Member Since: December 27, 2007
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Last Update: December 27, 2007
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19/f
him 18/m
my boyfriend almost always initiates sex. like 8 out of 10 times he initiates it. he wants it all the time, probably about 6 times a week. since he wants it so much him initiating it has become a turn-off for me. and when i say no then he begs. he's not forceful like abusive or anything close to that but he'll sit next to me and beg for at least half an hour and no matter how many times i tell him he doesnt realize that begging isn't a turn on. when i do initiate sex of course he's thrilled but its rare because im normally so sick of it from all the other times we do it.
how do i get it through his head that when he begs its a huge turn off. (link)
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okay so heres what i think of this... i am a female and i am actually a nympho... i mean i love sex all the time... so i know how he feels... i understand that there is more to a relationship and that is probably your biggest point... but honestly if he doesn't understand why you don't want to all the time... explain to him that you just want to cuddle or go hang out... whatever it is that makes you happy and if he still begs give him some lotion and tell him that your done with him... you could get him to go to relationship counseling but it's all in what YOU want... good luck
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