Member Since: November 30, 2014
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Last Update: November 30, 2014
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Hello,
Am writing to ask you all for advice. I met a guy while ago. From the first date I knew he's the one and I felt like he thinks like this too. He treats me like a princess, takes care of me , comes to visit me in my city spends weekends with me. Unfortunately, he came 2 days ago to see me, We went for lovely dinner had few drinks and than he said to me '' I know you have feelings'' I pretend that I dnt know what he's on about but than he said '' i think its the last time we should meet cause u have feelings and I will go to Scotland for 2 years and I do not want u to suffer and i dnt want to suffer , also I am happy single'' than i tried not to cry we went home were lyin in bed than the topic started again. I admitted that ya I do start to have feelings he said that Im better off without him. Was crying all night and he was huging me saying he will miss me and all. In the morning when I woke up was crying again while he was kissing me hugin and than suddenly i saw he was crying too. He said he really likes me and if we continue it his heart will be broken when he leaves, but he still wants to meet me and spend the last few weeks together eventhough it will hurt both of us. Later on he asked me '' would you be happy if I propose to u'' and i just took it as joke but he seemed upset ( but before he said he wants to b single!! ) Since than I dnt know what to do I know he has to go for college and all, but I would like us to be together and I know he has feelings too but just cause he has to go he said it all. Please help me what can I do ;((( I really care bout him so much and it hurts thinking that he will go away soon ;(
Now I am really worried... I wrote to him this morning got a message back but since dan I didn't get any respond :( Normally we were writing all the time even when he was at work ( like today). Any idea what is going on? is it possible that he just try to stay away from me or is it just dat he's busy ;((( (link)
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I am in College in Ireland live in a house that i rent so he stayed der with me. The guy just graduated in another College near Dublin. Got a chance to go to scotland for some kinda training that will help him to get job ( its in college in Scotland). I know he propably said it all just to make me happy, but its not da case. The problem is I really do have feelings for him so does he i believe. Since that meeting we do not text as much as we used to :( I am not even sure if he comes to visit me again :( I know it might b hard to b together while he is so far away but I was even thinking that I would visit him every few weeks while hes in scotland, but I do not really know if he still wants it. At the begining we had so many plans together we wanted to go to spain and work for summer there and than we were looking for college for me in scotland that has the same course as I do. And now? Now since the meeting its different so much different. He doesnt show me love anymore like he used to. He kinda keeps distance as I said. What you guys think? What can I do? I know he has to go but I would love to at least enjoy the last few weeks we have left together ;(((
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