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22 yrs. New mom.. baby's father unfaithful
Posted Monday September 26 2016, 1:38 pm
My son just turned two months and I recently found out that when I was five months pregnant my boyfriend was on social media asking other girls for their numbers. He obviously deleted any texts so I'm not sure what exactly they were talking about. I know he didn't physically cheat because he was home straight from work. I somewhat confronted him about it. (I couldn't say everything I wanted to because my son was present & I don't like arguing in front of him.) The conversation was pretty much "I know you did it" showed him screenshots. He admitted but didn't say anything that was said. He kept apologizing over and over again & was saying how he doesn't want to lose his family over it. He'll never do it again blah blah blah...
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virgin yet my hymen is broken??
Posted Monday September 26 2016, 4:32 am
Ok so I'm gonna be 15 very shortly so I get my 'ladies' exam next week. I was curious so I checked out my hymen and saw it kinda looks like its broken/torn.. but I'm a virgin.. like I've fingered myself before but no dude has entered me. I'm terrified that the doc will see it and say something to my mom who will flip out and not believe that I'm still a virgin.. any help you can give? like any excuses to give my mom and the doctor?? I'm desperate here!
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Identical twin?
Posted Monday September 26 2016, 2:26 am
So this isn't exactly advice I'm looking for but more like an answer. Is it true that there are 7 people out there in the world that are identical to you???
I would love that more than anything, to meet like my secret identical twin, but I don't even know if its true, and if it is, how do I find her/them?
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Manager boyfriend.
Posted Monday September 26 2016, 12:20 am
My boyfriend of almost two years is a manager at a Walmart. I love him dearly, but lately his job us been creating major bumps in the road. I consistently feel disappointed in the time we spend together. He'll have a shift starting at 7 in the morning and choose to go in at 4 in the morning because it's "easier to do things when people aren't there" and then as soon as he comes home, he sleeps so we have no time together. Speaking of home, he brought up about four months ago the idea of moving in together (we both still currently live with our parents).. I said that I think it's time so i got a few apps and started looking around for apartments while he said well wait to see what my first paycheck at my new job will look like. i g...
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Budgeting My Paycheck?
Posted Sunday September 25 2016, 5:27 pm
So I'm a high school senior, 17, and I want to work on budgeting my paychecks. I work at McDonalds, make about $7.43 and hour, and usually work 15-20 hours a week, maybe a little more, and I do pay taxes and do the McScholars which takes out 50ยข an hour on top of whatever tax is. I get paid bi-weekly and the checks are typically between $100 and $200. I tend to be really bad about making my money last, between buying things i actually need and then blowing the rest on junk food i dont need to buy, unneccisarily eating at work, and getting other random things I dont need. I have been settinf aside between $40 and $80 each paycheck, but I was wondering if anyone could give me an idea on how I could start budgeting? I don't drive or have a ve...
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Mother developing narcissistic tendencies after what she calls spiritual enlightenment
Posted Saturday September 24 2016, 2:01 pm
Hi there,
I've noticed that my mother has been developing narcissistic tendencies after what she calls spiritual enlightenment. She became a vegetarian but after she has converted to eating vegetables, she has been neglecting some of her family routines. She doesn't cook as well as she use to anymore because she claims that she doesn't have any desire to eat meat, which I know but I don't understand how that effects the quality of how she cooks food. At one point all she cooked was vegetarian food for the longest time until I mentioned to her that I'm not on the same diet as her. Which got her to cook meat, but she cooked it at lesser portions than normal. It makes me feel like she's being passive aggressive about making me ...
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I like my friend's girlfriend...
Posted Saturday September 24 2016, 7:52 am
I'm a bisexual freshman in highschool, and I like my friends gf... we both have boyfriends. Help, please.
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Is he in love with me?!
Posted Friday September 23 2016, 11:52 pm
Hi, we used to worked together but he left. He's single and I'm not. He's aware of that however apart from that I always knew he had a thing for me and fancied me. We always used to joke and whine each other in a flirty manner, but nothing more. Recently, me and my boyfriend have moved in together and he found out through my mate as he was asking me, how's she? Is she still with the same lad? But when my mate said, yeah they live together now, suddenly he seemed really sad and said,'well, maybe in another life, eh'?? As my mate could sense, he was really sad. OK guys, what did he actually mean by that??? Is he in love with me or something. We're in our late 20's. Guys point of view, please!!
Thank u all so much!
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Help making friends
Posted Friday September 23 2016, 5:04 am
24/f
I've never had close friends since I was 8 years old. Thinking about this has always made me feel painfully sad but I don't know what to do anymore. I've never had a group of people to just hang out during the weekend, and I can't figure out what's wrong with me.
Some background:
My family moved country when I was 8. I was sent to very affluent girl only middle school and high schools where I was at the bottom of the social ladder and faced mean-girl style bullying. My mom was also pretty controlling and has OCD so she didn't let me go out much or always made me take along my older brother who has Aspergers to the few things I was invited to.
I thought college would be better but it w...
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Crush problems
Posted Thursday September 22 2016, 10:22 pm
I have this crush, even though it feels more than a crush, and I just told him how I feel. He said he wants to get to know me better, but he's not making any moves to try to learn anything about me at all. I try talking to him during band when we sit next to each other, but it's more like me saying something, him saying his opinion, then awkward silence for the next 20 minutes. Recently though my best friend told me one if her friends told her that my crush has a crush on her. It makes sense. He does really seem to talk to and hang around her a lot. My best friend has made it very clear that she doesn't share his feelings. Does this mean he lied to me about getting to know me better? I'm kinda hurt. Plus, to make it all worse, I can't get h...
