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I don't like this girl but I don't know what to do...
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 12:43 pm
14/F Sorry this might be a little long.
So there's this girl who's been at our school for awhile now maybe a month or two let's call her L... there's been two new girls after her, so she's not really the new girl anymore... So my friend, let's call her E, has been friends with her for awhile (L was at a school with a bunch of people from our school, so it's not like she doesn't know ANYONE), so she hangs out with us.
I kind of liked L at first, but now she's getting on my and my other friends nerves. She's sort of clingy to us, and she kind of doesn't shut up. She talks about weird things, like how she talks to ghosts and how much she loves her little brother and how much she loves bologna...etc.
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Friendship && Boyfriend HELP!
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 9:22 am
Let's just say "Sally" and "Bob"..
Well Sally has a boyfriend and her boyfriend don't like me.. Well over the days.. he told Sally that i texted him saying "im bored" and "Your hot"!
and Sally just texted me out of no where "I FREAKING HATE YOU!!!!" and that i need to leave her and her boyfriend alone! and i dont even know what i did untell a little birdy told me today that he told her that i texted him that stuff! so now she is mad at me and the little birdy asked her if she was mad at me because i didnt do it and she said "yeah because Bob would never lie to me and make me sad" and blah blah blah! so i dont know anymore!
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we were close but now we're barely friends,what's happening beetween us?
Posted Sunday February 1 2009, 12:07 am
hi i am an 18 year old female,and i've known this guy since the 8th grade and we had a thing going on,but it only lasted like a week because i was not ready nor interested in having a boyfriend.we stayed in touch and we became pretty close.i considered him my best friend. we were comfortable with each other and could talk to each other about anything,even personal stuff. i began to like him as more than a friend,and he said he was confused about me but he had a girfriend, so we just stayed friends.we would text everyday and we even stood up talking one the phone from 11pm-4am.then we jsut started to become distant,and now we're barely friends.if i dont text him he doesnt text me and when i do text him i feel he doesnt want to talk. when i s...
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liarrr!!!
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 10:37 pm
my best friend lies to me allllll the time. about probably everything. i never know what to even believe anymore. like nothing huge, but just small stuff. like i'll ask her what she did tonight, & she'll be like oh i went to the movies with my sister. & really it was her other friend. & i don't know why she lies about this? i dont care if she went there with other people? i hang out with other people too, ha? i confronted her about it, and she said she wouldn't do it again. but obviously she still is. what do i do? i don't even know if i should bother being friends with her.. i kinda feel like shes holding me back.. nobody really likes her.
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Creepy new girl...
Posted Saturday January 31 2009, 8:14 pm
14/f
So about 3 and a half weeks ago, there was this new girl to my class... lets call her L. I thought she was kind of nice at first, cause, you know, she was like a new opportunity as a friend. It turned out one of my best friends (E) has been friends with her for awhile, so L sits at our lunch table now... but after the first day, I started to have my doubts about her, and same thing with the rest of the table (except for E). Here are some things about her that we don't like at all:
-She has so much acne her face is completely red
-She constantly talks about how she talks to ghosts... also how there used to be a mean ghost in her old house, and thats why the moved...
-She smell...
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have you ever felt this way?
Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 2:01 am
me and my friend got to know eachother in myspace and known eachother for 3 weeks we've been talking to eachother on online a lot and she said"it feels like we've known longer even though we met 3 weeks ago" but in person its kind of different cause theres some awkwardness when we talk in class what does she mean? and have you ever felt that way?
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me vs. them
Posted Tuesday January 27 2009, 9:20 pm
14/f
usa
thank you for reading this. i have a problem with my friends. latley things have nto been nearly of how great they used to be. there are these two that i thought i was really closed to. well i found out that they pretended to be someone asking me out on myspace but turns out it was really them. but i found this out about a month after it happened and they pretended to be him on the phone. i completly feel humilitated becuase i thought they trusted me. they are extremly sorry for that they did and i know i should forgive them but i have 0 trust for them right now. what should i do? should u be their friends or shold i try to move on. oh . . . one more thing. we are different people. they talk about sexual t...
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I'm really sad.
Posted Tuesday January 27 2009, 6:39 pm
I am sad. I don't know if it's just stupid hormones, and I'm not depressed. It just seems like my Mom yells at me a lot. It makes me really sad. It makes me seem like the only place where I'm happy is alone at home, which is rarely, or at school. It feels like nobody understands me. Sometimes it feels like nobody likes me at school either. I have some friends, but I say one thing by mistake and everyone hates me. I feel like I'm left out, like I'm in a world I hate. I keep telling lies and plastering a fake smile on my face. But I'm sick of it. I need help. Welcome to my Life by Simple Plan is my stinkin THEME SONG. It;s true. Welcome to my life.
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Best friend no longer there
Posted Monday January 26 2009, 3:32 am
Thank you very much for being out there just waiting to selflessly give advice :)
Here's my problem:
My best friend has a new boyfriend and she is spending 24/7 with him (almost literally, this is college and people can do that easily)!
He is a really great guy: he is taking things slow physically, he does not seem like the jealous type (I am a guy, not a girl, so this is important) ect... However, I rarely see her anymore (as opposed to spending probably half our free time together before this guy came along). I have lots of other great friends, I date a lot of girls, and I have a great social life, but I really miss my best friend.
I have talked with her about it, hinting how hur...
