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hi im 12 I was real smooth with talking to girls last year but this year i seem to be a friget especially with my girlfriend and because of that we broke up and i was pretty sad about that because i really liked her alot but now i like a different girl and if we go out i dont want to ruin our relationship because i cant seem to talk to her(the girl im going out with) about anything i doint know what happened so i need sum help with talking to girls(especially my girlfriend) thanks and if you want to talk to me about it my msn addy is flamephysco@hotmail.com
if you can't talk to your girlfriend then its probably not you, its her. She may make you uncomfortable. When a boy is with the right girl he opens up to her.
Now in approaching a new girl you need to be confident but not cocky and respect the girl. Put yourself out there and see how she responds. Just be yourself & if she responds well, let your guard down because then she gets to see the real you & you will feel so comfortable and it will probably make her feel comfortable too.
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Ugh, I have the biggest problem ever. I really really like this guy Chris. And I thought like for sure that he liked me, cause he .
1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat next to me.
9. Once, in the hall i was talking to my friend Shane about how Shane cameover my house once and The kid I like was right there, and he was like "I have never been to your housee!"
10. Mock me.
We never hung out, out of school, Until yesterday He imed me This is sort of how the convo went.
Him: Hey im so bored
Me: Yeah samee=\
Him: Why aren't you hanging out with Lex
Me: She's out getting her new phone, she's on her way back thoo
Him: Ohh, I should like meet you guys at 711
Me: Soundss good
And then we like made the plans and yadda, yadda.
Now, Lex is my best friend, But let me tell you something about her. She is DROP DEAD gorgeous, and I swear every guy in my school liked her. So I was a little nervous for today, and boy was I right.
He kept like, Holding her hand, hips, and Putting his arm around her shoulder. And he would like share the tightest couch with her and he brought is skatebored and she was like, "I wanna try!" And like the whole time, he was like all over her and like holding on to her. I was so upset, because this happened to me with every guy I liked, They all fell for her. But then there were times where he would still talk to me and Punch me like he used to, But then she would join in and they would get in there own little fight. He still tried to talk to me and stand by me though, That I could kind of tell. Then, he took my phone and started texting this girl Holly (don't worry he hates her) And Holly asked if him if he liked Lex and he said no, And After we were all done hanging out, He was online on myspace and Didn't put Lex on his top. But, he didn't I/M me last night. I had to I/M him, and It was probably the worst conversation ever. He was acting so boring and like he didn't even care about me anymore and then he just like stopped answering me. And then Lex I/ms Me and tells me she likes him sooo much. And I had to just play along, And act so happy for her like I do each and every other time. Now, I have talked to Lex about this and the whole time she just goes "thats not true!" Or she will go "ew! no one likes me im so ugly!" Or she will make me feel bad for her and say "fine, I wont like him" I know what you are thinking, Drop Lex as a friend. But i can't do that Besides when it Comes to boys She is a Great friend. So Im pretty much in the Worst Situation right now, It would really help if someone could Help me out Thankss!
Boys are confusing but he may just find your friend attractive and had a physical attraction to her. Sometimes we look to far into things.. ex. how you say he was acting all boring after you hung out. Just let him come to you because maybe he will lose interest in your friend because looks are nice but they get boring after a while. Does he talk to your friend.. like does he call her & stuff? I mean some boys are just naturally flirty. He might not like either one of you..
This may you feel better.. My boyfriend has this friend who is just the kinda guy everyone loves because he has the best personality and him & i are like bffl and I used to always be all over him.. we loved eachother but strictly in a friend way. My boyfriend hated the way we acted but I never liked that boy I always liked him.
Ever since we moved closer to my family in Indiana my mom never lets me see them. I went this weeked to see them for the first time in like 3 months. I only get to see my dad like two days every 3 months. She won't let me go see him ever. he had to argue with her just to let me stay father's day with him. I have to go straight home after that. She says i have to work...I don't even had a job! She has nothing against my dad i used to stay with him for months at a time before and noiw i barley see him at all. What can i do i feel caged. She does that with my friends to and she now she does it because i've talked to her about it. She just won't let me do anything because she wants me at home with her. What can i do.
the person below is right but here is the advice I give you.. Just make sure she feels secure in your relationship with her.. ask her to do things and if you have a close enough relationship just ask her whats up? why she is not letting you see your own dad. Tell her, "Mom, I love you and no one is gonna replace you or make you forget me but a girl needs her dad too!" But you may not even have to take it to that level if she doesnt feel like she is going to lose you =]!
I am really confused lately. I have a new guy friend, and we are becoming really good friends, and he is African American. And I hate to say it but, my parents..are racist. It's horrible. I don't know what to do. I just don't see why the color of skin matters so much. Help?
Its funny that this is the first question I have seen and I have the same exact situation except that this boy is my boyfriend. Beliefs are solid and there is going to be probably no way talking your family out of their beliefs. There are many different routes you can take with this problem.. but for now I'm just gonna say you're just friends don't sweat it. I don't think they are going to freak out unless you become anything more then just friends and if you do make sure its worth it before you take it to the next level. I'm not gonna lie.. its really really hard but its fine if its worth it. If you need anymore advice.. write me back