Member Since: December 9, 2013
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Last Update: December 9, 2013
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7years I have liked this guy, we met up, and spoke for those entire 7 years. everything was going great until 2 weeks ago. My sister slept with him in my bed! whilst my cousin was asleep in there!!. I am heartbroken and so confused. It started when I txt him, he was feeling down so I thought what the hell me, my sister and my mates were going for drinks so he could join us for a cheer up. So my sister knew how I felt I mean all I have done for those 7years is talked to him. She slept with him that night, and today they have gone out on a date behind my back instead of telling me the truth. Tears prick in my eyes every time I mention it. when I confronted her about that night she laughed and smirked at me as tears ran down my face. I have to live with her which makes it worse! I just need to know what to do?? because it is taking every ounce of me not to hit her. and what is confusing me is that I am not mad at him but I should be right?? help me please... (link)
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Hey girl, I was in the same situation as you were. I felt exactly the same way you did. I'm sorry for what happened. First thing, you should tell your parents and family, and friends, and anyone close to you what your sister did...so, they know what kind of slut she is. Don't talk to your sister, ever again. Unfortunately, if you live with her, then, you can make plans to move out or something. Better off, if your parents kick her out the house, for being a slut anyways. Your parents should punish her for 'sleeping in your room with the guy you were in love with.' That is so messed up and wrong. You mentioned your sister even "knew about your feelings towards him." Your sister has made it clear that she is not trustable. Do not ever trust her, she is not worth it, and has clearly proven it. To put a man, in front of a sister, is the worst mistake to be done. Because with men, they can come and go, but sisters are there forever. I don't talk to my sister anymore, you should do same. I find my true sister in nice friends and in others. I feel you, like you have no idea. I wish i can give you a hug and cook your favorite meal with dessert, bc i know exactly what you're going through. it's extremely painful. Also, i highly recommend you to seek a therapist or psychologist, as it will help ALOT, as it did for me. Also, keep a diary to put out all your feelings. It is important. As a female, we were natually created to tell others our emotions and feelings. That's why I mentioned before to tell your family, not only so they know not to trust her 'with your bedroom, know wat kind of person she is, but to rely on their help and support towards you', during these hard moments of your life. Also, it helps to go out and do things. Like, getting a new happy, taking art classes, painting, doing things you like...your creative side. Sorry, for calling your sister the s**t word..i called my sister the same. it's just that i really can't stand people like that, who are so-called family. Ignore her, and move on with your life. you should ignore her, the same way she ignored your feelings, for her own pleasure. I wish you the best of luck! Feel free to talk. xoxoxo
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