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I cut for everything.


Posted Saturday March 4 2017, 10:28 pm

Okay, so how it all started.
A close friend has a tendency to ignore me when he gets upset. I hate being ignored, it hurts. He always has excuses to ignore me for days!
So the last time he did it I don't know what got into me but I just decided to cut. To my surprise, it actually helps! Not the pain but the blood. I don't know but seeing the blood makes me feel way better. I feel less bad. So after that I cut every time I get angry, frustrated or when I just feel bad. Well, my life isn't exactly great, I have other better reasons for cutting besides my dumbass friend.
I do not cut deep so I do not think its any dangerous but should I still stop? I cut my thighs and hips not my wrists so no one finds out. If I have to stop how do I stop? Its really addicting.

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What does banter mean when a man says it?


Posted Saturday March 4 2017, 4:57 pm

Why would he say we have a banter between his female friend and him rather than flirting? Any clear meaning of banter when a man says that? Thanks

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What's going on with him?!


Posted Saturday March 4 2017, 1:38 pm

He's got a girlfriend and kids. He's a good friend of mine. We get on well and teasing each other. I say he flirts with me but he says we banter. I like him but also have a feeling that he likes me. We both share personal stuff stories. As he was saying I could take him to this restaurant for a meal but he had to cancel because of his daughter instead he invited has me to his place and wants me to meet his family which I find weird. Because we're only going for a meal. I feel like we're drifting but I don't know. Guys, could guy fall for another person even though they are in a relationship already? He did ask me, 'are u happy in your relationship?' i said I'm alright, we're alright. Help guys. What do u all reckon?

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arab women in history


Posted Friday March 3 2017, 4:53 pm

In school we are doing a woman's history project and we have different women for different ethnic groups. I have got a few down, but I need more. I can't find many resources. Any time I try to search up stuff like "Arab women throughout history" or "Arab woman *insert profession here*" etc etc I can only find stuff about Muslims. I will accept Arab Muslim women but I need to be sure I'm writing about an Arab and I have no idea why google seems to think Arab=Muslim. Can someone find me a recourse?

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what should i do to please her


Posted Friday March 3 2017, 3:58 pm

what can I do to please my girlfriend


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Should i Let her Go or Should i Try To Get Her Back ?


Posted Friday March 3 2017, 7:12 am

So...i was in a long distance relationship with this girl and recently she told me that she doesn't love me anymore . but i love her a lot and we had so much dreams for us but she gave up on all of them but i don't wanna give up on her and idk what i should do at this point i'm just hoping and waiting that she realizes that she loves me and get back to me . but she hasn't showed any signs of getting back . i'm just super confused right now and i really feel like just dying .

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Is this the way of him saying, he's into me?


Posted Thursday March 2 2017, 12:19 pm

Hi, been friends for a few months and we banter well. Feels like he fancies me and we get on ok. Caught him frequently looking at me and when I look at him he holds his eye contact with a slight smile but we always carry on with our conversation. In our late 20's. When I make jokes, not everyone is cute like you are, he says (Let's say my name is Beth) he says, Beth is Beth, isn't it? What's he up to?? Trying to say something?? Tried to ask him directly but couldn't dare even though we're mates. Thank you!

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is this normal, or am i just overthinking


Posted Wednesday March 1 2017, 8:54 am

long story short my boyfriend chats with a lot of girls

it might not seem like a big deal, so let me break it down in the easiest way possible. when we had a break, he chatted with one of my friends that he knew i disliked, after we got back together, he chats with one of my close friends, and once while we were on a date, we swapped phones and i was on his messenger and i saw that 9/10 person that he chats with are girls. im not talking about like a short conversation but its like they chat 24/7.

i understand that he has his own friends and i shouldn't be so jealous, but i couldnt help it, i mean i just dont feel special ...and he asks me to stop chatting with one of my best friends bc is a boy which i did stop for his sake...

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dont want to be replaced


Posted Wednesday March 1 2017, 8:23 am

okay so after this school year, which ends in july, i will have to study abroad, which means i have to leave all my friends.
I actually wanted to study abroad, its my decision, but now that a school really accepted me, i realised that, im not as brave as i thought i am.

I have a few close friends, A,B and C. A,B and i are like besties and C is just like a close friend that always hang with us. although friend A is not in the same class as B,C and i, we consider each other as like the closest among us all. and now that im going to leave this school after this semester, they are asking friend A to change to our class if its possible. and now i feel like, A is going to replace me, which i dont want to. im struggling to be...

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i don't know what to do...


Posted Wednesday March 1 2017, 8:10 am

so basically... i think i fell out of love with the guy (lets call him A) ive been dating for awhile. i don't rlly say i love you, and since we are in school together, i try to avoid him because i dont want to go public.
so a few days back, he told me that he thinks i dont like him anymore, bc i rarely say ily and i dont want to be near him at skl, and he said "correct me if im wrong" that made me think, do i really like him? and since then ive ignored him, it has been like 3 days, but during these 3 days, he still messaged me and said he loves me and such, but i still didnt reply. i didnt reply because i dont know what to do, i think that i dont like him anymore, but im not entirely sure, i dont want make a huge mistake. ...

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I need help, does it hurt when he breaks the hymen?


