Hey my name is Ashlei im 15..i have blonde hair and blue eyes and im 5'5...i love talkin to people and hanging out with my friends ...i love talkin on the fone nd the computer. i also love helping people with different things and i rlly understand alot..but yah hit me up....Ashlei Lynn__xO
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Location: Massachusetts
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Age: 15
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this is gonna be kinda long..sorry but me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month! and went out last year off and on for a while! but anyways..there was this girl that was suppose to be my "friend" over at my house the past 2 days! she has done nothing but bad mouth my boyfriend and say how he treats me like crap and i always have to tell her to stop and it got to the point we'd start screaming cause id get so mad! well then today she decides that she thinks its ok to sit there and send my boyfriend all these pics of her..and i would think if she was my friend she wouldnt! but i was upset and called my friend well she didnt answer..so she calls me back and was like whyd u sound upset and i told her because that girl was trying to send my bf her pic and i didnt like that! well i guess my "friend" that was here heard me and got all mad and started cussing at me like crazy! and telling me how she was leaving and how my bf treats me like crap and everything else! so we really got into it then and shes sitting there laughing going just wait im gonna mess up your relationship and make ur life miserable and lie and everything else! i told him about all this but the thing is im so scared that hes gonna believe her..i love him more then n e thing in this world and ive never felt like this before! and i wouldnt lie to him ever again ( ill admit i have in the past but i never would again) this girl is just sayin how shes goin to mess it up and have her friends say stuff to him when i know none of her friends cause they r all like 12-13 cause she got held back twice and i dont even go to the same school as her and im 16! my question is..what do i do about this? i dont wanna lose him and im so scared of it..does anybody have any idea on what i should do? i love him more then anything and i would never do n e thing to mess this up!! (link)
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I would tell him her plan..and be like i wouldnt lie to you i love you more then anything and that shes a backstabber..and shes all pissed and i have a feeling shes jealous...but all you can do is talk to him and let him know that shes gunna try and mess shit up for you guys..im sorry about this i hope i helped...*!*Ashlei*!*
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well, my boyfriend wants me to go down his pants .. and i will and all . but i dont know what to do when i go down, can anyone help me ?! please !! i rate high for good answers !! (link)
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Well...i feel weird answering this but i know this kinda stuff...but your gunna wanna make him horny first..then once hes horny you gunna wanna get his penis where you can move your hand up and down with ease and you want a hold it dont move your hand jus your wrist cuzz the skin will move and will pleasure him...this feels weird but you asked and i knew...hope i hepled...*!* Me *!*
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im 14 and female
ashlei i dont know what to do?? i mean ive like this guy for a long time like 3 for years and out of those ive seen him ONCE! but hung out...and then we have lost contact with eachother but now just 2 days ago out of the blue he called me and we started talking again...he just came out of a relationship with this other gurl and a day ago i practically snuck out of my house just to go spend time with him and hang out..and im to scared or more nervous to tell him that ive liked him all along...i might see him tomorrow and his actions kinda show that he likes me but im not to sure...so overall ive seen him 2 times and maybe a third tomorrow...i just dont know how to tell him!!! ughh sorry its kinda long but ill love you ashlei if u could give me soome good advice?? (link)
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Well...be yourself around him and show him that you do like him but dont be all up on him and stuff unless hes all over you..Guys are hard to detect feelings with..they are more complicated then girls are..i mean he could act like he likes when he rlly doesnt..if you know what i mean..but kinda give him hints that you like him er maybe sit down and talk to him about it..theres not much more i can think about..bue i wish you good luck with him...
