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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me. (link)
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Sex is not scary!! Honestly! I was absolutley petrified...but my boyfriend promised me he would go as slow as I asked, and stop n start when i said i was comfortable....and he did and it was fine....yes it did hurt slightly...but it was not really painful, just uncomfortable...but this is just my experience remember eveyone is different. We carried on doing it very slowly and not for very long for about 5 times....each time I found I was more relaxed and within 3 weeks I couldnt think why I was so scared....it really is not as bad as you expect as long as ur fiancee listens to you.
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