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depression
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 9:22 pm
im very depressed
my good friend died of a brain tumor july 29th 07
and i misss her sooo much still
i cannot deal with it it never gets easier
i dont know what to do
everything reminds me of her .
i cry. and i miss her
.we were so much alike
we were suppose to do so much together
she was only sixteen
and its not fair
and.. i want her back
i do not know what to do
i just cant ever face it, or believe it
or..move on.
help
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No life
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 7:48 pm
I have moved to a new place less then a year ago. I'm a student in high school. I hate it, because I can't make any close friends here, or friends that I can hang out with. I am pretty shy, and its hard for me to connect with other people.
How can I change this? What should I do?
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online frenz
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 5:26 pm
hey im 18 and female i live in south cali and would like to meet new people and just chil and talk to them my life is currently boring and well during my free time i would like to meet new pple im outgoing funny and latina i like novelas and if you know what that is its kool but if you dont know its kool well im not picky and looking for sumthing in particular i just want pple to chil with if intrested plesae leave me a comment or message thanxs and take care
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why is she doing this ??!?!?
Posted Sunday January 25 2009, 2:07 am
okay so i have this bff that well call katie we were really close and stuff but during the summer she met a guy that she started liking and according to her he liked her to the only problem was that her already had a girlfirend so he ended up dumping hes gf for her. well one day they went out and she was too nervous to go out with him so she asked our friend carlos to go with her. im her bff and she didnt even ask me to come along and she never introduced me to the guy she liked instead she took carlos who shes always complaining about saying hes dumb a pussy and everything else am i blowing this out of porportion or should i be consern about this why did she do it and what should i do
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What Would You Do?
Posted Saturday January 24 2009, 7:17 pm
What would you do if you and your good friend had an issue with each other and then as you were working out the issue with this friend, all of a sudden you found out your friend is avoiding the situation in trying to work out the issue. and that friend deletes you off their friends list on a social networking site without any reason telling you why. You tried emailing your friend and all and he/she ignores you. What would you do?
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Posted Friday January 23 2009, 12:12 am
my best friend has been going out with her boyfriend for about 2 months. this is her first serious boyfriend - shes 16, and im happy for her. only thing is, she is head over heels for him, but its really obvious he doesn't like her like that. i am NOT jealous, i would never date a guy in the same species as this one, haha, but im not the only one who has noticed the apathy on his part. she sets up all the dates, she asked him out, and he doesnt even hug her when they say goodbye! theyve kissed but to me it seems like a formality on his part. -i a really intrapersonal person, i can pick up others' feelings easily, but even my other friends notice-
also, she invites him everywhere when we have girl time. like, when its just her...
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Everything in life
Posted Thursday January 22 2009, 8:57 pm
Hey there, im 16f.
Do you ever wonder why we were put on earth, what is your purpose in life and things like that? Well, im starting to think im wasting my life away. I live in a small town and I just want to get out in the world. I wish I could pursue what I want, but I don't think I can until I get my licence. My life is the shits, i have a family that treats me bad they don't understand me and wont listen to try to understand,I have no friends here, and no one truly cares about me. I don't want to hear anyone say there is people who care because you would think the same thing if you knew the people here and were in my position. I have good grades, an outgoing personality, and I am a caring person. But no one sees that, they lo...
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what should i do to get her to forgive me
Posted Wednesday January 21 2009, 10:10 pm
13/guy
ok so the other day i called this guy whos my best girl friends(not relationship just good friends) bestt friend a fag and now she and another girl who knows him are really pissed off at me and i dont know why i called him that i didnt mean it i just said it for no reason so now they hate me
and i was wondering what i should do to get them to forgive me i have already apologised heaps of times and they wont text back or anything since its the christmas holidays i cant see them in person but ive only got a few days till school starts again so
how do i get them to forgive me
i really still want to be friends with both girls
please help
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penpals!
Posted Wednesday January 21 2009, 6:25 pm
are there any websites that let you write to people your age from other countries? like a penpal sort of thing?
i used to have BearShare and only used it for the instant messaging feature but i got a new computer and i haven't been able to re-download it.
but i really enjoyed talking to people from Europe mainly because i speak english and french.
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Caught In The Middle
Posted Tuesday January 20 2009, 7:35 pm
Two of my best friends hate each other's guts for reasons that are completely stupid, but I of course, am stuck in the middle. They were good friends at one point a while back but things just changed, and now they really can't stand each other. We use to be a really tight knit group of four, the 'fab four' as you may call it, but now it's down to three, and we've recently taken in a 'replacement' for the missing spot. So now two out of the four of us hate the girl that use to be in our group, but the other two can bare with her. It's just annoying that I have to put up with their trash talk, because in reality, she never did anything wrong. I feel like I can't keep tolerating them talking rudely behind her back, because she is such a sweet ...
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I lied to him about having sex.
Posted Monday January 19 2009, 9:12 pm
18/f
This could also be under "love life" but I value my friendship with him even more, so that's why I chose that category!
I did something terrible! My best friend in the world, who's the most honest person I know, and has liked me for approximately 6 months, deserves someone so much better in his life. I've had a crush on him on and off (and yes, we have kissed) but I never started dating him because I'm a stupid manipulative girl who just likes to flirt with other guys too much for her own good.
Not only have I toyed with this amazing boy, hurt his feelings, and pretended to be someone I'm not.. I have now also lied to him.
I guess I just wanted his attention because...
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