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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate. (link)
I would say, it depends. Some girls might be comfortable dating a guy young or less than him, but some might not. So it basically depends on the type of girl.


Ok....I've been talkin to my boyfriend on the phone alot But he ingores me almost all the time!!!!!!...all he does is plays his football/basketball game on his x-box and ingores me!...what should i do dump him or what?!? (link)
I would first talk to him, about if he is serious about this relationship, i mean don't rush into things, like dumping him. Talk to him bout it, and if he says he's really not sure rite now, jsut tell him wat's in ur heart, and by his expression, you can see if he is interested or not. Then dump him, deciding on his interest or not.


Well my friend has started to talk to this senior (chris) i was friends with chris last year but we havent talked for a while. so ive started talkin to him a couple of weeks ago because of my friend jen who hes with. so chris picked me and jen up and we were supposed to be hangin out with this kid steve i liked but steve called later on. so we picked up chris`s friend brian. i knew brian last year too but we havent talked. so we all went back to chris`s and chris and jen kept on leaving the room and trying to like get us to hookup, i think brian wanted to but i dont know i felt weird so i was like "lets go find them" so then after me and megan went to the bathroom she told me brian said i was pretty and hada cute body and stuff. so chris and jen went on the bed in back of the futon/couch me and brian were on and we sat close and he held my hand then he did in the car. but i havent talked to him, i have his screenname and everything but he rarely even talks to anyone online, hes always away. what should i do? is he interested? he goes to a diff school too
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Well, i would say that maybe it was that one-day thing, and he doesn't really want a relationship rite now, since he doesnt really talk to u online, or anything. So i would say, just let it go, and move on to other guys, maybe you'll find Mr. Perfect! lol


How does soccer help your heart? so far i have Soccer will help you improve your endurance, agility, hand eye coordination (goalies), foot-eye coordination, and muscular strength in your legs and arms (throw-in), speed, and......am i missing anything? (link)
HELLO SHELLY!!!!!!!! um.......soccer helps your heart by, helping it get pumped, and burning your calories, which will unclog your arties. This will lead to an healthy heart, and then a happy body! and your not missing anything! luv ya bi!
-(btw, this was loveablemona2120, lol)
-hope i helped


hello
my girlfriend and i have been dating for abt a month.. and she told me that she was raped two years ago i was the first guy that took the news approiately.. we had sex for the first time and halfway through she asked me to stop and i did.
and asked for me to take her home..i did..
and she asked to break up with me..
reason being that now everytime she goin to see me she thinks of her rapist...
i dont want to let her go..
i really care for her alot .
she suffers from depression alot...
i want to be a part of her life..
im one of very few people she let in ..
now she shuttin me out..
she told me she wants me to leave cos she dont want to hurt me like she hurt her ex's because of the rape always effected her relationships..
she says she cares abt me too much to hurt me..
i care abt her too much to let her go..

i need advice on this..
also i need to council her somehow.. please give me advice on how to help her get though this..
she refuses to get professional help..
please help..
even if we dont get back together, i want her to progress with her life.. and be able to have a realtionship again
please help (link)
Well, I would say, first you want to give her as much space she needs. I mean, leave her alone for a while, dont stop talking to her, just dont talk about you and her, yet. Try to be a friend, a good one, which will probably take about 4 months or so. Then she will start to trust you, and then you can start thinking about your relationship with her. Just dont try to rush things, try to make her be as happy as possible. Joke around w/ her, make her self- esteem rise, and don't let her think about the rapist.
-I hope it helped!




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