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okay first of all i want to go on birth control because my period is rediculous. i know im only 15 but it can last for up to 9 days and i get really heavy clots so i want birth control to lighten it up. i dont know how to ask my mom for it because she thinks im sexually active even though im a virgin. she doesn't believe me when i tell her im a virgin.

okay so i dont know how to ask her and i've never been to a gynocologist and i really dont look forward to going.
is there any sort of pelvic exam needed to get birth control?

also i heard a rumor that it can make your boobs bigger, is that true? because if it was that would be a nice added bonus (link)
i had the same problem except the difference is that i am sexually active. i didnt want to tell my mom because then she would find out about the fact that im not a virgin so i did some research and went to this place called the tapestry. i had to make an appointment to see a counselor and i had a choice to get the pelvic exam or put it off(you have to get it at least 6 months after or the stop letting u get birth control) and i chose to put it off. right now im on the pill. sometimes i guess birth control could make your boobs bigger but watch out cause some kinds can also make you gain weight. theres also a couple kinds of pills that help reduce acne. anyways good luck and i hope i helped.
~Kay


Recently I've been going through a stage where I've been liking a lot of different girls. Well... over one semester I've liked 3. I'm thinking the first two were just attractions that died out, cause' now we're just friends and the third, well for some reason she stands out the most. I never thought I'd like her but now I do, and I've told her how much I actually like her. I don't want things to be weird between us since we're good friends and all. Plus, I'm trying to see if she even likes me back. I asked her and she said no but something's telling me she does. Plz, any advice? -thx! (link)
ok...well...maybe she likes you and maybe she doesnt....it is good that you r good friends tho. i think you should just give her time and not mention n e thing about if she likes you or not. she might just need time and if you really like her then you will be willing to wait as long as she needs. if you think she is giving you hints that she likes you or acting like she likes you then that doesnt necessarily mean that she likes you....sumtimes even when it sumtimes seems like sumone likes you that doesnt mean that they do. if the first 2 people that u liked didnt last then this third one seems a lot more serious than those other 2. if you really like her then wait, and if it turns out that she doesnt like you then that doesnt mean that you have to stop liking her. even if you really want a girlfriend.....what im trying to say is if you really like her then if you find out that she doesnt like you then you will still keep liking her and not move on to another person just because you want a girlfriend. just dont act desperate cause girls dont like that and it wont help you get what you want n e faster.hope i helped.good luck!!!

~Kayla


hhhm my mouth tastes like pennies, i heard that that is a stroke related thing. am i gonig to die? (link)
hmmm....i dont kno i've never heard n e thing about that. i think you should probly go to a parent and ask them if they kno n e thing about it cause if it is sumthin that you might want to get looked at then they would kno the right thing to do. im sure your not gonna die. good luck!!!

~Kayla


what do you do when your friend is on drugs (link)
if your friend is on drugs then you should first confront them and explain to them that they are jus hurting themself and that you care about them and that you never want anything to ever happen to them. find out the reason why they are doing drugs and try to help them with that problem so they can quit the drugs.if none of that works then tell their parents or an adult you trust. they may be mad at you for telling but if you have any doubts about going to an adult ask yourself this:would you rather have them be mad at you and have them get help or have your friendship for awhile and then lose them to the drugs later on in life?.....you are concerned about them because you wouldnt be asking for advice if you werent, so i think i know which one you are gonna pick. just remember, stay strong for you and your friend and help them and everything will be okay.Hope i helped.

~Kayla


ok i just got a horse. she is a liver chestnut mare. i want to know what colors would look good on her (like saddle pads and stuff)....i was thinkin blue but my favorite color is pink lol. and i have always had geldings and now that i finally have a girl i can actually dress her up like one! lol any suggestions? thanks! (link)
ok.....well i think that colors such as navy blue and hunter green would look nice. If pink is your favorite color then go with pink.its about what you like....and if you want her to look more professional but still have pink and stuff then i think maybe try a color that is like a burgundy color. i have a bay appaloosa thoroughbred and burgundy looks really nice on him. jus a thought tho.good luck and i kno you will make a nice choice in the end.please rate my advice.thanks.


I'm in finals week, and I'm taking this class called Rhetoric (persuasive writing), but i don't know how I should study for it. What do you suggest? (link)
ok....to study for your finals i think you should go to your teacher and ask for an outline or sum type of study guide to the final exam. Then you can jus study off of that.If you like doing this type of thing then you can maybe get together with sum friends and study with them and then have them quiz you. Also flashcards work really well and then you can jus have sumone quiz you by reading off of the flashcards.Good luck!!!!!!

~Kayla


I have a friend who likes a lot of people. This friend has troubles making up her mind on crushes and cant choose one!! What should i tell my friend?
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ok.....well your friend is probly jus going through a time when she doesnt kno what type of person she likes.....trust me, i kno.....i used to be like that but now i kno that you can't like about a million people because most of the people you think you like, u really dont....but soon she will realize that there is jus that one person who stands out more than the rest and takes up a different place in her heart.....and then after awhile she will realize that that person is the one she likes.....it might take awhile for her to realize that but jus be there for her and dont bug her about liking a lot of different people because she probly cant help it....dont worry tho because soon she will realize and then you will get to go through her stage of obsession with that one person(if shes that type of person).....but hey....u jus want her to be happy im sure and she will be so jus be a good friend and jus give it time.hope i helped.

~Kayla


Hey. I need some major help on my sexual perfomance! I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but lately by girlfriend hasn't been enjoying our sex. I don't get it at all. Maybe she just doesn't love me anymore. She complains after we're done about how "that was boring". I really really need your advice. Please, what can I do to enhance my performance?!? -Thank you. (link)
well....seeing as how i wouldnt kno what to tell you about sumthing like that and that i kno who you r.....i dont take this question very seriously.....and i also kno that you dont have a gf.....but hey it was worth a try....right?....ummmmm.....well if ur wanting to kno this because your afraid that might happen when you get older or sumthing.....i would jus have to say talk to your gf about it and see what she says about the whole situation......talking is always the best thing to do when you and your gf have any type of problem.

~Kayla




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