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I'm Really Worried About My Boyfriend
Posted Thursday September 22 2016, 12:14 am
My boyfriend lives somewhere other than me (Canada) and I'm in the U.S. We don't get to talk as much due to both of us being busy and me technically not supposed to date (Im 18 but cant move out cause I'm in school with a horribly strict family) I had a conversation with him that lasted about five minutes. he said he was doing something dangerous. And I thought he was joking. He said he was taking his friend to a pot deal in a really nice part of town (He doesnt do drugs himself) and was joking "As long as I dont get shot I'll be fine" I'm really worried about him but should I be? I dont want to tell him that because I dont want him to get upset (I have anxiety so that doesn't help much) What do you think I should do? (Please don'...
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Writing a prologue/exposition?
Posted Wednesday September 21 2016, 4:45 pm
I'm not really sure if this is the right place to ask, but can somebody tell me what the difference between a prologue and an exposition is (in writing)? And how do you write one without boring the audience to death?
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Workers comp
Posted Wednesday September 21 2016, 11:58 am
I received a letter saying my workers comp claim has
Been approved by my employ
er. So what happens now?
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HELP! Completely out of money and overdrafted?!!!
Posted Wednesday September 21 2016, 11:55 am
Hello, I'm freaking out and don't know what to do. I'm completely out of money and overdrafted by -$10 in my account.
I'm a college student who just moved off to college less than a month ago and found a new job three weeks ago. It turned out though that in the first two weeks my job didn't give me very many hours as I was training so I only wound up with about $110 for the first week and haven't been paid yet for this last week and won't be paid for this week until next Thursday or later.
My issue is that I have a car payment and car insurance which totals about $425 together and my car insurance was taken out this morning, which is what overdrafted me.
I even sold a watch that I loved to make ...
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I need 1000 dollars, in 4 weeks.
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 2:16 pm
Now long story short, I'm a 17 year old who managed to graduate early and is now paying my way through college myself. My parents helped me some, but everything else I pay for myself.
This is not the problem, the problem is that recently my best friend of my entire life lost everything. She had to move out of her parents house(and she moved in with me), her car is broken and has AWFUL gas mileage, her boyfriend dumped her for no reason, and to top it all off her job recently dropped all her clients but one so she has barely any income. Last night she was understandably very upset and while driving got a ticket. A 450$ ticket, and one she can't afford to pay.
I of course said I'd help her out and take care of it consi...
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Holidays with an 11 yr old and no other family
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 12:26 pm
For the past few years my relationships with my brothers has seriously been going downhill. They are constantly telling me what I'm doing wrong in my life and they complain about son and even my dogs. One of my brothers even told me my son was "unbearable". I rarely see them but for holidays mostly and those always end in tears for me. The other day all 3 of us got together with my parents to help them move some things from my recently deceased grandfather's house and even in just those two hours by the time it was done, I was so depressed I was nearly suicidal (not exaggerating, I have PTSD and have recently been in the hospital for a suicide attempt). I have decided that for my own mental health and safety I need to avoid them u...
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angry I want to sue someone but I don't know who
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 9:45 am
Good morning. I'm a 25 year old female and when I was 18, I found out that I was adopted. Even before this, I recall years of abuse. It hasn't been physical. But, it was psychological and emotional. My mother dealt with mental illness and has had outbursts. She has treated me like a doll. She wanted me to dress a certain way and act a certain way and often referred to me as the "empire she created." My father was an alcoholic and got another woman pregnant during the time that the adoption was being processed. So, he walked out on me and my mom. I was raised by my mom, grandparents, and my aunt and uncle, who lived across the street. They frequently took care of me when my mom was working. My cousin, who is 12 years older than me,...
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I lied to about my age to a guy I met online. I'm 13.
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 1:16 am
I met a guy on deviant art who was 20 (I'm 13 but I turn 14 on January 7th) and we started talking. I never had my age or name up on my profile. Or how I looked like. So he didn't know how old I was or any of that. He saw my art, though and thought I was so great. He had a fan fiction series he was writing and I suggested he made a Wattpad account for it. So he did. And we chatted on there more. One day I suggested he added a cover to his fan fiction and he said he wasn't too good at making covers so I offered to draw one for him. I finished it within a week (I think). He loved it and even told me I did so well, he kinda wanted to give me virtual kisses because of it. I was kinda shocked and didn't know how to respond at first. Then I repli...
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Would you want to find out who this person is?
Posted Tuesday September 20 2016, 12:21 am
If you lost your nineteen son twelve years ago in a terrible car accident and if some mysterious person kept leaving you gift at you house and leaving him flowers at the cemetery, would you want to know who it was?
Imagine living with the fear that someday everyone was going to forget your son. Then years after his death, out of nowhere, you come home the day before his birthday to find on your doorstep a basket full of candy and cookies with a bouquet of roses resting on top. There was a letter in the basket from some sweet young lady who wrote about how much she liked Reid (your son) and about some of the nice things he did for her.
The next year, the same young lady left you a plate of delicious homemade coo...
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Can't talk in class
Posted Monday September 19 2016, 11:15 pm
I don't know if this is the right category, but I am in university. I go to a small private university and a bunch of my classes have about 10 or so people in them.
Because of the small class size, there is a lot of professor-student interaction and questions and things.
I usually know the answer when the professor asks a question, or at least have a reasonable guess, but I never put my hand up. I hate speaking in a group of people.
Almost every time the prof calls on me, I start talking but the first few syllables are completely inaudible. I hate it, and I wish it wouldn't happen because I would like to be able to answer questions. I just end up looking stupid, especially in my French course wh...
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