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ok...one of my ex's moved to maine and i miss him alot but im afraid that if i tell him that then he'll think i want him back..idk if he still likes me anymore and i dont know if he's got another girlfriend..the problem is he went out wid one of my friends right after i dumped him...i wish i never dumped him i dont know what to say to him!!PLZZ Help Ashlei....:-/
I LOVE U SOO FUCKING MUCH ASHLEI LYNN DOEL!! (link)
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i dont rlly know what to tell you but to talk to him about it and let him know how you fell and how a long dinstance relationship woulddnt work soo you cant take him back..there not much else i could say....~Loves Ashlei~
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remember the question about the family member that i don't spend enough time with? Well that some one ash is you! You don't seem to care what russ does or what i think or mom or kelli we want you here as often as you can come but we feel like you don't give a shit about what we want or think. we want to have you here alot more. Can you help with that? (link)
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Steff ive been madd busy...i mean im a teenager and i cant jus drop everything to go up there...i need to know ahead of time and its not that i dont care its that i have alot to do...and its not tru to say i dont care about what you guys do or think...cuzz thas bullshit steffany...
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i have a family member that i love dearly and i don't get to spend time with this someone and he or she doesn't seem to care very much. He or she thinks it IMPORTANT to spend TIME with FRIENDS instead of family. What should i do!
Ashlei i love u so fuckin much!! (link)
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well hunni talk to them and let them know how you feel...cuzz i know its hard but all you can do is talk to them..i love you too babe
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Well...i had this friend who i thought was my bestfriend untill she started dateing this guy. They are always togather never apart and everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always busy with him...im kinda starting to feel like we are dirfting away in a way and i just wish that she would loose this guy but shes so happy with him thats what scares me...IDK
I fucken love u Ashlei lynn doel... (link)
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Hey love...i have been busy alot with school work to get my credits straightened out and shit. I love you too hunni and i promise you we arent drifting apart idk wat i would do if i lost you. But call me to make plans cuzz we gotta catch up on fucked up shit thats going on!
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Well im not really sure what to do in this case so i hope that u can help me out alil...i use to have this boyfriend and we were great friends and everything untill we started to go out and broke up a few weeks after that...now we dont talk or anything i dont kno what to do i mean i love this kid to death hes my everything i swear i would die if i ever lost him and it feels like i am... (link)
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Wee i would say talk to him about it and tell him that you dont wanna loose him as a friend cuzz breakin up and loosing yur best friend sux and i know this but i mean all you can do is talk to him about it and see where it goes from there..i donno what else to tell yu! Hope i helped...Ashlei Lynn__xO
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We started having this fad @ our school right towards the end of this past year where gurls are taking people's school pictures, like the wallet sizes, and throwing them in the toilets! and they don't flush them, they just leave them floating there...now my big thing is I try and be as nice as I possibly can to EVERYBODY, but when I go to the restrooms at school, it's typically b/c I really HAVE to go, ya know? Nobody wants to use nasty school toilets unless they absolutely have to...but when I see someone's picture in the toilet, like I have 2 or 3 times now, I don't what to do, b/c I am not sure what the "nice" thing to do is in that instance...and what makes it even worse is our school has auto-flush toilets! So, what is my "nice" way to handle this, since making a stall change while keeping my legs crossed and trying to not pee myself is getting really old really fast? and why are people doing this in the first place? (link)
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well people are doing this simply b.c they are rude and it makes them feel better about themselves to hurt sum1 else b.c they have NO Self Esteem or confidence....Yah people today are rlly rude and need to fine better things to do...Hope i answered what you wnated to kno...oh and also...try and take them outta the toilet before you pee then wash yur hands rlly good...LOL
Ashlei Lynn__xO
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ok my best friend hasnt talk to me in i dont know how long and like she avoiding me and shit ever since shes got this new boyfriend of hers...:-/ i dont like it. shes always w/ him or with her other friends. she never talks to me or we never hangout like we used to.I cant loose her ashlei! i cant loose you!!! id be lost w/o u. Id be gone! id die! we have come so far and then it has to end like this and this early? no it cant!!!
Love me...if it matters...Cookie Monster... (link)
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Hunni i love you to death and im not lettin this go...your one of the only things i got in my life..and were deff chyllin soon cuzz we need to build this back up i would never aviod you..what we have is a huge thing i mean we have a bond stronger then best friends and stronger the sisters idk what you would ever call it...but believe me baby im not lettin you go and im never loosing you...i love you cookie monster and nothing will come between us esp and man...*MUAH*
I Love You! Love Elmo!
