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Alright. So I'm a 16/F and this is what happened. My boyfriend and I were at a party the other night and we ran into trouble. There was this one other guy there (we'll call him J) and so J, me, and this other girl were just chilling on the couch while my boyfriend was off playing pool or something. So J takes my hand and starts leading me away from the couch and I'm just kind of like okayyy... because I mean, I didn't really know this kid too well but I was just like whatever, he probably just wants to get some food or something. Well he starts taking me back towards this room and I stop outside the door and I'm like "What are you doing?" and J says, "Come in here with me." I started babling like an idiot "What? No, my boyfriend- I- huh?- why?" and he leaned in real close, put his hand on like the small of my back (because I was trying to back away) and whispered "It'll be fun just come on." Weeeell, as you can guess, this looks a little shady. I mean, this guy is still holding my hand, he's whispering in my ear, got his hand on my back, and we're standing in the doorway of a dark room. Which is GREAT timing for my boyfriend to look over and see us. So my bf storms over and he's like "What the he** are you doing?" And I had already pulled away from J but J shoves me behind him and is all like "What's your problem, dude? I'm a little busy right now." Ha, yeah, let's just say that REALLLY pissed my bf off. He gets all up J's face and says "Yeah, with MY girlfriend. Now get the f*$@ away." Well, I myself would walk away right about now, but J's got the doorway blocked so I'm kind of just standing there like a worthless bag of poo, trying to get out when, oh goody, J makes it worse and said something like "Well your girlfriend is obviously a slu* if she was about to come in her with me" and before I could say "I wasn't going in there with you!!", my bf punched J in the face. They start getting into it right there, and a few other guys pull em off of eachother. They both got a little beat up, and the girl throwing the party got all pissed and was like "Get out of here!" So yeah. We got kicked out of the party... I felt HORRIBLE. I mean, like, I just felt so bad. I know I wasn't the one getting into the fight, but I just felt really guilty. Not for getting kicked out of the party but because my bf had like a blackeye and gosh, I just feel horrible, I feel like its all my fault. I mean, like jeez. I apologized like a million times to him, and his parents because they were all "What happened!?!" and ugh. I just feel so bad. My bf says its no big deal and he doesn't get why I feel so guilty but he got hurt and I feel like its my fault. What can I do to make it up to him? Am I being stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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Uhm can you read?? This question is a year old?and thanks for calling me a slut. Cause you really know me. I'd call you a bitch but I dont judge people based on one computer entry. If you were wondering, my bf cheated on me four months later. Nice try though. Thanks so much for your awesome advice. Next time, before you call someone a deceptive, dirty, lying, little slut you should probably know what your talking about.
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Well, yes. Of course I can read. Im writing back to you correct? Duh! Apparently you can also. And obviously the fact that this post being a year old does not matter. YOU STILL GOT MY MESSAGE! And that makes me so happy. I was hoping that I'd be able to tell you to your face that your lies and deception were not believable. You also said that, your by boyfriend ended up cheating on you like 4 months later. For all we know, that may just be another one of your lies. So whats your point? If he did cheat on you, Goood for him! I'm glad he realized that hes was with a lil slutty girl who plays games, has no sense of loyalty and plays games then turns around and acts as if she doenst know what she has done. I'm so so glad that he didn't waste his life being dedicated to so girl who doesn't love him back. I will say it again. YOUR OWN CONSCIOUS CONVICTED YOU, NOT ME!. YOU came here and telling the community YOURSELF that YOU felt bad, asking how can you make it up to him. Why? BECAUSE YOU KNEW deep inside YOU WERE GUILTY. Why would you want to correct something, if you did nothing wrong? That makes no sense. I will tell you what else makes no sense. You said you would call me a bit@h but you dont judge people on a computer entry. If you place no importance on entries from boards like this, why come here in the 1st place asking for advice for life issues? It makes no sense. You just didnt like what I told you. You wanted advice. I gave it to you. I see a whole year later, YOU ARE STILL PLAYING GAMES and NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS. Shame on you!! Read my lips : STOP PLAYING GAMES WITH LIFE. That's your prescription lil girl. Stop lying & playing games. Face your problems, fix them and enjoy life
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