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Posted Tuesday December 23 2003, 10:56 pm

i don't meant to insult those who are at a young age and say they have found love, but i realize that you have not felt true love until you meet the one meant for you. when my friend speaks of how much he is "in love", it just kinda pains me because he has no idea. i don't want to force him to believe he is only feeling a premature feeling of love and not the real thing... but i also won't be able to stand him getting hurt. what should i do to soothe my concience without telling him all of my opinions and putting out friendship at risk?

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Boyfriend Help


Posted Tuesday December 23 2003, 3:39 am

Hey I am going out with this guy i like and then i have all these other guys i like and i want them to I really dont wanna break his heart cuz i love him to death But theres these other guys that i have been out with and they Like me and i like them to I love them what am i to do

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Posted Tuesday December 23 2003, 2:00 am

Hi..you answered my question about my ex watching me. You said that I should flaunt it and make him realize what he's lost is far better than what he has now. And I was just wondering, if you had any ideas on how I should flaunt it? hehe. Thanks.


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Posted Tuesday December 23 2003, 12:31 am

This guy at my school has a big crush on me. He's the type who goofs off and tries to get laughs from everybody, so of course he makes it nice and obvious to every single person in my school that he likes me. Don't get me wrong, he's a good guy. But I really don't like him back. I can understand, I've been in his situation, but when I was told the guy didn't like me, I shut up. And I hadn't said anything before that. But it's real torture, and you should have heard the whole class laughing at me when the teacher unwittingly picked us for partners on a long project. It's awful. I've presented this to him, and I can tell he's trying, but he can't stop, even though I kind of swallowed my crush when this happened to me. This might even be somet...

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My Own Thing. . .


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 7:20 pm

I wanted to work on a new look for the new year, I've been thinking about punk, not being way over board. . but adding my own looks, mixing and matching I don't want to be noticed, but I want some say in what I wear. . . For the past years I dressed to impress, now its time for a change. . . IM gunna be dressed cuz I feel like wearing w/e the heck I want! I love the color black. . and fire is pretty, but I wouldnt cal myself a pyro, cuz I dont really love fire. . There r ups and downs. . about fire ya know, And I feel depressed and silenced, and I write poems and write lyrics for songs. . Is that like gothy??? I mena The goth style is pretty nice, but I dont want to be a goth. . Iw ant to be maybe a skater punk. . or something. CAn you give...

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HELP ME !!!!


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 5:59 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 years and we want to have sex but i am a Virgin and i dont know how it would fell can i get some advice explain how it fells and what i should do

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Christmas


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 4:01 pm

My boyfriend will not be getting me a chritmas gift this Christmas. I have already purchased his gift and given it to him because he needed it early (an expensive snowboarding coat). I am trying not to be upset. Times are tough, money's tight, the problem is he spent $200 on his mom's CD player, and bought his dad a forutne in hunting gear and we went out all weekend and he had no money problems then. Sunday we went shopping and he mentioned that he looked at his account and he's going to have to write a bad check so that he get his sister a gift. I told him not to worry about me, he says he's really sorry (he's really beating himself up over it) and that he'll get me something great the next paycheck, which won't be until January 5th. Am I...

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help?


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 12:01 pm

I have a friend who is a really good friend of mine and she has boyfriends like all the time but she is not a slut or a hoe.These guys ask her to do all these things withher like touch her and everything and she is afraid to say no cuz it would ruin there relationship so she does them with him I just dont want her to get hurt what am i to do!!!!! Love,Help

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this could just as easily been is love life rather than work


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 10:17 am

If you want to know the background then go to 'The best way to be a bitch'
Jon pissed me off really rather a lot since then because he would NOT give up at all.

Now Andrew has always been slightly involved in this saga but it just got more complicated.

When I first told him what Jon had said he said 'What would you have done if Bill or I had done it' in a weird way that seemed to be a hint.

Since then we have spent a lot of time sitting talking to each other,and according to some people flirting.We have loads in common and I like him a LOT so it could be true from my part but I'm not sure about him.

The other day he suggested that we should pretend to be dating to get at J...

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help me


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 7:47 am

Look I really love my boyfriend weve been together for 3 years and I want to take it to the next level(sex)and he wants to know if im really sure oh here's the catch im a virgin he knows of course so what should I do????????????