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ok i have this friend and like i think im losing her and i dont wanna cuz if i do ill lose myself. this girl is like my sister and i would litterally die w/o her. we barely ever talk anymore and im upset about it. HELP!? (link)
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Well talk to her and tell her you feel like your loosing her...and let her know how you truly feel i mean if she rlly cares she'll listen and change whats been going on b.t the 2 of you. hoped i helped...Ashlei lynn__xO
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umm ok there is this guy that ive jus started hanging out w/ since a long ass time ago and like i looked at him as a brother b4 and now, i think i like him. what do i do? should i tell him? like talk to him about it or jus see what happens when we chill again? (link)
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Well i would tell him and trust that he would be like freaked out er ne thing ang jus let it go from telling him and talkin to him..who knows maybe he feels the same way you do!
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3 people know. i got raped a couple months ago. I've had 2 boyfriends since then, and the one i'm with now knows, but hes only the 2nd person i told. i told my best friend last week, and it happened months ago. i wont do ne thing wiht my boyfriend now cuz im scared. i kno he woudlnt do ne thing 2 hurt me, but still its just the thought that scares me...i don't know wut 2 do we've been 2gether like a month and i wont even make out with him...what do i do?! ashlei lynn i love you PLEASE help me! :( (link)
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well...its gunna be hard but you have to get over yur fear and try it and if yu get the feeling like you got when yu were raped then tell him..if he cares enough he wont be bothered by it and he will love you for who you are..i mean yur a great girl and i love you to death and i would do ne thing to help you. love you hunni i hope i helped its not much but i know the guy and i think hes very understanding...Loves Ash!
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Love-Ok my boyfriend keeps on making promises to me and then breaking them, or making me feel like he cares and then blowing it up in my face! it rlly hurts an di dont no what to do! I deffinetly dont want to leave him and i love him with everything ive got, but its rlly hard not Knowing how he feels and i dont no what to say to him! WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLZ HELP?!
Friends- ok there are these two girls that i miss So much and ive known one of them longer then the other but i love both of them the same! And i feel like im loosing both of them, Excpeacially the one that ive known like my whole life! I mean i think that they still love me as a friend and everything but i miss not talking to them as much and diff. schools just tare us all apart! WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLZ HELP?! (link)
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Ok..well for one talk to the guy..make him realize wat hes doin to you..and on the friends part talk to them tell you wanna hang out with them more and jus talk alot...i mean idk wat else more to say ~Hope i helped~ Ashlei
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I really like this guy, but i dont want any body to find out especissaly my girl. What should i do? (link)
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umm...well...tell her the truth yu idiot...considering i know who yu are...lol ily to many good mems... =P
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hey ashlei! ok, the problem is that i have a bf anf my mom doesn't want me to have 1! i have been kissing him at skool regularly but then sum1 from my skool told my mom bout it! she flipped and said that i'm too young caz i'm almost 13 and theres plenty of time 4 that, but i think that i found the perfect guy 4 me!!! we have gone out many times so i kno that hes a great person! idk if i should either not kiss him, break up wit him caz what my mom said, or do wut i've been doing(kissing him after every class caz we're in different classes) ashlei help me PPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEEE PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ help me wit this problem!!!!!!! (link)
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well..do wat you feel is best..and maybe talk to yur mom about dating and letting you hang out with yur guy friends...and tell her they are only friends..idk wat else to say but to maybe talk to your mom and see what she says...Hope i helped..Ashlei Lynn__xO
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ok i had sex. Im only 15 'n im pregnant. I dont know if i wanna keep it or have an abortion. im totaly against abortion but i dont want a kid. my mom would litterally dis-own me so i dont know what the hell to do!! the guy i dont even think he'll support it. we've talked about me being pregnant and like he said he'll be there but he dont go tthe money to support it..so yeah. HELP!
