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Member Since: October 16, 2010
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Last Update: October 16, 2010
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I've never been considered particularly attractive by the opposite sex and I've accepted that. For years I hated how I looked and it would really get me down but as I've got older, I've become alot more confident in myself. I always make an effort to dress stylishly, have regular haircuts and good make up and I'm not overweight so it's not like I'm hideous, I just can't compete with my friends.

My problem is that every time we go anywhere where there are guys, they will get alot of male attention. There have been several occasions where I've been with my friends and guys have made comments about the fact that they're attractive and I'm not. I try not to let it bother me and tell myself that guys who feel the need to make negative comments about my appearance aren't worth it but I can't help but feel disheartened. Recently it seems to be happening more and more. In the past week I can think of at least three occasions when a guy has said something negative about how I look and compared me to one of my friends.

How can I stop this from bothering me and not let their comments ruin my self esteem? (link)
but if you took your friend away from the guy, that would make you a grenade. no one likes grenades.
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