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my Pleasure


Posted Monday December 22 2003, 1:54 am

Hi i am a little confused i am a female and i dont have sex with my boyfriend untill a we hit 3 months so then i pleasure my self by finguring myself I am not sure How to do it the proper way do you think u can help Love,
Confused girl

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Can't we just be friends?


Posted Sunday December 21 2003, 9:44 pm

One of my friends at college, let's call him Try, seems to have developed feelings for me. Isn't that great? Well, not really. As much as I'd like to see him happy, I like another guy, Catch for the purposes of this excersize.

I made a post on a messageboard implying I had feelings for a guy. I was referring to Catch. I didn't figure there was any way anyone could interpret it as being anyone BESIDES Catch.

Part two. I sign up for livejournal so it's easier to talk to Try while he's back in Taiwan, halfway across the world. Consequently, I can now see all his private posts on HIS livejournal. Turns out, Try was hoping it was HIM I was talking about. And there were also random outbursts about how it was...

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My in-laws and their denominational dislike


Posted Sunday December 21 2003, 8:30 pm

Here's the situation:
I am a Baptist. My in-laws and my husband are Methodists. My husband and I attend a Baptist church. Under most circumstances, I don't pay attention to denominational differences, because I think we're all going to the same place anyway.

The problem is that my in laws, especially my mother-in-law, have made it clear that they don't like the fact that we're going to the "wrong" church. Earlier we even suggested that they could come to church on Christmas Eve with us, and my mother-in-law burst into tears and ran out of the room.

Evidently, the fact that I am not a Methodist offends them deeply. I don't want to join a different church just to please them, though. Any th...

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Posted Sunday December 21 2003, 1:42 am

Ok, I still really like my ex boyfriend. But, he has a new gilfriend, that he supposedly really likes. *Rolls eyes* But, my friends and I have caught him SO many times staring at me while I walk in the halls at school. And I wrote my friend this hilarious note, and he read it and laughed. Like, a lot. But, he doesn't make any effort to talk to me or anything. My friends think he still has feelings for me, but he's with this other girl and he's afraid to pursue anything with me. My friends also think I should try making him jealous and "flaunt it". Any ideas on how to do that?

-Thanks.

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peter and jules


Posted Saturday December 20 2003, 6:44 pm

ok last night i went to the movies with my friends peter and jules we saw the return of the king well all threw the movie i would talk to peter and stuf but forget a bout jules (i was siting in the middle of them) but i like this kid sean and then my sister is haveing her bday party today and her friend brian came over hes my age (14) and he had his girl friend with yhim and i was jelouse can any one tell me what this means
boy crazy

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Boyfriends


Posted Saturday December 20 2003, 4:49 pm


My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating?

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This should not really be under *friendships*


Posted Friday December 19 2003, 4:16 pm

Once upon a time... I thought I had a really great friend. She and I really spent lots of time together after we graduated from university, we majored in the same programs. One night we went together to a bar, not to pick up guys but just to have a girls night out. During our girls night out she left me at the bar to dance with a guy she met (yes so much for girls night out). I had a drink with me but kept looking at the dance floor over my shoulder to make sure my friend was doing okay since the guy she was dancing with had had quite a bit to drink. I suppose that while I frequently turned to look over my shoulder a man that had been next to me (whose face I cannot remember or recall)had slipped the Date Rape drug into my drink. Now do not...

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I hate this teacher!


Posted Friday December 19 2003, 7:39 am

I really don't like this teacher at my school. She is mean to everyone and nobody likes her. I really want to pull a prank on her because I'm so angry but what should i do? Should I prank her, or just live with it the rest of the year?

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We Found Him BUT...


Posted Thursday December 18 2003, 7:43 pm

*SIGH* We found Caspian. Dead. Hit by a car, as a matter of fact. What really gets me is he was about three feet from our house... he had been trying to come home! Any ideas on how to not become even more majorly depressed?

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For all you GUYS!!!!! NOT GIRLS!!!!!


Posted Thursday December 18 2003, 4:10 pm

Okay i NEED 2 no! 4 all you GUYS NOT GIRLS out there. Please answer this! I know sum guys and wenever Im just standing around with someone and they come up out of nowere and there REALLY close! We touch like alot!! And wen they cum from in front they still get close like were gonna kiss. I used to back away, but now Im used to the whole thing. Does this meen they like me? Oh and wen they ask actiosly who I like. Then wen I say no i wont tell and then he comes up with gross peoples names! Like oh you like Fred for instince! Does that meen he like me??

~~~Troublesome~~~

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