Soon to be mOm ~ (link)
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Well personaly i dont think any 15 yr old is ready to be a mom...and im completely against abortion also but i would say have an abortion then have yur mother dis-own yu and you not be ready to be a mom,..your still a kid and you need yur time to grow up yu arent ready at all..im saying have an abortion or have the baby and give it up for adoption..I hope i could help =/
Ashlei Lynn__xO
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ok, im goin to come out very bluntly and say yes i have a kid and im 14, i mean im a kid myself incase ur wonderin im a guy so i dont noe what to do, my parents dont noe and i am goin to tell them but i dont noe how and ill figure that out just i dont noe what to do about my child, should i help pay for things. i so want to but she wont let me. she said she can deal with it on her own and i know she can't. so how should i deal with this sittuation. pppllleeeaaassseee help me i dont noe what to do (link)
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Well..for one your extremly young.but thats not the point..but yes you should be a father to the child and help pay for things like food or diapers the lil nessecities and when the mother needs you to help her you should do the best you can to help her out with the child. And if its possible have the mother and yur parents all sit down and talk about it..if its possible you should try and stay with the girl atleast for the baby's sake..i rlly hope yu can use this..
*«*Ashlei Lynn*»*
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Okaii well, yooh knoe who ii am but yeah ii`m not quna realese mii iidentiity or however yooh spell iit.
But okaii thiiSz miite be kiina loonq -- Sorriie.
ii`m biisexual. ii had thiis qurl friiend ( ii`ll just call her " D " ). Okaii well ii had asked her a couple tiimeSz would she not be happiier wiith her ex ( well call her " KE " ). And then so we broke up cause she saiid iit seemed ii diidn`t trust her. Okaii then she told meh about 2 weekSz aqo that she`d thiink over niite about us qoiinq back out. Well she qot on the iinternet the next daii and she hadda new qurl friiend ( well call her " K " ). Well they been qoiinq out liike a month and " D " tellSz meh that when her and " K " break up were qunna qo back out. But last niite ii was readiinq " D "`Sz xanquh about how " KE " stiill`Sz loveSz " D " and then " D " left " KE " a comment sayiinq how do yooh knoe that ii don`t stiill love yooh nd alla thiiSz thiiSz. and todaii ii asked " D " what was up and she was liike * why doeSz iit matter * and yeah so then she wouldn`t talk to meh the resta tha niite. And stiill hasn`t. Help ??
Okaii on to one of mii other problemSz =/ ...
Mii mom iis a druqqiie and she beatSz meh when sheSz on the druqSz. and one niite she passed out ( not liiterally but feel asleep ) and yeah we had thiiSz quy over here and he raped meh and ii thiink ii miite be preqnant. Help ???
On to the last one ...
ii wanna do suiiciide. Help ?? (link)
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Love~well om the girl problem i would say give it time and when you do talk to her dont bring up the other girls and like dont talk about yur past together and things will get better be the girl she got to know...
Home~Theres rlly nuttin you can do about yur moms habits but try not to egg her on like make her mad or suttin and it mite calm down but on the pregnant hand you have to go to the drugstore and get a pregnancy test and take it with you to a friends house like "J" spend the night there and take it when yu first wake up in the morngin..if thats not possible then go to yur doctors and talk to her about it and have a blood test done...
Suicide~Its not the answer to all yur problems.i mean a cut here and there helps i mean i admit ive dont it but dont kill yurself. i know yur life is hell but its all part of being a teenager in todays reality do ne thing but kill youself..
I Hope i was somewhat of a help
~Ashlei Lynn__xO
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ok i have this friend that does something i dont like...umm should i tell someone about it to help her er no. like i wanna tell someone but i dont want her to get mad at me...ya know what i mean?! what should i do?! (link)
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Tell...i know it sounds mean and she wont hate you...She could really use the help=/ I hope i cleared up that question for you...Ashlei Lynn__xO
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