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What does it mean? (link)
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Well, here's one thing it could mean.
Imagine you had a goal, one you were sure was right. (i.e. convicting a man guilty of a horrible crime) If you stopped trying to achieve your goal despite believing that what you were pursuing was right/necessary, then that would be giving up, unless it were no longer possible at all to achieve it. But what if you discovered that your original goal was wrong (i.e. a prosecutor realizes the man he was trying to convict is in fact innocent). In that case, once the realizes the truth, it is no failure on his part to stop pursuing his original goal - because they would never have pursued it in the first place had they known then what they knows now. The same idea applies when a person has similar changes of heart or mind - it can be evidence not of failure of giving up, but of the person's internal growth and maturity. This happens in some of the best fictional stories where a villainous character has an epiphany, is able to see his or her actions as other see them, and has a change of heart and mind - accompanied by a change in behavior.
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hi! i'm 15 years old, and like most teenagers i'm very insecure about myself, especially my body. i'm not a very curvy girl, in other words i'm VERY skinny. i don't have any curves, not many thighs, i don't have any butt etc etc. tomorrow i have a presentation for school and i have to wear a bodycon dress for it and when trying it on today my body looked like a table, i was so sad. i need help! what do i do? i don't want everyone at school tomorrow bothering me about how horrible i look :/ advice pls! (link)
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As a former teenage boy, I guarantee you there are plenty of teenaged boys who think slender girls are beautiful/hot. There is absolutely nothing wrong with your body. Have you checked your BMI number yet (Body Mass Index)? I bet that number will show you are in the healthy range. You can Google it (be sure you're using the version for teens, not adults.) I bet you anything there are boys already interested in you - IF that's what you want or may want later. If you are worried about your size/weight or get a bad BMI number, you do have the option of gaining a little weight, and your body might not be done developing, since you are only 15. Remember that you're more than the sum of your breasts, butt, and waist. Look at Kate Moss - the boys at her school called her "sticks" and look at the incredible modeling career she's had (and BTW, despite people calling her "anorexic" her BMI number was actually in the healthy range for her age, height and weight at the time.) Anyway, you sound awesome to me. Walk out there like you own the place - you might someday!
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if a guy cum in you does that means he cares for you or starting to catch feelings (link)
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It has nothing to do with him caring or not caring for you, per se (but see below). Men/boys like to ejaculate in women/girls because it is more satisfying than using a condom - it just feels better. You don't state your age but since this is in the teen section, I presume still in High School. If you are not using some other form of birth control you are at risk of becoming pregnant. If he cares about you he needs to do the right thing and wear a condom. Plus a condom will provide some protection from STDs. Two adults who want children (or are willing to accept such a result) can dispense with the birth control and the man can ejaculate in the woman to his heart's content. My advise is to ask him to wear a condom, or at least start using some other form of birth control (and don't have sex until it takes effect!) If he's not cool with this, you need to find somebody who will be, or who will accept a more chaste relationship.
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Hi, I haven't tried this site yet, so I hope it works.
I'm a 11-year old girl in middle school, and I need advice. For 2 days now, My crush has promised to actually listen to my origins for Mantodea, the comic we're creating, but he had ditched me and left as soon as I turn my back. What should I do? Every time I ask him to study with him or talk with him, he promises to come talk or help with homework, but he never shows up. Should I give him a few more chances, or should I give up on this stupid comic and crush? Please reply soon, I really need to know what to do. (link)
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Dear, I am sorry that the boy does not return your affections. When I was your age, I so wanted a girl to like me, and she was not interested. It is hard, and I know it hurts. Also, it is very rude of him to ignore you, even if he doesn't have feelings for you. But I promise you, you will find a boy that does like you! You seem very bright.
Now, about the comic - I would go ahead and continue it without him. It doesn't sound like he has much to do with it, anyway, since he's not participating, so he should not complain. The comic doesn't sound stupid to me! I drew comics when I was younger, too.
Remember that you are special, that your dreams are important, and that you will find somebody who loves you for who you are.
Oh, and one more thing: When you do get a boyfriend, remember that he doesn't have the right to do anything that makes you uncomfortable, such as touching your body where you don't want to be touched. If he really cares about you, he will take "no" for an answer. He might tell you that if you love him, you will do such-and-such. Don't! Dump him, and if he won't leave you alone, tell a trusted such as your teacher or your parents. There are plenty of boys who would be happy just to be with you.
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