was on Facebook awhile ago and I was looking at this really popular girl's pictures, and a lot of pictures were of her at house parties and big sleepover parties. I realized the last time I went to a party was... well I think a birthday party when I was 12. That's really sad. So I'm not saying I want to be all popular and have tons of parties, but I would like to be with more friends and everything instead of sitting at home playing on the computer. Help please?

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bf cheating with other bf's boy HELP!!!


Posted Monday January 12 2009, 4:09 pm

Alright. So. My Bestfriend, Hali, shes been threw a lot of crap in her life. Summer of 07, she lost her cousin. She died from a cyst on her brain. Well 8 months later, her sister died in a car crash. Well during these times, her boyfriend then was cheating on her. And when she told him to go to a family funeral thing for her sister, he didn't go. He was out cheating on her. Well she finally got over him, and started to date a new guy. I liked him at first, he seemed like he really wanted to date her, so I helped get them together. Well it took them a loong time to finally get together. But when they were "talking" he was talking to other girls, but I was like well oh well, bc they aren't dating so its nothing. Well I just found ou...

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13 yr old girl never spends time with friends


Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 1:16 am

so my younger sister never spends any time (out of school) with her friends. she is in 8th grade, and i would think that at least some girls her age are hanging out on weekends, i mean i remember having sleepovers with my friends when i was that age. anyways, i was wondering if this was normal? the last time she did anything with her friends was when she went to the movies one time in the summer...

she's not in fights with any of them either...

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Is it normal that she dosn't care?


Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 10:11 pm

Okay, my friend, Linda, got into a argument with my other friend, Stacy, and made Stacy cry. In Linda's defence, though, Stacy hadn't been being such a great friend.

Anyway, even though Linda made Stacy cry, she really does not care. She was just able to turn her back so easily. She has gotten into fights like this before, where she hurts the other person, and really dosn't care.

Then, it's like other people can say mean things to her and insult her, and she can just ignore it like its not there and dosn't care.

A lot of the time its like she only has two emotions, happy and mad. I've seen her cry, but it's like, shes so mad shes crying. She can get pretty agrsive when shes mad too. Like she'll...

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bad news


Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 4:49 pm

There's this girl I was friends with in highschool and then after highschool she moved in with her grandparents in another town so she could go to the college there and ever since she moved our friendship had been different. It's like we are not best friends anymore. I've noticed that every time she calls me all she wants to talk about is drugs,drinking,parting,and sex and we get into arguments over the phone everytime she calls becouse I don't want to talk about that kind of stuff and when she lived here we never got into any kind of fight ever and lately that's all we do is fight and argue. Then about 3 weeks ago she called and said she was coming over to hang out for a few hours but I kept having to call her to see if she was coming and ...

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worst thing to do


Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 9:33 am

okay i am the worst person in the world right now...
me and my best friend met a group of guys that one guy she knew because he used to work with her. i liked that guy from the minute i saw him. when i told her about how hes cool whatever, i wanted to ask if she liked him to be courteous. never in 100000 years did i expect her to say yes, i like him...so i didn't tell her i liked him too! i dont know why but i tried to hook them up, even tho i liked him. i was being a good friend i guess. one time i could have hooked up with him but made her do it instead and she was so happy after. anyway then i pretty much went ahead and asked him how he felt about her and he asked y i tried hooking them up and i said i dont know, i thought you lik...

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