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Q: i recently learned i am pregnant. so far, im thinkin its prolly a month and a half along. im 16, and there is NOOOOOOO way in the world i can have this baby. theres no way in the world i can tell anyone my boyfriend of over a year got me pregnant. my family's real good friends with his, and things just wouldnt be pretty. also, both our families are real religious and would drown us in all the 'sex before marriage is a sin' stuff. well, fact of the matter is, since we havent told anyone about it yet- i havent gone to a doctor. i know youre supposed to get prenatal care the second you find out youre pregnant- but i cant bring myself to tell anyone, and truthfully- i really dont want to have this baby. i will NOT have an abortion, but i think i might be having a miscarriage, or about to be having one. i have all of the symptoms. i guess my questions are;
1. how do i tell people?
2. how do i know for sure if im having a miscarriage?
and 3. am i a horrible person?
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your not a horrible person... I was adopted, because my real mother was 16 when she had me...she said that she had a hard time telling her mom. So she went up to her and told her...It was hard and it most likely took her mom a little bit to get over the whole baby thing...You just have to sit down with them and tell them. If yout hink your having a miscarriage then go to the docter and have then tell you if you are... it'll be fine..
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Q: usually i always like somebody that never likes me back or they do but i dont find out until i stop liking them so ive pretty much had a bad love life and i thought it was crazy that any girl could get butterflies just thinking about somebody until it happened.... i really like him and i dream about him a lot and they're sexual dreams and i dont know what to do about it cus i heard some stuff about him like he gives head to hoes and he gets into too much shit w/ older dudes so i was like im not into that stuff but i keep on having dreams and i be real happy when i see him and i think he got a little tenderoni on the side and he dont wanna let me kno about it but we not really talkin but i wanna but i dont know if he feels the same way too cus he might have mixed feelings for me and i dont kno if i should tell him and look stupid or keep it to myself and just not let him kno and let it follow me for the rest of my life cus i neva got butterflies before...
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well...i have this problem.think about him in a diffrent way, make a move...90% of guys want you to make the first move.
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Q: ok...theres this guy..ofcourse..thats how theses things always start out. but that ok. well any ways, we have known each other for 10 years ok and we have just been friends. well about a month ago we went to the movies and we kissed..AWESOME! ,but unfortionately good things never last..because a week later he started being really mean to me and not talking to me. Well i didnt talk to him for about 3 weeks and then on may 18...(my birthday) i called him after me , my friend, and my cousin left my other cousins graduation (we left early) i calle dhim to ask him once again if the kiss ment anything to hin and if he like someone else...hey we're friends we talk about this stuff. He got me really upset and i started to cry so i hung up. My cousins girlfriend called him and he sais that he didnt like me he didnt mean anything by it and we weren't friends...This got me sooo upset that i cried for like 30 minutes until everybody got home then i had to hold it back but i couldnt. I am still upset. I cant think about anything lse ...except him and the past 10 years. now i'm so heart broken that i dont even know witch way i should go...go down a new path...or stay where i am and live life never fully loving anyone ever again. My friends and family tell me that it was just a crush and i'll get over it and i say well if i will get over it how come i still feel like he just broke my heart. They never kenw and never will know exactly how much i love him.He will never know either and thats what hurts the most.
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hi.Im cat. I have alot of friends, and they always end up coming to me for advice. I give it to my parents,my siblings, my friends, and random people who need it.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: niceville, florida Age: 14 Yahoo: MSN: emoluver405 Member Since: May 31, 2006 Answers: 3 Last Update: May 31, 2006 Visitors: 1278
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