Posted Tuesday February 28 2017, 7:57 pm

When you first have sex, and the guy puts his penis inside of you, does it hurt when he breaks the hymen?


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Super confused about a guy


Posted Tuesday February 28 2017, 5:25 pm

I've like the guy I like for a year. At first, I wouldn't let myself get a crush on him because he's popular and i already know other girls who like him. We were paired with eachother in science and we started talking. We had deep conversastions and he told me some things that he hadn't told anyone else before. Then, we had a different seating arrangement and I would catch him staring at me. I then decided it's okay to have a crush on him. A couple months before now, he would still stare at me but he was dating another girl. I was confused because if he was dating someone wouldn't he like her more than me? They broke up like two weeks later tho. Now, I've noticed him staring at me longer. Before it used to be glances but now it's like 5 sec...

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Two of my friends don't like my boyfriend


Posted Tuesday February 28 2017, 5:21 pm

I asked a similar question awhile back, but things have progressed and I am at a new crossroad.

Early in December I was approached by my two roommates who voiced their concern about my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and some change, and we're both in our final semester of college. From the minute I met him it was like everything in me knew I wanted him for the rest of my life. We dated for a school year, and then spent the summer long distance. Relationships are never perfect, but any disagreement we had we fixed and I had never been happier. Starting this first semester we had bigger fights about smaller things. I felt like I was always putting in more effort than him and we almost broke up tw...

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How to be confident and less awkward around boys?


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 10:17 pm

Long story short throughout high school I was never the pretty girl and was always overshadowed by my friends and have been called ugly by guys in my school multiple times either to my face or right behind my back (by that I mean standing behind me) so this kind of followed me to university and I feel like I'm too ugly to even be approached or have any guy friends etc. Whenever I see an attractive boy I don't even look his way because it's just too awkward for me to give him eye contact, and when a guy does talk to me if I don't really know him I either say one word answers so that the convo ends quickly or frown so that I'm unapproachable. Any tips on how to be confident and less awkward around guys? I'm tired of only having girl friends a...

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Secret Admirer card backfired- any advice?


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 7:37 pm

So, when I started my current job a year ago a much younger woman, E., was very friendly toward me- catching my eye, smiling, staying behind.
I had had a terrible experience from getting involved in work before so kept my distance from her. I knew that between the age difference (20y) and simply working in the same office nothing good could happen.
She seemed hurt but found a man from another office and they moved in together.
Eventually we got talking and I really enjoyed her company- she has a Visual Arts degree and we share similar tastes in TV and film, though she prefers Fantasy books and is quite a 'romantic' thinker.

She was the first person outside my team to ask about me after my hospital stay, w...

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Meeting the family!


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 5:08 pm

Hello, what does family mean? I mean I know what it means but what does it mean exactly when a boy mate says, 'he wants me to meet his family on lunch?' we know he's got a girlfriend and kids but I'm just wondering either him saying family means,'if he wants me to meet his parents or kids and gf?!' meeting his gf would be bit awkward I suppose as we're both joking and flirty mates. I have a feeling that he fancies me a little, We both do actually but nothing more than that. So, who he ACTUALLY wants me to meet with?? Thank you all.

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Secret Admirer card backfired- any advice?


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 4:56 pm

So, when I started my current job a year ago a much younger woman, E., was very friendly toward me- catching my eye, smiling, staying behind.
I had had a terrible experience from getting involved in work before so kept my distance from her. I knew that between the age difference (20y) and simply working in the same office nothing good could happen.
She seemed hurt but found a man from another office and they moved in together.
Eventually we got talking and I really enjoyed her company- she has a Visual Arts degree and we share similar tastes in TV and film, though she prefers Fantasy books and is quite a 'romantic' thinker.

She was the first person outside my team to ask about me after my hospital sta...

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Confused with a guy friend!


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 2:13 pm

Hi, why do friend invite you for a dinner and meet his girlfriend and kids if you feel like he had liked you? Been friends for a while. Teasing back and forth. Compliments me everytime we see each other. We're to go for a dinner as normal friends does but he had to cancel and instead invited me for a dinner at his place so that I can meet his family. What the heck?! Help please?!

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should i or should i not, that is the question???


Posted Monday February 27 2017, 10:22 am

there's this woman cashier I see whenever I frequent this store. she is always extra happy to see me, she is always smiley and says hi too me, she isn't like that with anyone else, just me. she even gets upset if I ignore her..I find it funny, my brother told me to give her my number maybe we could hang out...now im not the outdoorsy/travel type, and ive given my number to people in the past whom I thought would be cool and boy did that take a turn for the worse...talk about obsessive/possessive/clingy/and start falling in love and I don't like women EWWWW... so I said im done, never again...and that was about 7 yrs ago...people scare me....I just keep to myself, I don't go out like I used too etc.....should I put myself back out there and ...

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Should I move schools?


Posted Sunday February 26 2017, 11:21 pm

(kinda hard to write this without using my age.....)

I really need some help with this. When i go to school, I finish all my work WAY before the deadline. I get bored because my teachers do not have any more work for me. A teacher suggested moving schools, one with an IB program. I am sick of being bored, but I dont want to leave behind my best friends. I am DEFINITLY not popular but I love my school. Should I move? Thanks.

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